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SFnomad

(3,473 posts)
Wed May 31, 2017, 04:24 PM May 2017

We tried to warn you - first they came for abortion - now it's birth control

White House Invites Literally Anyone To Refuse To Cover Birth Control
WASHINGTON― A draft of the Trump administration’s new birth control coverage exemption has leaked, and it is far more wide-reaching than had been predicted.

The new rule amends the Obama administration’s coverage requirement to allow any employer, school or insurance company to opt out of covering contraception due to any moral or religious objection, Vox reported Wednesday. Even massive for-profit companies with no religious affiliation will be able to deny birth control coverage to their female employees.

“This rule would mean women across the country could be denied insurance coverage for birth control on a whim from their employer or university,” said Dana Singiser, a spokeswoman for Planned Parenthood. “It makes a farce of the Trump administration’s so-called ‘women’s empowerment’ agenda and endangers a woman’s ability to make the most basic and personal of decisions ― when and if to have a child.”

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We tried to warn you - first they came for abortion - now it's birth control (Original Post) SFnomad May 2017 OP
What are the ramifications of this? Are they attempting to ban birth control? NoWheyJose May 2017 #1
Re: Are they attempting to ban birth control? SFnomad May 2017 #18
They want to make birth control expensive for women, Ilsa May 2017 #23
I worked for a Fortune 100 firm until 2000 and birth control was not covered in our insurance plan. SharonAnn May 2017 #38
I don't know of many companies that covered radical noodle May 2017 #46
Yes. Read the HLA plank that has been included in the GOP platform for decades. Warren DeMontague May 2017 #25
Same for IUDs, and hormonal contraceptives of any sort LeftyMom May 2017 #44
At the core, they're all religious arguments. Warren DeMontague May 2017 #50
Condoms are allowed drmeow Jun 2017 #57
Interesting theory. Warren DeMontague Jun 2017 #58
But these are (mostly) men drmeow Jun 2017 #60
I'm sure that's part of it. Warren DeMontague Jun 2017 #63
The religious right doesn't compromise. Girard442 May 2017 #2
Yes get the red out May 2017 #8
Just one more thing to file under: "But Hillary is no different from Trump!!!" Blue_Tires May 2017 #3
But they still have to cover Vigara, right? sinkingfeeling May 2017 #4
Well yeah, boner meds aredifferentdon't you know? LOL irisblue May 2017 #5
Off topic, but . . . NoWheyJose May 2017 #6
Good one! deurbano May 2017 #26
My insurance doesn't . Viagra is medicinal for a medical condition Ohioblue22 May 2017 #11
There are husbands who are glad for birth control. So it isn't just for women. Demit May 2017 #14
Mainly the poster said that Viagra was covered by insurance and I Ohioblue22 May 2017 #15
Well, you plainly said Viagra isn't the same as birth control. Demit May 2017 #20
Well like i said Viagra isn't covered by insurance b.c. is . Idk why people Ohioblue22 May 2017 #24
Obviously you don't want to address my question. Demit May 2017 #32
I have. apparently it doesn't fit the answer you expected Ohioblue22 May 2017 #34
Totally knew what you meant... Charlotte Little May 2017 #52
Dude, you don't know much about BC, do you? justiceischeap May 2017 #19
Medicare Part D explicitely doesn't cover drugs used to treat sexual or erectile dysfunction progree May 2017 #28
True, but many HMOs do with a higher copay. sinkingfeeling May 2017 #43
Your link got chopped off. Thanks, good article. Here's the link progree May 2017 #53
There are also wives who are not glad radical noodle May 2017 #47
I imagine that's true it's one of the reasons planned parenthood is so important Ohioblue22 May 2017 #49
Yes! I never went to Planned Parenthood radical noodle Jun 2017 #55
Well, hell yeah that is about the almighty man. Doreen May 2017 #30
Days of the Theocracy by Kristin Lems no_hypocrisy May 2017 #7
The endless march of the RW to take us back to the 19th Century... Wounded Bear May 2017 #9
If this happens, the Democratic Party should take both the house and senate Freethinker65 May 2017 #10
SHOULD, yes. But will they? FiveGoodMen May 2017 #12
I think this might do it, IF voters are able to vote and be countrd Freethinker65 May 2017 #16
Now in an equillibruim, if there are more births, $350,000 in taxes and costs per new add on. TheBlackAdder May 2017 #13
Bastards! smirkymonkey May 2017 #17
it is also because they want to spend less on medical care for women. By the time demigoddess May 2017 #21
I think it's at least as much about control, since pregnancy costs a lot more than birth control. deurbano May 2017 #27
And pregnancy is more dangerous radical noodle May 2017 #48
I'm old enough to remember when the "conservatives" Mariana May 2017 #22
We already have radical Christian terrorists in America... A theocracy will not change that. keithbvadu2 May 2017 #29
It's About Turning Back the Clock to Women as Chattel dlk May 2017 #31
Their new motto: cynical_idealist Jun 2017 #62
For about a year, my birth control pills were covered 100%. SCRUBDASHRUB May 2017 #33
In the ACA, I think they have to offer a drug/device in every contraceptive classification for free progree May 2017 #41
Some of the right wingers see birth leftyladyfrommo May 2017 #35
Anything to protect the group of cells, but still.. fuck the actual baby. Amimnoch May 2017 #36
The anti-abortion debate is about controlling bodies: woman *and* men Dorn May 2017 #37
It has now gotten to the point where... Alt-Orange May 2017 #39
It's all about white babies. roamer65 May 2017 #40
I disagree; I think it's quite the opposite flibbitygiblets May 2017 #42
Impoverished women aren't using private insurance leftstreet May 2017 #45
It also PROVES the Republicans have been lying to the people for decades! They claim to be against napi21 May 2017 #51
Where the hell are reasonable men in this MontanaMama May 2017 #54
THANK YOU. nt raccoon Jun 2017 #59
Are we ruled by fanatical Catholic men? Ha! What am I thinking?! We're ruled by GREEDY men! WinkyDink Jun 2017 #56
"days of the theocracy" kristin lems niyad Jun 2017 #61
 

SFnomad

(3,473 posts)
18. Re: Are they attempting to ban birth control?
Wed May 31, 2017, 06:01 PM
May 2017

Not yet, but this is the first step. The right wing has learned they should not try and do everything all at once, just try to erode your rights slowly and step at a time, until they reach the ultimate goal ... or its equivalent.

Ilsa

(61,694 posts)
23. They want to make birth control expensive for women,
Wed May 31, 2017, 06:29 PM
May 2017

and unobtainable for many.

I was fertile during a time when contraception wasn't covered by insurance, so I paid an extra $40 a month not just to prevent pregnancy, but prevent occasional ovarian cysts and regulate my periods. I was lucky in that I didn't have to decide between contraception and paying my bills. When OC became covered by insurance as a prescription, I had more money to spend and save.

SharonAnn

(13,772 posts)
38. I worked for a Fortune 100 firm until 2000 and birth control was not covered in our insurance plan.
Wed May 31, 2017, 07:21 PM
May 2017

However, Viagra was covered.

And this was a Fortune 100 company with supposedly the "best" insurance.

Frankly, i would think it would be cost "risk management" issue. Paying for pregnancy care, delivery, and 6 weeks disability pay would be far more expensive than paying for birth control

radical noodle

(8,000 posts)
46. I don't know of many companies that covered
Wed May 31, 2017, 09:41 PM
May 2017

the cost of birth control before the ACA made it mandatory (with the Supreme Court adding exceptions). Birth control was not considered a necessary prescription, but a choice women made. Sad that we'll now go back in time.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
25. Yes. Read the HLA plank that has been included in the GOP platform for decades.
Wed May 31, 2017, 06:39 PM
May 2017

They would like to outlaw oral contraceptives which most of the anti-choice orgs (the people pushing this shit) believe can act as abortifacents.

The real end goal, of course, has always been to overturn not just Roe but also Griswold (with that annoying "right to privacy", amirite?) and eventually to outlaw (hopefully with "biblical punishments" like death by stoning) all forms of non-procreative sex.

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
44. Same for IUDs, and hormonal contraceptives of any sort
Wed May 31, 2017, 09:34 PM
May 2017

I haven't seen them float a non-religious argument against barrier methods except for their relatively low reliability, but maybe there's one I've missed.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
50. At the core, they're all religious arguments.
Wed May 31, 2017, 10:57 PM
May 2017

Positing that a fertilized egg is the same thing as a baby, is a position based entirely on religious belief.

But it is theoretically possible that they might "allow" people in this country to still use condoms, grudgingly.

drmeow

(5,017 posts)
57. Condoms are allowed
Thu Jun 1, 2017, 01:30 AM
Jun 2017

because they give men more control. As long as the men have a say then controlling a woman's reproduction is allowed.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
58. Interesting theory.
Thu Jun 1, 2017, 01:53 AM
Jun 2017

Any man who has actually had sex, of course, in the real world would probably see some compelling reasons why he might want him and his partner to be "allowed" to use oral contraception.

I do understand that these dudes don't have a lot of sex.

drmeow

(5,017 posts)
60. But these are (mostly) men
Thu Jun 1, 2017, 12:17 PM
Jun 2017

who think that women are fundamentally deceptive - they pretend to be on birth control to trick you into getting them pregnant and marrying them, they pretend not to be on birth control when you want to have kids cause they don't want to ruin their figures, they pretend you raped them because of any number of reasons. These are (mostly) men who think that women who have sex are sluts but men who have sex are studs.

These are (mostly) men who think women need to be controlled - and what better way of controlling women than by controlling whether or not they have children. Since a man has to cooperate (usually) to wear a condom (although prostitutes have some tricks), keeping condoms available means that men get to control whether women can get pregnant or not.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
63. I'm sure that's part of it.
Thu Jun 1, 2017, 04:54 PM
Jun 2017

I remember when I went to the March for Womens Lives in DC in 2004, and while there were 1.2 million of us there for choice, there were a few scattered jesusbagger anti-choicers standing on the sidelines yelling crap about sin and hell.

From my perspective it didn't look to me like they understood sex at all. Or, they were afraid of it.

Statistically, of course, women tend to be more likely than men to be pro-choice; but not by huge percentages-- maybe 5-10% or so.

But yes, unfortunately there are a lot of authoritarian types running around who want to control other peoples' lives.

Girard442

(6,070 posts)
2. The religious right doesn't compromise.
Wed May 31, 2017, 04:32 PM
May 2017

They take ground. If any compromise is offered, they'll take it, but only as a position from which to launch new attacks to seize more ground. If abortion and contraception are outlawed, what could be next? Death by stoning for premarital sex?

 

NoWheyJose

(39 posts)
6. Off topic, but . . .
Wed May 31, 2017, 04:37 PM
May 2017

. . . I heard a warning against taking Viagra and Rogaine at the same time. It makes your hair stand on end.

 

Ohioblue22

(1,430 posts)
11. My insurance doesn't . Viagra is medicinal for a medical condition
Wed May 31, 2017, 05:10 PM
May 2017

And it isn't just for men there are wives that are glad it is available. Viagra isn't the same as birth control

 

Demit

(11,238 posts)
14. There are husbands who are glad for birth control. So it isn't just for women.
Wed May 31, 2017, 05:18 PM
May 2017

And birth control pills are "medicinal," as they are prescribed for medical conditions as well (pain from endometriosis and fibroid tumors). Remember Sandra Fluke's testimony?

Not sure what distinction you are trying to make.

 

Ohioblue22

(1,430 posts)
15. Mainly the poster said that Viagra was covered by insurance and I
Wed May 31, 2017, 05:26 PM
May 2017

Said that it isn't by my insurance. I never said or implied that birth control wasn't medicinal or that men aren't glad it's available. Any medicine covering medical conditions should be covered

 

Demit

(11,238 posts)
20. Well, you plainly said Viagra isn't the same as birth control.
Wed May 31, 2017, 06:20 PM
May 2017

And the 2 facts you used to describe it seemed to imply how you thought it differed. Is there another way to interpret your comments? Maybe you could clarify.

 

Ohioblue22

(1,430 posts)
24. Well like i said Viagra isn't covered by insurance b.c. is . Idk why people
Wed May 31, 2017, 06:36 PM
May 2017

Keep saying Viagra is

 

Demit

(11,238 posts)
32. Obviously you don't want to address my question.
Wed May 31, 2017, 07:08 PM
May 2017

But I hope you remember the facts about birth control you learned today that, also obviously, you didn't know.

And btw, some insurance companies do cover Viagra, Cialis or Levitra, even if yours doesn't.

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
19. Dude, you don't know much about BC, do you?
Wed May 31, 2017, 06:13 PM
May 2017

I'm a lesbian who was put on BC for "medicinal" reasons. I started menopause just before turning 30, which is bad, so I had to be put on BC to kickstart things until my docs could figure out why I was going through menopause.

There are multiple uses for BC that don't involve actually preventing pregnancy.

progree

(10,904 posts)
28. Medicare Part D explicitely doesn't cover drugs used to treat sexual or erectile dysfunction
Wed May 31, 2017, 06:44 PM
May 2017

That's all Part D plans, not just some.

And my ACA plan (from HealthPartners) didn't either.

I don't know of any health plan that covers Viagra but doesn't cover contraceptives.

And I have never heard of a health plan that covers Viagra for free. But all ACA plans are required -- or at least were before Hobby Lobby -- required to cover female contraception for free, i.e. no out-of-pocket costs, not subject to a deductible.

And as a male, I am delighted that the ACA and many insurance plans do cover female contraceptives. So I'm not whining or complaining. Viagra and contraception are two totally different purposes.

progree

(10,904 posts)
53. Your link got chopped off. Thanks, good article. Here's the link
Wed May 31, 2017, 11:23 PM
May 2017
http://www.personalhealthinsurance.com/does-health-insurance-cover-viagra/

/---- Begin excerpts --------------------------------------------------
insurance companies have been ambivalent about their coverage for ED drugs, with some insurers picking up the cost and others refusing to cover any portion of the bill.

For example, Medicare Part D does not cover any type of erectile dysfunction drug. This is bad news for the elderly population, the largest group of men who need the help provided by ED medications. On the other hand, many private insurance plans, such as Aetna and United Healthcare, make provisions to cover the cost of Viagra or other ED drugs when deemed “medically necessary” by a doctor and if the patient’s state of residence requires them to do so. HMOs usually cover Viagra with a higher co-pay than for other drugs.

...A debate has been raging for some time over the fact that many insurers make some provision to pay for ED drugs but do not cover birth control pills for women. ABC News ( http://abcnews.go.com/US/story?id=91538 ) reports that several lawsuits have been filed against insurers for failing to cover birth control when they have provisions to cover erectile dysfunction drugs.
----- End excerpts ---------------------------------------------------

This makes it sound like only when deemed “medically necessary” by a doctor and if the patient’s state of residence requires them to do so. I don't know if treating impotence is medically necessary or not. (It would be interesting to know if there was a distinction between being married or single in the "medically necessary" clause if recreational sex is deemed "medically necessary&quot . The next sentence on HMOs usually covering Viagra with a higher co-pay -- it isn't clear whether that is under "medically necessary" conditions or not.

My ACA plan was a HealthPartners HMO plan, and it wasn't covered under any condition at any cost.

But the ABCNews article (link above) from 2002 says this (keeping in mind it is from 15 years ago, and formularies have long been trending to getting tighter and tighter ):

/---- Begin excerpts --------------------------------------------------
Within weeks of hitting the U.S. market in 1998, more than half of Viagra prescriptions received health insurance coverage.

... This week, New York became the 20th state to require that insurers and employers provide contraceptive coverage. That means that half of U.S. women now live in states requiring at least some birth control coverage, according to Planned Parenthood. Massachusetts and Arizona passed similar bills earlier this year that will go into effect in 2003.
---- End excerpts ---------------------------------------------------

I don't see anything about any plan covering Viagra for no out-of-pocket costs, unlike contraceptives that the ACA mandates be covered at no out-of-pocket cost.

Thankfully. This male, and I'm sure I speak for many, are delighted that female contraceptives are covered for free. For both selfish and altruistic reasons.


Doreen

(11,686 posts)
30. Well, hell yeah that is about the almighty man.
Wed May 31, 2017, 06:52 PM
May 2017

That penis is more important than anything in the world.

Freethinker65

(10,015 posts)
10. If this happens, the Democratic Party should take both the house and senate
Wed May 31, 2017, 05:08 PM
May 2017

Going backwards on contraceptive coverage for employer based coverage will hit the pocketbooks of millions of Trump/GOP families that thought their coverage was safe. It will be interesting to hear the spin on why policies become even more expensive despite providing less.

FiveGoodMen

(20,018 posts)
12. SHOULD, yes. But will they?
Wed May 31, 2017, 05:13 PM
May 2017

Over and over and over and ... (you get the point) I see posters here saying, "Finally, reason will win out. We're right and no one can help but see it."

Meanwhile, the bad guys take more and more ground.

My point: Being right doesn't mean you win.

We need to figure out how to get our message to people in a way that will sink in.

We need to find and effective way to counter the propaganda.

Being right doesn't mean you win.

Freethinker65

(10,015 posts)
16. I think this might do it, IF voters are able to vote and be countrd
Wed May 31, 2017, 05:28 PM
May 2017

The GOP has spent decades chipping away at reproductive rights keeping the anti contraceptives/abortion voters nibbling on the line while other fiscal conservatives figured as long as it did not affect them or their families they would continue to vote against "tax and spend liberals". If the GOP proposed healthcare effectively excludes reproductive care (and even perhaps maternity/prenatal care), the Democrats suddenly become the party of family values by default. It would take a lot to screw that up, but anything is possible.

TheBlackAdder

(28,188 posts)
13. Now in an equillibruim, if there are more births, $350,000 in taxes and costs per new add on.
Wed May 31, 2017, 05:17 PM
May 2017

.


Just adding 10,000 kids each year, for 18 years will increase a state's yearly budget to over $3 billion.


10,000 x $18,000 (school, medical, food, housing) x 18 until emancipated.

The loss from a child dependent deduction adds a couple more grand.



These fiscal conservatives will be crying in a few years.

.

demigoddess

(6,640 posts)
21. it is also because they want to spend less on medical care for women. By the time
Wed May 31, 2017, 06:20 PM
May 2017

they have killed birth control they will work on some other area such as mammograms. You already see they want to cut back on pediatric care for children. They just want to keep women from outliving their husbands. etc etc etc.

Mariana

(14,856 posts)
22. I'm old enough to remember when the "conservatives"
Wed May 31, 2017, 06:25 PM
May 2017

wanted to make birth control mandatory for every woman receiving any kind of public assistance. They were willing for the government to pay for it, too.

keithbvadu2

(36,784 posts)
29. We already have radical Christian terrorists in America... A theocracy will not change that.
Wed May 31, 2017, 06:48 PM
May 2017

............Religious freedom? ... Who decides for whom?

Cool: I must / cannot do it because of my religious beliefs.
..... I decide for myself.

Cool?: You must / cannot do it because of my religious beliefs.
..... I decide for you.

Uncool?: I must / cannot do it because of your religious beliefs.
..... You decide for me?

=================================

Some of our 'Christians' say they want America to be a Christian run country.
Which version of Christianity?

Many Catholics/Protestants feel that the other is not a true Christian.

What will they say/do when it is not their version of Christianity in charge?

Christians in Ireland fought each other using terrorism.

We already have radical Christian terrorists in America.

A theocracy will not change that.

dlk

(11,561 posts)
31. It's About Turning Back the Clock to Women as Chattel
Wed May 31, 2017, 07:04 PM
May 2017

There is no logic or reason behind the Republican agenda for women's reproductive health.

1. They are against sex education (because knowing how the human body functions is apparently a problem/sin/government interference/fill-in-the-blank).

2. They are against birth control to prevent unwanted pregnancies.

3. They spend inordinate amounts of time, money and legislative sessions restricting access to legal abortion with bizarre and cruel schemes (think vaginal ultrasounds and fetal funerals for a start).

4. Then, if this wasn't going far enough, they shame and cut services to support pregnant women while the U. S. maternal mortality rate is climbing.

5. Then, after women give birth, Republicans cut services and supports to mothers and to their young children because they have no right to live indoors or have food to eat, as rich men need more tax cuts.

Is this agenda really so different than that of the radical political and religious extremists we see in other parts of the world?

Whatever caused Republicans to despise women (and children) so much?



SCRUBDASHRUB

(7,252 posts)
33. For about a year, my birth control pills were covered 100%.
Wed May 31, 2017, 07:10 PM
May 2017

As of a couple of months ago, BlueCross BlueShield decided to start charging me again for the same medication. It now costs me $30 a month vs $0.

I thought it was mandatory to cover oral contraceptives. I was told that if there is another equivalent generic available that I could take it and it wouldn't cost me in but I don't want to chance it not working.

progree

(10,904 posts)
41. In the ACA, I think they have to offer a drug/device in every contraceptive classification for free
Wed May 31, 2017, 07:37 PM
May 2017

but they don't have to cover all contraceptive drugs/devices. I remember reading an article recently about it where some insurance companies are not quite following the rules or doing so in as limited a way as possible. Just going by recollection from some article I read many months ago.

leftyladyfrommo

(18,868 posts)
35. Some of the right wingers see birth
Wed May 31, 2017, 07:12 PM
May 2017

Control as a form of abortion. Anytime the egg is killed it is killing a potential human.

Their goal all along has been to make birth control illegal.

 

Amimnoch

(4,558 posts)
36. Anything to protect the group of cells, but still.. fuck the actual baby.
Wed May 31, 2017, 07:16 PM
May 2017

No birth control, no contraception, no abortion... BUT once you have the baby you will be forced to have, no insurance, no food or housing assistance.. it's your own fault, and your own responsibility..

Wonder how much longer it will be before they start going after the legalization of marital rape again.

Dorn

(523 posts)
37. The anti-abortion debate is about controlling bodies: woman *and* men
Wed May 31, 2017, 07:18 PM
May 2017

If abortion is eliminated the next thing after birth control will be adding chips into everyone's body. This is not tin foil hat stuff, the IOT and internet are perfect for the introduction of networked human beings. How many people volunteer to wear tracking devices (think FitBit) now? Money is being eliminated gradually and completely by bank cards once the corporations can track you completely abortion will be the least of our worries.

If we want to reduce abortions increase the access to birth control, rich people have always and will always get abortions. The abortion debate is about controlling bodies the 99%.

Alt-Orange

(94 posts)
39. It has now gotten to the point where...
Wed May 31, 2017, 07:25 PM
May 2017

I literally hate any and all elected officials with an R in front of their name. All this "Religious Freedom" bullshit has got to be stopped. This country was NOT founded on any Religious/Christian principles, in fact it was the opposite. It's none of their goddamn business what a woman does in her private time, rather it's sex for pleasure or to make a family. They are not for small Gubmint - they are for pushing their beliefs on others through public policy because they know religious believers numbers are thinning out as the years go on.

Proud Atheist and Freedom lover.

roamer65

(36,745 posts)
40. It's all about white babies.
Wed May 31, 2017, 07:28 PM
May 2017

Next step down the road of fascism will be forced abortion/sterilization for minorities. Welcome to the modern perversion of eugenics.

flibbitygiblets

(7,220 posts)
42. I disagree; I think it's quite the opposite
Wed May 31, 2017, 07:51 PM
May 2017

They take away birth control choices for poor women, especially minorities, so those children will grow up uneducated and poor, (especially with anti-education cronies like DeVos running education into the ground). IF these children don't end up in jail (privatized money-making prisons), they'll work in low-wage jobs that further enrich big corporations like WalMart and McDonalds. Without education, they'll be unlikely to break out of the poverty cycle, and are more likely to believe propaganda and vote against their own best interests. It's happening already.

They don't give two sh*ts about fetuses OR Christianity. If they did there would be free healthcare and no homeless people. They hypocritically use religion to enslave people.

leftstreet

(36,106 posts)
45. Impoverished women aren't using private insurance
Wed May 31, 2017, 09:38 PM
May 2017

This article is indicating changes to insurance offered through employment

napi21

(45,806 posts)
51. It also PROVES the Republicans have been lying to the people for decades! They claim to be against
Wed May 31, 2017, 11:03 PM
May 2017

abortion but now want to exempt from insurance the one main thing that reduces abortion!

MontanaMama

(23,313 posts)
54. Where the hell are reasonable men in this
Wed May 31, 2017, 11:51 PM
May 2017

godforsaken country any more?? Men ought to be leading the fucking pro birth control parade!!! Last I checked...straight men like having sex with women. Do they want to make a baby every time they do the deed? Seriously??? This is out of control.

Not to mention the reasonable men who might have a daughter who might have sex outside of marriage?? Where are YOU guys? Back in the day (early 80's for me) I remember my dad telling me that it was MY responsibility to remain child free until I could financially care for a child. He drilled it into to my head that if I were to get pregnant, the options open to me for my future would narrow. He acknowledged that it was sexist and not fair but it was reality. He was right.

AND, where are the corporations that have a CFO with a goddamn brain? Birth control is a whole hell of a lot cheaper than maternity care under the best of circumstances. Screw these people.

This is about power. This is about control. It is THAT simple.

niyad

(113,278 posts)
61. "days of the theocracy" kristin lems
Thu Jun 1, 2017, 02:48 PM
Jun 2017


Days of the Theocracy
Words and music by Kristin Lems
© 1979, 2005, 2015 Kleine Ding Music (BMI)

First they fight abortion, birth control is next
Then comes sex if you’re not married, finally, out goes sex!
Put the prayers back in the schools, install "parochiaid,"
Allow for corporal punishment, and then you got it made!

Chorus:
We’re going back, back to the good ole days
When men were really men and women knew their place
Back, back a couple of centuries
And welcome back the days of the theocracy!

2. The family is so holy, there must be no divorce
And if a wife is not content, she must adjust, of course
And if he’s forced to beat her, it’s all for her own good
She must know what her limits are, as any woman should.,

(chorus)

3. The next to go is daycare
It’s all a commie plot!
What could be more fulfilling than a child, wanted or not?
A woman’s world is housework, God wanted it that way
A salaried job degrades her since she never works for pay


(chorus)

4. They teach us women’s lot is "love honor and obey"
And while their crusty notions seem like jokes to us today
They’re sitting in the Capitol, they’re voting on our lives
If we don’t stop them soon, our freedom will not long survive!

Alt chorus:
No going back, back to the bad ole days...
When men were really masters and women were their slaves
Let's go ahead, ahead for future centuries
And build a world that’s based on true democracy
And build a world that’s based on true equality!
Ah – person!
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