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TexasTowelie

(111,829 posts)
Fri Feb 24, 2017, 08:20 AM Feb 2017

Straight women aren't getting their fair share of orgasms

Straight women are less likely to have an orgasm during sexual intimacy than any other group — including straight men, gay men, lesbians, bisexual men and bisexual women — according to a new study whose title could be "Duh."

The orgasm gap is well-documented ("replicates a wide body of existing literature," is the research-speak) but remains ripe for exploration, given that it hasn't yet closed.

In the latest study, "Differences in Orgasm Frequency Among Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Heterosexual Men and Women in a U.S. National Sample," researchers from Chapman University, Indiana University and the Kinsey Institute examined the sexual behaviors of more than 52,000 American adults to determine who's having the most orgasms and why. The findings are published in the upcoming issue of Archives of Sexual Behavior.

"There's been a lot of research on orgasm frequency, but there isn't very much data that includes how both gender and sexual orientation relate to orgasm frequency," lead author David A. Frederick, assistant professor of psychology at Chapman University, told me.

Read more: http://www.chicagotribune.com/lifestyles/stevens/ct-straight-women-fewest-orgasms-balancing-0223-20170223-column.html

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Straight women aren't getting their fair share of orgasms (Original Post) TexasTowelie Feb 2017 OP
Interesting article Sherman A1 Feb 2017 #1
And Dolt45 will soon pop up with, "Fake news!" Melania will issue a terse "no comment." randome Feb 2017 #2
He will ask Bannon, "what is a female orgasm?, I thought that was an urban legend." grantcart Feb 2017 #4
Like Bannon would know. randome Feb 2017 #6
Eww Warren DeMontague Feb 2017 #24
Bwa-ha-ha! Good one! And all too true! randome Feb 2017 #46
yup In_The_Wind Feb 2017 #28
Especially if their partner is a Deplorable. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2017 #3
as a hetero male perhaps we should take that as a challenge dembotoz Feb 2017 #5
. NCTraveler Feb 2017 #8
What do the two dots mean? LAS14 Feb 2017 #31
All I wanted to deliver was the hug. NCTraveler Feb 2017 #34
Thanks much. LAS14 Feb 2017 #37
and i like hugs dembotoz Feb 2017 #44
. JudyM Feb 2017 #11
... moriah Feb 2017 #19
. In_The_Wind Feb 2017 #26
Evidently straight women have no choice but to take the matter into their own hands.... phylny Feb 2017 #7
:-) nt LAS14 Feb 2017 #32
Any straight women in need of an orgasm, inquire within Blue_Tires Feb 2017 #9
Channeling Masters & Johnson! MoonRiver Feb 2017 #10
It's all the men's fault. MineralMan Feb 2017 #12
Yes, TexasTowelie Feb 2017 #13
I beg to differ. calendargirl Feb 2017 #14
Ah, OK... MineralMan Feb 2017 #15
Selfish people don't make selfish lovers? FSogol Feb 2017 #21
Maybe this report is the secret meaning behind that controversial "Real men provide, Tanuki Feb 2017 #16
Nicely done! MineralMan Feb 2017 #17
REALLY Good data in the article uponit7771 Feb 2017 #18
I'm doing my part! FSogol Feb 2017 #20
Ladies come first and second and third....... Lurks Often Feb 2017 #22
Exactly. 3 for the ladies then the man's turn. sarcasmo Feb 2017 #41
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Feb 2017 #23
#Braggodoccious TexasTowelie Feb 2017 #36
Let go of my ears, I know what I'm doing! NightWatcher Feb 2017 #25
chuckling out loud LAS14 Feb 2017 #33
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Feb 2017 #39
the great equalizer: unblock Feb 2017 #27
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Feb 2017 #40
You do not choose the wand, the wand chooses you unblock Feb 2017 #42
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Feb 2017 #43
They're dating or married to Republicans/Conservatives/libertarians alarimer Feb 2017 #29
I have little sympathy for women who regularly choose to date/marry sexists or other regressives Lanius Feb 2017 #30
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Feb 2017 #38
Sad... Docreed2003 Feb 2017 #35
The initial stimulation happens in the brain. tavernier Feb 2017 #45
Um, yeah DiverDave Feb 2017 #47
I'll help however I can, but She helps those who help themselves. bluedigger Feb 2017 #48
 

randome

(34,845 posts)
2. And Dolt45 will soon pop up with, "Fake news!" Melania will issue a terse "no comment."
Fri Feb 24, 2017, 08:54 AM
Feb 2017

[hr][font color="blue"][center]The truth doesn’t always set you free.
Sometimes it builds a bigger cage around the one you’re already in.
[/center][/font][hr]

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
6. Like Bannon would know.
Fri Feb 24, 2017, 09:02 AM
Feb 2017

[hr][font color="blue"][center]The truth doesn’t always set you free.
Sometimes it builds a bigger cage around the one you’re already in.
[/center][/font][hr]

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
24. Eww
Fri Feb 24, 2017, 07:42 PM
Feb 2017

you know how when people have sex, they leave a pile of rumpled clothes on the floor?

He looks like that pile of rumpled clothes.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
46. Bwa-ha-ha! Good one! And all too true!
Sat Feb 25, 2017, 10:22 AM
Feb 2017

[hr][font color="blue"][center]The truth doesn’t always set you free.
Sometimes it builds a bigger cage around the one you’re already in.
[/center][/font][hr]

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
34. All I wanted to deliver was the hug.
Fri Feb 24, 2017, 08:55 PM
Feb 2017

The first period comes after all post numbers. The second is because you have to have something in the subject line.

phylny

(8,366 posts)
7. Evidently straight women have no choice but to take the matter into their own hands....
Fri Feb 24, 2017, 09:22 AM
Feb 2017


Seriously, I don't doubt this for a second.

MineralMan

(146,241 posts)
12. It's all the men's fault.
Fri Feb 24, 2017, 12:35 PM
Feb 2017

At least the Republican men. Republicans don't care.

Real Men™ say, "No, you go first..."

Tanuki

(14,910 posts)
16. Maybe this report is the secret meaning behind that controversial "Real men provide,
Fri Feb 24, 2017, 12:53 PM
Feb 2017

Real women appreciate" billboard mentioned in another thread!

Response to TexasTowelie (Original post)

Response to NightWatcher (Reply #25)

Response to unblock (Reply #27)

Response to unblock (Reply #42)

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
29. They're dating or married to Republicans/Conservatives/libertarians
Fri Feb 24, 2017, 07:55 PM
Feb 2017

By far the most selfish men in the US that I ever met were those. Unwilling to do what it takes, if you know what it means. It is reflective of the conservative mindset, the unwillingness to try new things or to be in an equitable relationship.

Liberals by and large are better, if not always perfect. Most of the time, from my small sample size, they are at least willing to try.

Lanius

(599 posts)
30. I have little sympathy for women who regularly choose to date/marry sexists or other regressives
Fri Feb 24, 2017, 08:19 PM
Feb 2017

This reminds me of my old friends years ago who used to complain that the women they dated were crazy. They failed to realize that it was mostly their own fault -- i.e. they chose women mostly for their looks and not for their emotional stability or maturity.

Response to Lanius (Reply #30)

Docreed2003

(16,844 posts)
35. Sad...
Fri Feb 24, 2017, 08:59 PM
Feb 2017

This straight dude ensures his wife has her needs met EVERY TIME before his. She would be appalled with me saying this but her quote was "OMG...I never knew I would enjoy oral sex so much..." when we first were dating. All I can say is "Happy wife...happy life"

tavernier

(12,363 posts)
45. The initial stimulation happens in the brain.
Sat Feb 25, 2017, 08:51 AM
Feb 2017

Any additional pleasurable activity involving other body parts is highly desirable, but not always necessary.

In other words, one should be responsible for one's own orgasms. Having a playful partner is just an added bonus.



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