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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsIf you know an unstable gun fetishist -- family, friend, or acquaintance -- disarm them.
If the law doesn't agree, get creative.
The life you save may be your own.
It's become socially acceptable to take the car keys away from someone who is drunk.
The same ought to be true of someone who can't be trusted with firearms.
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)When my late Father-in-law was developing dementia, I had to take his guns away when he starting thinking people were coming to get him and tried to get to his guns one evening.
Of course, there are some youngsters that haven't grown up who need to have theirs taken as well. Kelley, Zimmerman and Roof are good examples.
NutmegYankee
(16,199 posts)I didn't take the gun, but while the husband was out I took out the firing pin and gave it to my friend for safe keeping and reassembled the gun. I don't think he's ever realized it's missing. But she feels a lot safer.
gratuitous
(82,849 posts)If dear husband has a sudden need for his gun - an intruder, say - having a useless weapon might be a very unpleasant surprise. Especially after he yells, "One more step and I'll blow your head off!"
Hekate
(90,644 posts)Conclusively.
Or, you know, blow away a small church connected with his ex-wife.
treestar
(82,383 posts)That makes the odds even greater.
NutmegYankee
(16,199 posts)And this is rural Connecticut - unless you deal in drugs, nobody is breaking in while you are home. I don't even have to lock my doors at night.
Hekate
(90,644 posts)gratuitous
(82,849 posts)By contrast, I live in an urban area with two drug houses on my street (that I know of, and probably more on adjacent streets). I don't have a firearm, but I know that several of my neighbors do. I'm not really happy about a couple of them being armed, but the possibility of a confused or hostile intruder is quite real where I live. I wouldn't disarm my neighbor in this fashion for the reason stated.
Yeah, I know the statistics, folks, but deceiving a person in this manner is likewise a recipe for a wrongful death, even if it's only the life of some woman's unstable husband.
Kaleva
(36,294 posts)And if the guy never practices with the gun, where he'd find out that it didn't work, he shouldn't have one in the first place.
hunter
(38,310 posts)Most especially random "intruders."
I've lived a long life having unexpected encounters with strangers in my house, most of them turning out to be friends, or family, or friends of family, and the remaining strangers mostly harmless.
dude, that's my beer!
I suspect Spot eats the truly bad intruders, but that's not my problem. Dragons will do what dragons do.
I had one in my family. Someone stole his guns. I trust the thieves with the guns more than him.
TexasBushwhacker
(20,174 posts)He was bipolar, off his meds and having paranoid delusions. Removed all his weapons while he was in the hospital. Some were given to his sister because they had been passed down from my grandfather. He asked for them back when he got out and she gave them to him.
But a couple of months later he was standing in the middle of the street with a weapon, saying he was "protecting the neighborhood". The police picked him up, took him to the hospital, took away his weapons and didn't give them back. It's a wonder they didn't just shoot him, but he's white.
hunter
(38,310 posts)My grandma later had to be removed from the home she owned because she was a danger to herself and others, with or without guns.
Grandma had a certain flair with knives too, as did her mom...
Strapped to a gurney my grandma was still cussing up a storm and trying to bite the paramedics as they stuffed her into the ambulance.
If my grandma hadn't been a little old white lady I'm not sure the police would have held back. It would've been a lot easier just to shoot her.