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JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
Sat Sep 16, 2017, 11:26 AM Sep 2017

Suicide of teen who made sex video shows dilemma for schools

CHICAGO (AP) — Staff at a suburban Chicago high school called 16-year-old Corey Walgren to the dean’s office to ask about a video he made of himself having sex with a classmate. A few hours later, the teen walked to the top of a five-story parking deck and jumped.

The suicide of the honor-roll student underscored a dilemma for schools when confronting students suspected of recording and sharing sexual images: Should school officials wait until parents arrive to pose questions and search cellphones for illicit photos or video? Or do they, as de facto parents, have the authority to investigate crimes that might include child pornography?

The issue also raises a high-stakes legal question because many child porn laws predate the phenomena of teens sharing sexual images by cellphone. And neither they nor their parents usually have any idea that doing so can trigger serious penalties, including being labeled a sex offender for life.

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His parents have sued the school, accusing it in a federal lawsuit of unnecessarily traumatizing their son by warning him he could be charged and forced to register as a sex offender. They are seeking more than $5 million in damages.

“They scared the hell out of the kid, and that’s what drove Corey to kill himself,” said Maureen and Doug Walgren’s attorney, Terry Ekl.

https://www.apnews.com/c12027bf63604fa4968cd24df9afe58d/Suicide-of-teen-who-made-sex-video-shows-dilemma-for-schools?utm_campaign=SocialFlow&utm_source=Twitter&utm_medium=AP

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MineralMan

(146,242 posts)
1. A difficult question, but I believe that parents should always be
Sat Sep 16, 2017, 11:30 AM
Sep 2017

present in such situations. Teenagers are not completely competent to make decisions that affect themselves. I do not believe that they should be confronted and questioned about a situation that could possibly be criminal in nature without a parent present. The parent should know their own child's potential behaviors better than a school official or law enforcement official.

"Scared straight" can lead to being "scared to death," as has been seen all too often.

JI7

(89,235 posts)
3. Disagree. That would be very humiliating and even worse for some
Sat Sep 16, 2017, 11:40 AM
Sep 2017

Especially if it's their own video.

JI7

(89,235 posts)
2. It was his own sex video ?
Sat Sep 16, 2017, 11:39 AM
Sep 2017

that should not be considered criminal at all.

Maybe they can teach about dangers of making such video by those who are young but to all students.

sarisataka

(18,466 posts)
5. Yes and there was no image on the video
Sat Sep 16, 2017, 11:42 AM
Sep 2017

he activated it to get an audio recording of a consensual encounter

 

Impeach Trump

(93 posts)
4. A sad story indeed.
Sat Sep 16, 2017, 11:41 AM
Sep 2017

The parents should have been called in such a serious charge if indeed the school intended to call in the authorities.

ismnotwasm

(41,952 posts)
6. Interesting and sad
Sat Sep 16, 2017, 11:42 AM
Sep 2017

He made the video without his partners permission,which is fucked up. Absolutely the patents should have been involved here.

Volaris

(10,266 posts)
7. I don't think the school should have said a damn thing to him without his parents there...
Sat Sep 16, 2017, 11:47 AM
Sep 2017

De facto parents maybe (as the article states). De facto law enforcement or qualified legal consul? ABSOLUTELY FUCKING NOT. call mom and dad. Have them bring an atty. THEN have a conversation with the kids.

ismnotwasm

(41,952 posts)
10. He made it without his partners permission
Sat Sep 16, 2017, 11:59 AM
Sep 2017

They should have brought in the parents, as this can be criminal.

NutmegYankee

(16,197 posts)
8. The problem is we bring laws into matters that should not be under laws.
Sat Sep 16, 2017, 11:48 AM
Sep 2017

This kid was told he'd be ruined for life and scorned as the worst type of person on earth (sex offender) for a stupid childish act and he felt he had no choice but to kill himself.

This should have been left to the parents.

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