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cilla4progress

(24,718 posts)
1. Yes...
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 07:52 AM
Mar 2017

I downloaded a film on Directv and 2 days later the Smithsonian of all organizations posted it on my FB feed! It was a crappy film so I don't know why they would have posted about it! Allied.

Demsrule86

(68,469 posts)
2. Yes there is something to it.
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 07:54 AM
Mar 2017

My husband was transferred a few years ago...as we always do, he went ahead and I got the house ready to sell and the kids out of school. I have three kids two girls and one boy...my oldest daughter was 14 at the time. I had a weird feeling of being watched...and put it down towards nervousness about being on my own with the kids although I have done it plenty of times before. One particular night I was more nervous than usual and checked all the doors and window upstairs...we had a walkout basement...I locked the door at the top of the stairs and went to bed...we had not used the alarm for years...in fact it was no longer monitored but something made me turn it on anyway...makes a hell of a racket. The alarm went off about 3:00 Am...I was half awake ...had been nervous and left the light on...got the kids up,called 911, and we went downstairs...someone was trying to get up from the basement. We had a steel door and it was locked...I grabbed the keys on the hook...the door locked from the inside and got the car keys and we jumped in the car and drove down the road....the police came quickly I had dropped the phone when I saw that someone was trying to force the door. By the time the police checked, the person was long gone. The basement door had been forced open downstairs. I add an alarm there and seriously considered more monitoring, but we were short of cash running to households,and you have to pay for false alarms (kids!). We had a dog and the alarm made a great deal of noise...In any case, this person tried to break in several times more...he actually got the garage door open...and tried to come in though the laundry room. My brother in law was an ex-police officer and he came the last time and said when he found this guy he fully intended to shoot him...he was angry...the girls were sent home from school early and before I could get home this happened...thankfully they got out and ran to a neighbor's house. We used to have to unplug the garage door and just not use it. We added the alarm monitor...but I think the guy was there and heard what my BIL said;he didn't come back... the scary thing was when hubs was home, all activity ceased...so he had to be watching the house. We lived in a culdesac and a strange car would have been noticed. The guy had a black box the police said...that is how he got the garage door open...I still felt like we were being watched and I moved the kids to my sis's house as soon as school was over. The alarm went off every night...the police practically lived at our house. We didn't even leave a forwarding when we left...for fear whoever this was might follow...it was scary. One of my 14 year daughter's friends had put my daughter's full name and school online with her picture...there were only two families with our last name in the town. I made her take it down, but I have always thought that was why it started. I monitored the kid's computers and saw the name and called the girls mother. I was paranoid about the computer and actually installed big brother on the computer. I never looked at it ...but it was there should anything happen. It was a very frightening time.

Demsrule86

(68,469 posts)
3. The point of that rather long story (sorry) was that the feeling of being 'watched' caused
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 08:00 AM
Mar 2017

me to turn my alarm on and prevented something awful and possibly fatal...this person had a purpose to his activities.

Demsrule86

(68,469 posts)
10. We never knew who it was...it was so creepy...
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 01:04 PM
Mar 2017

The police did not think it was a kid...too much effort...but they never caught anyone...we lived in a Georgia neighborhood with one way in and one way out...small...strange cars were noticed...so he came in on food or lived around us...we think it was that latter. To make it more creepy they had found missing girls from the area...two who were later found dead.

anneboleyn

(5,611 posts)
6. Look at Rupert Sheldrake's books and TED talk (on YouTube). About this very issue!! Highly recommend
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 08:57 AM
Mar 2017

See Rupert Sheldrake's "The Sense of Being Stared At" -- fascinating!!

Your question reminded me of the English scientist Rupert Sheldrake (he is controversial so unfortunately imho some just identify/dismiss him as a new ager and/or parapsychologist even though he has proper scientific credentials). I think his work is too interesting to dismiss so quickly and out of prejudice. Certainly one can and should (as in all proper science) argue with his conclusions, but he points to phenomena that many of us have experienced ourselves or observed in other animals, and he asks some great questions about what exactly is driving and ENABLING these "sensations," this awareness.

You can find his books on Amazon and his TED talks on YouTube, (the book I'm thinking of in particular is "The Sense of Being Stared At&quot . As I mentioned,he is controversial, and hard science types tend to be skeptical of his work since he does allow for or at least consider the possibility of extra-scientific phenomena like telepathy being involved in certain cases. Sheldrake considers the "sense of being stared at," which obviously has very compelling possibilities for our understanding of the evolution of the predator/prey relationship, a deeply compelling phenomenon that has never received the scientific study it deserves, even if it, or at least some of the scientists researching it, push boundaries. At the most basic level it is a fascinating evolutionary development that assists prey animals, and it also can be observed in animals that can be both prey and predator like us. It is a fascinating form of "silent" communication. Sheldrake's own background is in biology (Ph.D. from Cambridge)

He has also worked on dogs who display an uncanny ability to know when their owners are coming home well before they can hear an owner's car or a schoolbus or other obvious tip-offs, even when accounting for and changing all the obvious details (they would change the times the person came home, leave the dog alone rather than surrounded by people who might clue it off in some way by their body language or even releasing certain hormones, etc). Even though hard-core science types might just dismiss it all as woo, I think his work is fascinating. I myself have CERTAINLY experienced the uncanny, even distinctly creepy feeling of being stared at by someone with nefarious thoughts or intentions -- BEFORE you actually notice a person watching you intently. He talks about this part of the phenomenon, and how it even has physical effects BEFORE we even spot or are aware of the "voyeur," such as the small hairs on your arms and the back of you neck standing up to signal a possible fight/flight scenario. Anyway this stuff interests me so it was cool to see your question!!! Hope this helps!

Here is a blurb from Amazon:

"Rupert Sheldrake is a biologist and author of more than 80 scientific papers and ten books. He was among the top 100 Global Thought Leaders for 2013, as ranked by the Duttweiler Institute, Zurich, Switzerland's leading think tank. He studied natural sciences at Cambridge University, where he was a Scholar of Clare College, took a double first class honours degree and was awarded the University Botany Prize (1963). He then studied philosophy and history of science at Harvard University, where he was a Frank Knox Fellow (1963-64), before returning to Cambridge, where he took a Ph.D. in biochemistry (1967)" From the Amazon Page

https://www.amazon.com/Sense-Being-Stared-At-Extended/dp/060960807X/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1489318573&sr=8-2&keywords=Sense+of+being+stared+at

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
7. There is but there is nothing 'supernatural' about it.
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 09:06 AM
Mar 2017

We tend to think of our senses as quantifiable and understandable but we fail to take into account the organism as a whole. The entire human body is a sensory apparatus. The subconscious is part of it. Sometimes the organism takes note of a change in air pressure or a half-glimpse of someone near and that signal gets sent to the subconscious where it is either ignored, attached to other bits of data or flagged for further review.

It's that simple, imo.
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pat_k

(9,313 posts)
8. And there's this from Psychology Today
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 09:07 AM
Mar 2017

How you know eyes are watching you

... Sometimes it almost feels like ESP, this ability to detect another person stare, because it often comes at the fringes of our awareness.

But far from being ESP, the perception originates from a system in the brain that's devoted just to detecting where others are looking. This "gaze detection" system is especially sensitive to whether someone's looking directly at you (for example, whether someone's staring at you or at the clock just over your shoulder). Studies that record the activity of single brain cells find that particular cells fire when someone is staring right at you, but—amazingly—not when the observer's gaze is averted just a few degrees to the left or right of you (then different cells fire instead).

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hlthe2b

(102,129 posts)
9. I agree that our subconscious is instinctively monitoring or danger...
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 09:19 AM
Mar 2017

that has to be an evolutionary trait that remains relevant for survival.

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