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Skinner

(63,645 posts)
Wed May 9, 2012, 02:59 PM May 2012

President Obama Affirms His Support for Same Sex Marriage

Source: ABC News

President Obama today announced that he now supports same-sex marriage, reversing his longstanding opposition amid growing pressure from the Democratic base and even his own vice president.

In an interview with ABC News’ Robin Roberts, the president described his thought process as an “evolution” that led him to this place, based on conversations with his own staff members, openly gay and lesbian service members, and conversations with his wife and own daughters.

"I have to tell you that over the course of several years as I have talked to friends and family and neighbors when I think about members of my own staff who are in incredibly committed monogamous relationships, same-sex relationships, who are raising kids together, when I think about those soldiers or airmen or marines or sailors who are out there fighting on my behalf and yet feel constrained, even now that Don't Ask Don't Tell is gone, because they are not able to commit themselves in a marriage, at a certain point I’ve just concluded that for me personally it is important for me to go ahead and affirm that I think same sex couples should be able to get married,” Obama told Roberts, in an interview to appear on ABC’s “Good Morning America” Thursday. Excerpts of the interview will air tonight on ABC’s “World News with Diane Sawyer.”

The president stressed that this is a personal position, and that he still supports the concept of states deciding the issue on their own. But he said he’s confident that more Americans will grow comfortable with gays and lesbians getting married, citing his own daughters’ comfort with the concept.

Read more: http://gma.yahoo.com/blogs/abc-blogs/president-obama-affirms-his-support-for-same-sex-marriage.html



Video here: http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-26797925/obama-same-sex-marriage-should-be-legal-29242313.html
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President Obama Affirms His Support for Same Sex Marriage (Original Post) Skinner May 2012 OP
Thank you. I was just about to post this. !!!!! TalkingDog May 2012 #1
Well alrighty then1 JustAnotherGen May 2012 #2
Yeah, right. Just add it to "Teh List." Ian David May 2012 #3
next we need one that says Voice for Peace May 2012 #129
+1000! And "I think it's up to the states to decide this issue". SammyWinstonJack May 2012 #210
Too LITTLE TOO LATE!! I WANT MY PONY!!! DFab420 May 2012 #4
C'mon Vanje May 2012 #192
No shit. NYC_SKP May 2012 #229
Woo-hoo!!!!! one_voice May 2012 #5
Thank you President Obama! NYC Liberal May 2012 #6
Kick. pinto May 2012 #7
I hope his mathematicians know what they're doing. nt onehandle May 2012 #8
Believe it or not, a lot of Americans who support marriage equality Hissyspit May 2012 #28
Amen, but still, I hope the math holds. onehandle May 2012 #51
Thanks for your concern. nt TBF May 2012 #61
I'm sure that would be their first order of business HotRodTuna May 2012 #91
"Romney would be a powerless figurehead" NO! edcantor May 2012 #169
Not true. liberalmuse May 2012 #178
Is that what Harry Reid does? Bashing anyone because of their faith or lack thereof 24601 May 2012 #187
I was thinking of this today napoleon_in_rags May 2012 #197
He did the right thing. Astounding to think that people often admire someone more sabrina 1 May 2012 #202
You and me both. eom Purveyor May 2012 #30
Perhaps I misunderstand you. FedUp_Queer May 2012 #87
I don't know what the fuck from my post would make you 'ill'. Save the crap for those that Purveyor May 2012 #153
Like yours? FedUp_Queer May 2012 #230
Welcome to me ignore list but be forewarned, it is very lonely on that list. Enjoy. eom Purveyor May 2012 #231
I don't know ignore anyone. FedUp_Queer May 2012 #232
Polling: 48.8% support, 47.1% oppose jeff47 May 2012 #59
This will change about 20 points because when Obama is for something, the haters become against it nanabugg May 2012 #115
The racists already oppose both Obama and gay rights. yardwork May 2012 #126
This will gain him votes obamanut2012 May 2012 #135
Doubtful. The haters were already against it. (nt) jeff47 May 2012 #146
But it will also energize supporters as well, NYC Liberal May 2012 #165
Count me among the ENERGIZED! nt Vanje May 2012 #194
Me too. Jamastiene May 2012 #207
sp close. emilyg May 2012 #164
Hey! Look at this punch bowl. Vanje May 2012 #193
It's time the venomous ugly underbelly of this issue sees the light of day Fearless May 2012 #199
About time. Ruby the Liberal May 2012 #9
Magnificent! janx May 2012 #10
I am sure it will play Inuca May 2012 #22
I searched this on youtube to post, results gave things like 'Obama is the anti-Christ.' freshwest May 2012 #38
Thank you; it works now! janx May 2012 #57
Janx (and others), Kadie found it and asked me to post it here: freshwest May 2012 #104
Excellent. janx May 2012 #122
This takes real guts to do this OKNancy May 2012 #11
Yep... one_voice May 2012 #19
+1 freshwest May 2012 #20
Actually, it might be to his advantage. Yukari Yakumo May 2012 #41
Yeah there is no risk in this. tcaudilllg May 2012 #150
Yes, but ... kurt_cagle May 2012 #162
The people who are strongly against gay marriage.... Vanje May 2012 #195
I totally agree with you - real guts to do this. beveeheart May 2012 #78
K!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! R!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! for Leadership! Vanje May 2012 #12
I predict this will have a significant effect on the election... brooklynite May 2012 #13
FUCK YES! ABOUT GODDAMNED TIME! Behind the Aegis May 2012 #14
If the citizens of your state want you to have them dbackjon May 2012 #31
I must have missed that part. Behind the Aegis May 2012 #44
Yup. While welcoming the evolution, I am still underwhelmed. dbackjon May 2012 #60
Sadly, I am now in agreement with you. Behind the Aegis May 2012 #83
Playing it safe. Now will he call off his DOJ on MMJ for the citizens of states who want it? SammyWinstonJack May 2012 #211
The hypocracy dbackjon May 2012 #219
I endorse your statement swimboy May 2012 #155
Thanks yesphan May 2012 #15
Better late than never Mira May 2012 #16
Changed my signature line... KansDem May 2012 #17
Ezra Klein Inuca May 2012 #18
BRAVO, Mr. President!!! Cali_Democrat May 2012 #21
I'm glad he has come out to support it maddezmom May 2012 #23
Wow! Steerpike May 2012 #24
I believe this is smart politics actually. David__77 May 2012 #25
You would be right if we had national elections. It will cost him in the electoral college grantcart May 2012 #46
Eh, I think Missouri's kind of a lost cause anyway. They were red in '08. Arugula Latte May 2012 #125
Missouri was lost by only 4,000 votes and has an important Senate race grantcart May 2012 #143
But it will make him win the toss up but blue leaning SWTORFanatic May 2012 #145
Its possible but arguable at best but my response was to the opinion that this was 'smart' politics. grantcart May 2012 #148
The presidency will be won or lost on the economy Hippo_Tron May 2012 #168
If the election were to be won or lost on the economy then they would have called it already. grantcart May 2012 #200
MOST PROGRESSIVE PRESIDENT IN U.S. HISTORY! FarLeftFist May 2012 #26
Huffington post article TrogL May 2012 #27
in the immortal words of Rupual.... bettydavis May 2012 #29
Nice flamingdem May 2012 #32
I'm hoping Flatpicker May 2012 #33
On behalf of my Gay friends JitterbugPerfume May 2012 #34
Thank you JBP! soleft May 2012 #79
you are so welcome! JitterbugPerfume May 2012 #110
Today's good news! Magoo48 May 2012 #35
Gay Marriage cheriemedium59 May 2012 #36
Welcome to DU, cheriemedium59! CaliforniaPeggy May 2012 #67
WOW. THANK YOU Mr. President. Maven May 2012 #37
This is excellent news! horseshoecrab May 2012 #39
He did the right thing. Kudos to the Prez /nt think May 2012 #40
Good for him. It's only fair. closeupready May 2012 #42
Thank You my President... Tikki May 2012 #43
That's my President!!! Pachamama May 2012 #45
Yes!!!!!! This is incredible news!!!! Congratulations to all LBGTA community!!! Pisces May 2012 #47
NOW move the convention bettydavis May 2012 #48
POLL: Will this help or hurt Obama? Zadoc May 2012 #49
As much as falling gas prices are.....nt Evasporque May 2012 #53
Historical statement, Mr. President. Thank you. Starry Messenger May 2012 #50
OK then marions ghost May 2012 #52
YES!!! Hosnon May 2012 #54
fighting the good fight...thank you Mr. President... ileus May 2012 #55
FINALLY...... MindMover May 2012 #56
Finally - and yes, it's a strategic move as well as the right thing to say on ethical grounds - haele May 2012 #58
Better late than never. Thank you Mr. President! nt TBF May 2012 #62
Love my president!!!! Politicub May 2012 #63
Another thing Iliyah May 2012 #64
K & R Scurrilous May 2012 #65
Kicked and recommended. Uncle Joe May 2012 #66
While I am thrilled to have a sitting president say the words, Ms. Toad May 2012 #68
This Dutchman is starting to feel very good BB1 May 2012 #69
Such a no brainer and much less risky than the OBL raid. Lucky Luciano May 2012 #70
Barack Obama: First sitting President to support Marriage Equality! Renew Deal May 2012 #71
Thank you, I and several of my loved ones Autumn May 2012 #72
Great news - thank you Mr President ruggerson May 2012 #73
my first post azmom May 2012 #74
Welcome to DU, azmom! Rhiannon12866 May 2012 #105
Welcome to DU1 yellerpup May 2012 #120
Like! Vanje May 2012 #196
K&R for the president! Rhiannon12866 May 2012 #75
Wooooh!!! Chemisse May 2012 #76
Holy balls. Arkana May 2012 #77
Woo-hoo! Now it's time for the feds to recognize ALL married couples! nilram May 2012 #80
Congrats to Obama being the first POTUS to openly support gay marriage! Jon Ace May 2012 #81
And now he will need our support! bluedigger May 2012 #82
This is very good to hear Berlin Expat May 2012 #84
K and R bigwillq May 2012 #85
Hey, bro! swimboy May 2012 #156
I am glad Obama said what he did bigwillq May 2012 #157
Post removed Post removed May 2012 #86
Bragging that you don't support equal rights? Ruby the Liberal May 2012 #94
Gone, gone, gone. MineralMan May 2012 #119
And deservedly so. Here are the jury results. WonderGrunion May 2012 #204
The right thing to do. Now the uglies will show their true hatred. Faygo Kid May 2012 #88
He did the right thing, regardless of the political impact. Hoyt May 2012 #89
He couldn't have piped up with this two days ago? Jester Messiah May 2012 #90
If you are thinking it would have made some difference in the NC Amendment 1 NorthCarolina May 2012 #107
Yes, NC would have voted the way it did on Amendment 1 no matter what. Jamastiene May 2012 #208
Obama has never... nod factor May 2012 #92
+1 politicasista May 2012 #141
Stand With President Obama in Support of Marriage Equality Ian David May 2012 #93
We'll see just how much so called 'Liberals' Thrill May 2012 #95
*Sigh* I've been saying the same thing for ages, Thrill Brooklyn Dame May 2012 #101
Equal rights for ALL! RushIsRot May 2012 #96
GLAD to live to see this!! But sad that North Carolina... Brooklyn Dame May 2012 #97
outstanding article... EmeraldCityGrl May 2012 #152
This is a winner! Rosa Luxemburg May 2012 #98
I feel whipsawed today! wildeyed May 2012 #99
Bah Doc_Technical May 2012 #100
Hogwash (nt) jumptheshadow May 2012 #113
So, you think that civil rights are a trivial matter? countryjake May 2012 #123
Trivial to you because you're not gay or the child of gay parents. yardwork May 2012 #127
He will gain net votes from this obamanut2012 May 2012 #137
Wrong.. Wind Dancer May 2012 #160
"I'm going to bet..." Hissyspit May 2012 #188
+1 JNelson6563 May 2012 #214
. myrna minx May 2012 #217
The transformative presidency: he's done it. Duncan Grant May 2012 #102
Crazy Idea #347 Callisto32 May 2012 #103
"...and that he still supports the concept of states deciding the issue on their own." Hell Hath No Fury May 2012 #106
Yes, that part doesn't please me very much obamanut2012 May 2012 #138
Yup, he has now evolved to the exact same position Dick Cheney arrived at three years ago: woo me with science May 2012 #191
I knew he had it in him AsahinaKimi May 2012 #108
I believe Obama has now locked up the youth vote in his column, NorthCarolina May 2012 #109
It was nice of him to announce this today, after the NC defeat. Waiting For Everyman May 2012 #111
Post removed Post removed May 2012 #154
There are black and brown gays and lesbians who care about this issue. Your post is ignorant and Liberal_Stalwart71 May 2012 #175
That theory has been disproven. Jamastiene May 2012 #209
It's an excellent counter to the NC crap. JNelson6563 May 2012 #216
This is fantastic! Chorophyll May 2012 #112
My cup runneth over. nolabear May 2012 #114
Thank you. Pab Sungenis May 2012 #116
I wonder if that will affect the vote in NC in November ProfessionalLeftist May 2012 #117
Thank you, Mr. President! MineralMan May 2012 #118
Thank you, Mr President sarge43 May 2012 #121
Excellent! Be sure to-- eridani May 2012 #124
Thanks for that reminder! countryjake May 2012 #131
Lord only knows I've written enough emails criticizing various policies eridani May 2012 #176
Thank you, President Obama. coffeenap May 2012 #128
Finally. Now lets make sure that he does not regret it by supporting him when they make this their jwirr May 2012 #130
This is interesting... Sparkle May 2012 #132
This is very exciting news to me! nt ZombieHorde May 2012 #133
I'm SHOCKED that he did this MNBrewer May 2012 #134
Just last night people were discussing just when something like this might happen. Not soon. Gregorian May 2012 #136
The comments over at the video link are absurd... and-justice-for-all May 2012 #139
Hell Fucking Yes! RiffRandell May 2012 #140
Yay! Finally a pro-evolution president. Bruce Wayne May 2012 #142
(sigh) it would be meaningless NOW if he had done this in 2009 and short circuited the Tealaban DainBramaged May 2012 #144
That is my President. nt msanthrope May 2012 #147
His Support for Same Sex Marriage means a little Dont_Bogart_the_Pretzel May 2012 #149
"the president needs to make it Federal". Tarheel_Dem May 2012 #225
This is a great day and would officially be the first day he'd be allowed on DU according to our TOS progress2k12nbynd May 2012 #151
Thank you President Obama !!!!!!! nt steve2470 May 2012 #158
The President's words were wonderful to hear... Bluenorthwest May 2012 #159
President Obama did it. It was courageous not to wait until after the election. David Zephyr May 2012 #161
Thank you Mr. President Paka May 2012 #163
A president that says he can learn and change his mind? That is great, wish he'd make it Federal, uppityperson May 2012 #166
So happy - thank you, Mr. President! polichick May 2012 #167
Yay Obama!!!!!!!!! Vattel May 2012 #170
It's the right stance to take; civil rights belong to every American. pacalo May 2012 #171
Media had been saying that his reluctance was partly due to "his Church" What crap! FailureToCommunicate May 2012 #172
WONDERFUL DAY !! THANKS SKINNER. nt Laura PourMeADrink May 2012 #173
I'm very proud of the president for taking this stand. 6000eliot May 2012 #174
There have been things... awoke_in_2003 May 2012 #177
Excellent. K&R. byronius May 2012 #179
the last I heard.... unkachuck May 2012 #180
Now you may have my support and money... Fearless May 2012 #181
Wow. wakemewhenitsover May 2012 #182
I can't wait to see how Romney takes credit for making Obama support same sex marriage Submariner May 2012 #183
Awesome, just awesome! n/t dmr May 2012 #184
+1,000,000,000,000,000,000 Odin2005 May 2012 #185
Did anyone really not see this coming? The Doctor. May 2012 #186
Join me! UnrepentantLiberal May 2012 #201
Good for him,,, finally. Tripod May 2012 #189
As Stewie would say, "Well, the last horse finally crossed the finish line." Suji to Seoul May 2012 #190
DU Rec #300. LAGC May 2012 #198
Tracey Ullman and her two Dads Gabby Hayes May 2012 #203
rec. thank you very much for posting this, Skinner. nt nofurylike May 2012 #205
This is monumental. Jamastiene May 2012 #206
Well well well. Reconcilliation of truth. Bout damn time. lonestarnot May 2012 #212
Great News! But when will environmentalists be considered equal? wordpix May 2012 #213
I am happy that he has come out in personal support of equality varelse May 2012 #215
Bold & Risky Move BlueDemKev May 2012 #218
About time! Yay! grahamhgreen May 2012 #220
Hate to piss on the parade rapturedbyrobots May 2012 #221
you know what, bubbalubagus May 2012 #222
This is what the 21st century looks like!! felix_numinous May 2012 #223
Obama’s gay marriage announcement followed by flood of campaign donations Scurrilous May 2012 #224
Rec # 350! Tarheel_Dem May 2012 #226
DU rec...nt SidDithers May 2012 #227
Electing to Evolve Classy_Liberal May 2012 #228

Ian David

(69,059 posts)
3. Yeah, right. Just add it to "Teh List."
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:01 PM
May 2012

I'm kidding.

THIS IS AWESOME!




BREAKING: Obama Embraces Marriage Equality

President Obama has come out in support of marriage equality for gay and lesbian people in an interview with ABC News’ Robin Roberts this afternoon:

OBAMA: I have to tell you that over the course of several years as I have talked to friends and family and neighbors when I think about members of my own staff who are in incredibly committed monogamous relationships, same-sex relationships, who are raising kids together, when I think about those soldiers or airmen or marines or sailors who are out there fighting on my behalf and yet feel constrained, even now that Don’t Ask Don’t Tell is gone, because they are not able to commit themselves in a marriage, at a certain point I’ve just concluded that for me personally it is important for me to go ahead and affirm that I think same sex couples should be able to get married.

More:
http://thinkprogress.org/lgbt/2012/05/09/481147/obama-marriage-2/




 

Voice for Peace

(13,141 posts)
129. next we need one that says
Wed May 9, 2012, 05:26 PM
May 2012

"I think medical marijuana patients
should be able to get their medicine"

Edit to add that I am very very happy to read that he has come out with this statement, on behalf of humankind I am happy to have such a president.

SammyWinstonJack

(44,130 posts)
210. +1000! And "I think it's up to the states to decide this issue".
Thu May 10, 2012, 08:06 AM
May 2012

Happy to read that he has evolved on same sex marriage.

NYC Liberal

(20,135 posts)
6. Thank you President Obama!
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:03 PM
May 2012

I hope millions more who oppose equal rights on this see the light and change their minds.

Hissyspit

(45,788 posts)
28. Believe it or not, a lot of Americans who support marriage equality
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:15 PM
May 2012

vote.

And a lot of of Americans vote for someone who will stand up for what he/she believes even if they don't agree with that stand. Not all voters are one-issue voters.

Sometimes you just do what's right.

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
51. Amen, but still, I hope the math holds.
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:31 PM
May 2012

President Romney would be a powerless figurehead.

The teahadists he'll take his orders from, would be building ovens.

 

edcantor

(325 posts)
169. "Romney would be a powerless figurehead" NO!
Wed May 9, 2012, 08:00 PM
May 2012

He would be George W Bush on Steroids!

Launch a war with Iran? SURE! Next issue? Deny food stamps to poor? SURE! Next Issue? Refuse to bail out a failing mismanaged major America industry? SURE! Next? Revoke rights for children of illegal parents to attend public schools? SURE! Next issue? Give 5 Trillion in tax cuts to the rich? TOP OF THE AGENDA!~!!

liberalmuse

(18,672 posts)
178. Not true.
Wed May 9, 2012, 08:48 PM
May 2012

Romney would not be a powerless figurehead. He would be actively consulting with the "Prophet" of the Mormon church. I was a Mormon. I lived in Salt Lake City. I've seen various heads of states and sheiks pass through and meet with the President of the Mormon church. Romney and his wife have participated in the Mormon Temple ceremonies, where you essentially take a blood vow to be faithful to the Mormon church and not disclose the temple cermonies, which are a direct ripoff of the Masonic temple cermonies.

napoleon_in_rags

(3,991 posts)
197. I was thinking of this today
Thu May 10, 2012, 12:12 AM
May 2012

Politically I think its a win. There's a whole lot of people out there who don't want to be told what to think, they tolerate hardcore fundamentalists and the like so long as they don't try to take control and tell them what to think. They basically don't spend a lot of time worrying about gay issues either. If Republicans really mount a huge counter offensive to this, it will be coming from an evangelical angle, and that just doesn't play right now.

But it doesn't matter either way. The real point is, I think ethically, morally its a win. The idea that leadership has something to do with obsessing on gay people and how they live their lives is exactly everything that's wrong in this country. Standing up for the right thing is standing up for the right thing.

sabrina 1

(62,325 posts)
202. He did the right thing. Astounding to think that people often admire someone more
Thu May 10, 2012, 03:09 AM
May 2012

for doing what is right, even if they do not agree, than someone who holds their finger up to the wind to see how it is blowing. Politicians should try it more often.

Btw, who do you think might hold this against him? Seems to me there is no political risk in his making this statement. Bigots on the right were never going to vote for him. To NOT come out and support it was an even bigger risk, politically. To not do so could have lost him the votes of people he actually had a chance of getting.

I'm very glad he has finally done this.

 

FedUp_Queer

(975 posts)
87. Perhaps I misunderstand you.
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:09 PM
May 2012

However, I find myself ill after reading your post. The implication seems to be (and I may be wrong, and if I am I apologize) that civil rights should be subject to political calculations. The implication also seems to be that if the electoral math were NOT right, he should not come out in favor of the civil rights of us GLBT folks. I am plenty hard on this President (for other reasons, which I find unforgivable). However, speaking only for myself (which is worth about 3.2 cents), this may just make me overlook the many other things I have against this President (NDAA, cutting CSBG, drones, etc.) to elect him to overturn and change those other things. So...here is one person who said he would no way vote for him (after being very enthusiastic last time) because of the things I cite above, who might just very well now vote for him and, in fact work for him.

 

Purveyor

(29,876 posts)
153. I don't know what the fuck from my post would make you 'ill'. Save the crap for those that
Wed May 9, 2012, 06:23 PM
May 2012

deserve it.

 

FedUp_Queer

(975 posts)
232. I don't know ignore anyone.
Wed May 16, 2012, 04:24 PM
May 2012

Those lists are for cowards, milquetoasts and people who have no business engaging in political debate (truly a blood sport).

 

nanabugg

(2,198 posts)
115. This will change about 20 points because when Obama is for something, the haters become against it
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:59 PM
May 2012

don't care what the sexual preference is. Don't care if you are for or against abortion, choice, same sex marriage, gays in the military....doesn't. Racism trumps it all.

yardwork

(61,588 posts)
126. The racists already oppose both Obama and gay rights.
Wed May 9, 2012, 05:14 PM
May 2012

I believe that this will help reassure many Democrats that it is ok to be in favor of equal rights for gay people. I predict that this will not hurt Obama at all and will move acceptance of gay rights forward.

Thank you, President Obama.

obamanut2012

(26,068 posts)
135. This will gain him votes
Wed May 9, 2012, 05:33 PM
May 2012

Because his anti-marriage equality stance has turned off a lot of supporters, and has even cooled off this Obama nut's ardor.

NYC Liberal

(20,135 posts)
165. But it will also energize supporters as well,
Wed May 9, 2012, 06:59 PM
May 2012

perhaps especially those for whom this is an important issue.

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
199. It's time the venomous ugly underbelly of this issue sees the light of day
Thu May 10, 2012, 01:56 AM
May 2012

People will see how stupid they are for hating others just because of who they love. Ignorance is a powerful tool of the GOP. We need to do the opposite to win.

Inuca

(8,945 posts)
22. I am sure it will play
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:09 PM
May 2012

over and over and over all over the place. Because it is worth it (I did not see it, but there is no doubt about it).

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
38. I searched this on youtube to post, results gave things like 'Obama is the anti-Christ.'
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:20 PM
May 2012

I'll check back later in the day and post it for you if I find it.

Mox News on youtube posts CSPAN and others hard to find videos so he may have this one in a few hours.

I can't get MSNBC, Huffpo, Medialite, etc. videos to work on my computer either so I'll look for it there.

This is good news for all humans!

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
104. Janx (and others), Kadie found it and asked me to post it here:
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:41 PM
May 2012
President Obama Endorses Gay Marriage



There is a second video on Kadie's thread:

Obama: 'I Think Same Sex Couples Should Be Able To Get Married'

http://www.democraticunderground.com/101727251

OKNancy

(41,832 posts)
11. This takes real guts to do this
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:04 PM
May 2012

He is casting aside any electoral disadvantage to do the right thing.
I'm filled with even more admiration for him.

one_voice

(20,043 posts)
19. Yep...
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:08 PM
May 2012

This is very risky. I admire him for doing this!

I don't think he cares what the politics of it are, he wanted to do the right thing. Good for him! I'm proud of our President!!

Yukari Yakumo

(3,013 posts)
41. Actually, it might be to his advantage.
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:21 PM
May 2012

Recent poll via Gallup (from LGF):

Support for Same-Sex Marriage--
Total: For 50%, Against 48%
Dem: For 65%, Against 34%
Ind: For 57%, Against 40%
Rep: For 22%, Against 74%

In short, choosing this stance will further solidify Obama's base and should play well with Independents.

 

tcaudilllg

(1,553 posts)
150. Yeah there is no risk in this.
Wed May 9, 2012, 06:18 PM
May 2012

I'd say this will get him the unqualified support of 55% of the people. The moral issue will trump the economy this time around.

Romney just threw away any chance he had of winning. Oh wait, he never had one.

kurt_cagle

(534 posts)
162. Yes, but ...
Wed May 9, 2012, 06:45 PM
May 2012

First, let me see that I think this was an incredibly brave stance for Obama to make, and applaud him for it.

However, while the population numbers are for it, keep in mind that electoral politics don't necessarily equate to total vote percentages. Thirty states have laws on the book banning gay marriages, many including civil unions in that. Six states have voted to support gay marriage, and another 13 support civil unions but not gay marriage. New Mexico is the only state that has no laws on the books regarding gay marriage one way or another. (Colorado, curiously enough is the only inner Western state that supports civil unions, even given the high Christian base there.)

Those 19 states are the locations of concentrated urban centers - NY, Boston, Chicago, DC (for Maryland), Seattle, San Francisco and Los Angeles. I think there are probably one or two others that might switch category (Minnesota, for instance, might move into at least supporting civil unions), so that means that there are effectively 20 states where support for that position would translate into an electoral win. I would not be at all surprised if that also ends up being the breakdown of the electoral college. Hopefully that will be enough.

Vanje

(9,766 posts)
195. The people who are strongly against gay marriage....
Wed May 9, 2012, 11:43 PM
May 2012

were'nt going to vote for Obama anyway.

This is pure WIN!

brooklynite

(94,502 posts)
13. I predict this will have a significant effect on the election...
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:05 PM
May 2012

...in the States that weren't going to vote for Obama anyway.

Behind the Aegis

(53,950 posts)
44. I must have missed that part.
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:23 PM
May 2012

Give with one hand, take with the other. Oklahoma will allow gay marriage when....oh hell, that will never happen without Federal intervention.

SammyWinstonJack

(44,130 posts)
211. Playing it safe. Now will he call off his DOJ on MMJ for the citizens of states who want it?
Thu May 10, 2012, 08:24 AM
May 2012

Why isn't that also a states issue?

Mira

(22,380 posts)
16. Better late than never
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:07 PM
May 2012

Geez- I so hate cliches but it fits in my mind. I'll take it now, with gratitude, and know full well that he has always felt this way.

Inuca

(8,945 posts)
18. Ezra Klein
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:08 PM
May 2012

(tweet) The White House probably feels like Joe Biden has said enough already, but I'd still like him to pop up and call this "a big f***ing deal."

It is, indeed. A VERY BIG f***ing deal!!

David__77

(23,369 posts)
25. I believe this is smart politics actually.
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:13 PM
May 2012

He has to draw a line on cultural issues between himself and Romney. This is it. It will not alienate anyone that supported Obama in 2008, although not all will agree. The people who really care and are opposed are those that were never with him.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
46. You would be right if we had national elections. It will cost him in the electoral college
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:27 PM
May 2012

States like Missouri, North Carolina, Virginia, Iowa.
 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
125. Eh, I think Missouri's kind of a lost cause anyway. They were red in '08.
Wed May 9, 2012, 05:14 PM
May 2012

Iowa has gay marriage, so it might not sway many people.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
143. Missouri was lost by only 4,000 votes and has an important Senate race
Wed May 9, 2012, 05:57 PM
May 2012

It will be a major battle ground state.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
148. Its possible but arguable at best but my response was to the opinion that this was 'smart' politics.
Wed May 9, 2012, 06:11 PM
May 2012


Its high risk with moderate to low reward.

I just don't think it is a slam dunk politically.

There is another side to this and that is that there is serious major money in by Gay contributors and it probably will mean more revenue for Obama than Romney.

Hippo_Tron

(25,453 posts)
168. The presidency will be won or lost on the economy
Wed May 9, 2012, 07:58 PM
May 2012

The President has enough of a lead in the swing states that he would win the electoral college if the election were held today. The only way that Mittens can beat the President, is to convince voters in these crucial swing states that the President is the problem with the economy and he is the solution. Pandering on social issues ain't gonna cut it.

Furthermore, this will get Mittens way off message. Every moment that Mittens spends trying to pander to social conservatives on this issue, is a moment he's not spending trying to convince people in Missouri, North Carolina, Virginia, and Iowa that he can do a better job on the economy. If we're still talking about gay marriage and birth control come October, the Republicans don't stand a chance in hell.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
200. If the election were to be won or lost on the economy then they would have called it already.
Thu May 10, 2012, 02:06 AM
May 2012

It took the Dow Jones 126 years to get to 6700 and in three years the President has been in office it has gained 6700.

During the same time Japan has drifted into further, Europe is on the precipice of another great collapse.

General Motors has gone from bankruptcy to the largest car manufacturer in the world.

Unemployment, a lagging indicator has made a steady improvement.

The "Economy" has been the most over rated fixture of political decision in modern history. President Clinton oversaw the greatest economic growth in history, the greatest reverse of deficit to surplus and the greatest increase of personal income in history, and he was impeached.

Elections are more about posturing of mythology than anything else, sometimes the economy is part of that mythology.

A few months ago I talked to the owner of a contractor that was working in different municipalities fulfilling contracts directly related to projects detailed under the stimulus. In a down economy he was prospering. I remarked that the people in this area had received more stimulus than any other area and yet they would vote against him because he was so pro-Gay. He responded, "I don't know about that, all I know is that he is a Goddamned Communist." When your African American nothing is ever going to be just about 'the economy".

Flatpicker

(894 posts)
33. I'm hoping
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:18 PM
May 2012

That this doesn't torpedo the 2012 election.

Now, we (all of us progressives) have to make sure we get out the vote because you know the right is going to use this as a scare tactic to drive up conservative voters.

horseshoecrab

(944 posts)
39. This is excellent news!
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:20 PM
May 2012

It is time and Obama is the man!



I am thinking of my LGBT friends - and relatives too. This is a big freaking deal for all!


horseshoecrab



Zadoc

(195 posts)
49. POLL: Will this help or hurt Obama?
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:29 PM
May 2012

I just have to say it's about damn time. He should've been supporting EQUAL RIGHTS since day one.

POLL: Will his endorsement of same-sex marriage help or hurt Obama in November?
Vote: http://www.wepolls.com/p/9637685

haele

(12,647 posts)
58. Finally - and yes, it's a strategic move as well as the right thing to say on ethical grounds -
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:37 PM
May 2012

It gives the teabaggers something to focus their ire on other than the economy. It will make the "religious riecht" foam at the mouth all the way through the election, and appear even more fanatical and unpalatable to the independants and many undecideds that President Obama will be "the sane person" in the room.

Of course, I'm not saying that's the reason he said what he did the way he did, but it is a political gamble that shows a progression in values that is attractive to the non-fanatics during an election year. It definatly sets him apart...and there are fewer hyper-religious Democrats that would be offended than there are non-fanatical borderline Republicans and Independants that would be attracted.

Haele

Iliyah

(25,111 posts)
64. Another thing
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:43 PM
May 2012

Blacks still will vote for him, and I'm pretty many GOPs

I'm severely serious!

40% of NC didn't understand Amendment One. They voted against it because churches told them to because of gay marriage. NC already had a law, something a great many of them did even know. That said once the other BS parts become open - surprise suprise.

Anywho, Pres O will win by a landside.

Ms. Toad

(34,062 posts)
68. While I am thrilled to have a sitting president say the words,
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:49 PM
May 2012

it will take more than words for me to be convinced this (and other advances such as doing away with DADA - supported as the election comes closer and closer) is anything other than a strategic recognition that he needs LGBT individuals and the youth to go to the polls in order to be re-elected.

I guess the motivation shouldn't really matter - in a very real sense, often even insincere actions repeated long enough lead to real changes.

So here's to change on the horizon.

BB1

(798 posts)
69. This Dutchman is starting to feel very good
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:50 PM
May 2012

about the course Obama is sailing. End a war, endorse gay marriage.
Now let up on the pot, end your other overseas (and covert) war(s), fail some big banks and keep the police away from #OWS. End of x-mas list, ghehe.

Seriously guys, I feel good about this! Congrats!

Lucky Luciano

(11,253 posts)
70. Such a no brainer and much less risky than the OBL raid.
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:50 PM
May 2012

In the event of an OBL raid failure, Obama would have been a certain one termer. Taking a stance on equal rights is much less risky to his second term chances in my opinion, so it is surprising it took this long.

azmom

(5,208 posts)
74. my first post
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:53 PM
May 2012

I am so filled with joy over the news. Soooo happy. It's been a long time coming. My own daughter, she's 17, is also very comfortable with the concept. She could never understand what the big deal was. Great news.

Chemisse

(30,809 posts)
76. Wooooh!!!
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:54 PM
May 2012

Hmm, did he watch Hardball last night? That was the main topic: should he or shouldn't he come out soon with a statement about this.

Sooner is better than later, no matter how you look at it. The one argument against it (on Hardball) was that some older people who otherwise would vote for Obama would be turned off by a pro gay marriage stance.

I disagree. The haters are gonna hate regardless, but the regular elderly people have had decades to adjust to the change in attitudes.

If MY parents (in 70s/80s) are ready to support gay marriage now (and they are!), than any older moderate or liberal person is most likely either supportive or just indifferent about it.

Arkana

(24,347 posts)
77. Holy balls.
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:54 PM
May 2012

He did it.

He actually did it.

Dude broke YEARS of political taboos and said it IN AN ELECTION YEAR.

nilram

(2,886 posts)
80. Woo-hoo! Now it's time for the feds to recognize ALL married couples!
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:57 PM
May 2012

Allow ALL married couples to file their income taxes as 'married'. All sorts of other federal statutes that don't involve the states. Medicare benefits, social security benefits. If you're married in your state, you should be viewed as married by the feds. Yeah, there'd be complexities, but I think there's a lot that doesn't involve the reciprocity-between-the-States issue.

Jon Ace

(243 posts)
81. Congrats to Obama being the first POTUS to openly support gay marriage!
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:57 PM
May 2012

NC can take its 15 electoral votes and go fuck itself

bluedigger

(17,086 posts)
82. And now he will need our support!
Wed May 9, 2012, 03:59 PM
May 2012

I hope this is the first of several contentious issues he gets out in front of for his campaign.

Berlin Expat

(950 posts)
84. This is very good to hear
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:05 PM
May 2012

from President Obama. I'm glad that he's supporting marriage equality.

Oh, and RWNJ's who may be trolling; yeah, I'm a Muslim, and I support marriage equality. And I support President Obama. So, suck it. You're gonna lose this November, insha'Allah, and I'm going to laugh long and hard while you seethe on Election Night.

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
157. I am glad Obama said what he did
Wed May 9, 2012, 06:32 PM
May 2012

I didn't think he would, and especially not before the election.

But there is still that states rights issue.

But this is a good step.

Response to Skinner (Original post)

WonderGrunion

(2,995 posts)
204. And deservedly so. Here are the jury results.
Thu May 10, 2012, 06:05 AM
May 2012

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Faygo Kid

(21,478 posts)
88. The right thing to do. Now the uglies will show their true hatred.
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:11 PM
May 2012

I am hopeful most people will recoil when they see the venemous reaction from the Freepers, dittoheads, tea partiers, Fox News, et al.

It's a good day, NC notwithstanding.

 

NorthCarolina

(11,197 posts)
107. If you are thinking it would have made some difference in the NC Amendment 1
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:46 PM
May 2012

I can pretty much assure you that it would have still passed. Possibly with an even higher margin than it did, given that Fox would have been hammering it home for two full days prior to the primary.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
208. Yes, NC would have voted the way it did on Amendment 1 no matter what.
Thu May 10, 2012, 07:48 AM
May 2012

We have pockets of hate in this state that defy logic in how extreme they are about it.

It would not have mattered either way in NC on Amendment 1.

I'm so happy about him coming out in favor of gay marriage right now, I am actually having to wipe tears away. He has my undying support now. Wow, I'm stunned.

nod factor

(73 posts)
92. Obama has never...
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:22 PM
May 2012

Obama has never not "personally supported gay marriage."
His position has always been the same as John Kerry's in 2004.

He has always said that he, himself, is comfortable with two people of the same sex being married but he believes that [unlike the Civil Rights Act] from a legislative standpoint it should be a State's issue.

So that is the pertinent question really.

Whether or not he believes marriage equality is akin to the Civil Rights Act.

Obama has said nothing new and yet we celebrate.

Well played on their part.

Ian David

(69,059 posts)
93. Stand With President Obama in Support of Marriage Equality
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:22 PM
May 2012

Stand With President Obama in Support of Marriage Equality http://dccc.org/pages/marriage-equality

President Obama has announced that he supports marriage equality for all Americans.

Now we’re facing a critical moment. We must show that the American people stand behind the President and support extending the rights and responsibilities of marriage to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender Americans.

Add your name and stand with President Obama in support of marriage equality.

More:
http://dccc.org/pages/marriage-equality

Thrill

(19,178 posts)
95. We'll see just how much so called 'Liberals'
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:25 PM
May 2012

who complain about Obama, actually stand up for him and fight for him now. Or will they do what Democrats usually do.

Brooklyn Dame

(169 posts)
101. *Sigh* I've been saying the same thing for ages, Thrill
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:31 PM
May 2012

He can't do it all on his own -- and he was quite clear about that during his campaign and inauguration. This mess wasn't created over night and it can't be cleaned up overnight either.


http://borderlessnewsandviews.com/2012/02/5-annoying-things-that-liberals-do/


http://borderlessnewsandviews.com/2012/02/r-or-d/

wildeyed

(11,243 posts)
99. I feel whipsawed today!
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:29 PM
May 2012

So very down about the results of the NC Amendment and now surprised and happy about our President's decision to publicly affirm his support of gay marriage.

Doc_Technical

(3,526 posts)
100. Bah
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:30 PM
May 2012

In the greater scheme of things, (war, pollution, wealth distribution,
loss of rights, etc,) this is a trivial matter.

What few votes that will be gained by this decision will be
far outweighed by the number of votes lost.

The Mainstream Media depends on Presidential elections
to sell advertising time due to the increase of viewers
during this election season.
If the election appears to be an early runaway,
a great deal of anticipated income will not be
realized so actions must be taken to make this
election closer than it otherwise might be.

countryjake

(8,554 posts)
123. So, you think that civil rights are a trivial matter?
Wed May 9, 2012, 05:10 PM
May 2012

I'll raise your "Bah" and say that your comment is full of Bullshit!

I realize that there are some conservative Democrats who may feel disgruntled by our Prez's final "evolution" on the matter of supporting equal rights for our LGBT community, but for you to come in to this celebratory thread with your insulting summation on the matter is beyond cavalier!

yardwork

(61,588 posts)
127. Trivial to you because you're not gay or the child of gay parents.
Wed May 9, 2012, 05:16 PM
May 2012

I don't believe that Obama will lose any votes because of this. People opposed to gay rights are generally already opposed to Obama. Most homophobes are also racists.

Among the subset of people who support Obama but don't support gay rights, I believe that their steadfast support and love for President Obama will actually move them on gay rights, not vice versa.

Duncan Grant

(8,262 posts)
102. The transformative presidency: he's done it.
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:32 PM
May 2012

I'm filled with emotion. It's a profound day in American history.

Thank you, President Obama.

Callisto32

(2,997 posts)
103. Crazy Idea #347
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:36 PM
May 2012

Get government out of marriage. Period.

Make all of the legal benefits to being married a bundle of rights that you and another person can agree, via contract, to share with one another.

This contract could be dissolved at will, and remade with another person.

Hell, maybe even make it so that you can share those rights around: "Friend B gets to make medical decisions, Friend C and I get to file taxes jointly, et cetera.)

 

Hell Hath No Fury

(16,327 posts)
106. "...and that he still supports the concept of states deciding the issue on their own."
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:45 PM
May 2012

"States rights" on a core civil rights issue. Ri-i-i-i-i-ght

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
191. Yup, he has now evolved to the exact same position Dick Cheney arrived at three years ago:
Wed May 9, 2012, 11:30 PM
May 2012

that he is personally in favor of equal marriage but that he still considers it not a civil right, but a privilege that can be denied by states through voting.


Obama, 2012:

http://www.cnn.com/2012/05/09/politics/obama-same-sex-marriage/index.html?hpt=hp_c1

"'At a certain point I've just concluded that for me, personally, it is important for me to go ahead and affirm that I think same-sex couples should be able to get married,' Obama said in an interview with ABC News...The president said he supports the concept of states deciding the issue on their own, ABC News reported."



Cheney, 2009:

Cheney supports same-sex marriage 'on a state-by-state basis'
http://articles.latimes.com/2009/jun/02/nation/na-cheney2.

"June 2, 2009 WASHINGTON — Former Vice President Dick Cheney waded into another roiling public debate Monday, saying he supports same-sex marriage as long as the issue is decided by states rather than the federal government."


There is still much more evolving to do.

 

NorthCarolina

(11,197 posts)
109. I believe Obama has now locked up the youth vote in his column,
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:48 PM
May 2012

and given them huge motivation to get out and vote.

Response to Waiting For Everyman (Reply #111)

 

Liberal_Stalwart71

(20,450 posts)
175. There are black and brown gays and lesbians who care about this issue. Your post is ignorant and
Wed May 9, 2012, 08:39 PM
May 2012

highly offensive!!

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
209. That theory has been disproven.
Thu May 10, 2012, 07:58 AM
May 2012

While I appreciate your support for gay rights, the racial connotation of the various votes on gay marriage has been disproven. African Americans, as a whole, are no more or less homophobic than any other race. They are not a monolith.

Chorophyll

(5,179 posts)
112. This is fantastic!
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:56 PM
May 2012

I hope this will start a trend among Democratic candidates: don't try to appeal to everybody. Stand up for what you really believe.

But mostly, yay President Obama!

nolabear

(41,959 posts)
114. My cup runneth over.
Wed May 9, 2012, 04:59 PM
May 2012

I am so damned happy I could cry. More after I embarrass myself at work a few more times.

ProfessionalLeftist

(4,982 posts)
117. I wonder if that will affect the vote in NC in November
Wed May 9, 2012, 05:01 PM
May 2012

...since a bunch of bassackward yahoos there just passed Amendment 1.

countryjake

(8,554 posts)
131. Thanks for that reminder!
Wed May 9, 2012, 05:26 PM
May 2012

We should all write thank you, while the euphoria is hot! I do have questions on his comment about leaving it up to the states, but I'm still ecstatic at this news today.

eridani

(51,907 posts)
176. Lord only knows I've written enough emails criticizing various policies
Wed May 9, 2012, 08:40 PM
May 2012

That really needs to be balanced out with praise where praise is due.

coffeenap

(3,173 posts)
128. Thank you, President Obama.
Wed May 9, 2012, 05:23 PM
May 2012

You are giving hope and inspiration to the young (and not-so-young) gay and lesbian people of the world today. The kids in the GSA I work with have been lamenting North Carolina all day, but this statement will go a long way toward renewing their confidence in our country.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
130. Finally. Now lets make sure that he does not regret it by supporting him when they make this their
Wed May 9, 2012, 05:26 PM
May 2012

favorite issue.

Sparkle

(1,936 posts)
132. This is interesting...
Wed May 9, 2012, 05:28 PM
May 2012

I thought it was great that the President finally spoke out about this. At first I thought, oh no...there goes his second term. But then I'm thinking if the Republicans try and make this election all about gay marriage and portray him as some gay loving President etc., it will backfire on the Republicans and will probably get more folks out there to vote for him. Nice strategy. (not saying Obama only said it for campaign purposes).

MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
134. I'm SHOCKED that he did this
Wed May 9, 2012, 05:29 PM
May 2012

and I'm glad to have him on the right side of this issue again. Thank you, Mr. Obama!

Keep it up!

Gregorian

(23,867 posts)
136. Just last night people were discussing just when something like this might happen. Not soon.
Wed May 9, 2012, 05:36 PM
May 2012

He's a great man!

and-justice-for-all

(14,765 posts)
139. The comments over at the video link are absurd...
Wed May 9, 2012, 05:41 PM
May 2012

Obama has been on the fence with this for awhile, he sees the light and people want to call him hypocritical.

Bruce Wayne

(692 posts)
142. Yay! Finally a pro-evolution president.
Wed May 9, 2012, 05:57 PM
May 2012

I wonder if Joe Biden was a trial balloon or a provocateur. Either way, evolution works.

DainBramaged

(39,191 posts)
144. (sigh) it would be meaningless NOW if he had done this in 2009 and short circuited the Tealaban
Wed May 9, 2012, 06:03 PM
May 2012

now he has to face fire from an enraged 27% who will try to convince the fence-sitters that the Gay is gonna get ya..........




weak.

149. His Support for Same Sex Marriage means a little
Wed May 9, 2012, 06:12 PM
May 2012

How many states now ban same-sex marriage? 30?

I am truly glad he does support it but the president needs to make it Federal and not let the states/church decide whats right for the country.

Tarheel_Dem

(31,233 posts)
225. "the president needs to make it Federal".
Thu May 10, 2012, 04:21 PM
May 2012

And just how do you suggest he do that? You would need an overwhelming majority of the 535 people who represent us in the US Congress. No? If Obama had all the unilateral power some here seem to think, it would be a no brainer. No president has that authority. He has started the debate. He has moved the discussion to the top levels of this country's government. If this is as important to you as you imply, then write your representatives. They're paid to draft and pass legislation. President Obama is only one branch of government. What about the others?

 

progress2k12nbynd

(221 posts)
151. This is a great day and would officially be the first day he'd be allowed on DU according to our TOS
Wed May 9, 2012, 06:19 PM
May 2012
By registering a Democratic Underground account, you agree to abide by these terms. A single violation of any of these terms could result in your posting privileges being revoked without warning.

No bigoted hate speech. - This includes "opposition to full equal rights for gays and lesbians"


We're all glad he finally came around, but it's interesting we nail losers like Kirk KKK Kameron for opposing full equal rights for gays and lesbians and yet the President gets a thank-you petition for finally taking a stance that any reasonable human being has held for decades...
 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
159. The President's words were wonderful to hear...
Wed May 9, 2012, 06:34 PM
May 2012

I finally made it to a computer to say YIPPEEEEEEEEEE! What a joy the campaign season is shaping up to be...
I loved what he said and how he said it, my Obama tee shirt is being laundered and Barack Obama made me proud today, proud of him as a person and of course as our Democratic President.
A big fucking deal indeed.

David Zephyr

(22,785 posts)
161. President Obama did it. It was courageous not to wait until after the election.
Wed May 9, 2012, 06:40 PM
May 2012

John Kennedy won the 1960 election by the skin of his teeth by carrying Illinois' electoral votes narrowly. His electoral base then was the South which he had solidly carried.

Still, ignoring how pivotal that Southern electoral base would be to his re-election electoral strategy in 1964, President Kennedy boldly sent U.S Marshals and the National Guard to the University of Mississippi to force the American civil right of James Meredith to attend that public university. What a great moment for this nation that was. I still remember it like it was yesterday.

By any account, that was not a "smart" political move for President Kennedy to have done. I personally believe, it would have cost him the '64 election. But...President Kennedy did the right thing. And the rest is history. Kudos to John F. Kennedy.

Today, President Obama, at possibly the risk of losing the 2012 election (because let's face it, my civil rights as a gay American man are not resoundingly popular in this nation) did the right thing. He acted as President of all Americans. Kudos to Barack Obama.

I am very proud of him. His detractors can go to hell.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
166. A president that says he can learn and change his mind? That is great, wish he'd make it Federal,
Wed May 9, 2012, 07:52 PM
May 2012

not up to states though. Good for him

FailureToCommunicate

(14,012 posts)
172. Media had been saying that his reluctance was partly due to "his Church" What crap!
Wed May 9, 2012, 08:22 PM
May 2012

Last edited Thu May 10, 2012, 10:23 AM - Edit history (1)

It's a shame when reporters can't get such a simple point correct.
His church was-is the UCC, the United Church of Christ, one of the most progressive of Protestant denominations. They have been at the fore front of acceptance of this issue since the early seventies (close behind the Unitarian Universalist Association).

http://www.ucc.org/lgbt/lgbt-history-timeline.html

From Wiki:
"Same-sex marriage
Churches in the UCC can sanctify same-sex unions.[26] The resolution "In support of equal marriage rights for all", supported by an estimated 80% of the UCC's 2005 general synod delegates, made the United Church of Christ the first major Christian deliberative body in the U.S. to make a statement of support for "equal marriage rights for all people, regardless of gender," and is hitherto the largest Christian denominational entity in the U.S. supporting same-sex marriage.[27]

(Thanks, Skinner, for posting)

6000eliot

(5,643 posts)
174. I'm very proud of the president for taking this stand.
Wed May 9, 2012, 08:35 PM
May 2012

I'm also proud to have voted for him, despite other differences I might have with his administration's policies.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
177. There have been things...
Wed May 9, 2012, 08:45 PM
May 2012

that I have disagreed with the President about. The inauguration prayer thing, in particular, really chapped my ass. It looks like his position has evolved- I applaud this loudly. I know my thinking had to evolve on the issue of marriage equality- education and having a gay sister helped tremendously. Thank you, Mr. President, for keeping an open mind, and bravely stating you evolved position. K&R

 

unkachuck

(6,295 posts)
180. the last I heard....
Wed May 9, 2012, 09:37 PM
May 2012

....he was still evolving....that didn't take long....maybe he can evolve on some other issues....

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
181. Now you may have my support and money...
Wed May 9, 2012, 09:54 PM
May 2012

Just keep backing up the words with real, concrete actions and you will have it.

Submariner

(12,503 posts)
183. I can't wait to see how Romney takes credit for making Obama support same sex marriage
Wed May 9, 2012, 10:03 PM
May 2012

It probably happened about the time Mitten's was saving the auto industry , I guess.

 

Suji to Seoul

(2,035 posts)
190. As Stewie would say, "Well, the last horse finally crossed the finish line."
Wed May 9, 2012, 11:19 PM
May 2012

About time, Johnny-Come-Lately. You supported at candidate Obama, but not as President Obama.

Does this signal the end of this idiotic idea of working with people who wouldn't spit on you if you were on fire, Mr. Obama? If it does, you just re-affirmed my support in you.

Now, support:

1: Medicare for all
2: Fully funded education
3: Ending all overseas wars
4: Ending the drug war
5: Getting the business interests out of all public services and utilities
6: Complete campaign finance reform
7: Ending the American empire
8: Ending corporate welfare
9: intensive and punitive regulations on banks, Wall Street and businesses that off-shore money or out-source good American jobs to other countries.
10: Ending torture, prosecuting those who did it and closing Gitmo

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
206. This is monumental.
Thu May 10, 2012, 07:28 AM
May 2012

You could knock me over with a feather right about now. I'm stunned...in a very good way.

varelse

(4,062 posts)
215. I am happy that he has come out in personal support of equality
Thu May 10, 2012, 08:54 AM
May 2012

however, leaving civil rights up to the states doesn't have a good track record as a strategy.

BlueDemKev

(3,003 posts)
218. Bold & Risky Move
Thu May 10, 2012, 09:51 AM
May 2012

While this was inevitable, I just hope it doesn't come back to bite us in the ass in November. The president cannot afford to lose Ohio or Colorado and a lot of swing voters there are still uneasy with the concept of gay marriage. If the president loses because of this move, gay rights will be set back. It might have been better if he had remained either publicly silent or ambivalent on the issue and remained in office so he could continue quietly advancing policies supportive of marriage equality (esp. with federal judge appointments).

We'll see how this plays out (fingers crossed).

rapturedbyrobots

(400 posts)
221. Hate to piss on the parade
Thu May 10, 2012, 12:43 PM
May 2012

But he did NOT embrace marriage equality. He very carefully stated he thinks same sex couples SHOULD BE ABLE TO get married. Which as a lawyer he knows is entirely different than saying the have a RIGHT TO get married.

If you listen to the rest of the interview, he very clearly explains that he supports the right of individual states to decide this issue. So, he simultaneously pays lip service to marriage equality and validates Ammendment One. Way to triangulate!

bubbalubagus

(18 posts)
222. you know what,
Thu May 10, 2012, 02:16 PM
May 2012

i think you're right. i don't know why he hedges like this either. It's not like some Repub is goings to ponder "well, he says they should be able to get married but he didn't say they have the right to get married... okay, after careful consideration i will still vote for him". i mean, maybe one person on planet earth. the rest will just go "ZOMG HE'S A SECRET MUSLIM TERRORIST FIST BUMPER WHO LOVES TO SPIT IN GODS FACE AND WANTS TO OUTLAW CHRISTIANITY AND THIS IS FINALLY PROOF!"
sorry for the caps, it's just only way i can get into the mindset

Scurrilous

(38,687 posts)
224. Obama’s gay marriage announcement followed by flood of campaign donations
Thu May 10, 2012, 03:54 PM
May 2012

<snip>

"It’s too soon to tell whether President Obama’s endorsement of same-sex marriage will help him or hurt him at the polls. But it’s already doing wonders for his pocketbook.

The Obama campaign is enjoying a massive surge of contributions in the wake of his gay marriage announcement, suggesting the issue could serve as a powerful fundraising tool in the months ahead, according to campaign bundlers and donors.

Fundraisers say the donations began pouring in within minutes of the news Wednesday that Obama, who had been “evolving on the issue” for months, would affirm his support for the right of gay couples to be married.

Obama also sent out a message to backers Wednesday night restating his shift on same-sex marriage and requesting financial support. “If you can, please donate today,” the message read."

http://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/obamas-gay-marriage-announcement-followed-by-flood-of-campaign-donations/2012/05/10/gIQA2ntCGU_story.html

228. Electing to Evolve
Fri May 11, 2012, 09:45 AM
May 2012

I love this article, because it shows that even though we're making progress, the society is still so intolerant:

http://fervidus.wordpress.com/

Here's an excerpt I like:

"DOMA [Defense of Marriage Act] indirectly, but precisely, targets gays and lesbians just as Jim Crow literacy test laws indirectly but precisely targeted black people to prevent them from voting: The 15th Amendment extended the suffrage to citizens regardless of race, so that black men (not women, of course) could vote. To circumvent that, Southern states required voters to pass a literacy test. If a voter couldn’t read, then he couldn’t vote. Prior to emancipation, teaching slaves to read was a high crime, punishable by death. Consequently, newly-freed slaves were unlikely literate, thereby unable to pass the literacy test, and therefore effectively disenfranchised despite the 15th Amendment. That situation didn’t change until passage of the 1965 Voting Rights Act.

Modern America fancies itself too enlightened to enact a law that explicitly prohibits gays and lesbians from marrying. But, using the same oblique approach as the literacy test, by defining marriage as a union between one man and one woman, DOMA’s limitation of liberty only applies to one group, gays and lesbians.

Preventing people from marrying due to their sex or sexual orientation is equal to doing so because of their race. DOMA is essentially identical to laws prohibiting interracial marriage, only the immutable characteristic on which the bar is based is different. Most Americans are horrified at the notion that two people could not marry merely because their skin color didn’t match. But because gays and lesbians are still considered deviant, not just different, it remains sensible to some that marriage should be impossible – not if their skin colors don’t match – but if their sex chromosomes do."

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