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sarisataka

(18,621 posts)
Sat May 6, 2017, 11:14 AM May 2017

Dad tells daughter 'you're dead to me' for going to prom with black man

Dad tells daughter 'you're dead to me' for going to prom with black man

High school seniors Phillip Freeman and Anna Hayes, from Lake Village, Ark., attended their school prom last week.

Although the two good friends had a fantastic time, Anna’s father didn’t approve of her attending with a black student, and subsequently went on a racist tirade after seeing social media photos of the event. “We are done. I wont be coming to your graduation. Nor will I pay for your college. Go live with the n***ers,” he begins in a text message.

“I went to prom with a black guy so that’s a problem? Racist much,” Anna responded.

“Yes I am,” he admitted. “Your dead to me.”

https://www.yahoo.com/style/dad-tells-daughter-youre-dead-going-prom-black-man-205858039.html
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Dad tells daughter 'you're dead to me' for going to prom with black man (Original Post) sarisataka May 2017 OP
"Your dead to me." - Educated, too. dchill May 2017 #1
I'd donate to her college fund malaise May 2017 #2
That is an excellent idea ProudLib72 May 2017 #16
Must be just a man with economic anxiety ck4829 May 2017 #3
Zing. yardwork May 2017 #5
+1000 HughBeaumont May 2017 #6
He needs understanding dalton99a May 2017 #7
What's the best way we can reach out to him? hatrack May 2017 #17
You win the internets today! nt JTFrog May 2017 #20
+++++++++++ JHan May 2017 #28
Hillary didn't do enough to reach out to him! n/t Coventina May 2017 #29
A lily-white heaven awaits when he takes his dirt nap dalton99a May 2017 #4
Also in the article it states that the girl has a half sister on her mom's side who is biracial maryellen99 May 2017 #8
Maybe he's worried about coal jobs? vi5 May 2017 #9
His heart is dead lunasun May 2017 #10
One of my Daughter's friends during her high school years. Turbineguy May 2017 #11
He is merely a... 3catwoman3 May 2017 #12
He'll pay for college if the divorce decree says he will. Shrike47 May 2017 #13
Don't count on the divorce. Lochloosa May 2017 #14
According to the article Cal Carpenter May 2017 #19
One of my daughters is gay she has a lovely girlfriend...my other daughter is seriously Demsrule86 May 2017 #15
"Deplorable" is an kind description of these assholes. oasis May 2017 #18
How dare he call himself a father. smirkymonkey May 2017 #21
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2017 #24
Just for you sarisataka May 2017 #25
MIRT. Racist Scum on Aisle 9. SaschaHM May 2017 #26
More of a grease spot.... Maeve May 2017 #32
What makes you say the guy is a "predator?" The only thing you know about him is that he's black. Squinch May 2017 #31
At least the high school didn't cancel the prom because of this. bluedigger May 2017 #22
50 years ago, we had such high hopes, didn't we? sl8 May 2017 #23
fuck you jerk. AllaN01Bear May 2017 #27
What?? How is this news? Of course it is horrifying that there are still racist assholes out there, Squinch May 2017 #30
For the same reason murder is news? tazkcmo May 2017 #33
How are football games news? Because some people -- not all -- find them interesting. pnwmom May 2017 #35
He's evil. She should still apply to college though. The FISA forms only need pnwmom May 2017 #34
He sounds like such a nice guy: I wonder why his marriage failed struggle4progress May 2017 #36
Racist and illiterate, why am I not surprised? Warpy May 2017 #37
The comments in the yahoo article are sickening. Racism is getting worse and worse :( nt LostOne4Ever May 2017 #38
 

vi5

(13,305 posts)
9. Maybe he's worried about coal jobs?
Sat May 6, 2017, 11:24 AM
May 2017

Maybe we should all take the time to understand his anxiety rather than judging him?

Turbineguy

(37,322 posts)
11. One of my Daughter's friends during her high school years.
Sat May 6, 2017, 11:41 AM
May 2017

was going out with a black boy friend.

My Daughter asked me not to tell (friend's Father) about it. Yeah, I understood. He watched Fox News.

Cal Carpenter

(4,959 posts)
19. According to the article
Sat May 6, 2017, 02:27 PM
May 2017

"...Anna said that she and her father haven’t had much of a relationship since her early teens when she moved in with her mom. Her parents divorced when she was younger, and she remembers her father being “openly racist” around her when growing up. Anna’s half-sister on her mother’s side is biracial so she finds her father’s views incredibly painful..."

Perhaps something about the mother having had a child with a person of color is part of this asshole dad's problem?

Demsrule86

(68,555 posts)
15. One of my daughters is gay she has a lovely girlfriend...my other daughter is seriously
Sat May 6, 2017, 01:12 PM
May 2017

dating a young Black man...very nice kid and drop dead handsome too.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
21. How dare he call himself a father.
Sat May 6, 2017, 02:37 PM
May 2017

He would put his racism above his own child. The racism is disgusting enough, but to treat your own child that way is just inhuman.

Response to smirkymonkey (Reply #21)

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
31. What makes you say the guy is a "predator?" The only thing you know about him is that he's black.
Sat May 6, 2017, 03:24 PM
May 2017

Hmmmmm.......

Do "politically correct bullies" try to beat you out of protecting your daughter from predators? That's so sad. All those "politically correct bullies" are just making it so hard for those dads who want to protect their daughters from predators. They probably don't even KNOW that the black guy is a predator. Which we know because we know nothing about him other than that he's a black guy.

Your world must be very difficult.

sl8

(13,749 posts)
23. 50 years ago, we had such high hopes, didn't we?
Sat May 6, 2017, 02:50 PM
May 2017

50 years ago, I thought we'd be past this by now.

50 years ago:

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
30. What?? How is this news? Of course it is horrifying that there are still racist assholes out there,
Sat May 6, 2017, 03:17 PM
May 2017

but it is a surprise to no one. So how is this news?

tazkcmo

(7,300 posts)
33. For the same reason murder is news?
Sat May 6, 2017, 03:40 PM
May 2017

Or a fire? Or any other number of things that happen everyday in America? I personally think we should circulate stories like this far and wide as a Public Service to citizens so these racists can't hide. Maybe a 24 hour cable channel dedicated to callimg out and exposing these idiots...call it GOPee TeeVee?

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
35. How are football games news? Because some people -- not all -- find them interesting.
Sat May 6, 2017, 03:46 PM
May 2017

This story would be labeled "human interest" and I, personally, am much more interested than in the results of any football game.

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
34. He's evil. She should still apply to college though. The FISA forms only need
Sat May 6, 2017, 03:45 PM
May 2017

the custodial parent to sign, and that's her mom.

So she should probably qualify for a substantial amount of aid unless her mother makes a lot of money.

Warpy

(111,252 posts)
37. Racist and illiterate, why am I not surprised?
Sat May 6, 2017, 04:49 PM
May 2017

Parents divorced, Dad got custody, teenaged daughter moves back to Mom and her biracial younger sister. There are some serious family dynamics there.

I doubt anyone with as poor a grasp of English as he has was in much of a position to contribute to her education, anyway.




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