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madaboutharry

(40,199 posts)
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 03:42 PM Oct 2017

This is the real disgrace of Kelly's comments.

The family of Sgt. Johnson was offended and upset. Can no one just say the words I'm sorry? Why does everyone else have to be wrong with these people?

This was an unfortunate moment. Kelly comes out and attacks the congresswoman, gives cover to Trump by claiming he said some of the things repeated in the phone call and asserting that Trump tried to express sympathy "in his own way," and fails to acknowledge the pain of Sgt. Johnson's family and suggest that they should be grateful.

Bringing out Kelly was an attempt for The White House to shut down criticism.

However, much was achieved in this distasteful display. We now know that Gen. Kelly does not possess the moral compass many have projected onto him.




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This is the real disgrace of Kelly's comments. (Original Post) madaboutharry Oct 2017 OP
Yep, I thought Kelly was the sane one who'd keep Trump away from the nuclear keyboard. NBachers Oct 2017 #1
Just another product of the military academies. A brainwashed flag waving zero. olegramps Oct 2017 #21
As a product of one of those academies, cloudbase Oct 2017 #23
Broad brush indeed rainin Oct 2017 #38
As a state college ROTC product TomSlick Oct 2017 #40
I don't think it is worth it, even if true. Ilsa Oct 2017 #25
My SIL is a product of an academy jimmil Oct 2017 #62
Kelly's craven cruelty can only be matched by his loyalty to Trump dalton99a Oct 2017 #2
Apologize to the Johnson family - that is all they needed to do.... asiliveandbreathe Oct 2017 #3
Yes, if tRump were capable of saying, it, this would have ended the whole thing Maeve Oct 2017 #57
Drumpf's "own way" is to act like an imbecile. louis-t Oct 2017 #4
+1, that's the point !!! Red Don is an asshole !! He'll fuck up a wet dream, so of course even if it uponit7771 Oct 2017 #6
+1, Kelly did NOT help Red Don here! Kelly CONFIRMED the congress woman's words !!! uponit7771 Oct 2017 #5
And his comment about women and gold star families no longer being sacred ecstatic Oct 2017 #9
RIGHT !!! Instead of just say we're sorry about the loss and Red Don and Red Don tried his best or uponit7771 Oct 2017 #13
I got the impression that he was telling the press to butt out. FSogol Oct 2017 #16
The Congresswoman was.... SergeStorms Oct 2017 #27
The young, pregnant widow Scarsdale Oct 2017 #54
Narcissists and their enablers are never wrong. Somebody else is always to blame. Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2017 #7
LOL Don Dong Il FakeNoose Oct 2017 #31
Thanks! I just invented it while composing that post. Feel free to use and spread it. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2017 #44
Not only did they not apologize to wife back attacked a woman that is a lifetime friend to family. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #8
in the long tradition of empty barrels making the most noise, Kelly said. Justice Oct 2017 #10
"Why does everyone else have to be wrong with these people?" trotsky Oct 2017 #11
Maybe you can order a soldier to stand at attention but you cannot order PA Democrat Oct 2017 #12
"The Johnson family doesn't get to say what offends or upsets them." oasis Oct 2017 #14
"in his own way," keithbvadu2 Oct 2017 #15
Maybe matt819 Oct 2017 #17
Its all BS distraction Juliusseizure Oct 2017 #37
I was shocked by Kelly's remarks Sticky Oct 2017 #18
Read what he said sarge43 Oct 2017 #19
which makes him in my eyes at least as bad if not worse than Trump rurallib Oct 2017 #24
There's been a couple of good ones - Marshall, Eisenhower sarge43 Oct 2017 #29
Kelly allowed himself to be "brought out"..... dawnie51 Oct 2017 #20
He wasn't bought out, he soldout years ago. Just like the rest of the war mongers. olegramps Oct 2017 #22
Kelly has hated the press, i.e. democracy his entire life. His ONLY value was his ability Eliot Rosewater Oct 2017 #26
He couldn't do that even if he wanted to. DLevine Oct 2017 #30
Brilliantly said. LisaM Oct 2017 #28
Kelly has a big problem when he thinks a congresswoman lied, But NO problem with a 'president' liar. spanone Oct 2017 #32
and his bullshit about "sacred women" - he works for "grab 'em by the p****" flygal Oct 2017 #53
I give Kelly credit for one thing mainstreetonce Oct 2017 #33
And thats the perfect explanation. Trump just doesn't have the ability. 7962 Oct 2017 #55
He let Trump use his dead son like a puppet. PubliusEnigma Oct 2017 #34
This message was self-deleted by its author Corvo Bianco Oct 2017 #35
I had a bit of respect for General Kelly until this afternoon. But for selling out to trump.... George II Oct 2017 #36
Kelly is not the "adult" in charge. lark Oct 2017 #39
Boss Tweet will eventually rusty fender Oct 2017 #41
If one has a moral compass, then one would not have anything to do with the Rethug party. Nt LostOne4Ever Oct 2017 #42
Its a disgrace. tulipsandroses Oct 2017 #43
Kelly attacked Rep. Frederica Wilson Alpeduez21 Oct 2017 #45
Right, so that puts him in the same barrel FakeNoose Oct 2017 #48
So Kelly explains to tRump what he needs to say to the grieving families. Grammy23 Oct 2017 #46
Your first sentence says it. He just can't figure it out. 7962 Oct 2017 #56
K&R JHan Oct 2017 #47
K & R Lifelong Protester Oct 2017 #49
Trump's Statement Not Appropriate For The Occasion DallasNE Oct 2017 #50
Kelly sold out MFM008 Oct 2017 #51
Typical BOOT licker....... BlueJac Oct 2017 #52
Kelly's s 4-star toady, nothing more DeminPennswoods Oct 2017 #58
Fire all the humbled_opinion Oct 2017 #59
the very fact that kelly was working for the orange madman told me he had NO moral niyad Oct 2017 #60
A very sorry group of people Jakes Progress Oct 2017 #61
A video of Wilson's 2015 speech exposes the general to be a LIAR. nt oasis Oct 2017 #63

NBachers

(17,096 posts)
1. Yep, I thought Kelly was the sane one who'd keep Trump away from the nuclear keyboard.
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 03:44 PM
Oct 2017

Last edited Thu Oct 19, 2017, 07:03 PM - Edit history (1)

Now it looks like he's just more of the same.

olegramps

(8,200 posts)
21. Just another product of the military academies. A brainwashed flag waving zero.
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 04:53 PM
Oct 2017

Anyone who would serve in this cabinet is a worthless excuse for a human. Any surprise that this craven opportunist doesn't have a shed of decency? When you see this many professional military in positions of power you better start digging a fox hole.

cloudbase

(5,512 posts)
23. As a product of one of those academies,
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 04:58 PM
Oct 2017

I'd say you're painting with a rather broad brush there, gramps.

TomSlick

(11,096 posts)
40. As a state college ROTC product
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 08:05 PM
Oct 2017

I agree. In my experience, academy graduates were bright, solid officers. Let's avoid broad strokes.

Kelly is failing to live up to the basic requirements of personal honor required of all military officers no matter what the source of commission.

jimmil

(629 posts)
62. My SIL is a product of an academy
Fri Oct 20, 2017, 02:07 PM
Oct 2017

and is in Korea right now. When he was home last time I asked him what do his fellow officers think of Trump. He said they don't think anything about him. They just do their job. That is the exact answer I would have said about Nixon when I was in Vietnam. Soldiers don't think anything about politics. They don't swell up on a mission with patriotism. They don't think about a flag. They don't think about how great their country is. They think about their buddies all around them. They think about what waits for them just ahead. And when one of their own is killed, they think how much it hurts inside.

This red, white, and blue, flag waving, patriotism, USA USA USA, is complete BULLSHIT!!!!!!!

Maeve

(42,279 posts)
57. Yes, if tRump were capable of saying, it, this would have ended the whole thing
Fri Oct 20, 2017, 08:16 AM
Oct 2017

"I regret my attempt at offering condolences failed. It was not my intention to add to your pain and I am truly sorry for that."
But he cannot and will not admit wrongdoing.

louis-t

(23,284 posts)
4. Drumpf's "own way" is to act like an imbecile.
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 03:59 PM
Oct 2017

So, we're just supposed to accept it cuz that's how he is.

uponit7771

(90,323 posts)
6. +1, that's the point !!! Red Don is an asshole !! He'll fuck up a wet dream, so of course even if it
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 04:02 PM
Oct 2017

... was written down for him Trump would fuck it up!!!

ecstatic

(32,673 posts)
9. And his comment about women and gold star families no longer being sacred
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 04:05 PM
Oct 2017

Was definitely a dig on Trump. But still, he did attack the congresswoman (who is a family friend!).

uponit7771

(90,323 posts)
13. RIGHT !!! Instead of just say we're sorry about the loss and Red Don and Red Don tried his best or
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 04:17 PM
Oct 2017

... some shit he goes after the family mother (the congress woman) !!!

Red Don is a disgusting bastard

FSogol

(45,464 posts)
16. I got the impression that he was telling the press to butt out.
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 04:29 PM
Oct 2017

The grieving family should be able to include anyone they want on the call. Trumpy and his head Enabler, Kelly, once again proved how small they really are.

SergeStorms

(19,190 posts)
27. The Congresswoman was....
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 05:06 PM
Oct 2017

"listening in on a very private conversation". It isn't like she tapped her damned phone or anything. The call was on speakerphone! Was she supposed to step out of a moving car to avoid hearing the conversation?

Kelly just spent every bit of credibility he ever earned when he defended Trump and his ham-handed attempt to "console" a grieving widow. Fuck Kelly, and fuck Donald J. Trump.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
54. The young, pregnant widow
Fri Oct 20, 2017, 06:44 AM
Oct 2017

probably would not even remember what was said, unless people around her listened in to the call. She is left with two little kids and another on the way. Her thoughts right now are not on taking calls from an orange jackass who thinks he is "important" If tRump has not learned any manners at his late stage of life, there is no hope he ever will. I HAD some respect for Kelly before, but now I think he is just another clown in this joke of an administration.

Bernardo de La Paz

(48,984 posts)
7. Narcissists and their enablers are never wrong. Somebody else is always to blame.
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 04:04 PM
Oct 2017

Dear Leader Don Dong Ill is faultless.

Justice

(7,185 posts)
10. in the long tradition of empty barrels making the most noise, Kelly said.
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 04:12 PM
Oct 2017

Googled it: here is what I found "stupid people with ‘empty heads’ make a lot of noise and bluster putting forward their opinions and wrong knowledge, but knowledgeable people are quietly scholarly."

Wholly crap. What a horrible thing to say.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
11. "Why does everyone else have to be wrong with these people?"
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 04:14 PM
Oct 2017

Because the rabid right-wing base they built up depends on them believing everything Trump says is TRUE.

If they come out and admit they lied - even once - the tapestry will unravel.

PA Democrat

(13,225 posts)
12. Maybe you can order a soldier to stand at attention but you cannot order
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 04:15 PM
Oct 2017

a grieving family not to feel as they do. You are 100% correct in stating that any decent human being would have apologized and said that they in no way wanted to add to the pain of a grieving family.

Shame on Kelly for enabling Trump's never-ending and addictive need to have his pathetic ego stroked.

oasis

(49,365 posts)
14. "The Johnson family doesn't get to say what offends or upsets them."
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 04:19 PM
Oct 2017

That's the real message from the White House.

matt819

(10,749 posts)
17. Maybe
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 04:30 PM
Oct 2017

it has something to do with the fact that their names are La David and Myeshia?

We may never know, but it would be interesting to learn what he wrote or said to the spouses of the other soldiers killed in this ambush.

And, as Maddow has said, and McCain repeated today, we need to know what happened. Yeah, I know. War. Shit happens. But this seems like a pretty bad intel failure - from no resistance to an ambush by more than 40 opposing forces. And why was Sgt Johnson left behind? I thought that was one of those indisputable Ranger/Marine/Special Forces precepts. Leave no man behind.

Lots of WTF about all of this, including the 12 days of silence, the failure to send out a statement that was drafted right after the incident, and so much more.

Juliusseizure

(562 posts)
37. Its all BS distraction
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 06:13 PM
Oct 2017

Maddow was on point and the mass media - focused on shallow tabloid stories for the masses, just inflates the distraction - giving Trump control over the conversation.

He always includes racist red meat too during these distractions.

It works. Mass distraction is one thing Trump is good at.

Meanwhile, the events in Niger are virtually ignored.

Sticky

(1,406 posts)
18. I was shocked by Kelly's remarks
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 04:31 PM
Oct 2017

I lost my only son when he was 7 years old. I would NEVER exploit his death the way Kelly just did. I literally felt creeping nausea while he was speaking, knowing his loyalty to Trump was greater than the loyalty to his son's memory.

rurallib

(62,401 posts)
24. which makes him in my eyes at least as bad if not worse than Trump
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 05:01 PM
Oct 2017

what a scum.

Generals inside the White House scare me and now this one REALLY scares me.

sarge43

(28,941 posts)
29. There's been a couple of good ones - Marshall, Eisenhower
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 05:09 PM
Oct 2017

However, this one just came out as another self servicing careerist and poser, just the rest of the ferrets.

(My apologies to ferrets)

dawnie51

(959 posts)
20. Kelly allowed himself to be "brought out".....
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 04:52 PM
Oct 2017

and he is deplorable as well. He holds a lot of Dumps own thoughts on immigration, etc., and he is WILLING to be used in this manner. It is so true; EVERYONE who comes into contact with Dump in any manner comes away diminished and damaged A lot of people thought Kelly was the antidote; he is not. He is part of the sickness.

Eliot Rosewater

(31,109 posts)
26. Kelly has hated the press, i.e. democracy his entire life. His ONLY value was his ability
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 05:06 PM
Oct 2017

to physically tackle dumbshit if dumbshit tries to nuke someone.

DLevine

(1,788 posts)
30. He couldn't do that even if he wanted to.
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 05:10 PM
Oct 2017

Secret Service isn't going to stand by and let him, or anyone, tackle a president. If the asshole decides to launch nukes, we are truly fucked.

spanone

(135,802 posts)
32. Kelly has a big problem when he thinks a congresswoman lied, But NO problem with a 'president' liar.
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 05:14 PM
Oct 2017

he's a company man.

mainstreetonce

(4,178 posts)
33. I give Kelly credit for one thing
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 05:19 PM
Oct 2017

He did not say Trump did not say the accused words. He proved that Trump lied.

I can understand that the general could have said similar words in a way that wouldn't hurt.

Trump should never have attempted to say such a thing.He does not understand sacrifice.

General Kelly should have apologized to the widow.

His attacks on the congresswoman were uncalled for and his request for only reporters who know Gold Star families was a disgrace.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
55. And thats the perfect explanation. Trump just doesn't have the ability.
Fri Oct 20, 2017, 08:11 AM
Oct 2017

Saying something like "He knew what he signed up for. Yet he still did it even though he knew he could be killed doing it". Its really not that hard. But trump just can't put sentences together properly. He's just a dolt.

Response to madaboutharry (Original post)

George II

(67,782 posts)
36. I had a bit of respect for General Kelly until this afternoon. But for selling out to trump....
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 05:53 PM
Oct 2017

....with today's appearance, he's no better than any of them.

lark

(23,078 posts)
39. Kelly is not the "adult" in charge.
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 06:38 PM
Oct 2017

He's a liar, asshole, and enabler of a criminal traitorous fraud, and that's just what I know at this minute - he's probably a hell of a lot worse.

tulipsandroses

(5,122 posts)
43. Its a disgrace.
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 09:13 PM
Oct 2017

No one that just lost a loved one, wants to hear that this is what they signed up for. His job in that moment was Consoler in Chief. He failed, just as he's failed at every aspect of being president. I wonder if he has ever said I'm Sorry to Melania? I guess anything that they bicker about as husband and wife is always her fault.

Alpeduez21

(1,751 posts)
45. Kelly attacked Rep. Frederica Wilson
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 09:42 PM
Oct 2017

for listening to the call. He did the same thing on Trump's end of the call.

FakeNoose

(32,610 posts)
48. Right, so that puts him in the same barrel
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 11:44 PM
Oct 2017

... with the Deflector in Chief!

I've lost all respect for that man, however I'm sorry that his son died in battle. It's a heavy cross to bear for any parent.

Grammy23

(5,810 posts)
46. So Kelly explains to tRump what he needs to say to the grieving families.
Thu Oct 19, 2017, 11:06 PM
Oct 2017

But in a thousand years tRump couldn’t learn HOW to day it. That was the difference. The words, delivered properly would have been ok. Delivered with indifference and lacking compassion, they would come across exactly that way. tRump being the asshole he is, could never apologize. He could not bring himself to make a second call to try to do a better job.

But he COULD send Kelly out to make everything all right again. And Kelly sold out his integrity and went out to do his master’s bidding. He never disputed a single word that Congresswoman Wilson said happened on that call. So now he proposes to know how that family interpreted the call from tRump. Just ridiculous. The whole thing.

It really was a sad display. A man who knows personally what it is like to lose a child to war used that death in a most unfortunate way. I honestly don’t know how he brought himself to do it.

We have gotten lower and lower in this country. And tRump is taking us down further every day with another incident. How much longer will Congress allow this travesty to continue?
 

7962

(11,841 posts)
56. Your first sentence says it. He just can't figure it out.
Fri Oct 20, 2017, 08:12 AM
Oct 2017

"Delivered properly, the words would have been ok". Exactly

DallasNE

(7,402 posts)
50. Trump's Statement Not Appropriate For The Occasion
Fri Oct 20, 2017, 01:48 AM
Oct 2017

Just because a statement is basically true (he knew what he signed up for) doesn't mean it is appropriate for the occasion. And that is the whole point. The rest is all smokescreen.

Kelly just keeps hurting his reputation when he plays partisan hack like this. Plus he is not being very good at his primary function - the gatekeeper to the President. (I know, that is a tough job).

DeminPennswoods

(15,273 posts)
58. Kelly's s 4-star toady, nothing more
Fri Oct 20, 2017, 10:05 AM
Oct 2017

We should all remember how, when he was DHS secretary, he willingly and effectively enforced Trump's plan to deport every possible undocumented immigrant. He didn't care if his agents tore families apart, deported contributing members of American cites and towns, didn't care if deportees faced real personal danger if sent back to their native country, didn't care if they were protected "dreamers", he just unleashed the hounds of ICE. He's shown absolutely no regret or demonstrated a shred of remorse for these actions.

He is the complete antithesis of all the Marines I've ever known and, tbh, should be an embarassment to the Corps.

niyad

(113,205 posts)
60. the very fact that kelly was working for the orange madman told me he had NO moral
Fri Oct 20, 2017, 01:01 PM
Oct 2017

compass to begin with. and, I remember his comments about women when he was commandant of marines.

note to worthless kelly: some of us have reallllllllly long memories.

Jakes Progress

(11,122 posts)
61. A very sorry group of people
Fri Oct 20, 2017, 01:42 PM
Oct 2017

who can't say the word "sorry".

No one in public office ever had more to apologize for. And they don't know how.

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