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bigtree

(85,977 posts)
Wed Sep 27, 2017, 09:50 AM Sep 2017

Barack Obama: Dropping Malia at college was "like open-heart surgery"

The Hill‏ @thehill 14m14 minutes ago
Obama: Dropping Malia at college was "like open-heart surgery" http://hill.cm/uaGLwzC


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Obama said at an event for the Beau Biden Foundation on Monday that when he brought Malia Obama to start her freshman year at Harvard University, he was proud of himself for not crying in front of her.

"For those of us who have daughters, it just happens fast. I dropped off Malia at college, and I was saying to Joe and Jill Biden that it was a little bit like open-heart surgery," Obama said, CNN reported Tuesday.

"I was proud that I did not cry in front of her. But on the way back, the Secret Service was off, looking straight ahead, pretending they weren't hearing me as I sniffled and blew my nose," he said. "It was rough."

Obama said that while dropping his eldest child off at college was difficult, he called the experience "a reminder that, at the end of our lives, whatever else we've accomplished, the things that we'll remember are the joys that our children — and hopefully way later, our grandchildren — bring us."


read: http://thehill.com/blogs/in-the-know/news/352527-obama-i-cried-after-dropping-malia-off-at-college
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Barack Obama: Dropping Malia at college was "like open-heart surgery" (Original Post) bigtree Sep 2017 OP
Shivers! Madam45for2923 Sep 2017 #1
Indeed! Pacifist Patriot Sep 2017 #3
At least you're anesthitized before surgery. SharonAnn Sep 2017 #18
K&R for sheer human decency meow2u3 Sep 2017 #2
Awww, mine started HS this year janterry Sep 2017 #4
God how I miss the Obamas and Bidens Botany Sep 2017 #5
I miss this beautiful family! Greybnk48 Sep 2017 #6
When I dropped my sons off at college I felt like my heart was ripped out of my chest. redwitch Sep 2017 #7
I'm with him I know the feeling blueinredohio Sep 2017 #8
Wow just wow Lotusflower70 Sep 2017 #9
Why does he say: "for those of us who have daughters..." ? oberliner Sep 2017 #10
lol bigtree Sep 2017 #11
I don't understand this response oberliner Sep 2017 #12
lolol bigtree Sep 2017 #14
LOL, part II. LanternWaste Sep 2017 #19
Been there. Cried that. lindysalsagal Sep 2017 #13
Same here. Duppers Sep 2017 #21
I'm tearing up just reading about it NastyRiffraff Sep 2017 #15
He's a great father. jalan48 Sep 2017 #16
Kleenex time hibbing Sep 2017 #17
Obama is a human with emotions, and a great father. Just a normal American family man. George II Sep 2017 #20
Yes it is. bpj62 Sep 2017 #22
God, how I miss them all Hekate Sep 2017 #23
It's hard when they grow up. raven mad Sep 2017 #24

Greybnk48

(10,162 posts)
6. I miss this beautiful family!
Wed Sep 27, 2017, 10:05 AM
Sep 2017

They brought such compassion and joy to this country, when it was permitted.

redwitch

(14,941 posts)
7. When I dropped my sons off at college I felt like my heart was ripped out of my chest.
Wed Sep 27, 2017, 10:05 AM
Sep 2017

It also occurred to me that I couldn't imagine dropping them off at boot camp for military service.
My pride in them and excitement for them about their new adventure was definitely took a back seat to the nearly overwhelming grief at what felt like a huge loss.

I love President Obama. He gets me.

Lotusflower70

(3,077 posts)
9. Wow just wow
Wed Sep 27, 2017, 10:12 AM
Sep 2017

That was beautiful and so relatable. I miss them so much. Congrats on raising such fine young women and best wishes for the whole family.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
10. Why does he say: "for those of us who have daughters..." ?
Wed Sep 27, 2017, 10:14 AM
Sep 2017

Why differentiate from people with sons?

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
12. I don't understand this response
Wed Sep 27, 2017, 12:00 PM
Sep 2017

Last edited Wed Sep 27, 2017, 03:32 PM - Edit history (1)

I'm wondering what was meant by how someone with daughters would react differently than someone with sons. It seems like he deliberately didn't say children, but, rather, daughters.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
19. LOL, part II.
Wed Sep 27, 2017, 12:38 PM
Sep 2017

LOL, part II.

Sometimes, ya just gotta wonder how difficult they work to take exception to one of the most benign statement ever uttered by a father...

Duppers

(28,117 posts)
21. Same here.
Wed Sep 27, 2017, 12:47 PM
Sep 2017

Dropped my one and only and cried like a baby.

I can definitely empathize with President Obama. I ❤ that man.

hibbing

(10,095 posts)
17. Kleenex time
Wed Sep 27, 2017, 12:29 PM
Sep 2017

Damn I miss him and his wonderful family. Always with grace, dignity, class and so much more.

Peace

George II

(67,782 posts)
20. Obama is a human with emotions, and a great father. Just a normal American family man.
Wed Sep 27, 2017, 12:39 PM
Sep 2017

He has more compassion in that waving hand than the guy who replaced him has in his entire body.

And look at the size of that hand!

bpj62

(999 posts)
22. Yes it is.
Wed Sep 27, 2017, 12:48 PM
Sep 2017

Dropped my daughter off at Ohio University in August. The amount of pride, joy and sadness that was running through me was very hard to control. He is a husband and a parent first. Damn I miss his leadership. Events like last Sunday wouldntbhave occurred the way they did under his watch. Puerto Rico wouldn't be suffering like it is either.

raven mad

(4,940 posts)
24. It's hard when they grow up.
Wed Sep 27, 2017, 04:44 PM
Sep 2017

It's great when you know you've helped raise beautiful brilliant kids.

And my kids are raising beautiful brilliant kids!

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