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NanceGreggs

(27,813 posts)
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:27 PM Nov 2017

Fuck. This. Shit.

I am about to become very unpopular – but I don't give a fuck, so here goes.

I don’t believe the photo of Al Franken and Leanne Tweedon is an example of sexual harassment, misogyny, or any of the other things it has been described as. As the photo makes abundantly clear, Franken was not touching Ms. Tweedon’s breasts – he was clearly “hamming it up” for the camera, and NOT engaging in sexual misconduct by any stretch of the imagination.

Many have said that even joking about such things is, in and of itself, demonstrative of some underlying disrespect towards women. I call bullshit on that, and strenuously so.

To say that what is inappropriate now was always inappropriate is to ignore the fact that attitudes change, and what was accepted as humour back in the day, or in a certain context, may not be acceptable when judged by current-day standards. Thankfully, such standards change as we evolve as a nation and as a people – and what was laugh-inducing once upon a time is no longer a laughing matter when viewed through a 2017 lens.

How many of us laughed – and still laugh – at shows like I Love Lucy and The Honeymooners, which depicted women as easily-befuddled females whose only true passion was buying a new hat? We accept that punchlines that were funny in the ‘fifties are not relevant in 2017, and surely we have the intellect to realize that that was then, and this is now. We understand that context matters, and that Lucy Ricardo and Alice Cramden, while representative of the stereotypes of their era, are not representative of women in today’s world.

In judging what was acceptable in the past and what is acceptable now, it is disingenuous to apply the same litmus test across the board – as though times never change, as though the times in which we once lived have not been relegated to the dustbin of history, as though we have not outgrown depicting women as scatter-brained, hat-buying females who do housework while wearing pristine shirt-waist dresses accessorized with a string of pearls.

The fact that Ms. Tweedon suddenly remembered how horrifying an experience working with Al Franken was – the fact that the already-disgraced Roger Stone tweeted that it was “Franken’s turn in the barrel” BEFORE Ms. Tweedon came forward with her accusations, the fact that whataboutism is the ONLY defence Republicans can come up with to dispute Roy Moore’s pedophilia is as obvious as it is despicable.

I’ve read here on DU and elsewhere, time and again, that we should judge people by their actions. Senator Franken’s actions in terms of women’s rights speak for themselves.

I am appalled by how easily some people have been led to believe that Senator Franken is a sexual predator based on the word of a Trump-supporting Republican who has conveniently accused him of sexual misconduct at exactly the same time a GOP pedophile has been accused of molesting teen-aged girls. I am especially appalled by those who are equating an obviously “for yuks in front of the camera” photo as evidence of “both sides do it, so let’s just call it a wash”.

EVERY Democrat who is buying into that false equivalence is being played by the Republicans – and they really should know better.

In the meantime, the Republicans are laughing their asses off at Democrats who think (wrongfully so) that if we “sacrifice” one of our own on the altar of tit-for-tat, we come across as “fair and balanced”.

I stand with Senator Franken on the basis of what he has done, and continues to do, to further the rights of American women, and his willingness to stand with us when it counts.

I am not interested in what Al Franken said or did as a comedian – I am interested in what he says and does as a SENATOR. It is unfortunate that some people can’t distinguish one role from the other. It is equally unfortunate that some people are so anxious to believe that if we just throw one of our own on the funeral pyre, we have somehow appeased the what-about-him media gods who have decided that a human sacrifice on our part somehow evens the score – as though “evening the score” is what is important here.

If you’re buying into the current “both sides do it” bullshit being proffered by the right-wing, you are being manipulated by the very people who know how easily-manipulated you are.

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Fuck. This. Shit. (Original Post) NanceGreggs Nov 2017 OP
Proud to be your first rec Nance. n/t rzemanfl Nov 2017 #1
Proud to be the 15th Lochloosa Nov 2017 #10
Proud to be the 100th rec. yardwork Nov 2017 #71
250 nt greyl Nov 2017 #158
Rec 284 Hekate Nov 2017 #172
346th rec! Sugar Smack Nov 2017 #193
Rec # 385 Madam45for2923 Nov 2017 #216
metoo lagomorph777 Nov 2017 #221
me too onit2day Nov 2017 #263
400 recs! yallerdawg Nov 2017 #226
Proud not to rec SCantiGOP Nov 2017 #259
He did not "apologize without reservation." rzemanfl Nov 2017 #265
Oh, youre right SCantiGOP Nov 2017 #275
He apologized for the sight gag. But have it your way. This place is like Burger King. n/t rzemanfl Nov 2017 #276
I'm split on the apology... but, it was a good first step. InAbLuEsTaTe Nov 2017 #303
Burger King will reward you with coupons. Keep checking your newspaper. n/t rzemanfl Nov 2017 #305
hahahaha... good one! InAbLuEsTaTe Nov 2017 #306
I'm 464!! uponit7771 Nov 2017 #266
530 List left Nov 2017 #311
Kick dalton99a Nov 2017 #2
Well said. woolldog Nov 2017 #3
K&R... spanone Nov 2017 #4
Maybe he was lampooning the likes of Trump, Moore, etc. Blue Owl Nov 2017 #5
DAMN RIGHT......and thank you. a kennedy Nov 2017 #6
Totally agree Pepsidog Nov 2017 #7
Well said... imax2268 Nov 2017 #8
Fucking Beautiful ChubbyStar Nov 2017 #9
I've stayed mostly away from this subject. joshcryer Nov 2017 #11
totally agree. Wellstone ruled Nov 2017 #12
K&R, especially since Roger Stone tweeted about what was to come last night. brush Nov 2017 #13
Yep. dalton99a Nov 2017 #18
Also, the statement from the person who took the picture Maggiemayhem Nov 2017 #191
I agree. n/t Horse with no Name Nov 2017 #14
Agreed RhodeIslandOne Nov 2017 #15
That, and the fact we have only her word about the "kissing rehearsal." maddiemom Nov 2017 #203
Your popular with me! MFM008 Nov 2017 #16
Well if thats fallout87 Nov 2017 #17
What s the statue of limitations Corgigal Nov 2017 #24
It was in Gawd's sky. No statute of limitations on the wrath of gawd. rzemanfl Nov 2017 #37
Da. You betcha. Bigly. n/t rzemanfl Nov 2017 #27
Out In Droves I See.... Grassy Knoll Nov 2017 #30
It would be mean of me to mention post counts. I'm mean. n/t rzemanfl Nov 2017 #33
Nah....keep on pointing out the trolls Docreed2003 Nov 2017 #156
***** is one of them. rzemanfl Nov 2017 #217
WE are fine ChubbyStar Nov 2017 #34
Baloney. Gidney N Cloyd Nov 2017 #39
Really? liberal_patriot_md Nov 2017 #44
Seriously? Bayard Nov 2017 #65
agree completely Larrybanal Nov 2017 #213
Post removed Post removed Nov 2017 #89
LOL Skittles Nov 2017 #142
NO. We fight back, goddamnit. HARD. VOX Nov 2017 #147
Oh noes! You need to try be less obvious. Glimmer of Hope Nov 2017 #154
Trump should resign first. BlueMTexpat Nov 2017 #171
Did you call this sexual assault? GaryCnf Nov 2017 #182
Zero tolerance positions indicate a decided lack in critical thinking skills and judgment. Pacifist Patriot Nov 2017 #185
You've missed the entire point of Nance's rant PJMcK Nov 2017 #195
Then how is The Orange Pussy Grabber treestar Nov 2017 #204
Troll much? paleotn Nov 2017 #218
Are you equating what happened with Franken with rape? ehrnst Nov 2017 #225
Bolshoi or Kirov? grossproffit Nov 2017 #241
That's absurd Lil Missy Nov 2017 #244
Well said. Snackshack Nov 2017 #19
Tweedon appeared to be at a different Corgigal Nov 2017 #20
I think we're getting ahead of ourselves. Turbineguy Nov 2017 #21
Thank you. Ilsa Nov 2017 #22
Franken denied the forced kiss Nevernose Nov 2017 #53
Thank you for that. I have intentionally Ilsa Nov 2017 #76
you can't get away from it LittleGirl Nov 2017 #83
Wolf Blitzer edited her statement, too Nevernose Nov 2017 #96
he wants an investigation, she does not Skittles Nov 2017 #143
Where are the witnesses? Bayard Nov 2017 #243
me too bdamomma Nov 2017 #113
Tweeden must be HORRIFIED at the past documented behavior of Trump and Roy Moore! VOX Nov 2017 #23
All excellent points. misanthrope Nov 2017 #102
Yes, I checked her Twitter, and she posted a lot about how sickening Roy Moore and Trump are. L. Coyote Nov 2017 #122
WHOOOOOOOSSSHHHH! VOX Nov 2017 #146
K&R Bettie Nov 2017 #25
Thank you. 3catwoman3 Nov 2017 #26
K and r. cwydro Nov 2017 #28
Is there ever! orangecrush Nov 2017 #200
Do one thing SCantiGOP Nov 2017 #29
So true! I agree 100%. n/t USALiberal Nov 2017 #36
If Cruz had done it when he was a comedian, yes. nolabear Nov 2017 #59
We're talking about a failed joke in bad taste. Pope George Ringo II Nov 2017 #279
Aint it the truth. nolabear Nov 2017 #287
lol sure if the accuser was a regular on Maddow who pushed the Cruz's father shot Kennedy theory grantcart Nov 2017 #74
Except Franken isn't family values, religious liberty (for Christians only) TexasBushwhacker Nov 2017 #77
Ahem---Testing, one, two-----BULL.SHIT!!! nt Atticus Nov 2017 #104
I'll admit my bias in one important area misanthrope Nov 2017 #109
If I change it to Stewart or Colbert Control-Z Nov 2017 #117
Disagree about the "what if it were Cruz?" RVN VET71 Nov 2017 #137
Thank you! I go through this mental exercise deliberately. Pacifist Patriot Nov 2017 #188
Well-written, Patriot! PJMcK Nov 2017 #197
Thank you. Gravitycollapse Nov 2017 #162
none of us believed Cruz's father killed JFK JI7 Nov 2017 #179
Or that Cruz is Bettie Nov 2017 #214
Bullshit. People are a sum of their parts. Franken has been a huge ally to women. PeaceNikki Nov 2017 #196
Bull. Ted Cruz could not be a comedian. treestar Nov 2017 #212
So... whataboutism? moda253 Nov 2017 #235
Thanks, Nance ailsagirl Nov 2017 #31
If any GOP senator did that we would not defend it. nt USALiberal Nov 2017 #32
If a GOP Senator was working as a comedian OhioBlue Nov 2017 #126
So you really think a woman sleeping close to a comedian should be prepared for that to happen? n/t USALiberal Nov 2017 #247
Defend what? A rehearsed kiss she agreed to and didn't like? notdarkyet Nov 2017 #133
Are you saying the photo was a fake. Or just think it was OK to do that? n/t USALiberal Nov 2017 #245
bullshit Skittles Nov 2017 #144
Bullshit that we would not rip a GOPer who did this to a sleeping woman? LOL, ok. USALiberal Nov 2017 #246
we would be smart enough to see it is a gag photo Skittles Nov 2017 #270
Thank you CatMor Nov 2017 #35
Seeing that Roger Stone was threatening Franken, Dawson Leery Nov 2017 #38
Great to be 60... defacto7 Nov 2017 #40
2006 is not 'back in the day' melman Nov 2017 #41
Gee I am sure Nance really appreciates your concern ChubbyStar Nov 2017 #52
Well it depends where you are now. xxqqqzme Nov 2017 #130
Its how time speeds up as you age... VOX Nov 2017 #148
Yes and no. Pacifist Patriot Nov 2017 #189
For example. Nickleback was a thing once in the not too distant past moda253 Nov 2017 #236
Exactly! Pacifist Patriot Nov 2017 #239
Why do people hate Nickelback? uponit7771 Nov 2017 #267
You articulated what I didn't. Great post! Chasstev365 Nov 2017 #42
Thanks you. I've been struggling with this all day and you helped me be ok with being clear. n/t CincyDem Nov 2017 #43
Well said, Nance. Gidney N Cloyd Nov 2017 #45
According to the Photographer videohead5 Nov 2017 #46
That was a tweet by someone that said the photog said that AncientGeezer Nov 2017 #58
Wish the photographer would come forward and confirm that... InAbLuEsTaTe Nov 2017 #280
Agree. cwydro Nov 2017 #47
Well said! burrowowl Nov 2017 #48
K & R... revmclaren Nov 2017 #49
K&R bdamomma Nov 2017 #50
RECOfuckingmended BannonsLiver Nov 2017 #51
Kick & rec. TOTAL political hit, stinks of Stone, Bannon, & Hannity. VOX Nov 2017 #54
what ever you choose to call it elmac Nov 2017 #55
Kick And Rec Grassy Knoll Nov 2017 #56
So obvious to anyone with a brain cell left flamingdem Nov 2017 #57
I would give it a few days and see if this story madville Nov 2017 #60
K & R & R & R Duppers Nov 2017 #61
I agree with every word. And I am mad that Franken even asked for this to be investigated. SweetieD Nov 2017 #62
THIS. SO THIS. SunSeeker Nov 2017 #69
I think he's trying to set the tone that all accusations should be investigated nini Nov 2017 #116
I think that, too obamanut2012 Nov 2017 #183
Don't be mad.... paleotn Nov 2017 #219
Yes, the right is trying to use this for the sake of conflation. uponit7771 Nov 2017 #268
I totally agree great post nt doc03 Nov 2017 #63
Oh MAN, Nance, I'm so glad to read this. calimary Nov 2017 #64
K&R musette_sf Nov 2017 #66
K & R SunSeeker Nov 2017 #67
Good for you. "Fuck this shit" nails it. Thanks. ancianita Nov 2017 #68
Tweedon is a self promoting birther, supporter to Hannity grantcart Nov 2017 #70
If they go back over his career as a writer and actor, BigmanPigman Nov 2017 #72
I appreciate this so much. LittleGirl Nov 2017 #73
I disagree with this assertion, as to jokes about sexual abuse, Ms. Toad Nov 2017 #75
Thank you. n/t ariadne0614 Nov 2017 #180
Thank you, thank you Rustynaerduwell Nov 2017 #78
I agree. C_U_L8R Nov 2017 #79
Thank You Nance. SJMULE Nov 2017 #80
Good summary, Nance. FuzzyRabbit Nov 2017 #81
Well this is how politics works right? Eventually even the worst behaviors have to be justified. MadDAsHell Nov 2017 #82
Eddie Murphy's raw was one of the most popular stand up shows of all time Egnever Nov 2017 #84
You are popular to me superpatriotman Nov 2017 #85
I'm with you, Nance... this is a huge nothing burger... secondwind Nov 2017 #86
Thank you! OceanChick Nov 2017 #87
The ape speaks Bayard Nov 2017 #88
I agree. PeaceNikki Nov 2017 #90
Thank you for the legislative record PeaceNikki. Impressive. Jim Beard Nov 2017 #201
Thank you so much for that, for me you're not "unpopular" but more revered than before I read this.. George II Nov 2017 #91
YES!!!!! n/t rainin Nov 2017 #92
franken "scandal" is..... technotwit Nov 2017 #93
best post on this today..... dhill926 Nov 2017 #94
Sure, but the pic still shows sexual exploitation in the form of comedy.. still a bit offensive vkkv Nov 2017 #95
We should dig up Benny Hill and forgotmylogin Nov 2017 #209
Post removed Post removed Nov 2017 #232
playboy bunnies on USO tours paid or not? Do they expect to be admired for their minds on tour? Sunlei Nov 2017 #240
Wow, just wow.. you would make a great SEXIST! oh wait... vkkv Nov 2017 #261
difference between what? an on stage comedy show for adult military people & Moore- pedophile or Sunlei Nov 2017 #271
You don't get it. vkkv Nov 2017 #283
Everything's going to be ok. Sunlei Nov 2017 #286
It's very strange and really weird that you'd spend so much energy on this.. vkkv Nov 2017 #288
Let's get weird, cause we're all weird people and we Love it. Sunlei Nov 2017 #290
I guess... vkkv Nov 2017 #293
I Guess That's Why They Call It The Blues Sunlei Nov 2017 #297
And I'd bet money that you'd be the disappointed one that the former bunny didn't vkkv Nov 2017 #262
Fool? forgotmylogin Nov 2017 #249
WTF? What "you said" was intended as an attack on what you thought was my stupidity. vkkv Nov 2017 #260
And plonk. forgotmylogin Nov 2017 #300
Agreed -well said c-rational Nov 2017 #97
by the way elmac Nov 2017 #98
Thank you, Nance. Polly Hennessey Nov 2017 #99
Concur absolutely. madamesilverspurs Nov 2017 #100
Agree with you 100% rock Nov 2017 #101
As always, you put things in the perfect perspective Glorfindel Nov 2017 #103
Yep ornotna Nov 2017 #105
You said exactly what I have been thinking. idahoblue Nov 2017 #106
knr triron Nov 2017 #107
You're not unpopular with me, and 2 of the many reasons are because of these 2 statements below .... LenaBaby61 Nov 2017 #108
I'm with you Nance njhoneybadger Nov 2017 #110
I think Al should offer to resign: "You want me to resign? I'll resign when Donald Trump resigns." NBachers Nov 2017 #111
K& R Thank you for your honesty and your intelligence, Nancy. fierywoman Nov 2017 #112
WAS THERE A PENIS? overkill. benny hillism past its due date. pansypoo53219 Nov 2017 #114
Thank you, this is exactly what I think. betsuni Nov 2017 #115
THANK YOU, NANCE! Silver Gaia Nov 2017 #118
Yep. I agree with you. Lifelong Protester Nov 2017 #134
I agree kimbutgar Nov 2017 #119
That what Sen Franken has done can be compared to Roy Moore's degeneracy is monstrous. marble falls Nov 2017 #120
What is really scandalous here is the wingnuts pull this shit off to lay cover for Pussy Grabber L. Coyote Nov 2017 #121
Agreed, but I will take it a step further. Doremus Nov 2017 #123
This is a blatant and quite frankly pathetic attempt to play "both sides do it!". Initech Nov 2017 #124
Amen unhip white guy Nov 2017 #125
Agree 100% n/t Greybnk48 Nov 2017 #127
KnR SammyWinstonJack Nov 2017 #128
Thanks, Nance lordsummerisle Nov 2017 #129
I completely agree! This feels like Acorn all over again. OhioBlue Nov 2017 #131
Regarding the Honeymooners... (Yeah, I know it's not your main point.) clementine613 Nov 2017 #132
K&R R#200!! IADEMO2004 Nov 2017 #135
Well stated! LAS14 Nov 2017 #136
I fucking love you eissa Nov 2017 #138
RELEASE THE PEE TAPES Blue Owl Nov 2017 #139
Roger Stone has been The Wizard Nov 2017 #140
The equivalency is in the responses BainsBane Nov 2017 #141
I have to agree. Straw Man Nov 2017 #175
well stated Phentex Nov 2017 #223
Thank you, Bainsbain. Once again, you are absolutely correct. Oneironaut Nov 2017 #227
I think its possible to see issues with one persons accusation stevenleser Nov 2017 #312
Absolutely Spot On! DoctorJoJo Nov 2017 #145
I read he was using her phone to take the picture Angry Dragon Nov 2017 #149
Thanks. hay rick Nov 2017 #150
K & R. nt Heartstrings Nov 2017 #151
FTS K&R Maeve Nov 2017 #152
Agree 100 percent! karin_sj Nov 2017 #153
welcome to DU gopiscrap Nov 2017 #237
Thanks! karin_sj Nov 2017 #264
Welcome back! k8conant Nov 2017 #282
Thank you, Nance NastyRiffraff Nov 2017 #155
You will never be unpopular with me Cary Nov 2017 #157
K&R R B Garr Nov 2017 #159
Please ask yourself: garybeck Nov 2017 #160
Yep.. Truth is truth busterbrown Nov 2017 #164
Republicans sure seem to do it treestar Nov 2017 #211
FAIL. nt TheFrenchRazor Nov 2017 #161
Great post! BannonsLiver Nov 2017 #163
Are you kidding me? Of COURSE a joke picture (admittedly, in EXTREMELY poor taste) is EXACTLY Grown2Hate Nov 2017 #165
We don't have to sacrifice anyone to deal with this. moriah Nov 2017 #166
Another thing that was completely overlooked; they were putting on a show procon Nov 2017 #167
You said it all in your post. Excellent. Jim Beard Nov 2017 #207
Excellent point dalton99a Nov 2017 #229
Absolutely agree with your position. democratisphere Nov 2017 #168
THIS!!! BlueMTexpat Nov 2017 #169
Very well said LiberalLovinLug Nov 2017 #170
Right on! lillypaddle Nov 2017 #173
Thank YOU! smirkymonkey Nov 2017 #174
Agree totally. Cattledog Nov 2017 #176
The media really needs to do some digging octoberlib Nov 2017 #177
You nailed it again NanceGreggs bearssoapbox Nov 2017 #178
I Totally Agree ggmac0427 Nov 2017 #181
Fuck this shit Nuffer Nov 2017 #184
Al Franken and Dems IMHO handled this the way it should be! kydo Nov 2017 #186
Fuckin' A! This Franken NONSENSE is meant to be a distraction and diversion... Raster Nov 2017 #187
+1 dalton99a Nov 2017 #255
I will recommend this post agree. Demsrule86 Nov 2017 #190
K&R! gademocrat7 Nov 2017 #192
Thank you! IUPACify Nov 2017 #194
Kick and Rec orangecrush Nov 2017 #198
I agree with your analysis Gothmog Nov 2017 #199
YES! Thank you, Nance. maddiemom Nov 2017 #202
Hear, hear! aka-chmeee Nov 2017 #205
your sig is awesome MFM008 Nov 2017 #251
Thanks...My first effort at creating a .gif nt aka-chmeee Nov 2017 #298
Another K&R lark Nov 2017 #206
Word. forgotmylogin Nov 2017 #208
You speak for me bagimin Nov 2017 #210
Nancegreggs marieo1 Nov 2017 #215
That's damn right! paleotn Nov 2017 #220
K & R...nt Wounded Bear Nov 2017 #222
Kicked & Recd. ehrnst Nov 2017 #224
You failed to mention snowybirdie Nov 2017 #228
Fuckin-A! moda253 Nov 2017 #230
K&R. Very well said. Paladin Nov 2017 #231
Wow, someone who says what I think. K&R (NT) louis c Nov 2017 #233
One photo can't possibly make clear that Franken didn't touch her. Orsino Nov 2017 #234
rec & IMO Al ASKS for ethics review, will place the PEDO(s) & attackers of woman Sunlei Nov 2017 #238
Agree Nitram Nov 2017 #242
absolutely bluestarone Nov 2017 #248
Recommend!!!! Useless in FL Nov 2017 #250
Thank you. femmocrat Nov 2017 #252
I really couldn't give a shit about that stupid woman. The_Casual_Observer Nov 2017 #253
Absofuckinglutely! Chakaconcarne Nov 2017 #254
Based on what Al Franken himself admits, it was inappropriate, but not because it was sexual still_one Nov 2017 #256
Rec 446. Well said! nt Honeycombe8 Nov 2017 #257
I agree 100%!! Rainngirl Nov 2017 #258
k and r niyad Nov 2017 #269
Amen. lamp_shade Nov 2017 #272
well said comment by mature adult Nance Greggs. librechik Nov 2017 #273
Agree Meowmee Nov 2017 #274
USO tour Robin Williams & Al Franken playing Saddam Hussian, Xmas 2003. Camp Arifjan, Kuwait. Sunlei Nov 2017 #277
Has Leeann made any big deposits into her bank account lately? panader0 Nov 2017 #278
It was a bad joke in poor taste and he deserves no credit for making it. Pope George Ringo II Nov 2017 #281
#493. As usual, a great post, Nance! n/t Different Drummer Nov 2017 #284
Franken was a comedian. Jane Austin Nov 2017 #285
It passed the test for the troops. Jim Beard Nov 2017 #299
You're not becoming unpopular because of this post. PatrickforO Nov 2017 #289
Goddamned right. Great post. Thanks. cliffordu Nov 2017 #291
Call to support Al zentrum Nov 2017 #292
The right wing is setting us up; "weaponizing" harassment allegations. Misskittycat Nov 2017 #294
Yes, of course they know. LisaL Nov 2017 #296
You did not have my permission to just waltz into my brain a borrow my thoughts!!!! Brother Buzz Nov 2017 #295
Proud to be rec 517 XRubicon Nov 2017 #301
You decided to step into the minefield... Eyeball_Kid Nov 2017 #302
I also believe ... NanceGreggs Nov 2017 #308
"It was a joke" is a common defense to harassment. aikoaiko Nov 2017 #304
And sadly enough ... NanceGreggs Nov 2017 #307
K&R! JHan Nov 2017 #309
K&R betsuni Nov 2017 #310

SCantiGOP

(13,867 posts)
259. Proud not to rec
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 03:07 PM
Nov 2017

Don't want to join the "it's the woman's fault" default brigade.

Didn't it make you stop and think when he immediately apologized for it with no reservation?

rzemanfl

(29,556 posts)
265. He did not "apologize without reservation."
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 04:25 PM
Nov 2017

It is not the "woman's fault brigade." Consider the source, timing and foreknowledge of the Repuke ratfuckers army.

You are saying "She has ovaries, he doesn't, so anything she says is true, guilty, next case."

fts

SCantiGOP

(13,867 posts)
275. Oh, youre right
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 05:47 PM
Nov 2017

He has a D after his name, not guilty, next case.

(And he did apologize, as he should have.)

Maggiemayhem

(809 posts)
191. Also, the statement from the person who took the picture
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 08:28 AM
Nov 2017

What is also worrisome is how quickly everyone jumped to condemn Franken without even doing any reasearch. Where was the word alleged? If this is and other accusations of sexual impropriety are proven false, it will be back to the you can’t beleive a woman rhetoric. About a year ago, there was a poll on a facebook page I check occasionally asking if women should be IMPRISONED for making false accusations for sexual assault and rape and the overwhelming response was yes. So tread carefully and don’t jump to conclusions. IMO, this is a right wing coordinated attack to keep power in the Senate. There is no equivalency between Moore and Franken. A joke versus multiple underaged females being assaulted . The right is desperately trying to discredit the Moore accusations, including photoshopping the ink in the yearbook to half blue and half black and sending Breitbart reporters to Alabama and totally making up bullshit to discredit and harass these women. While everyone was distracted with these accusations against Franken, the House passed the tax bill which if this becomes a law will hurt many people.

 

RhodeIslandOne

(5,042 posts)
15. Agreed
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:33 PM
Nov 2017

It was a candid photo taken amongst people who were goofing around on a "road trip" if you will. Until we know the exact context, there are probably a zillion photos floating around in the ether of all of us, men and women, where people just taking one look at them would go "What the hell is going on here?" and if you had to explain, it might seem fishy to someone who wasn't there and doesn't like you anyway.

MFM008

(19,803 posts)
16. Your popular with me!
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:33 PM
Nov 2017

I just heard Jake Tapper ask Frankens accuser what she thinks about people who make accusations like this for POLITICAL GAIN. Maybe like many of us Jake smells a right wing RAT

 

fallout87

(819 posts)
17. Well if thats
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:34 PM
Nov 2017

the position we take, then you better be prepared to accept the consequences of we lose midterm seats when this whole thing is thrown in our faces again and again. Sexual Assault should be punished regardless of party affiliation. If Franken doesn't resign, this will have far reaching consequences that we do not need.

Corgigal

(9,291 posts)
24. What s the statue of limitations
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:38 PM
Nov 2017

for sexual assault for whatever country this uso tour was occurring? Cause I doubt it's 20 plus years.

It's done, let his voters and senate peers decide.

rzemanfl

(29,556 posts)
37. It was in Gawd's sky. No statute of limitations on the wrath of gawd.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:45 PM
Nov 2017

It's in the commandments, "Thou shalt not do a bad sight gag."

Docreed2003

(16,855 posts)
156. Nah....keep on pointing out the trolls
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 01:18 AM
Nov 2017

Post count or not....I’m inclined to be suspicious of someone who recently joined and seems to show up and post only in threads that are stirring disunity. It’s just a little too convenient for my tastes.

rzemanfl

(29,556 posts)
217. ***** is one of them.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:04 AM
Nov 2017

Last edited Sat Nov 18, 2017, 06:38 PM - Edit history (1)

Damn, I called someone a troll here, by their user name, over 36 hours ago and nothing happened. Hmmmm.

liberal_patriot_md

(194 posts)
44. Really?
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:47 PM
Nov 2017

So if we don’t immediately banish Franken for a single person’s allegation (without any investigation or corroboration) we lose moral high ground against the GOP? Absurd.

That would suggest that it is a subject voters care enough about to vote against a candidate/party. Sorry, but that is not the case. Trump is in the WH.

Bayard

(22,035 posts)
65. Seriously?
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:00 PM
Nov 2017

I have problems with several aspects of this woman's story, and her retelling of it.

Along with that, this didn't happen in a dark Sears parking lot. Its supposed to have happened during a very public USO comedy tour. She's an actress/entertainer. I'm assuming that's why the photo shows her in full battle gear, with what looks like body armor.

I see this as a Rethug ploy to divert from Roy Moore's pedophilia---"See! They have scandals too!"

I absolutely stand with Al Franken, and the good he has done as a senator. That's why Rethugs hate him. To suggest he should resign is beyond the pale.

 

Larrybanal

(227 posts)
213. agree completely
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 10:50 AM
Nov 2017

Last edited Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:21 PM - Edit history (1)

plus I saw post from photographer of that photo who said it was a set up gag...the post was pulled by author but I think there is more to this and that is why frankel wants an investigation and accuser does not

Response to fallout87 (Reply #17)

VOX

(22,976 posts)
147. NO. We fight back, goddamnit. HARD.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:46 AM
Nov 2017

I love Michelle Obama’s dearly, but when they go low, we have to tunnel underneath them. They only play down, dirty and for keeps, and I’m fucking sick of all the pussyfooting that Democrats have done since Bill Clinton’s tenure.

FIGHT BACK. YOUR COUNTRY IS AT STAKE.

BlueMTexpat

(15,365 posts)
171. Trump should resign first.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 04:23 AM
Nov 2017

His actions clearly constitute sexual harassment.

Trump also admitted that he does it because he can. He has NEVER once apologized. EVER.

As for Franken's actions constituting sexual harassment, today yes. Then - the whole situation was more nuanced.

And Franken STILL apologized. Period.


 

GaryCnf

(1,399 posts)
182. Did you call this sexual assault?
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 07:03 AM
Nov 2017

Since you can actually see air between Franken's left hand and the vest and it is impossible to tell whether the right hand is making physical contact (and given the context of the picture consistent placement would be expected), it appears that either you define sexual assault more broadly than the vast majority of the population OR you are of the school who believes that every allegation of sexual assault should be accepted as true unless disproven and therefore accept her word when she says that Franken kissed her against her will and she found it offensive.

If it is the former, I will rest easy because so few people agree with you that this picture won't affect Franken one way or the other. If it is the latter, let me say:

WTF

Accusations of sexual misconduct must be taken seriously because of the nature of the harm inflicted if they are true. "Taken seriously" does not mean such accusations should be presumed to be true. Every accusation, whether of sexual misconduct or shoplifting, should be examined to determine whether it is credible. Here, I challenge anyone to provide a rational explanation of the reasons Franken's accuser should be believed past the point where she says that it is her in the photo.

Anyone claiming that such a photo, standing alone, disqualifies a person from public office or even is relevant to whether a person should hold public office has an agenda.

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
185. Zero tolerance positions indicate a decided lack in critical thinking skills and judgment.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 07:47 AM
Nov 2017

Resign over this? Oh for heaven's sake!

PJMcK

(22,022 posts)
195. You've missed the entire point of Nance's rant
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 09:11 AM
Nov 2017

The differences in the stories about Roy Moore and Donald Trump compared to Senator Franken are continental in size, context and scope.

As usual, Nance nailed it. Try rereading her post.

Corgigal

(9,291 posts)
20. Tweedon appeared to be at a different
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:35 PM
Nov 2017

point in her career then. It seems like NOW, she was abused by men but this time for a check. She's on a crappy low rated radio show, she shopped the photo to the highest bidder. It's just business and if her career was in a different pay scale it wouldn't have happened.

Franken was a dummy at the time, but it was at his comedy time in his life. However, let the senate investigate it and then his voters, and I feel the same with Moore. Let the voters decide.

Turbineguy

(37,312 posts)
21. I think we're getting ahead of ourselves.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:35 PM
Nov 2017

Years ago there was a series of Wendy's commercials that showed women wearing burlap bags, with cutouts for the head and arms, which were the suggested fashion. Evening wear was a burlap bag also, but came with a flashlight. A Soviet Lady Major would say, "Verrrry Nice!" every time a model would appear on the catwalk.

This seems connected now.

Ilsa

(61,690 posts)
22. Thank you.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:36 PM
Nov 2017

Very well explained.

The forced kiss is a gross story, though.

Rachel is bringing up interesting points about when these things occur.

Franken has apologized and called for an investigation. He's done much for women as a senator, and I think he should remain in office.

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
53. Franken denied the forced kiss
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:52 PM
Nov 2017

And since the accusation is being made by a right wing radio host, and coordinated by Roger Stone and Sean Hannity, there are definitely some serious issues with her consensual “forced kiss.”

Ilsa

(61,690 posts)
76. Thank you for that. I have intentionally
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:06 PM
Nov 2017

Backed away from some of these stories this week because I feel saturated, overwhelmed, and a little triggered.

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
96. Wolf Blitzer edited her statement, too
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:18 PM
Nov 2017

It was infuriating.

Franken wrote a scene in which they kissed. She didn’t want to, but they tried the scene once in a rehearsal. She didn’t like it, so they didn’t do it again.

They claimed that Franken “couldn’t recall” the rehearsal. What Franken actually said was, “Although my memory of that rehearsal is very different from hers...” It was a polite denial without shaming the victim.

Cable news is twisting all of their words into something that doesn’t even resemble the truth.

(I ran errands this afternoon. CNN on the radio and internet waiting in lines. I should probably do something more productive, like learn French, but I’m apparently a political junkie)

Bayard

(22,035 posts)
243. Where are the witnesses?
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:53 PM
Nov 2017

I'm thinking other people there should be able to verify or dissent this kiss.

VOX

(22,976 posts)
23. Tweeden must be HORRIFIED at the past documented behavior of Trump and Roy Moore!
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:37 PM
Nov 2017

She must also be sickened by Bill O’Reilly and Roger Ailes and the whole Fox News shady history where women are concerned.
No? Not a peep.

Oh, but “liberal Hollywood elite” Harvey Weinstein, she does mention him. And he is a scumbag who deserves to be put away.

But Al Franken? It stinks of Stone. It stinks of Bannon. This is how dirty they play. Democrats and progressives have one hell of a messy fight ahead, and this just a small part of that.

Big kick and rec, NanceGreggs!

L. Coyote

(51,129 posts)
122. Yes, I checked her Twitter, and she posted a lot about how sickening Roy Moore and Trump are.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:43 PM
Nov 2017

NOT. And don't hold your breath either.

SCantiGOP

(13,867 posts)
29. Do one thing
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:40 PM
Nov 2017

Assume this story had come out about someone else.
Go through the original post and every time it says Franken, change it to Ted Cruz.
Would anyone in this site ageee with this?

Rank hypocrisy. OK to blame the woman if the accused is a well-respected liberal.

Why the hell did Sen Franken immediately apologize? He, unlike many (most) on this site realize that wrong is wrong.

Pope George Ringo II

(1,896 posts)
279. We're talking about a failed joke in bad taste.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 06:06 PM
Nov 2017

That actually gets pretty close to describing Ted Cruz, if we're honest.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
74. lol sure if the accuser was a regular on Maddow who pushed the Cruz's father shot Kennedy theory
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:05 PM
Nov 2017

This is from a birther who makes money by supporting Hannity but whose career has fallen to the b and c list as other prettier talking skirts have been rotated onto Hannity.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/10029851956

TexasBushwhacker

(20,159 posts)
77. Except Franken isn't family values, religious liberty (for Christians only)
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:06 PM
Nov 2017

windbag like Cruz. So it is a bit different.

misanthrope

(7,411 posts)
109. I'll admit my bias in one important area
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:27 PM
Nov 2017

This Tweeden lady is an aspiring celebrity and media figure who has long since proven her eagerness to hitch her star to right-wing media notoriety. For celebrities, little publicity is bad publicity.

Maybe it's wrong of me, maybe it's unfair but it's just the way it is.

Control-Z

(15,682 posts)
117. If I change it to Stewart or Colbert
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:39 PM
Nov 2017

I react the same. I haven't said what my reaction is but it is different than of someone as mean spirited, greedy, and heartless as Cruz or the trump-maggot or Moore.



RVN VET71

(2,690 posts)
137. Disagree about the "what if it were Cruz?"
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:14 AM
Nov 2017

I've been skeptical -- not close minded, but skeptical -- about the accusations against Moore, until the accusations piled up into what seems like he groped an endless line of teen-agers. If the same evidence had been levied against Cruz as against Franken I'd have called foul, and waited for the scam to blow up. Look, Franken essentially denies the kissing incident -- and even as Tweeden described it, it's more a stupid than a depraved move. And as far as the photo "evidence" of groping: give me a freakin' break. He's not touching her, she's wearing a kevlar vest -- and probably felt a little pissed off about the photo, but not enough to make an issue of it.

I will await additional complaints against Franken before suggesting any harsh moves against Franken. If there are none, I think the whole issue should be dropped as just another right-wing effort to distract from its own crimes and depravity.

Stone announced the "scandal" before Tweeden put it out there -- which says, obviously, that she worked with Stone on the story. If the DNC establishment wants to pull the rug out from under Franken over this -- barring additional accusations, a la Moore -- the DNC can go to hell. They screwed Bernie out of a very likely nomination, and it angers me that they did so, but I sucked it up and voted for Hillary. But if they move precipitously against Franken, they will have lost me forever.

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
188. Thank you! I go through this mental exercise deliberately.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 08:04 AM
Nov 2017

Whenever a scandal breaks, I go through a series of mental examination regardless of whether it's a Democrat or a Republican involved.

1. Do I have enough information to even pass judgment at this point?
2. What does either side have to lose or gain from making accusations?
3. What would be my emotional response if (pick a person from the other party) was the accused instead?
4. What is the broader context that may be influencing timing of accusations?
and so on and so on.

This story has a lot of troubling issues with it.

I used Marco Rubio in my mental exercise yesterday because a) he's my Senator, b) I loathe him, and c) he has shown weird moments of odd humor.

I came to the following conclusions.

1. Need way more context on the photo to know what was actually going on, but at first glance it looks like a dumb gag and I can't bring myself to be appalled by it yet.
2. Wondered if there was a history/pattern of disrespect to women that was going to be revealed over the coming days, because without one it doesn't seem all that alarming.
3. Does not remotely compare to the charges against the powerful men who have been exposed for their records of abuse recently, so the false equivalencies are ridiculous.

On the other hand, when the Moore story broke I thought about my reaction had it been a Democratic candidate for Senator. I have no doubt I would have been as appalled and definitely would have wanted the candidate to withdraw. A long history of predatory behavior against minors when the accusers are not from across the aisle is damning.

As a victim of sexual assault and harassment myself, I don't take this lightly and do think women should be believed. But I'm also an academic who can't help but examine sources. One of the criteria you look at when weighing historical evidence from a contemporary source is the biases of the writer. If an enemy says something flattering, it's more likely to be true than if they say something critical. And vice versa. I can't help it, but if Franken's accuser had been a liberal I'd give her more credence. Stone's involvement just cements that for me.

PJMcK

(22,022 posts)
197. Well-written, Patriot!
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 09:17 AM
Nov 2017

You've articulated an excellent list of questions to ask that should be applied to nearly every political story. Of course, the tribalism of our polarized political environment prevent most people from using the logical process of analysis that you've outlined.

Great post. Enjoy your weekend.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
196. Bullshit. People are a sum of their parts. Franken has been a huge ally to women.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 09:14 AM
Nov 2017

Especially victims of sexual and domestic violence.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
212. Bull. Ted Cruz could not be a comedian.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 10:36 AM
Nov 2017

Nor can any Republican. The fact of being a Republican means one does not have the talent to be a comedian.

Nor would Ted Cruz or any Republican volunteer to do something like entertain troops.

Further, they voted for the Pussy Grabber to be President. They listen to the many times married Rush L. They vote for people like Newt Gringich. They do not get to complain about these incidents.

They nominate a guy who thought teen girls were the ones to date when he was 30. They criticize us as feminazis when we complain about this stuff. It's just locker room talk and boys will be boys. Joseph and Mary were married when she was 14 - implies 14-year-old girls are adults.

No, we can complain. They cannot.

OhioBlue

(5,126 posts)
126. If a GOP Senator was working as a comedian
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:52 PM
Nov 2017

and photo appeared where he held his hands over top of a woman's flack jacket without actually touching her,it wouldn't even be news.

USALiberal

(10,877 posts)
247. So you really think a woman sleeping close to a comedian should be prepared for that to happen? n/t
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 01:18 PM
Nov 2017

notdarkyet

(2,226 posts)
133. Defend what? A rehearsed kiss she agreed to and didn't like?
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:01 AM
Nov 2017

A picture of a fake groping that never was. I thought it was fishy from the beginning. Wake up people. They are relentless and nonstop in trying to drag us around, every day, with bots and propaganda. Be aware. Be suspicious. Look what they did in the election and continue to do. Be warriors.

Skittles

(153,138 posts)
270. we would be smart enough to see it is a gag photo
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 05:13 PM
Nov 2017

we have critical thinking skills that allow us to tell the difference between something that may be inappropriate and something that is CRIMINAL

well, at least MOST OF US do

xxqqqzme

(14,887 posts)
130. Well it depends where you are now.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:00 AM
Nov 2017

If you are 20, 'back in the day' you were only 9 and couldn't vote yet.

VOX

(22,976 posts)
148. Its how time speeds up as you age...
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:54 AM
Nov 2017

(And I had “speeds up” in quotes, but when posting from a phone, the subject line doesn’t hold all punctuation.)

A year to a four-year-old is 1/4 of his/her life; a year to an 85-year-old is 1/85, a much smaller fraction. Which is why there’s a relativity factor in the concept of time.

You’ll have to forgive me. I just had a hit (*cough*), so I’m riffing.

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
189. Yes and no.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 08:14 AM
Nov 2017

Detecting normative shifts from 11 years ago is not as obvious as those that have happened over fifty years, so it may seem like an odd statement to make.

Society has changed enough in just the last decade to render some jokes, attitudes, behaviors, etc. that would have been unremarkable in 2006 unacceptable today.

I've been watching "The Good Wife" over the last several months, a show that aired 2009-2016. It's made me realize how much has changed in recent years. Just look at the dramatic shift in attitudes towards LGBT. No, we're not perfect there yet, but we are way ahead of where we were just a few years ago, let alone a decade.

 

moda253

(615 posts)
236. For example. Nickleback was a thing once in the not too distant past
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:25 PM
Nov 2017

Now we all know nickleback is inexcusable.

videohead5

(2,170 posts)
46. According to the Photographer
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:49 PM
Nov 2017

It was staged...

Photographer: [S]he was playing dead and SHE wanted him to ‘revive’ her. I took the picture it was a funny moment everyone was smiling having a good time.

 

AncientGeezer

(2,146 posts)
58. That was a tweet by someone that said the photog said that
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:55 PM
Nov 2017

though no photog was named OR has come forward.

InAbLuEsTaTe

(24,122 posts)
280. Wish the photographer would come forward and confirm that...
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 06:08 PM
Nov 2017

would feel a lot better about the situation.

 

elmac

(4,642 posts)
55. what ever you choose to call it
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:54 PM
Nov 2017

its not anything a respectable adult would do. Maybe something a punk would do. Its disgusting. I believe he has grown as a human being since then and feels bad about it, tRump is incapable of growing or feeling bad.

flamingdem

(39,312 posts)
57. So obvious to anyone with a brain cell left
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:55 PM
Nov 2017

but still needs to be said as you did so well.

I think we're dealing with some fakeness in the reaction as well as people who didn't read but assumed he was another grabber like potus. Not even close.

madville

(7,408 posts)
60. I would give it a few days and see if this story
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:57 PM
Nov 2017

emboldens any other women to come forward with their stories. That seems to be the norm lately, once the first story breaks it gives others courage to come forward as well. I'm not saying I expect anyone else to come forward but before I make any judgement I want to see it completely play out.

SweetieD

(1,660 posts)
62. I agree with every word. And I am mad that Franken even asked for this to be investigated.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:58 PM
Nov 2017

The whole thing makes a mockery of true sexual assault and harassment.

nini

(16,672 posts)
116. I think he's trying to set the tone that all accusations should be investigated
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:36 PM
Nov 2017

and that would help all true sexual assault claims.

paleotn

(17,901 posts)
219. Don't be mad....
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:16 AM
Nov 2017

It's a fantastic move on his part. All involved will have to state what they know on the record....under oath and in full view of the national media.

calimary

(81,179 posts)
64. Oh MAN, Nance, I'm so glad to read this.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:59 PM
Nov 2017

I've said it before, here. It looks like a staged photo to me, too. Like they were yucking it up backstage or something.

I've got so many mixed feelings about this. Hell, I edited another post elsewhere three times, kicking this one around from different directions! Our son stopped by and did a "did you hear about Al Franken!" with me. And he paired it with "Don't you DARE do a double standard and say you don't believe the woman in his case!"

AY-Yi-Yi!

You make a toweringly good point here:

"I am not interested in what Al Franken said or did as a comedian – I am interested in what he says and does as a SENATOR. It is unfortunate that some people can’t distinguish one role from the other. It is equally unfortunate that some people are so anxious to believe that if we just throw one of our own on the funeral pyre, we have somehow appeased the what-about-him media gods who have decided that a human sacrifice on our part somehow evens the score – as though “evening the score” is what is important here."

DAYUM you're good.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
70. Tweedon is a self promoting birther, supporter to Hannity
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:02 PM
Nov 2017

The picture was goofy and wouldn't be taken today but it gives no credence to the rest of her story.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/10029851956

To believe her is not to under cut the other victims but simply to say that in considering serious issues we don't have to check our brains at the door.

If other victims come forward on Franken that would be another story.

BigmanPigman

(51,582 posts)
72. If they go back over his career as a writer and actor,
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:03 PM
Nov 2017

especially on SNL in the 70s, they will get a lot more juicy shit to take out of context, twist and turn and spit out to suit any agenda to further the GOP goal...DISTRACTION. Stay focused on the real story and the real news.

Ms. Toad

(34,055 posts)
75. I disagree with this assertion, as to jokes about sexual abuse,
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:06 PM
Nov 2017

blacks, gays, etc.

To say that what is inappropriate now was always inappropriate is to ignore the fact that attitudes change, and what was accepted as humour back in the day, or in a certain context, may not be acceptable when judged by current-day standards. Thankfully, such standards change as we evolve as a nation and as a people – and what was laugh-inducing once upon a time is no longer a laughing matter when viewed through a 2017 lens.


That is not different in nature than saying this: To say that slavery, which is inappropriate now, was always inappropriate is to ignore the fact that attitudes change, and what was accepted as the proper relationship betwen the races back in the day, or in a certain context, may not be acceptable when judged by current-day standards. Thankfully, such standards change as we evolve as a nation and as a people, and what was the appropriate relationship between the races once upon a time is no longer the appropriate relationship when viewed through a 2017 lens.

More to the point - Moore's behavior was "back in the day." The fact that it was relatively commonplace doesn't make it appropriate. Any more than slavery, or antisemitism, or any number of other attitudes carried into practice that treat classes of people as less than cis-straight-white-men.

As to this particular kinds of humor - crude sexual humor that exploited men's power over women, or boys-will-be-boys attitudes was NEVER appropriate. It was commonplace - and women were ridiculed for challenging it - even back in the day. Being commonplace, however, doesn't make it appropriate, even back in the day.

I've been an activist, working on raising awareness about this type of crude sexual humor (among other things) since the mid-70s.

Hurtful behavior is hurtful behavior. The fact that we didn't care to notice the impact on certain classes of victims until recently does not make the hurtful behavior appropriate.

In the midst of the #MeToo movement when many women are finally finding the courage to share the stories that are seared in their memories, it is offensive to deride as "suddenly remembered," the story of one woman - whose #MeToo moment happens to be with a man we like.

Far too many men (and - it appears-women) accepted misogynistic humor as perfectly fine and participated in it. That said, people change. Nothing I have heard suggests that this was a pervasive problem with Senator Franken, that he was intentionally engaging in offensive behavior, or that his offensive behavior continued after it was brought to his attention.

I'm not specifically interested in how he behaved as a comedian - but I AM interested in how he responds when confronted about engaging in bad behavior, even if it was similar to the bad behavior others routinely engaged in at the time. So far, his response is appropriate.

Both sides DO do it. Franken and Clinton are two examples on our side. What matters, from my perspective is how they respond when called on it.
 

SJMULE

(193 posts)
80. Thank You Nance.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:11 PM
Nov 2017

I was called out here on my description of Tweeden as a fox news insider with a curious sense of timing

FuzzyRabbit

(1,967 posts)
81. Good summary, Nance.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:11 PM
Nov 2017

But you forgot to mention a couple of things.

Senator Franken is one of the best known and most popular Democrats. And that there is an election in 2020. If Franken runs for reelection he will most likely win.

But he is extremely popular with Democrats in every state, and if he decided to run for president in 2020, he might very well be nominated (and win).

So the Republicans are using this incident from the USO tour to derail Franken and divide Democrats. And they are getting help from trolls, including our very own Russian trolls here on DU.

Of course, not every poster on DU who is upset with Franken is a troll. Most, I know, are feeling legitimately upset. Women are treated as prey all of their lives and this incident along with the publicity about Trump, Moore, and Weinstein's predatory histories is bringing back horrific memories.

But some are obviously trolls stirring the pot. Anything to disrupt the Democrats.

 

MadDAsHell

(2,067 posts)
82. Well this is how politics works right? Eventually even the worst behaviors have to be justified.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:12 PM
Nov 2017

Otherwise you’re forced to eat your own, and no party wants to do that, especially only a year out from the next election.

I’d much rather be a hypocrite then a cannibal.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
84. Eddie Murphy's raw was one of the most popular stand up shows of all time
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:12 PM
Nov 2017

Try watching it now.

Times change and comedians job is often to push boundaries.

Al is a lion in the Senate fighting harder than most for all the things we supposedly believe in.

I stand with Al

OceanChick

(83 posts)
87. Thank you!
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:13 PM
Nov 2017

I've been gutted all day about Franken. I love him and was hoping he would run for president one day.

He was a fucking COMEDIAN on SNL!!! I bet there are hundreds of photos that could make every cast member look bad. It's show biz, people.

Moore was a DISTRICT ATTORNEY and JUDGE when we was molesting young girls and everyone in town knew he was a pedophile.

Cannot compare.

Please, Al, don't resign!

Bayard

(22,035 posts)
88. The ape speaks
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:14 PM
Nov 2017

tRump says he is scandalized by the photo of Al Franken on the USO tour. Still no mention of Roy Moore whatsoever.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
90. I agree.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:16 PM
Nov 2017

Maybe I'm wrong, but I seriously don't see Al being a horrible creep. People are a sum of their parts. Franken has been an incredible ally to women. Especially victims of sexual and domestic violence.

In 2009, Franken introduced a provision to the next year’s defense appropriations bill that banned federal funding for “defense contractors who forced employees to mandatory binding arbitration in the case of rape, assault, wrongful imprisonment, harassment, and discrimination."

In 2011, he joined other Dem senators to introduce the Arbitration Fairness Act (he reintroduced the bill in 2015) to “eliminate forced arbitration clauses in employment, consumer, and civil rights cases.” Such clauses often apply to employees alleging workplace harassment.

In 2012, he supported the Violence Against Women Act, saying "The VAWA reauthorization bill is another step toward a more just society as Sheila [Wellstone] described it,” Franken said. “And I look forward to it becoming law.”

October 2017 Franken pushed a bill to establish federal funding to train first responders and members of law enforcement in interviewing possible survivors of sexual assault.Franken sponsored the legislation after a former intern raped a 19-year-old university student, Abby Honold, who reached out to Franken’s office to discuss the subject.




George II

(67,782 posts)
91. Thank you so much for that, for me you're not "unpopular" but more revered than before I read this..
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:17 PM
Nov 2017

...I've been struggling with this all day. I loved Al Franken the comedian, and truly love Al Franken the Senator.

I was hesitant to make a similar (but much less eloquent) post this morning, and what little I did say was not well received.

At first I was upset with him, then as I thought about it I couldn't believe it was true. The photograph appeared, and to me it instantly looked like a prank. But then he issued the statement and apology, and thought maybe he did do this?

As I thought about it more, and looked closer at that photograph, I realized that what Franken was apologizing for was a stupid prank, nothing malicious. Who would be stupid enough grope a sleeping woman and have someone take a photograph of it with others around?

What really bothered me later in the day was the reaction of people, the instant condemnation, the "see Democrats do it too!", and the willingness of many to start vocalizing that all men are scumbags. That I truly resent and find offensive - I know many men who would not do anything like that and certainly anything like what Moore did. We are NOT all the same, not scumbags, not abusers or molesters.

The really bad thing now is that the republicans are jumping on this to get the attention away from Moore and trump. Even trump himself is now tweeting about it, like he's an angel.

Those are all the mixed emotions I've had all day, certainly not eloquent at all.

Thanks again for your post and putting the events of the day in proper perspective.

dhill926

(16,333 posts)
94. best post on this today.....
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:17 PM
Nov 2017

by FAR. Thank you for so eloquently and effectively stating this position...been a frustrating day around here....

 

vkkv

(3,384 posts)
95. Sure, but the pic still shows sexual exploitation in the form of comedy.. still a bit offensive
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:18 PM
Nov 2017

to the victim I'd say.

Response to forgotmylogin (Reply #209)

 

vkkv

(3,384 posts)
261. Wow, just wow.. you would make a great SEXIST! oh wait...
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 03:48 PM
Nov 2017

You don't see any difference, do you.. that's telling.

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
271. difference between what? an on stage comedy show for adult military people & Moore- pedophile or
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 05:14 PM
Nov 2017

the pussy grabbing president? difference between what?

 

vkkv

(3,384 posts)
288. It's very strange and really weird that you'd spend so much energy on this..
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 07:37 PM
Nov 2017

Don't you think? I mean, really... ya think?

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
290. Let's get weird, cause we're all weird people and we Love it.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 08:20 PM
Nov 2017
Weird people on the dance floor
We're just doing what we came to do
Cause we're all weird people and we love it
Don't let them other suckers hate on you
Cause we're all weird people and we're shaking
From the basement to the roof
You know the people on the bus and the people on the street
People like you and the people like me
Weird people!




 

vkkv

(3,384 posts)
262. And I'd bet money that you'd be the disappointed one that the former bunny didn't
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 03:52 PM
Nov 2017

actually perform in the nude, you know, like in the magazine! Oooo..

Cuz, that's what you just said that you expect from a former bunny.

 

vkkv

(3,384 posts)
260. WTF? What "you said" was intended as an attack on what you thought was my stupidity.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 03:46 PM
Nov 2017

Come on, just admit it.

And only a Fool would respond without giving their comment much thought - as you did =

Polly Hennessey

(6,793 posts)
99. Thank you, Nance.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:21 PM
Nov 2017

Exactly what I have been trying to say all day. You said it much more elegantly than my poor words ever could. We are such a pearl-clutching, eye-rolling culture. Conclusions do we jump too much - - yes, we do.

madamesilverspurs

(15,800 posts)
100. Concur absolutely.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:22 PM
Nov 2017

My two cents: When he asked for the ethics investigation there was a slight whiff of "please proceed, governor" in the air.

This is going to be interesting to watch as it unfolds.


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rock

(13,218 posts)
101. Agree with you 100%
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:22 PM
Nov 2017

Some people cannot discuss some subjects because they cannot make a reasoned response. They go off the deep end instead. Everything is black or white, they cannot see the gradient.

Glorfindel

(9,725 posts)
103. As always, you put things in the perfect perspective
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:23 PM
Nov 2017

Thank you, NanceGreggs, for saying exactly what I have been feeling but couldn't express with one-tenth your eloquence.

LenaBaby61

(6,974 posts)
108. You're not unpopular with me, and 2 of the many reasons are because of these 2 statements below ....
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:26 PM
Nov 2017
EVERY Democrat who is buying into that false equivalence is being played by the Republicans – and they really should know better.

In the meantime, the Republicans are laughing their asses off at Democrats who think (wrongfully so) that if we “sacrifice” one of our own on the altar of tit-for-tat, we come across as “fair and balanced.”


NBachers

(17,096 posts)
111. I think Al should offer to resign: "You want me to resign? I'll resign when Donald Trump resigns."
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:30 PM
Nov 2017

If trump resigns, then Al runs again in 2018 and is swept back into office.

pansypoo53219

(20,966 posts)
114. WAS THERE A PENIS? overkill. benny hillism past its due date.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:34 PM
Nov 2017

THIS IS NOT BEING MALL BANNING! trying to point at a democrat.
jeez. is this 1st degree cosby?

Silver Gaia

(4,542 posts)
118. THANK YOU, NANCE!
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:39 PM
Nov 2017

I've been saying these same things to my husband all day, and I have been a "card-carrying," bra-burning, outspoken feminist since I was around 14 years old (and that was a long-ass time ago!). I used to get suspended from school for being a GIRL who dared to speak out. So, THANK YOU for calling this steaming pile the shit it is.

kimbutgar

(21,103 posts)
119. I agree
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:39 PM
Nov 2017

And I am angry that Democratic Female Senators are jumping on the bandwagon to attack him.

The picture looks harmless and I think it was staged and she was pretending to be asleep.

L. Coyote

(51,129 posts)
121. What is really scandalous here is the wingnuts pull this shit off to lay cover for Pussy Grabber
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:41 PM
Nov 2017

and their new Nucking Futz in Alabama.

Doremus

(7,261 posts)
123. Agreed, but I will take it a step further.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:46 PM
Nov 2017

I think the whole rotten thing is a setup by the repukes and this woman is a faithful foot soldier.

If anyone here is offended by my opinion, so be it. I'm a 62yo woman who's BTDT and I call bullshit when I see it.

Initech

(100,054 posts)
124. This is a blatant and quite frankly pathetic attempt to play "both sides do it!".
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:48 PM
Nov 2017

And you can bet that this is going to be the dialogue for the next month or so. Both sides do it. Bullshit.

OhioBlue

(5,126 posts)
131. I completely agree! This feels like Acorn all over again.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:01 AM
Nov 2017

Remember when Dem leadership capitulated and threw the organization that registered and protected voters from low income neighborhoods under the bus?

This feels like that. Unless something else comes out about Franken other than a photo where he doesn't even appear to be touching her flack jacket comes out, we will be seen as weak capitulaters to the bully GOP and their false equivalency bull shit if we don't stand behind him.

How many times have we said we need to stop letting them control the narrative?

clementine613

(561 posts)
132. Regarding the Honeymooners... (Yeah, I know it's not your main point.)
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:01 AM
Nov 2017

... but the Honeymooners never depicted Alice and Trixie as an "easily-befuddled females whose only true passion was buying a new hat." For all of Ralph's bluster, it was very clear from the show that Alice was truly in charge of the household. She was the sensible, level-headed one.

eissa

(4,238 posts)
138. I fucking love you
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:16 AM
Nov 2017

I’ve been so upset today seeing how quickly many on the left are to throw one of the smartest and most progressive voices in the Senate under the bus. And for what - a fucking STAGED picture? If NOT touching a woman’s breasts is now “assault” then the word has lost all meaning.

The Wizard

(12,541 posts)
140. Roger Stone has been
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:30 AM
Nov 2017

doing Republican skullduggery since he worked for Nixon. That he announced it before the complainant did is telling.
Franken was horsing around. Roy Moore on the other hand was and is a sexual predator, preying on teenagers. One committed an indictable offense and the other engaged in a joke in bad taste. There is no equivalence.
How does Stone avoid scrutiny? Maybe he has the pictures of Trump in a hot tub with teenage beauty pageant contestants or in a compromising position with an underage prostitute or having gay sex with a young boy. Time to grill Stone and Franken's accuser.
Take off the gloves Democrats, and beat the fucking shit out of these criminals.

BainsBane

(53,026 posts)
141. The equivalency is in the responses
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:34 AM
Nov 2017

That people make excuses for behavior in their own party and seize upon sexual harassment and child molestation only when it suits their purposes politically. Pretending it’s just about the photo is the exact same minimization the right engages with. It ignores the woman’s account and pretends that one picture is all that matters. http://www.kabc.com/2017/11/16/leeann-tweeden-on-senator-al-franken/ She was asleep during that photo. You think it’s funny for men to touch women and pretend to grope them without their consent while the sleep. Your amusement does not take precedence over other women’s rights to control over their own bodies. You don’t have the right to consent for her. Only she does.

Franken is accepting responsibility for his actions, and many Democratic lawmakers, including Klobuchar and DFL Chair Ken Martin, are taking it seriously. This site, however, is another story.

I think you know there is nothing unpopular about your position. It is in fact the dominant view in a society that devalues women, that treats them as liars—unless it suits their political agenda to do otherwise. I’ve seen it countless times here before. Many, perhaps most, DUers refused to as much as acknowledge the existence of a valid arrest warrant for rape against Julian Assange because they admired him. I saw dozens of people insist Woody Allen’s daughter Dylan was lying about his molestation of her at 6 years old, insisting she was manipulated by Mia Farrow, a position that hinges on the assumption of women as inherently dishonest. That was a case of child molestation rather than assault or harassment of an adult woman, but because it served no political purpose to believe Dylan Farrow, she was vilified, just as the woman speaking about Franken is, just as many Republicans have done to Moore’s and Trump’s accusers.

When people decide sexual assault only matters when it’s someone they dislike and excuse it when it is someone they admire, they ensure that the behavior continues. It most certainly does undermine women, and male victims as well. Whether you think Franken’s treatment toward that woman was funny is utterly irrelevant. What matters is consent, and she didn’t give it.

Clearly child molestation is worse than assault on an adult, and Moore’s serial predation makes his situation far more serious. What is the same in these two situations is the reactions of some of their supporters. It is they who display the same hypocrisy, who reveal that the rights of victims are irrelevant compared to their political agendas.

Franken has admitted his actions were wrong. He refuses to engage in the minimization and attacks on the victim that go on here. Yet some Democratic supporters seem determined to display just how much they have in common with defenders of Republicans facing allegations of assault. I am relieved that many Democrats in public life are responding to this matter with far more integrity.

Franken is my Senator. I volunteered on both of his campaigns. I have considered him one of the very best in the Senate, but I sure as hell and not going to act like his behavior was okay because I happen to agree with him politically. I couldn’t look myself in the mirror if I did.




Straw Man

(6,622 posts)
175. I have to agree.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 05:14 AM
Nov 2017

Last edited Fri Nov 17, 2017, 09:41 AM - Edit history (1)

In the picture, whether or not he is actually touching her, he is sexually humiliating a woman who had rebuffed his advances. She is pretty clearly asleep in the picture, and unless she is blatantly lying, she was unaware that the picture had been taken. It would be an easy lie to disprove, since there were other people present who could testify as to what actually happened. Furthermore, Franken's apology makes it clear that this was not just some joke that she was in on.

Of course this is a lesser transgression than those that Roy Moore is accused of. That doesn't mean that it's acceptable.

Oneironaut

(5,490 posts)
227. Thank you, Bainsbain. Once again, you are absolutely correct.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:45 AM
Nov 2017

There has been a flurry of sexual assault apologia, victim blaming, slut shaming, and conspiracy theories against the victim in the picture. I'm not going to speak of the kissing event, as that was not proven, but the complete disregard and hostility towards the victim is sad. I truly do not believe that Liberals are on Feminists' side either half of the time - they seem to be outraged when a Republican does it, but when a Democrat does it, they circle the wagons to the point of absurdity. That makes me believe that they'll only support womens' rights when it's politically convenient.

I am personally not really angry at Franken. I'm more disgusted by the partisan reaction that our side had. Even Al Franken admitted what he did was wrong. The victim has already forgiven him. However, what he did is not okay, and I'm glad that he acknowledged it.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
312. I think its possible to see issues with one persons accusation
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 06:48 PM
Nov 2017

I didn’t believe Tweeden or at least think it may have been a misunderstanding.

When you have three or four accusers, it becomes more and more difficult to believe anyone saying that the accusations are fake or politically motivated.

This is the same standard I apply to anyone in terms of the multiple accusers no matter what party. I also am wary of an individual accusation. People who do this never seem to do it just once. And here we are. Multiple accusers.

 

DoctorJoJo

(1,134 posts)
145. Absolutely Spot On!
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:36 AM
Nov 2017

You can tell Franken's hands were hovering over and not touching her, and he was ON CAMERA. HTF is THAT groping? I think this right-wing Trump fan was getting her 15 minutes of fame and hopes it advances her not exactly successful career. It is absolute bull shit, which is what most everything is that these cretins spout, while they line their pockets to the detriment of all society.

Thank you, Nance!

JoJo

karin_sj

(808 posts)
153. Agree 100 percent!
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 01:08 AM
Nov 2017

And it's ludicrous that the republicans are trying to make this equivalent to what Roy Moore has done. It would be terrible if Al was kicked out of the Senate for this when we have a president that has done much worse and has never paid the price for it.

karin_sj

(808 posts)
264. Thanks!
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 04:24 PM
Nov 2017

Thanks for the welcome, gopiscrap! I'm actually a member from a long time ago. I was pretty active in the GW Bush years but pretty much totally dropped out when Obama was elected. I was constantly outraged and upset during the Bush era and so relieved when Obama got elected. I felt like I could relax and not be so obsessed with politics. Little did I know that GWB would be a walk in the park compared to what was to come.

Nance's post made me want to hit the Like button and make a comment, so I managed to find my old email address, get a new password and log in. Apparently, I'm starting at Post #1 again since it's been such a long time!

Anyway, it's good to be back and be an official part of DU again instead of just someone who checks the DU home page on a regular basis but doesn't get involved.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
157. You will never be unpopular with me
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 01:29 AM
Nov 2017

I'm not going to jump to Al Franken's defense. He will survive this.

garybeck

(9,940 posts)
160. Please ask yourself:
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 01:31 AM
Nov 2017

Would you have written all that exactly the same way, casting doubt on the accuser and defending franken

If he were a Republican?

treestar

(82,383 posts)
211. Republicans sure seem to do it
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 10:32 AM
Nov 2017

In fact it is they who are hypocrites as they only make something of it when it's a Democrat. Once they voted for Donald of Orange, they forfeit all rights to criticize. It does not really matter to them. When they go on about Bill Clinton but say nothing about Newt Gringich. When they go on about marriage but vote for a thrice married adulterer, they are hypocrites.

We have a right to be bothered by this allegation. They don't.

BannonsLiver

(16,342 posts)
163. Great post!
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 01:40 AM
Nov 2017

And hours later it’s still pissing off gullible people! It’s okay gullible people, we’ve all been there before.

Grown2Hate

(2,010 posts)
165. Are you kidding me? Of COURSE a joke picture (admittedly, in EXTREMELY poor taste) is EXACTLY
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 01:47 AM
Nov 2017

the same thing as molesting a 14 year old girl in your mid thirties! (I HATE that this is necessary, but... )

moriah

(8,311 posts)
166. We don't have to sacrifice anyone to deal with this.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:09 AM
Nov 2017

Mr. Franken himself has taken the highest road possible, and I did notice she's saying she's satisfied and isn't wanting to testify -- despite him still disputing the rehearsal accusations.

Which tells me either she's extremely forgiving considering how outraged she seemed, or that she wasn't that outraged and knows she was exaggerating by calling it actual groping.

I'm still going to firmly disagree that the type of juvenile stunt this was is befitting of anyone older than junior high, comedian or not. Sleepover pranks got old by 8th grade. And they're lucky she hasn't my PTSD -- I wouldn't have been able to sleep in that situation at all, but it wouldn't matter if I had a full Kevlar bodysuit. If I was asleep soundly enough for someone to get that close to my tits, and I woke up to it, someone would be injured before I realized I wasn't being raped again.

procon

(15,805 posts)
167. Another thing that was completely overlooked; they were putting on a show
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:11 AM
Nov 2017

for the USO to entertain the troops. Franken was a comedian and a ham, and he wrote the skit they were doing. Leanne Tweedon was a sexy model for Hooters and Frederick's of Hollywood, and she did a nude spread in Playboy, and the was the eyecandy. She probably was rehearsing with Franken for their USO show, and it sounds like their act included the usual sexual innuendo and at least a mock kiss, and probably a whole lot of raunchy jokes and exaggerated slapstick routines that would appeal to the lusty humor of lonely young men in a war zone.






BlueMTexpat

(15,365 posts)
169. THIS!!!
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 04:14 AM
Nov 2017

From your post ....

"I'v read here on DU and elsewhere, time and again, that we should judge people by their actions. Senator Franken’s actions in terms of women’s rights speak for themselves."

I stand with Al. There is NO comparability between this incident and ANYTHING Roy Moore has done!

LiberalLovinLug

(14,168 posts)
170. Very well said
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 04:23 AM
Nov 2017

I only wish the Democrats in Washington would have "the balls" (sorry) to respond the same way. This should be the exact prepared statement a Democratic spokesperson comes out with. They simply refuse to believe that they can stand up to these kinds of political attacks. Which is was for the most part(not completely, which is how they operate, find a sliver of something and blow it up) They come on air, on Fox News, and scream about such lewd behaviour, (like they have a leg to stand on) and demand Democrats respond by cowering and even resigning at times. Like Charlie Brown, they fall for it every time. And then the Republicans laugh their asses off because we have one less weapon, and they know that they'd never fall for the same thing. (ie Trump is President for fucks sake!).

octoberlib

(14,971 posts)
177. The media really needs to do some digging
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 05:38 AM
Nov 2017

around on this story. Talk to some of the people on the USO tour. Her story stinks. There’s a reason she doesn’t want it investigated.

bearssoapbox

(1,408 posts)
178. You nailed it again NanceGreggs
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 05:57 AM
Nov 2017

The whole story stank of reTHUGliCON rot from the beginning.

I hope Franken gets the ethics inquiry so he can bring in witnesses to testify.

Hopefully under oath.

As if that would make a difference to the more rabid, right wing reTHUGliCONS.

kydo

(2,679 posts)
186. Al Franken and Dems IMHO handled this the way it should be!
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 07:48 AM
Nov 2017

Can't say the same for the rethugs and the doubling down on the support of their sexual predators.

There are many issues at play in all this.

The first is the victim. We must always believe the victim. Now after the victim tells their story and more information is known. If the story starts to unravel then we change our mind on believing. But we do have to is give the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise. Forever the victim was generally discounted. Which makes it hard to come fourth when you don't think it will matter in the first place.

Then there is the accused. That's trickier. There are many different types of sexual assault and harassment. There is no one size fits all. Franken is not pedophile. Moore probably is.

Then there is how the accused responds. Franken, admitted, apologized and wants to be investigated. Moore flatly denies, and shames, and lashes out.

Because these two are in politics we will get all the dirty nonsense that comes with politics.

I am proud of Franken on how he has handled this. Taking the high road. He never said harsh and demeaning things about the victim or called this a witch hunt. The same can not be said of Moore.

Then there is that orange creature with tiny appendages. That thing is a sexual predator among many other vile things. But thinks he can call out Franken yet is silent on Moore. The hypocrisy is sickening!!

Raster

(20,998 posts)
187. Fuckin' A! This Franken NONSENSE is meant to be a distraction and diversion...
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 07:54 AM
Nov 2017

...from other matters at hand.

This HIT JOB is FALSE EQUIVALENCY out the ying-yang, and I am a bit amazed at all the "Franken resign" sleepers and sleazebots out-and-about in DU.

Demsrule86

(68,539 posts)
190. I will recommend this post agree.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 08:21 AM
Nov 2017

It is a different thing to be goofing around on a plane...silly maybe but not in the category of Moore or the Hollywood guy. And today they are trashing Bill Clinton. We should not attack our own period. But some live for the ability to attack Democrats because they truly don't like Democrats when all is said and I done

lark

(23,078 posts)
206. Another K&R
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 10:19 AM
Nov 2017

I'm with you 100% on this and I was previously a rape counselor and am one of the millions of women who say #METOO. That the charges against Franken are pure political in nature are obvious and that the rw did this to throw the media off the scent of Moore and drumpf is also obvious. Stone telegraphed this coming 24 hours in advance, so this wasn't just some decision to come forward but sa coordinated ploy to change the topic and make it "all sides do it". Other people that were there said the photo was staged and that he didn't actually grope her.

marieo1

(1,402 posts)
215. Nancegreggs
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 10:52 AM
Nov 2017

Oh, you are so right. It is refreshing to see someone talking good ole common sense!!! Thank You!!

snowybirdie

(5,221 posts)
228. You failed to mention
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:47 AM
Nov 2017

Ralph raising his fist to Alice and threatening to send her to the moon! Always good for a laugh

Paladin

(28,246 posts)
231. K&R. Very well said.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:56 AM
Nov 2017

We're in a war against the imposition of a fascist takeover in this country---I see no point in sacrificing one of our very best foot soldiers. A censure from the Senate is more-than-adequate punishment for Franken---a lot more punishment than trump will ever receive for a lot worse sexual travesties.

Orsino

(37,428 posts)
234. One photo can't possibly make clear that Franken didn't touch her.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:02 PM
Nov 2017

It's a snapshot, with neither situation nor outcome made crystalline.

While I can agree that the source and provenance of the story are a little suspicous, the kind of activity claimed really was infringing, and an apology would certainly be due not only the target, but also to onlookers whom Franke as a star influenced by whatever his actions were.

Both sides really do do it. That is about the only thing that's abundantly clear, whether or not a full report manages to exonerate Franken, and whether or not his resignation is called for. I'm on the fence on that last point, because we know so little about the situation and understand less...and yes, because as you say, Franken has been a force for good.

Because I still want so badly to believe in his good judgment, I'm really curius about what he does next.

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
238. rec & IMO Al ASKS for ethics review, will place the PEDO(s) & attackers of woman
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:37 PM
Nov 2017

on the same public stage.

By the way, I though it was mentioned the woman wasn't asleep when the photo was taken- they were pretending to sleep as part of a skit for photos.

I found most annoying the major media used the 'asleep' words the RW 'propaganda medias used when they 'crafted" this smear around a USO tour 'photo'. Crafted attack it was by the same RW medias known for years for their business of smears for republican party only.

Useless in FL

(329 posts)
250. Recommend!!!!
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 01:54 PM
Nov 2017

Your argument was very well developed and presented! I totally agree with you. Don't let the R's get away with presenting this false equivalency!

 

The_Casual_Observer

(27,742 posts)
253. I really couldn't give a shit about that stupid woman.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:29 PM
Nov 2017

Some fox news twit that made a living as a cock tease for years goes all anguished about some bullshit. Franken should have just blown that shitbird off.

still_one

(92,108 posts)
256. Based on what Al Franken himself admits, it was inappropriate, but not because it was sexual
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:41 PM
Nov 2017

harassment, but because allegedly he was making fun of someone at the expense of a laugh. That's what a lot of comedians and entertainers do. While the alleged unwanted kiss could be construed as a form of harassment, I think more facts are needed before we can come to that conclusion, and at the minimum, we need to hear Al Franken's side.

The attempt by the right wing media and others to equate this with the activities of Moore, Weinstein, etc. is ridiculous.

Does that mean that someone who makes a distasteful joke or quip which involves a sexual connotation involving women, is an harasser?

I know for a fact some people consider the use of profanity a form of harassment.

Al Franken has apologized. I suspect there are quite a few people who have done a lot of stupid, immature things in their lives, that they would apologize for, but do NOT mean they are sexual harassers.

Just at movies like "Animal House", "Risky Business", "American Pie", "Hangover", etc. How should we characterize those who found parts of those movies humorous? Are they "potential sexual harassers"?

It would be interesting if people reflected on their behavior during the high school or college years what their take would be now?


Rainngirl

(243 posts)
258. I agree 100%!!
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:48 PM
Nov 2017

You've said it much better than I could. I'm sick of the false equivalence crap. Both sides will NEVER be equal in the bad behavior category.

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
277. USO tour Robin Williams & Al Franken playing Saddam Hussian, Xmas 2003. Camp Arifjan, Kuwait.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 05:53 PM
Nov 2017

Warning: coarse language. (This is not the "Retreat" video.) Robin Williams performs for the troops on December 15, 2003, at Camp Arifjan in Ahmadi, Kuwait. I videotaped this MWR event while off duty during my Army deployment as a cargo transfer truck driver in Iraq and Kuwait from June 2003 to September 2004. Robin's stand-up comedy routine was part of the USO's "Hope and Freedom Tour" which also featured pro-wrestler Kurt Angle and racecar driver Mike Wallace on that evening and, a few days later, actress Karri Turner from the TV show JAG, comedian (now senator) Al Franken role-playing as Saddam Hussein who was captured just a few days earlier, country-western singer Darryl Worley, and some of the Washington Redskins cheerleaders. Thanks for making us laugh, Robin. The stage at Camp Arifjan was located at 28°52'12.25"N 48°9'35.75"E just west of the water tower

Roben Williams


Al Franken and by the way there is a "kiss scene & more"

panader0

(25,816 posts)
278. Has Leeann made any big deposits into her bank account lately?
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 05:59 PM
Nov 2017

I'm pretty sure she didn't decide to do this all by herself.
Instead of furthering the agenda of women who were actually abused,
she is setting it back with these ridiculous claims.
Even Lindsey Graham agrees that no one would have a photo taken if real abuse was
occurring.

Pope George Ringo II

(1,896 posts)
281. It was a bad joke in poor taste and he deserves no credit for making it.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 06:12 PM
Nov 2017

But I don't think it rises to the level of sexual harassment, in context. He's handling the fallout now like an adult and that's about all we can say until somebody provides more information. Like with Takei, I tend to take a lot more notice of somebody who can establish a pattern of abuse, and we haven't seen that yet.

Jane Austin

(9,199 posts)
285. Franken was a comedian.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 06:58 PM
Nov 2017

He was clowning around.

Doesn't pass the good-taste test these days, but that all.

 

Jim Beard

(2,535 posts)
299. It passed the test for the troops.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 10:57 PM
Nov 2017

As a man dressed as Robin Hood one Halloween said, "Bartender, wine and fresh P____ for me and my men".

PatrickforO

(14,566 posts)
289. You're not becoming unpopular because of this post.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 08:10 PM
Nov 2017

Lots of people are thinking the same way about this.

Misskittycat

(1,916 posts)
294. The right wing is setting us up; "weaponizing" harassment allegations.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 09:45 PM
Nov 2017

They know that Dems will bend over backward to believe women who allege harassment. We were played, conned, scammed. There are so many facts and circumstances in this case that make it suspect, not the least of which is her making the rounds of news and talks shows dressed up in that phone "librarian" disguise - as well as her connections with right-wing media.

Eyeball_Kid

(7,430 posts)
302. You decided to step into the minefield...
Sat Nov 18, 2017, 04:51 AM
Nov 2017

and deftly danced all the way through, in one piece.

Well done traversing the difficult cultural and "evangelical" (not necessarily religious) semantic traps ready to explode at any second.

You're right about the suspiciousness of Stone's prediction, and of Tweedon's misuse of a gag photo. But I suspect that Franken will get the last laugh here. He knew exactly what he was doing by requesting an ethics investigation. This will be interesting. Watch what he does.

NanceGreggs

(27,813 posts)
308. I also believe ...
Sat Nov 18, 2017, 10:33 PM
Nov 2017

... that Franken will get the last laugh.

"He knew exactly what he was doing by requesting an ethics investigation."

Yes, he certainly did.

aikoaiko

(34,165 posts)
304. "It was a joke" is a common defense to harassment.
Sat Nov 18, 2017, 10:02 AM
Nov 2017

I'm not saying he needs to leave the Senator, but the claims are true that he was mockingly staging a groping picture while she was sleeping, that is not trivial.

NanceGreggs

(27,813 posts)
307. And sadly enough ...
Sat Nov 18, 2017, 10:29 PM
Nov 2017

... "it was sexual harassment" has become a common accusation to levy against those who tell jokes.

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