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Go ahead and say it Ann, they gave it to this brown woman. That's what offends you. (Original Post) kpete Jul 2017 OP
You don't have to guess about which one I'd rather be sitting next to. NBachers Jul 2017 #1
If I had to be on the same plane as that witch, I'd be violently ill. roamer65 Jul 2017 #2
Please Say what you really mean Tribalceltic Jul 2017 #77
It was shitty of Coulter to do that. It was also shitty of 50 Shades Of Blue Jul 2017 #3
Real people take precedence over her her bony elbow. Hassin Bin Sober Jul 2017 #5
Not if she bought that seat first! 50 Shades Of Blue Jul 2017 #29
She didn't buy the seat. Hassin Bin Sober Jul 2017 #35
Even if she bought it first. She will get a refund. JI7 Jul 2017 #36
Doesn't make what the airline did right Egnever Jul 2017 #55
great post dsc Jul 2017 #6
I dislike Ann Coulter, but Delta was wrong here. tammywammy Jul 2017 #7
One tweet covered that Warpy Jul 2017 #9
actually they are both wrong and for the same reason dsc Jul 2017 #12
Sorry, it's in the fine print on the ticket Warpy Jul 2017 #15
Conservatives LOVE the free market - until a business makes a decision they don't like EffieBlack Jul 2017 #44
On TV for decades and a thousand books yet........... Bengus81 Jul 2017 #61
She's partly responsible for the current business climate in this country. Crunchy Frog Jul 2017 #74
Actually I think she is appealing to the free market exboyfil Jul 2017 #80
A) She gets a refund. Hassin Bin Sober Jul 2017 #17
would you want to sit next to her? dsc Jul 2017 #19
They should strap her to the wing. Hassin Bin Sober Jul 2017 #21
Why does anybody deserve one seat then? 50 Shades Of Blue Jul 2017 #31
Don't know. Igel Jul 2017 #46
i don't understand your eatery example unblock Jul 2017 #27
Pre-booking doesn't always mean you buy a particular seat. pnwmom Jul 2017 #43
Yep. I don't know why she has a problem with a private free market business... Hassin Bin Sober Jul 2017 #14
She has every right to be pissed. 50 Shades Of Blue Jul 2017 #32
Not by me. Not even if she was on fire. Hassin Bin Sober Jul 2017 #37
Hehe awesomerwb1 Jul 2017 #47
Her right to be pissed... Charlotte Little Jul 2017 #91
They are both wrong Egnever Jul 2017 #56
And yet the one the asshole chooses to take it out on, plastering her photo around the news, is the Squinch Jul 2017 #10
She admits her problem was with the seat being given to that type of person JI7 Jul 2017 #18
Yes, she is and correct, this is not. Squinch Jul 2017 #22
Bullshit! If the young women had a need for that seat to go to a funeral.... madinmaryland Jul 2017 #20
That seat was next to two filled seats. Why would she buy that Maraya1969 Jul 2017 #33
Because people don't read very well. Voltaire2 Jul 2017 #48
Extra wide passengers are required to buy exboyfil Jul 2017 #84
yeah you seem to be right. Delta will let you buy a second seat for personal comfort. Voltaire2 Jul 2017 #86
She didn't buy an extra seat - they bumped her from the exit row Ruby the Liberal Jul 2017 #68
Oh, this is CLASSIC! MyOwnPeace Jul 2017 #4
Her gripe should be with Delta, not the patron Mr. Ected Jul 2017 #8
No oberliner Jul 2017 #11
I suspect she ignored the online disclaimer that says the seat assignment pnwmom Jul 2017 #42
Where is the "brown woman"? ProudLib72 Jul 2017 #13
The woman doesn't look Anglo. And the flight attendant is definitely black EffieBlack Jul 2017 #45
There's another more reasonable explanation FBaggins Jul 2017 #92
Doesn't look "brown" to me either. cwydro Jul 2017 #70
She looks like a good friend's daughter. longship Jul 2017 #16
I don't think the picture was intended to shame the woman Alea Jul 2017 #23
The Asian guy was physically dragged away. That didn't happen to coulter JI7 Jul 2017 #26
just the fact that you're here defending Coulter bigtree Jul 2017 #30
Wasn't defending Coulter Alea Jul 2017 #38
blah blah blah bigtree Jul 2017 #39
Coulter rides coach, now that is funny grantcart Jul 2017 #40
"It" - what exactly did you intend by that? Voltaire2 Jul 2017 #49
piece of inhuman filth? bigtree Jul 2017 #51
FYI that is generally considered a transphobic slur. Voltaire2 Jul 2017 #54
is Coulter transgender? bigtree Jul 2017 #58
A frequent transphobic attack on Coulter is to infer that she looks like a man. Voltaire2 Jul 2017 #59
I believe Coulter self-identifies as a woman, fwiw. bigtree Jul 2017 #62
I don't know how to make this clearer: using "it" to refer to another person is a transphobic slur. Voltaire2 Jul 2017 #64
first of all, you were wrong about what I intended to convey bigtree Jul 2017 #65
"I believe Coulter self-identifies as a woman, fwiw." Voltaire2 Jul 2017 #67
it's an acknowledgement that I accept her self-identification bigtree Jul 2017 #69
what? Voltaire2 Jul 2017 #76
you began with the premise that I intended to disrespect her gender identification bigtree Jul 2017 #78
No I asked you what you meant and then pointed out that it is a transphobic slur. Voltaire2 Jul 2017 #85
don't lie bigtree Jul 2017 #88
You implied it can't be a slur if the target is not transgender. Voltaire2 Jul 2017 #96
can you fucking read? bigtree Jul 2017 #98
You said I lied. Voltaire2 Jul 2017 #99
It's not her "self-identication" it's her gender, she's not a transgender woman. beam me up scottie Jul 2017 #83
No, it's not. Iggo Jul 2017 #72
Educate yourself please Voltaire2 Jul 2017 #75
I've already acknowledged that bigtree Jul 2017 #79
I think you should edit the post in that case... WoonTars Jul 2017 #81
ok bigtree Jul 2017 #89
I'm aware. Iggo Jul 2017 #94
So you also think it is ok to use misgendering slurs if the target is not transgender? Voltaire2 Jul 2017 #97
Bull-to-the-fucking-shit. Iggo Jul 2017 #71
Why isn't Queen Ann flying first class? TexasBushwhacker Jul 2017 #24
She could ride in the cargo hold where the pets ride. Demtexan Jul 2017 #34
you could not pay me to sit next to that fucking viper Skittles Jul 2017 #25
Does...does she want airlines to be regulated? WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2017 #28
I suspect she pre-booked that seat and failed to notice -- or chose to ignore -- pnwmom Jul 2017 #41
She also probably failed to confirm before getting to the gate. Voltaire2 Jul 2017 #50
I can't stand Ann Coulter frogmarch Jul 2017 #52
I think I get it now. She bought a legroom seat in MineralMan Jul 2017 #53
Or she is a tall woman that appreciates extra legroom. hack89 Jul 2017 #57
See my more detailed analysis: MineralMan Jul 2017 #60
And you know this for a fact? Nt hack89 Jul 2017 #66
Backed up with any facts, or just your conjecture? WoonTars Jul 2017 #87
How does she know the woman isn't an Air Marshall Lee-Lee Jul 2017 #63
That would be too perfect if she was an air marshall exboyfil Jul 2017 #82
It would actually burn that woman's career too Lee-Lee Jul 2017 #95
Loser! Hannity has a private jet. Limbaugh has a private jet. dalton99a Jul 2017 #73
Classic "Please stfu" look. lmao! Oneironaut Jul 2017 #90
The look on their faces tells it all SonofDonald Jul 2017 #93

roamer65

(36,745 posts)
2. If I had to be on the same plane as that witch, I'd be violently ill.
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 08:58 PM
Jul 2017

At least I would know where to go...

Tribalceltic

(1,000 posts)
77. Please Say what you really mean
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 11:45 AM
Jul 2017

As a witch,I object to the term being misused..

besides, if Coultergiest is a Witch shouldn't she be flying a broom?

50 Shades Of Blue

(9,977 posts)
3. It was shitty of Coulter to do that. It was also shitty of
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 08:59 PM
Jul 2017

Delta to take away the extra seat she'd bought and PAID FOR for herself and give it to someone else! If you buy two seats with the intention of leaving one empty, the airline should honor that!

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,325 posts)
35. She didn't buy the seat.
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 10:43 PM
Jul 2017

She rented it under a specific set of rules. One of which is the airline can, like many other businesses, enforce a one per customer rule in times of shortages.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
55. Doesn't make what the airline did right
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 10:02 AM
Jul 2017

She is a stain on humanity but the airlines can go fuck them selves it's long past time for them to have a come to Jesus moment.

I can't believe just because it is Ann Coulter people are defending this bull shit from the airlines.

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
7. I dislike Ann Coulter, but Delta was wrong here.
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 09:05 PM
Jul 2017

i can't quite tell if she was removed from a seat with extra legroom or if it was a second seat that was taken away from her. Either way, both would have been paid for by her and Delta shouldn't have have taken it away.

Warpy

(111,245 posts)
9. One tweet covered that
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 09:18 PM
Jul 2017

"What, you don't fly first class, Princess?"

Extra seats can be taken if the flight is full, it's in the small print. Delta owes her a refund of the ticket price for that seat on that flight, but that's all. It's one of the reasons it's called cattle class.

Worse ones are people who are flying with toddlers, kids above a certain age getting their own seats per FAA regulations being told to give up the kid's seat and endanger it by holding it in a lap, unrestrained. Now that one is wrong.

dsc

(52,157 posts)
12. actually they are both wrong and for the same reason
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 09:25 PM
Jul 2017

she bought the seat, the airline accepted payment for the seat, it was her seat. This is no different than an eatery saying you don't need that food so we gave it to someone else even though you paid for it.

Warpy

(111,245 posts)
15. Sorry, it's in the fine print on the ticket
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 09:28 PM
Jul 2017

Airlines have TOS just like everybody else, which you agree to when you buy their services.

She does deserve a refund. She also deserves every bit of the bagging she's getting on Twitter.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
44. Conservatives LOVE the free market - until a business makes a decision they don't like
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 11:16 PM
Jul 2017

I'll bet Miss Ann will soon be screaming for a regulation to protect her desire to keep anyone else from sitting next to her bony entitled ass...

Crunchy Frog

(26,579 posts)
74. She's partly responsible for the current business climate in this country.
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 11:18 AM
Jul 2017

The one where the corporation is always right and customer service is out the window.

She's promoted this ideology for decades. Now she thinks that she doesn't have to live under it like the rest of us?

Don't like it then don't fly in steerage.

exboyfil

(17,862 posts)
80. Actually I think she is appealing to the free market
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 12:27 PM
Jul 2017

Here is what Delta did. They can do it to you.

You decide where to spend you flight dollars.

The picture of the private citizen in her "seat" on the other hand is cheap and low. Most likely not actionable, but really scummy.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,325 posts)
17. A) She gets a refund.
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 09:34 PM
Jul 2017

B) it's in the contract

C) businesses often enforce a one per customer rule

D) real people take precedence over bony elbows

Besides, she ways about 80 pounds. 90 with that filthy cocktail dress she always wears. Why does she need two seats?

dsc

(52,157 posts)
19. would you want to sit next to her?
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 09:35 PM
Jul 2017

I know I wouldn't. She should be encouraged to get extra seats so we don't have to sit next to her.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,325 posts)
21. They should strap her to the wing.
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 09:37 PM
Jul 2017

Of course, she might start pulling parts of the plane off and tossing them in the engine intake.

Igel

(35,300 posts)
46. Don't know.
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 12:16 AM
Jul 2017

I've seen two reasons for purchasing an extra ticket.

1. You just need more room for what you need to do. Buy two seats for the kid so she can lay down. Buy two seats because you're going to work on the flight and can't fit all the crap you need on the little fold-down desk-thing.

Works for obese people, too. You don't want somebody who weighs 400 lbs in one of those seats next to you. Much of the person won't stay in their territory. (Want unpleasant? Insist that the armrest stay down when the person won't quite fit. It's a crap-fest of a pre-take-off, reprised during the flight. This may be offensive to bring up, but it happens; reality sometimes bites.

2. Musical instruments and other sensitive bits of stuff. Nobody wants to send a $15k cello or $12k guitar through with baggage (this was 20 years ago, so they'd be worth a lot more now). Used to be that they'd take such things without an extra seat and stow them in some closet. That changed. I wouldn't put my violin or guitar through as checked luggage.

I've known people who go abroad to do research and carry their stuff with them. We went to Poland with our 14-month-old child. We had a diaper bag and a couple of toys for the kid, I had a paperback, my wife had a paperback, and under our seats and filling up bin space were $35 thousand dollars worth of eyetracker, computers, disks, mikes, external drives, and all the other crap we'd need for doing research. If they'd given us a hard time about the volume of stuff, we'd have gotten an extra seat or taken a later flight. I've seen that done with artwork that wouldn't fit in the bin.

unblock

(52,199 posts)
27. i don't understand your eatery example
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 10:14 PM
Jul 2017

if i go to an eatery where i pay as soon as you order, then when i go to pick up my order, they say "sorry, we ran out of that dish, the customer ahead of you got the last one" -- well, they refund my meal and either i accept a different dish or the refund.

same as delta. if there was room in first class or non-extra-room seating, she could have opted for that, or she could have accepted the refund.


this is the downside to overbooking, everyone likes the advantage of being more likely to get a seat, taking advantage of the usual cancellations, but no one likes getting bumped.

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
43. Pre-booking doesn't always mean you buy a particular seat.
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 11:11 PM
Jul 2017

There is often an online disclaimer saying that while you may choose a seat, it is not guaranteed. The airline must confirm it.

http://www.farecompare.com/news/airline-seat-assignments-not-always-guaranteed/

FareCompare recently received the following question about airline seats:

“This happened to me [and others], previous seat assignments, booked when tickets were issued, were no longer valid.”

No Guarantees

Yes, this happens – in fact, FareCompare is unaware of any airline that absolutely guarantees passengers will always get the seats they select, although such changes do not seem to be particularly common. And yes, airlines tell you seat selections are not guaranteed

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,325 posts)
14. Yep. I don't know why she has a problem with a private free market business...
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 09:28 PM
Jul 2017

.... enforcing their "one per customer under certain conditions rule"

Wouldn't forcing Delta to sell her that seat be forcing the pilot and crew in to a life of human bondage?

Charlotte Little

(658 posts)
91. Her right to be pissed...
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 01:48 PM
Jul 2017

...is negated by the fact that she took a photo of an innocent woman (and others) and posted it online.

Ann can suck it. I personally love all the negative attention she's getting, not that it will matter. Ann hates herself, so millions of others hating on her won't phase her in the least.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
10. And yet the one the asshole chooses to take it out on, plastering her photo around the news, is the
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 09:20 PM
Jul 2017

innocent person who simply wanted to get somewhere today.

JI7

(89,247 posts)
18. She admits her problem was with the seat being given to that type of person
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 09:35 PM
Jul 2017

And not the policy itself.

Coulter is a piece of shit and this is not comparable to other recent cases.

madinmaryland

(64,931 posts)
20. Bullshit! If the young women had a need for that seat to go to a funeral....
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 09:36 PM
Jul 2017

Just reinmburse the Coulterguist. I'm sorry but there is some common sense that needs to be applied here.

Fuck Coulter and the rest of the Repubican Elites. FUCK THEM.

Maraya1969

(22,478 posts)
33. That seat was next to two filled seats. Why would she buy that
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 10:39 PM
Jul 2017

seat? I can understand buying 2 next to each other but this just doesn't make sense.

If it is just to leave an empty seat that you may want to move to later on then I think it is OK for the airline to give it to someone if the plane is filled and someone needs the seat. They should just refund your money

Voltaire2

(13,015 posts)
48. Because people don't read very well.
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 08:43 AM
Jul 2017

Coulter paid for an extra leg-room seat - the economy plus upgrade- but apparently didn't get it. She didn't buy two seats. You usually can't do that except for special needs like your strad cello needs its own seat. My guess is that she didn't bother to confirm her seat until she got to the boarding gate.

What I find most enjoyable is that her career is failed enough that she is in cattle class to begin with.

exboyfil

(17,862 posts)
84. Extra wide passengers are required to buy
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 12:39 PM
Jul 2017

two seats. It seems you can always buy a second seat if you want to if the airline has the policy. Getting those seats back? It seems it should go with the bump policy (3x cost of flight cash or $1350 and refund of seat?).

In this case it is moot. It appears she was moved within the row (probably to the other side in a middle seat without the legroom?). I think the airline may have been trying to keep a family together. If so it is still a crappy thing to do to Coulter. Doesn't change the fact that she should never have posted the picture of the woman in her "seat". It was a classless room.

https://www.wsj.com/articles/SB10001424052748703510204575085430741468758

Ruby the Liberal

(26,219 posts)
68. She didn't buy an extra seat - they bumped her from the exit row
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 10:49 AM
Jul 2017

She's bitching about 2" of legroom, not a spare seat.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
11. No
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 09:24 PM
Jul 2017

She's being a crybaby and should not have taken/posted photos of the people in the seats, but her complaint has nothing to do with race. She is just annoyed that she was moved from the seat she pre-booked and is throwing a twitter tantrum about it.

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
42. I suspect she ignored the online disclaimer that says the seat assignment
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 11:08 PM
Jul 2017

is really a seat preference and must be confirmed by the airline.

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
13. Where is the "brown woman"?
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 09:26 PM
Jul 2017

I don't see any brown people anywhere in that pic. I see a woman with brown hair and a couple of dudes looking downright disgusted that she is taking their pic.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
45. The woman doesn't look Anglo. And the flight attendant is definitely black
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 11:19 PM
Jul 2017

I doubt she's display their pictures if they were white. There's only one reason to show their picture - and it's not to tell her story since they add nothing to it other than to prove to her racist fans that "those" people really are taking away the rights of decent white people.

FBaggins

(26,729 posts)
92. There's another more reasonable explanation
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 01:52 PM
Jul 2017

The woman looks short - and therefore wouldn't presumably "need" the extra legroom.

longship

(40,416 posts)
16. She looks like a good friend's daughter.
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 09:29 PM
Jul 2017

BTW, she's going to be flying from LA east any day.

Damn! If that isn't her, she has a twin.

Alea

(706 posts)
23. I don't think the picture was intended to shame the woman
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 09:49 PM
Jul 2017

but more to show that Delta moved her from an extra room seat that she paid more for to a normal room seat and gave her seat to a smaller size person. I would be pissed too. If it had not been Ann Coulter, but an Asian guy pitching a fit, DU would be all over blaming Delta for the mishap.

JI7

(89,247 posts)
26. The Asian guy was physically dragged away. That didn't happen to coulter
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 09:59 PM
Jul 2017

And coulter was not forced off the plane as he was.

bigtree

(85,987 posts)
30. just the fact that you're here defending Coulter
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 10:37 PM
Jul 2017

Last edited Sun Jul 16, 2017, 01:28 PM - Edit history (1)

...I'd like to see her* dragged down the aisle.

I'd pay for it.

Curious to see what Coulter said about the Asian passenger who was attacked and abused by security.

*edited from 'it' (by request)

Alea

(706 posts)
38. Wasn't defending Coulter
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 10:53 PM
Jul 2017

I was defending a taller passenger that paid for a extra room seat, only to have it given away to a smaller passenger and the taller passenger put in a normal room seat. Other point, DU hates everything the airlines do, unless it happens to a gop'er.

other than that, F Ann Coulter

bigtree

(85,987 posts)
39. blah blah blah
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 10:55 PM
Jul 2017

...fuck Coulter.

Do you understand what hypocrisy means? It's perfectly fine to wish the worst on gopers what they willfully impose on others.

bigtree

(85,987 posts)
58. is Coulter transgender?
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 10:12 AM
Jul 2017

...you asked me to define what I wrote, and I answered.

I'm not going to spend time defending myself against your own version of what I meant.

Voltaire2

(13,015 posts)
59. A frequent transphobic attack on Coulter is to infer that she looks like a man.
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 10:16 AM
Jul 2017

"Ann the Man" if I recall correctly. That is then followed up by using the non-gendered pronoun "it" to refer to her.

I'm sure you didn't intend that, I just wanted to let you know that using "it" to refer to another person is typically a transphobic slur.

bigtree

(85,987 posts)
62. I believe Coulter self-identifies as a woman, fwiw.
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 10:23 AM
Jul 2017

I've never seen anything credible that contradicts that gender association.

I take your point and apologize for the inconsiderate/offensive language I used. Of course, any consideration I make is for others' benefit, not Coulters'.

Voltaire2

(13,015 posts)
64. I don't know how to make this clearer: using "it" to refer to another person is a transphobic slur.
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 10:26 AM
Jul 2017

It does not matter in the least if the person referred to is in fact transgender.

Your argument is the equivalent of "sure I called him a n* but he isn't black".

Please stop.

bigtree

(85,987 posts)
65. first of all, you were wrong about what I intended to convey
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 10:30 AM
Jul 2017

...I acknowledged your concern and gave credence to it.

Your analogy (to what I wrote) is ridiculous. You stop.

bigtree

(85,987 posts)
69. it's an acknowledgement that I accept her self-identification
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 10:49 AM
Jul 2017

...and a indication (I would think) that Coulter's gender isn't a consideration of mine or something which I dispute.

Voltaire2

(13,015 posts)
76. what?
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 11:36 AM
Jul 2017

If you accepted her "self identification" as a woman you would refer to her as "she". By referring to her as "it" you are explicitly de-gendering her.

bigtree

(85,987 posts)
78. you began with the premise that I intended to disrespect her gender identification
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 11:56 AM
Jul 2017

...that was false.

You are now engaged in arguing with your own false (original premise).

I've acknowledged and accepted your concerns about my ONE use of the word 'it' to identify Coulter. I've gone so far to apologize for the 'insensitivity and offensiveness' of the term, considering, as you pointed out, the attacks on her gender association which has occurred in the past, that others have engaged in.

I further acknowledged my personal respecting of Coulter's apparent self-identification, stating that I've seen no evidence to dispute that. I asked, sincerely whether Coulter was, in fact, transgender, which would make my use of the word 'it' specific to an actual attribute of hers, trying to understand your criticism.

You're really left here tending your own, inaccurate, circular argument.

Voltaire2

(13,015 posts)
85. No I asked you what you meant and then pointed out that it is a transphobic slur.
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 12:41 PM
Jul 2017

I explicitly gave you the benefit of the doubt. You then when on to explain to me how it can't be a slur because Coulter "identifies as a woman", which is:
a) wrong - it is still a transphobic slur, and
b) you refusing to admit that she is a woman by using the phrase "identifies as a woman".

That was a typical "yes but" avoidance on your part. I'm starting to think I should not have given you the benefit of the doubt. I was just trying to point out that you really should avoid that particular insult. Many people are unaware of its hurtful implications.

bigtree

(85,987 posts)
88. don't lie
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 01:09 PM
Jul 2017

...I never said 'it can't be a slur.' I actually acknowledged that it can be viewed as one.

Never said 'it can't be a slur', and I didn't imply it. I even apologized for using the term which could be viewed as a slur.

What I argued with was your characterization of what I meant by the ONE use of the word 'it' to describe Coulter.

You're still arguing with your own false premises. Just stop. You've gone from defending a correct point to slandering me. Enough.

I've not only agreed with your concern several times, I've acknowledged Coulter's self-identification as a woman (I don't dispute it, so wtf?). There doesn't appear to be anything I can do to appease your concern. You need to back the f-off.

Voltaire2

(13,015 posts)
96. You implied it can't be a slur if the target is not transgender.
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 04:10 PM
Jul 2017

Me: FYI that is generally considered a transphobic slur.
You: is Coulter transgender?

Your response above to my post: "FYI that is generally considered a transphobic slur" remains inexplicable to me unless you meant that as coulter is not transgender, "it" could not be a slur. I'll await your explanation.

bigtree

(85,987 posts)
98. can you fucking read?
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 04:20 PM
Jul 2017

..."I take your point and apologize for the inconsiderate/offensive language I used."

I had asked, sincerely whether Coulter was, in fact, transgender, which would make my use of the word 'it' specific to an actual attribute of hers, trying to understand your criticism.

Maybe you'd like me arrested or something, but you got a full and unequivocal apology for my one use of the word 'it.'

And you did lie. At no point did I say or imply that it was not considered a slur (I agreed it is, in a different context than I intended).

Now stuff it. I'm blocking you.

Voltaire2

(13,015 posts)
99. You said I lied.
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 04:26 PM
Jul 2017

Me: FYI that is generally considered a transphobic slur.
You: is Coulter transgender?

Your response above to my post: "FYI that is generally considered a transphobic slur" remains inexplicable to me unless you meant that as coulter is not transgender, "it" could not be a slur. I'll await your explanation.

I'm still waiting for an explanation. I didn't lie. I responded to your reply in the only way I could understand it. It still appears to me that you do not believe a misgender slur can be used against a cis person.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
83. It's not her "self-identication" it's her gender, she's not a transgender woman.
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 12:38 PM
Jul 2017

By repeatedly implying Coulter is transgender you're using that as an insult and that's transphobic.

It's no different than implying that Trump is gay when we know he's not which is homophobic.

I despise Ann Coulter as much as anyone but it's possible to express that feeling without insulting transgender people in the process.

Voltaire2

(13,015 posts)
75. Educate yourself please
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 11:35 AM
Jul 2017
https://www.queerty.com/lets-learn-the-nine-anti-trans-slurs-we-should-avoid-20110620

"It’s rude to call a trans person a “tranny, he-she, it, shemale, transvestite, man in a dress, hermaphrodite, or a freak.” It’s also rude to call them by the wrong gender pronoun—if you’re not sure, just ask which they prefer. And while we’re at it please don’t ask a trans person what their name “used to be” or questions about their genitals. What? Were you raised by goblins?"

The clear implication in calling Coulter "it" is that she is not a "real woman" but is in fact transgender. This is part of the "Ann the Man" meme that was popular on the left ten years ago. We are better than that,

bigtree

(85,987 posts)
79. I've already acknowledged that
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 12:02 PM
Jul 2017

...as well as apologized for making that ONE use of the word 'it,' despite my intent, which, as I stated in my first response to you, was not intended to refer to Coulter's gender.

WoonTars

(694 posts)
81. I think you should edit the post in that case...
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 12:27 PM
Jul 2017

...that way no further offense can be taken by anyone else who sees it...

bigtree

(85,987 posts)
89. ok
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 01:11 PM
Jul 2017

...as long as it's understood (knowing this forum well) that I'm not avoiding responsibility for using it in the first place.

Iggo

(47,549 posts)
94. I'm aware.
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 03:13 PM
Jul 2017

Calling a trans person or someone you think is a trans person "it" is transphobic.

But that's not what happened here, and if you'd take your blinders off you'd see it.

Voltaire2

(13,015 posts)
97. So you also think it is ok to use misgendering slurs if the target is not transgender?
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 04:13 PM
Jul 2017

Should we apply the same standard for racial slurs? Ethnic slurs? Or just gender slurs?

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
41. I suspect she pre-booked that seat and failed to notice -- or chose to ignore --
Sat Jul 15, 2017, 11:06 PM
Jul 2017

the online disclaimer that the seat would have to be confirmed by the airline and might be changed.

So she got in the plane, ignored the number on her ticket, and sat down in the seat she had requested online. Then along came this family of three and one of them had that seat number on her ticket.

Tough luck, Ann.

MineralMan

(146,287 posts)
53. I think I get it now. She bought a legroom seat in
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 09:57 AM
Jul 2017

that row, and the airline gave it to someone else. Here's why, I'll bet:

Ann Coulter is the type to show up at the airport at the very last possible minute. If that's an exit row, you're required to check in at the ticket counter, so they can check to see whether you're physically able. But, she was late, because "I'm Ann Coulter," and didn't make the cutoff time, so the airline gave that seat to someone else.

She's one of those people who board the plane at the very last second, so she doesn't have to mingle with the commoners and riff-raff. So, she wanted that seat, but she showed up late and they assigned it to someone else. Poor Baby Coulter.

Anyhow, that's my interpretation. I always book exit row seats, but I'm always at the airport in plenty of time to check in and claim my seat. Nobody has ever asked me to move to a different seat. That's because I know how it all works and show up when I'm supposed to. I'm never the last person to board, either, but I'm betting Ann Coulter is always the last person to board. She's entitled because Ann Coulter, political celebrity.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
57. Or she is a tall woman that appreciates extra legroom.
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 10:12 AM
Jul 2017

But it can't be that simple, can it? Way too benign.

 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
63. How does she know the woman isn't an Air Marshall
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 10:23 AM
Jul 2017

I was interviewed and almost took a position as an Air Marshall and have about the same build and skin tone(maybe a bit darker, photo is hard to see) as that woman.

One thing about the Air Marshall program- if your the kind of person people look at and things "that person is a cop or military" you are exactly who they don't want. I know more than a few people in that job, and most you would never think were any kind of LE. Everyone I knew who interviewed and had the stereotypical cop look was told they looked too much like a cop and no selected.

exboyfil

(17,862 posts)
82. That would be too perfect if she was an air marshall
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 12:29 PM
Jul 2017

Ann Coulter just burned her career. I wonder how that will play in Peoria.

SonofDonald

(2,050 posts)
93. The look on their faces tells it all
Sun Jul 16, 2017, 02:01 PM
Jul 2017

It's obvious she was mouthing off continuously before she took the picture, look at them, the two men look like coulter had sprouted horns and started spewing pea soup.

Then her head started turning round and round, the look on their faces is one of "What the fuck is wrong with her", the woman next to her looks like she just realized she'd have to be ready to bolt at any moment.

A classic moment that's been captured on film (pixels) cementing the fact that there's something wrong with coulter.

And she took it, a self inflicted wound.

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