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onehandle

(51,122 posts)
Fri Jan 17, 2014, 11:30 PM Jan 2014

Edward Snowden completely abandoned girlfriend, says her father

Source: The Telegraph

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Edward Snowden's girlfriend was "left to fend for herself" when the former NSA contractor gave up their Hawaiian life together to disclose the scale of America's surveillance state, her father has said.

Mr Snowden did not leave any financial provisions for Lindsay Mills when he departed for Hong Kong, telling her that he was on a business trip and would return in a few weeks, Jonathan Mills said.

The 28-year-old Ms Mills has not spoken publicly in the seven months since their lives together were upended by Mr Snowden's to go public with thousands of classified documents.

In an interview at his home outside Washington, Mr Mills said his only daughter was still "trying to make sense of everything and come up with a plan for herself". Mr Snowden had not been in contact with her since leaving Hong Kong for Russia, where he has been granted temporary asylum, Mr Mills said.

Read more: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/northamerica/usa/10580662/Edward-Snowden-completely-abandoned-girlfriend-says-her-father.html

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Edward Snowden completely abandoned girlfriend, says her father (Original Post) onehandle Jan 2014 OP
She needs to write a book. She's got plenty of pictures, she might as well make some money. nt MADem Jan 2014 #1
She makes money. Titonwan Jan 2014 #4
What an uncouth thing to say. She's not a stripper. No need to insinuate she is. MADem Jan 2014 #21
Flagged for review madokie Jan 2014 #181
Good. That kind of 'tude is just outta line. nt MADem Jan 2014 #185
Wow. This shit's still being used? Scootaloo Jan 2014 #30
so I have one hidden post that is two months old... snooper2 Jan 2014 #79
Good decision. MADem Jan 2014 #155
The question is cosmicone Jan 2014 #88
He has totally returned to the control of his puppet masters. Thinkingabout Jan 2014 #2
Oh cry me a damned river Titonwan Jan 2014 #3
If she had done this would we be reading "He's been "abandoned by his girlfriend?" SharonAnn Jan 2014 #141
Again, with the 'stripper' slur. She's a graduate of a prestigious art college in MD who enjoys MADem Jan 2014 #143
Your daffy, pulling your taffy . orpupilofnature57 Jan 2014 #176
I would have to hear Snowden's side of this story before jumping to any totodeinhere Jan 2014 #5
It's a commentary on his character, which seems sorely lacking George II Jan 2014 #16
Then you definitely better not date him. Hassin Bin Sober Jan 2014 #31
Giving up a secure and comfortable life to expose wrong doing takes tremendous character Matariki Jan 2014 #52
She's a grown woman. Maedhros Jan 2014 #18
hear, hear Maedhros anasv Jan 2014 #67
Yes! Helen Borg Jan 2014 #72
+1 ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2014 #84
Her father sounds like a proxy for a gold digger Demeter Jan 2014 #111
Injecting himself into the matter does sound like gold digging. randome Jan 2014 #117
graduate of "prestigious" art institute should be able to find a job wordpix Jan 2014 #173
Or his girlfriend's side of the story Ash_F Jan 2014 #157
boring azureblue Jan 2014 #6
+1,000 Scuba Jan 2014 #74
Thanks, azureblue, and welcome to DU. You'll notice that truth2power Jan 2014 #103
Enough of this Snowden character. Don't we have any beach pix of the POTUS R. Daneel Olivaw Jan 2014 #7
Also in the National Enquirer SWISS CHEESE PERVERT BUSTED AT GUN POINT MyNameGoesHere Jan 2014 #8
It was in the Lounge jakeXT Jan 2014 #62
Wow. We got some interesting folks here. MyNameGoesHere Jan 2014 #92
He's a self-centered little Traitor, with some kind of warped sense of "duty". SoapBox Jan 2014 #9
Ye know? JackInGreen Jan 2014 #14
Snowden should have stuck to releasing info gathering on just the domestic front brush Jan 2014 #66
all the other countries anasv Jan 2014 #187
The domestic info gathering must stop, however . . . brush Jan 2014 #189
Do you have anything?? Hissyspit Jan 2014 #45
Let's cut to the chase, shall we? You're ordinary. Edward Snowden is not. 1000words Jan 2014 #54
Thank goodness mimi85 Jan 2014 #153
I was in a coal mine once and there was this narcissistic little canary KurtNYC Jan 2014 #77
... TBF Jan 2014 #123
Post removed Post removed Jan 2014 #98
The 50s called and McCarthy needs you TBF Jan 2014 #122
That's the shallowest comment in a shallow thread yurbud Jan 2014 #170
I guess she had a contract with him that he would support her then. zeemike Jan 2014 #10
If they lived together for a certain length of time Whisp Jan 2014 #19
Did they present themselves as a married couple? zeemike Jan 2014 #23
She lived with him in Japan, and he took her to Hong Kong on vacation MADem Jan 2014 #24
Really. I lived with a man for 16 years and had a child Luminous Animal Jan 2014 #125
Well, good for you! You do realize that your attitudes are unique to yourself, and don't MADem Jan 2014 #140
"she was in the back of her mind planning marriage and a life together" hahahaha!! Luminous Animal Jan 2014 #146
They'd lived together for quite some time. She spoke of tranquil domestic moments on her blog. MADem Jan 2014 #152
unfortunately, she left Snowden out of that mind-discussion wordpix Jan 2014 #174
nonsense! eom. wildbilln864 Jan 2014 #80
Yes. Utter nonsense. carla Jan 2014 #99
.. La Lioness Priyanka Jan 2014 #11
I would think that it would be...well... JackInGreen Jan 2014 #12
Irrelevant and insulting Newsjock Jan 2014 #13
And here comes the 2 minutes of hate for the messenger neverforget Jan 2014 #15
Not a big fan of snowden Egnever Jan 2014 #17
oh geez what's she supposed to say "he told me everything"? azurnoir Jan 2014 #20
Her father's probably looking for a Book Deal and Movie Rights... KoKo Jan 2014 #22
+1 n/t NealK Jan 2014 #25
I remember reading at least one article MrsKirkley Jan 2014 #26
Girlfriend? "Fend for herself"? Bonobo Jan 2014 #27
My first impression as well. hughee99 Jan 2014 #34
I think emotional abandonment is more to the point. randome Jan 2014 #86
Post removed Post removed Jan 2014 #100
I don't pretend that I'm perfect. randome Jan 2014 #109
"already common knowledge"? LiberalLovinLug Jan 2014 #139
I'm not up in arms. Simply pointing out that all the effort Snowden went to wasn't worth it. randome Jan 2014 #148
^^^Agreed! nt mimi85 Jan 2014 #158
Absolutely. I was familiar with pretty much everything Snowden claimed. Laura Poitro's first two okaawhatever Jan 2014 #162
Then who exactly is going to make that decision for us? LiberalLovinLug Jan 2014 #164
I agree on that, but "fend for herself" hughee99 Jan 2014 #101
Agree, that's a hyperbolic phrase. randome Jan 2014 #106
What oath did he sign? Luminous Animal Jan 2014 #126
His classified service oath, or whatever it's called. randome Jan 2014 #132
So you admit he didn't sign an oath. Luminous Animal Jan 2014 #133
He did sign an oath. randome Jan 2014 #137
No he didn't. "On Secrecy, Oaths, and Edward Snowden" Luminous Animal Jan 2014 #138
Oath, legally binding document, it's much the same thing. randome Jan 2014 #150
An employment agreement is not the same as an oath no matter how many Luminous Animal Jan 2014 #156
Good enough! randome Jan 2014 #160
A comic book? 1000words Jan 2014 #166
Bingo BodieTown Jan 2014 #124
And with being a hansome young women..... nolabels Jan 2014 #188
Some say he also parked in a handicap only space once. pa28 Jan 2014 #28
lol Jefferson23 Jan 2014 #97
I keep expecting to hear he is wed to a Russian lady -- for residency and all. oldandhappy Jan 2014 #29
This may be the most important news story of the year. progressoid Jan 2014 #32
if it was a republican who did that Niceguy1 Jan 2014 #33
A window into his character? What hyperbole. Th1onein Jan 2014 #43
how a person acts when breaking up Niceguy1 Jan 2014 #44
It's very UNSELFISH of him, in this case. Th1onein Jan 2014 #46
a simple I am sorry, Niceguy1 Jan 2014 #50
How do YOU know what's been communicated between them? Th1onein Jan 2014 #51
Yes, like that time I broke up with my girlfriend because I was Hissyspit Jan 2014 #47
once he was settled Niceguy1 Jan 2014 #48
Yeah, right, and put her in jeopardy, too. Th1onein Jan 2014 #49
Hyperbole? treestar Jan 2014 #68
I was wondering when you would chime in here, on the pro-surveillance side, Treestar. Th1onein Jan 2014 #131
My point was that it's hilarious for Ed's supporters to talk of hyperbole treestar Jan 2014 #136
Is it authoritarian to expect people to follow the law? WHICH people are you talking about? Th1onein Jan 2014 #171
You've resorted to the exaggeration treestar Jan 2014 #178
You are willfully ignorant. Th1onein Jan 2014 #186
If it was a Republican? Demeter Jan 2014 #112
Oh my. Whatever will that poor maiden do? Ratty Jan 2014 #35
She should be grateful, too strong a connection to Snowden MsPithy Jan 2014 #36
No one new is going to Gitmo treestar Jan 2014 #69
You forget that all of the Bush-era abuses are Obama's fault, too. randome Jan 2014 #91
When Obama was 17 treestar Jan 2014 #93
Gee couples break up all the time... jimlup Jan 2014 #37
Anything passes for LBN these days. ForgoTheConsequence Jan 2014 #38
Didn't he steal away in the night leaving behind the boxes in the garage.... Historic NY Jan 2014 #39
lol RandiFan1290 Jan 2014 #40
Sorry she got dumped but WTF has that got to do with anything!!!!! Theyletmeeatcake2 Jan 2014 #41
He also has boxes in his garage! Th1onein Jan 2014 #42
This is laughably lame 1000words Jan 2014 #53
And Laura Bush ran her boyfriend over with a car. Kurovski Jan 2014 #55
Didn't he die? Theyletmeeatcake2 Jan 2014 #154
Yes. It was awful. i think she actually rammed his car Kurovski Jan 2014 #159
It took five seconds to look it up. Psephos Jan 2014 #183
Oh well davidpdx Jan 2014 #56
Fathers of ex girlfriends seldom have nice things to say. Snowden had bigger things to worry about JVS Jan 2014 #57
Democrats don't always complain about dumped girlfriends solarhydrocan Jan 2014 #58
I don't think I care. bravenak Jan 2014 #59
Her father ought to be glad Snowden made sure she knew nothing about Nay Jan 2014 #144
He saved her a lot of trouble that's for sure. bravenak Jan 2014 #147
Typical Torygraph, acting more and more like a RW tabloid every day LeftishBrit Jan 2014 #60
Women leave men... sendero Jan 2014 #61
Just slip out the back, Jack, Make a new plan, Stan, ... JustABozoOnThisBus Jan 2014 #63
I agree the article is overdone. randome Jan 2014 #64
so what? treestar Jan 2014 #65
How is this surprising? CFLDem Jan 2014 #70
Last time I checked... Helen Borg Jan 2014 #71
Hello? WHO THE HELL CARES? COUPLES BREAK UP EVERY DAMN DAY. WinkyDink Jan 2014 #73
Is Marriage Not Sacred Anymore? jsr Jan 2014 #75
He probably stuck her with the rent. That sucks, but hopefully, she'll pick better msanthrope Jan 2014 #76
She should be fine Bradical79 Jan 2014 #78
Another Crime by Snowden! former9thward Jan 2014 #81
Actually, the worst thing to do to Snowden would be to ignore him. randome Jan 2014 #82
He caused the President of the U.S. to make some reforms in the NSA. former9thward Jan 2014 #87
I'm never disappointed in how reality plays out. randome Jan 2014 #89
To be accurate, he caused the President of the U.S. to make a speech. hughee99 Jan 2014 #180
Yes, I think you are right. former9thward Jan 2014 #182
This doesn't change the fact that the government has an unconstitutional spying program. Shoulders of Giants Jan 2014 #83
What is unconstitutional about it? randome Jan 2014 #85
This Shoulders of Giants Jan 2014 #94
Well, the metadata collection has long been ruled to be Constitutional. randome Jan 2014 #96
Slavery was once ruled to be constitutional as well. Shoulders of Giants Jan 2014 #113
The key ruling occurred in 1978 under President Carter. randome Jan 2014 #116
Well, they decided wrong then. Shoulders of Giants Jan 2014 #118
And yours is a valid opinion. I don't so much as support the NSA as think they are irrelevant to me. randome Jan 2014 #120
And the ruling you cite is about an individual neverforget Jan 2014 #168
So? ronnie624 Jan 2014 #90
Mayeb he stole the NSA secrets and fled the country as an excuse to leave his relationship. olddad56 Jan 2014 #95
Shoot the messenger. The zeitgeist if our times. Eleanors38 Jan 2014 #102
Didn't he do her a favor by not telling her anything? RVN VET Jan 2014 #104
He abandoned his country too Renew Deal Jan 2014 #105
He abandoned his country? He did the people of this country a great service by blowing the whistle. olddad56 Jan 2014 #115
Yes, to the Chinese and Russians Renew Deal Jan 2014 #119
you have been watching to much Faux News. olddad56 Jan 2014 #128
Thanks for acknowledging that I'm correct Renew Deal Jan 2014 #145
boo hoo.. Jesus Malverde Jan 2014 #107
He also says, "I support him Union Scribe Jan 2014 #108
Post removed Post removed Jan 2014 #110
What the hell is that supposed to mean? Luminous Animal Jan 2014 #135
Are you implying something? bravenak Jan 2014 #149
So the fuck what? blackspade Jan 2014 #114
exactly Locrian Jan 2014 #163
In tell all book itsrobert Jan 2014 #121
Not the classiest way to break up with someone Cleita Jan 2014 #127
More Deflection - More Character Assassination - Focus On The Loss Of Privacy And The 4th Amendment cantbeserious Jan 2014 #129
Oh that poor woman! WilliamPitt Jan 2014 #130
How Ghandi-esque NoOneMan Jan 2014 #134
and he boxes in his garage too - now that we know this - at least we don't half to worry about the Douglas Carpenter Jan 2014 #142
Doubt there will be wedding bells. hrmjustin Jan 2014 #151
Took her 7 months to realize her boyfriend left her? Festivito Jan 2014 #161
Abandoned to fend for herself? JoeyT Jan 2014 #165
A traitor that abandons his country would feel no guilt at abandoning his girlfriend. 4bucksagallon Jan 2014 #167
This changes EVERYTHING yurbud Jan 2014 #169
Pathetic that this is the best the Torrygraph could do fujiyama Jan 2014 #172
They were not married and people split up all the time.... penultimate Jan 2014 #175
And if he left her pregnant, I might give a shit. Ilsa Jan 2014 #177
Is there any real evidence nilesobek Jan 2014 #179
Also I'm pretty sure he never put the cap back on the toothpaste........ Theyletmeeatcake2 Jan 2014 #184
This message was self-deleted by its author arely staircase Apr 2014 #190

MADem

(135,425 posts)
21. What an uncouth thing to say. She's not a stripper. No need to insinuate she is.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:41 AM
Jan 2014

She is an acrobat, more than a dancer. She used to work (maybe still does?) with a dance troupe that sometimes entertained the tourists in Cirque de Soleil type shows.

Why do you want to put the woman down like that?


Mills's blog and social media accounts reveal the couple visited Hong Kong once before, on a vacation, and also lived in Japan. Mills used the blog as a personal diary and promotional tool for her work as a member of the Waikiki Acrobatic Troupe, a collection of around 30 dancers.


http://www.theguardian.com/world/2013/jun/11/edward-snowden-lindsay-mills-guardian


http://being808.com/2013/07/01/video-learning-trust-and-strength-with-the-waikiki-acrobatic-troupe/

madokie

(51,076 posts)
181. Flagged for review
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 01:19 PM
Jan 2014

About Titonwan
Statistics and Information
Account status: Flagged for review
Member since: Thu Nov 13, 2008, 04:08 PM
Number of posts: 464
Number of posts, last 90 days: 228

The wheels of justice grinds slowly but grind they do

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
79. so I have one hidden post that is two months old...
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 11:02 AM
Jan 2014

Are you worth another one, got plenty of a buffer till five...


Hmmm.....

Nah, you aren't worth it LOL

MADem

(135,425 posts)
155. Good decision.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 04:49 PM
Jan 2014

Sometimes, it's best to just let a reputation grow on its own--and that particular poster is wasting no time in establishing one.

Titonwan

(785 posts)
3. Oh cry me a damned river
Fri Jan 17, 2014, 11:43 PM
Jan 2014

First of all- a right wing propaganda arm of the GCHQ (the Telegraph) is spouting this sympathy rant. Second, if he had told her his plans- he'd be in Guantanamo right now (we are talkin' about intelligence matters, y'all). And third, why don't someone ask Edward about this? This is 'the Enquirer', 'the Star' and 'The New York Daily Post' all wrapped into one piece of speculative bullcrap.
Yes, let's all dwell on the poor stripper in Hawaii who has no visible means of support. Edward is a cad, I tells ya! (snort)

MADem

(135,425 posts)
143. Again, with the 'stripper' slur. She's a graduate of a prestigious art college in MD who enjoys
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:36 PM
Jan 2014

performing with an acrobatic troupe that has a forty year history in Hawaii. She's not a stripper.

It's not a way to make money--it's an avocation.

You're digging a fine hole for yourself, though.

totodeinhere

(13,058 posts)
5. I would have to hear Snowden's side of this story before jumping to any
Fri Jan 17, 2014, 11:48 PM
Jan 2014

conclusions about it. But I do know that this is totally irrelevant to Snowden's revelations about NSA spying.

 

Maedhros

(10,007 posts)
18. She's a grown woman.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:21 AM
Jan 2014

She can take care of herself. This isn't 19th century London and she's not some fragile, kept lady. From her father's description, she sounds like quite the capable young artist.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
84. +1 ...
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 11:45 AM
Jan 2014

This article should have never left the editor's desk ... unless the segment was a "What it they doing now" kind of thing.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
117. Injecting himself into the matter does sound like gold digging.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 01:55 PM
Jan 2014

What's to be gained by reminding everyone of this?
[hr][font color="blue"][center]There is nothing you can't do if you put your mind to it.
Nothing.
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wordpix

(18,652 posts)
173. graduate of "prestigious" art institute should be able to find a job
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 11:46 AM
Jan 2014

and guess what? When you shack up without a marriage license, you have no rights to your partner's assets unless you are a longtime live-in and sue for palimony. Good luck with that if she didn't live with Snowden long and has a college degree. Sorry for her broken heart but the rest is baloney.

Ash_F

(5,861 posts)
157. Or his girlfriend's side of the story
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 04:55 PM
Jan 2014

Sounds like a daddy don't approve situation. Let the girl speak for herself, if she wishes to speak at all.

Edit - On actually reading the article, I see that might not be the case. Looks like a misleading headline.

azureblue

(2,146 posts)
6. boring
Fri Jan 17, 2014, 11:51 PM
Jan 2014

yet another pathetic attempt at a character assassination, to draw attention away from the content of what he exposed. Just pathetic.. Give it a rest, will ya?

truth2power

(8,219 posts)
103. Thanks, azureblue, and welcome to DU. You'll notice that
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 01:08 PM
Jan 2014

there are a number of posts around here that display a kind of, um...immature tone.

It's about distraction to keep people from discussing, as you said, "the content of what he exposed."

 

MyNameGoesHere

(7,638 posts)
8. Also in the National Enquirer SWISS CHEESE PERVERT BUSTED AT GUN POINT
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:03 AM
Jan 2014

I never thought we would be using shopping checkout news as latest breaking, umm "news"

SoapBox

(18,791 posts)
9. He's a self-centered little Traitor, with some kind of warped sense of "duty".
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:04 AM
Jan 2014

BUT the idiot never even thought about any consequences.

Comrade Eddie, maybe you thought you would get a ticker tape parade and be hailed by all as a hero? More likely your a nut that hates America.

And guess you didn't really care about the GF or your own family that you shit on, since you are never, ever coming back to America. Enjoy Russia...or China...or Somalia...or where ever you end up, as a puppet for them.

I still wonder who put him up to this...some terrorists or some ego driven "journalist"?

JackInGreen

(2,975 posts)
14. Ye know?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:12 AM
Jan 2014

I never expected to encounter that kind of...80s flavored 'kill a commie for mommy, they don't love their girlfriends and hate mom and apple pie' rhetoric here...and with a sig line I like too. Thanks for the momentary cogdis. Cheers.

brush

(53,758 posts)
66. Snowden should have stuck to releasing info gathering on just the domestic front
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 09:15 AM
Jan 2014

That was legitimate whistle-blowing.

Releasing information on our international intelligence gathering (all countries that can afford it do it, btw), damaged our relationships with some foreign governments and possibly blew the cover and endangered the lives of our operatives and the foreign nationals they worked with.

I mean, who is Snowden to decide that the intricacies of our international intelligence gathering should be released to the world?

WHO IS HE TO MAKE THAT DECISION?

IMO he's part whistle-blower and part something else.

Some call what he did on exposing our international, covert operations sedition, or even treason, I'll just call him a defector for now.

 

anasv

(225 posts)
187. all the other countries
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 05:54 AM
Jan 2014

I guess your parents never told you, Just because everybody else does it, doesn't mean it's right. And it isn't clear everybody else does it. Do you think the Germans are listening in on the U.S. President's phone calls?

Snowden is a hero.

brush

(53,758 posts)
189. The domestic info gathering must stop, however . . .
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 08:31 AM
Jan 2014

being that other countries, hostile ones and even our allies spy on us, you better believe we should be in the game of trying to intercept, through covert operations, possible threats to our country.

And btw, did you know that there are stirrings to release Jonathan Pollard who spied on us for Israel in the 1980s? That's right, Israel, our staunchest ally in the Middle East spies on us and you can bet many other countries do as well.

As I said in the title to this post, I'm with you on the domestic spying but Snowden went too far with the international revelations as even the little we know that was publically released has damaged international relationships. So c'mon, it's not about — and these are your words — "I guess your parents never told you, Just because everybody else does it, doesn't mean it's right."

It's the real, grown up world out there and there are bad actors we need to keep tabs on. Even us progressives should be aware of that.

 

1000words

(7,051 posts)
54. Let's cut to the chase, shall we? You're ordinary. Edward Snowden is not.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 04:46 AM
Jan 2014

Your sphere of influence is anonymous postings on an insignificant web site.
Somehow, I don't think accepting that realization is going to be an easy transition for you.

mimi85

(1,805 posts)
153. Thank goodness
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 04:39 PM
Jan 2014

The world doesn't need any more Snowdens, or Greenwalds and for sure we don't need any more Assanges.

KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
77. I was in a coal mine once and there was this narcissistic little canary
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 10:31 AM
Jan 2014

Little bird was all like "look at me, I can't breathe! You're all going to die if you don't get to fresh air!"

It was all about him. We told him to shut up.

Right before we passed out.

Response to SoapBox (Reply #9)

TBF

(32,029 posts)
122. The 50s called and McCarthy needs you
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 02:18 PM
Jan 2014

back in the office ... and while you're there you can review:

your: possessive adjective
you're: contraction of "you are"

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
10. I guess she had a contract with him that he would support her then.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:06 AM
Jan 2014

And he violated it.
That is what marriage is, a contract, but I don't think there is one for girlfriend is there?
What a piece of crap this story is...and is kind of a slap at womens liberation to say we should be sorry for her because she was dependent on him.

 

Whisp

(24,096 posts)
19. If they lived together for a certain length of time
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:34 AM
Jan 2014

(in Canada it is 6 months) then they are considered as a common law marriage with all the rights and wot wots of a legal papered one. I don't know how it works in Hawaii but if so it's not like he just dumped a girlfriend, he abandoned his wife.

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
23. Did they present themselves as a married couple?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:45 AM
Jan 2014

If so when?...and to whom?

Common-law marriage (sometimes spelled without a hyphen), and also known as sui juris marriage, informal marriage or marriage by habit and repute, is an irregular form of marriage that can be legally contracted in an extremely limited number of jurisdictions.

The original concept of a common-law marriage is a marriage that is considered valid by both partners, but has not been formally registered with a state or church registry, or a formal religious service. In effect, the act of the couple representing themselves to others as being married acts as the evidence that they are married. In jurisdictions recognizing common-law marriages, such a marriage is not legally distinct from a traditional ceremonial marriage enacted through a civil or religious ceremony in terms of the couple's rights and obligations to one another.

The term "common-law marriage" is sometimes also used as a synonym for legal agreements including domestic partnerships, reciprocal beneficiaries relationships and non-marital relationship contracts. In these cases, two people live together without considering themselves each other's spouses, but do still create a legal agreement to manage their relationship, obligations to one another or shared assets. In some cases, such partnerships may be created because the couples do not have the ability to marry one another legally. "Common-law marriage" is also often used colloquially or by the media to refer to cohabiting couples, regardless of any rights that these couples may have, which can create public confusion both in regard to the term and in regard to the rights of unmarried partners. [1]

MADem

(135,425 posts)
24. She lived with him in Japan, and he took her to Hong Kong on vacation
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:51 AM
Jan 2014

(not the last time he went, mind you). They then moved as a couple to Hawaii.

I think she had an expectation that they were to be wed.

Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
125. Really. I lived with a man for 16 years and had a child
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 02:41 PM
Jan 2014

with him with no expectations of marriage. Neither one of us had any such expectation.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
140. Well, good for you! You do realize that your attitudes are unique to yourself, and don't
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:30 PM
Jan 2014

automatically transfer to others, I trust?

Frankly, I'll take her father's word, and her own words, written on her blog, over the assertions of strangers, as to her intentions and expectations.

Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
146. "she was in the back of her mind planning marriage and a life together" hahahaha!!
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:43 PM
Jan 2014

In the back of her mind, indeed!

MADem

(135,425 posts)
152. They'd lived together for quite some time. She spoke of tranquil domestic moments on her blog.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 04:38 PM
Jan 2014

Why do you feel the need to dig in, and mock and laugh at her?

I find your attitude rather "Mean Girls-ish," to put it bluntly.

Not your finest hour, by a long shot.

carla

(553 posts)
99. Yes. Utter nonsense.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:52 PM
Jan 2014

It is sad how much speculation and opinion passes for "knowledge" with some people.

JackInGreen

(2,975 posts)
12. I would think that it would be...well...
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:09 AM
Jan 2014

expected?
Ye know, given the whole 'overturning uncle sugars intel cart' and the fleeing the country and all.

Newsjock

(11,733 posts)
13. Irrelevant and insulting
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:09 AM
Jan 2014

DU is better than this.

Wait, I thought Snowden was married to some Brazilian dude who used to be a pole dancer.

azurnoir

(45,850 posts)
20. oh geez what's she supposed to say "he told me everything"?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:35 AM
Jan 2014

if she knew and did not report him before hand she'd be guilty too-this is no surprise I'm sure the US has checked out everything about her in an attempt to find out what she knew and when she knew it

This is in line with protecting her from prosecution

KoKo

(84,711 posts)
22. Her father's probably looking for a Book Deal and Movie Rights...
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:45 AM
Jan 2014

She's 28 Years Old... But, given the Celebrity Culture today...a clever lawyer or PR person probably contacted them and did some work about how they could profit. Don't know their circumstances financially...but a 28 year old who was in a "relationship" these days isn't like the Victorian Days in England.

MrsKirkley

(180 posts)
26. I remember reading at least one article
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 01:22 AM
Jan 2014

stating Snowden misses his girlfriend. I thought maybe she was refusing to speak to him.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
27. Girlfriend? "Fend for herself"?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 01:28 AM
Jan 2014

What kind of sexist bullshit is that? You have an obligation to care for your poor weak little girlfriend?

I'd like to see some Feminists call this out.

hughee99

(16,113 posts)
34. My first impression as well.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 02:23 AM
Jan 2014

They're not married, they have no children, she's certainly able to work, and as far as I can tell, she hasn't been sacrificing her career to help his. Now maybe she loved him and feels betrayed, and that's understandable, but I think the idea that he has some sort of financial obligation to her at this point SHOULD be offensive to many DUers. It perpetuates the false stereotype that a woman needs a man to take care of her.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
86. I think emotional abandonment is more to the point.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 11:48 AM
Jan 2014

Snowden lied when he broke the oath he signed. He lied to his coworkers to get their passwords. He lied to his girlfriend.

None of that is cool in my book.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]You have to play the game to find out why you're playing the game. -Existenz[/center][/font][hr]

Response to randome (Reply #86)

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
109. I don't pretend that I'm perfect.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 01:19 PM
Jan 2014

But I don't take advantage of people's trust, especially not to 'reveal' things that were already common knowledge.

Sure, the passwords were handed over and the NSA should be embarrassed at their lack of internal security. But do you think Snowden simply had to say, 'Give me your password, please.'? More likely, he claimed he needed the passwords as some sort of security test. Then he used those passwords to copy as many classified documents as possible and fled the country.

Not cool.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]Treat your body like a machine. Your mind like a castle.[/center][/font][hr]

LiberalLovinLug

(14,168 posts)
139. "already common knowledge"?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:17 PM
Jan 2014

So what is the big deal to you authoritarians?

personally I don't agree with that, because I certainly did not know or have it confirmed, the extent of meta data collecting the government does and the the unfettered access to that information behind closed doors.

But if you did think that everyone and their cousin was already fully aware of all of Mr. Snowden's revelations, why so up in arms because he put it out there?

I don't want to shock you but here's a secret that everyone already knows for you: The sky is blue!

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
148. I'm not up in arms. Simply pointing out that all the effort Snowden went to wasn't worth it.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:57 PM
Jan 2014

The sky is not falling because he stole some documents and ran. He did, however, compromise many of our international spying efforts. It's debatable as to whether they are worthwhile or not but Snowden should not get to make that decision for us.

He said he "saw things" but he won't ever say what that means. He said he could spy on the President if he wanted but somehow never did so. He made a bunch of other nefarious-sounding claims but they didn't hold up.

I think the man has a few screws loose. And I just like to be as accurate as possible when the subject comes up.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]Stop looking for heroes. BE one.[/center][/font][hr]

okaawhatever

(9,461 posts)
162. Absolutely. I was familiar with pretty much everything Snowden claimed. Laura Poitro's first two
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 06:38 PM
Jan 2014

documentaries covered it. There are also numerous articles printed with the same info. I don't think he's a hero. I don't even think he's a decent human being. I don't agree with his behavior towards his girlfriend, and I think it's more evidence of his true character.

LiberalLovinLug

(14,168 posts)
164. Then who exactly is going to make that decision for us?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 08:50 PM
Jan 2014

Oh....I see....what you really mean is nobody. Its better that way. We should be kept in the dark. Its better not to know...well that is until the loud knock on your own door (or your childrens down the line) and questions as to why you are logging on to a commie lib'rul site every day.

And once again its all about the messenger. A typical Fox News ploy. You find out any personal flaw (which we all have one or two) and blow it up out of proportion in order to negate any truth he may be revealing. Assange and Manning know this tactic all too well.

The broader point is that he single-handedly got the topic on the radar. He forced the head of the NSA to admit he lied about collecting private data from Americans. And no, i do not for one minute, think every American was fully aware of this or believed it to be true. There is a big percent of the population that needs official confirmation of this to believe it. Those people would have taken the NSA at their word as far as domestic spying went.

As far as revealing that the US spies on everyone, including allies... no, I don't think that is new info. The Germans and Brazilians will get a little huffy for their own populace, but then things will carry on as usual with everyone spying as much as they can get away with it, including Germany and Brazil. Snowden neither helped nor hindered that reality. Hardly any "harm".

hughee99

(16,113 posts)
101. I agree on that, but "fend for herself"
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 01:00 PM
Jan 2014

Is the thing people should find offensive, as if Snowden should have or needed to take care of her before leaving.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
106. Agree, that's a hyperbolic phrase.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 01:14 PM
Jan 2014

[hr][font color="blue"][center]A ton of bricks, a ton of feathers. It's still gonna hurt.[/center][/font][hr]

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
132. His classified service oath, or whatever it's called.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 02:51 PM
Jan 2014

He signed on to not divulge classified information. You can argue that he felt compelled to leak information anyways, but he stole thousands of documents and gave them away in the hope, presumably, that something would 'stick' to the current Administration.

He obviously did not read all those documents because the vast majority of them have to do with spying on other countries, which is not 'whistleblowing' by any stretch of the imagination.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]The truth doesn’t always set you free.
Sometimes it builds a bigger cage around the one you’re already in.
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randome

(34,845 posts)
137. He did sign an oath.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:05 PM
Jan 2014
http://www.newyorker.com/online/blogs/closeread/2014/01/did-edward-snowden-break-his-oath.html

This suggestion is mind-boggling on several levels. Among other things, Snowden signed an oath, as a condition of his employment as an NSA contractor, not to disclose classified information, and knew the penalties for violating the oath. The young men who evaded the draft, either by fleeing to Canada or serving jail terms, did so in order to avoid taking an oath to fight a war that they opposed—a war that was over, and widely reviled, by the time that Carter pardoned them.

There are no such extenuating circumstances favoring forgiveness of Snowden.


The snippet above is quoted from a previous article and the linked article disagrees with it. But, yes, he did sign an oath.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]I'm always right. When I'm wrong I admit it.
So then I'm right about being wrong.
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Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
138. No he didn't. "On Secrecy, Oaths, and Edward Snowden"
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:13 PM
Jan 2014
https://pressfreedomfoundation.org/blog/2014/01/secrecy-oaths-and-edward-snowden


January 8, 2014
By Daniel Ellsberg
These two pieces, the first by Marcy Wheeler, in part commenting on the second by Amy Davidson in the New Yorker (along with Snowden himself, in his interview with Bart Gellman) are the first I've seen making a point I've been making for years: contrary to the frequent assertions in the last week (including by Fred Kaplan) that Snowden is particularly reprehensible because he "broke his OATH of secrecy," neither Snowden nor anyone else broke such a secrecy "oath."

Such an oath doesn't exist (look up "oath" on the web). Rather he—and I—broke an agreement (known as Standard Form 312) which was a condition of employment. It provides for civil or administrative penalties (e.g., losing a clearance or a job) for disclosing classified information: serious enough to keep nearly everyone quiet about...anything classified, no matter how illegal or dangerous.

The reason this matters is that Snowden, as he said to Gellman and as I've repeatedly said, did take a real "oath," just one oath, the same oath that every official in the government and every Congressperson takes as an oath of office. He and they "swore" ("or affirmed&quot "to support and defend the Constitution of the U.S., against all enemies, foreign and domestic."

They did not swear to support and defend or obey the President, or to keep secrets. But to support and defend, among other elements of the Constitution, the First, Fourth, Fifth and Sixth Amendments in the Bill of Rights, and Article I, section 8, on war powers. That's the oath that, as Snowden correctly said to Gellman, he upheld (as I would say I eventually did) and that Clapper and Alexander broke (along with most members of Congress).

As Snowden and I discovered, that oath turns out to be often in conflict with the secrecy agreements that he and I signed, and which we later chose to violate in support of our oath.
 

randome

(34,845 posts)
150. Oath, legally binding document, it's much the same thing.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 04:04 PM
Jan 2014

It was still a 'lie' to sign something he had no intention of doing. And since the collection of third-party business records collection have been ruled Constitutional since 1978, I don't see why he had such a conflict with it.

He might disagree with that collection but his way of expressing that disagreement is not normally how we roll here in the U.S.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]Stop looking for heroes. BE one.[/center][/font][hr]

Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
156. An employment agreement is not the same as an oath no matter how many
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 04:53 PM
Jan 2014

times you try to change the definition.

Historically, some things that were once claimed Constitutional have been subsequently reversed. The personal info that can now be attained and the information that that collection can reveal was unimaginable in 1978.

I have a conflict with it, as well. And given that some of our Democratic lawmakers who are privy to classified NSA activities have a problem with it, too; but are barred from revealing that which troubles them, I believe that Snowden rolled in the right direction.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
160. Good enough!
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 05:11 PM
Jan 2014

[hr][font color="blue"][center]You should never stop having childhood dreams.[/center][/font][hr]

BodieTown

(147 posts)
124. Bingo
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 02:41 PM
Jan 2014

Goodness gracious me, the only thing missing from this story is her clutching her pearls and fainting now that she's been dumped.

If at age 28 her life is floundering and without direction now that the man of her life is gone, she needs more help than even daddy can provide.

What rubbish.

nolabels

(13,133 posts)
188. And with being a hansome young women.....
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 07:23 AM
Jan 2014

her biggest problem is choosing the correct gentleman friend to pursue and not much else.........

The little hurt feelings might take a little time, but probably not much either

oldandhappy

(6,719 posts)
29. I keep expecting to hear he is wed to a Russian lady -- for residency and all.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 01:31 AM
Jan 2014

I suspect Putin would like to keep him for now and will do something to make him a legal resident. I am sorry about his girl friend. But she has to move on. Write a book and get a different job and move to another place with not so many memories. Snowden is not going to work out for her.

Niceguy1

(2,467 posts)
33. if it was a republican who did that
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 02:10 AM
Jan 2014

Last edited Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:36 AM - Edit history (1)

DU be singing a different toon. At any rate how he has treated her is a big window into his character.

Th1onein

(8,514 posts)
43. A window into his character? What hyperbole.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:32 AM
Jan 2014

Geez. Give us a break. People break up every day, for many different reasons. One good reason: Snowden is living in exile. It was hard enough for HIM to find a safe place, that wouldn't hand him over to the US/Gitmo. WHAT do you think would have happened to his girlfriend if he had taken her with him? He did her a favor. I think it was a pretty unselfish act, quite frankly.

Niceguy1

(2,467 posts)
44. how a person acts when breaking up
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:37 AM
Jan 2014

Is an indication of character....simply walking away, no words, no communication when it is possible is selfish.

Th1onein

(8,514 posts)
46. It's very UNSELFISH of him, in this case.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:54 AM
Jan 2014

If he had told her anything, he would have INVOLVED her, and put her in a very bad position.

Th1onein

(8,514 posts)
51. How do YOU know what's been communicated between them?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 04:17 AM
Jan 2014

This whole argument is just stupid. And pointless. We all know that he can't do anything right, right?

Hissyspit

(45,788 posts)
47. Yes, like that time I broke up with my girlfriend because I was
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:57 AM
Jan 2014

whistleblowing national secrets. Same thing happened to you, too, hunh?

treestar

(82,383 posts)
68. Hyperbole?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 09:16 AM
Jan 2014


The noble, self sacrificing Eddie who is now in a safe place and saved us all from Big Brother!

Never the subject of hyperbole.

Th1onein

(8,514 posts)
131. I was wondering when you would chime in here, on the pro-surveillance side, Treestar.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 02:50 PM
Jan 2014

Always. Has anyone else ever noticed that? And the ! That seems to be your guys main symbol for communication. You can't counter anything with a cogent argument, so you resort to a smilie. How sad.

How does it make you feel when the majority of people here, and across the world, disagree with you? What do you tell your masters when you make absolutely no headway in convincing us that black is white, and white is black?

treestar

(82,383 posts)
136. My point was that it's hilarious for Ed's supporters to talk of hyperbole
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:03 PM
Jan 2014

Because they are the ones who engage in it with regards to hero Eddie. Is it authoritarian to expect people to follow the law?

Th1onein

(8,514 posts)
171. Is it authoritarian to expect people to follow the law? WHICH people are you talking about?
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 12:16 AM
Jan 2014

The ones who are spying on every single living breathing American, or the one who told on them?

treestar

(82,383 posts)
178. You've resorted to the exaggeration
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 12:21 PM
Jan 2014

They are not "spying on every angle living breathing American." That's absurd. This is why it's funny that Ed's supporters could possibly call anyone on exaggeration.

You are also claiming only an "authoritarian" would expect Ed to obey the law, especially one so reasonable it includes avenues for him to use if he thought something was wrong. He could have avoided all of his travels.

 

Demeter

(85,373 posts)
112. If it was a Republican?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 01:31 PM
Jan 2014

The only question I have about Republican marriages/relationships/one-night-stands is:

Whatever possessed her? Is she crazy?

Window into his character? Did he in any way, shape, or form implicate her in a dangerous, life and freedom-threatening situation?

I can't think that being 28, free, white and single in Hawaii is such a tremendous handicap.

Ratty

(2,100 posts)
35. Oh my. Whatever will that poor maiden do?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 02:30 AM
Jan 2014

Without a man to support her? Doomed to spinsterhood no doubt. What a terrible fate for such a fair and delicate damsel.

I see now Snowden is a cad of the worst caliber. Thank you for posting this. I now see he is a total traitor and I have changed my mind about him and totally support the NSA.

MsPithy

(809 posts)
36. She should be grateful, too strong a connection to Snowden
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 02:33 AM
Jan 2014

and she would end up in Gitmo.

Most prisoners are there for less.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
91. You forget that all of the Bush-era abuses are Obama's fault, too.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:00 PM
Jan 2014

[hr][font color="blue"][center]All things in moderation, including moderation.[/center][/font][hr]

jimlup

(7,968 posts)
37. Gee couples break up all the time...
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 02:59 AM
Jan 2014

When they create a life in which they become dependent on the other person and then the other person exits the relationship well then they reap their folly. Moral of the story is simple. Don't become dependent on the other person.

Historic NY

(37,449 posts)
39. Didn't he steal away in the night leaving behind the boxes in the garage....
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:07 AM
Jan 2014

seems he didn't trust her either. She needs to move on because he is never coming home.

Theyletmeeatcake2

(348 posts)
41. Sorry she got dumped but WTF has that got to do with anything!!!!!
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:11 AM
Jan 2014

We're not sizing Up Snowden as a potential suitor are we?? If so then I'd say don't give him your passwords!!

Kurovski

(34,655 posts)
55. And Laura Bush ran her boyfriend over with a car.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 04:49 AM
Jan 2014

So, like, what the fuck ever with the bullshit folks.

Kurovski

(34,655 posts)
159. Yes. It was awful. i think she actually rammed his car
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 04:57 PM
Jan 2014

But I'm too rushed to check it.

That has to be hard to live with. Maybe she married Little George to subconsciously punish herself?

Psephos

(8,032 posts)
183. It took five seconds to look it up.
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 04:02 PM
Jan 2014

There is something in the human psyche that finds rumors irresistible.

........

In May 2000, a two-page police report pertaining to a fatal accident that had taken place near Midland, Texas, in 1963 was made public. It contained the information that 17-year-old Laura Welch had run a stop sign, causing the death of the sole occupant of the vehicle hers had struck. According to that report, the future First Lady had been driving her Chevrolet sedan to a local drive-in theater on a clear night shortly after 8 p.m. on 6 November 1963 when she entered an intersection without heeding the stop sign and there collided with the Corvair sedan driven by 17-year-old Michael Douglas. Also in the car with Laura Welch was her friend, 17-year-old Judy Dykes.

How fast Miss Welch might have been driving is open to question. That part of the police report is illegible, although two biographies of the First Lady refer to her as having been going 50 mph at the time of the collision. The speed limit on that portion of road was 55 mph. According to the police report neither driver had been drinking, but no tests were performed. No charges were filed as a result of the accident.

News accounts from 1963 reported the young man as having been thrown from his car and dying of a broken neck; he was pronounced dead on arrival at Midland Memorial Hospital. According to various biographies of Mrs. Bush, the boy's father had been traveling in a car immediately behind his son's and witnessed the whole thing.

The two teen girls were taken to the same hospital and treated for minor injuries that amounted to bumps and bruises.

Michael Douglas, the young man who was killed, had been a member of Laura Welch's crowd at high school and her friend. He had been a star athlete, excelling in track and football, and was looked up to by his peers not just for his athlete prowess, but for his personality and intelligence too. By all reports, he was likeable, outgoing, and funny. He was nominated as the school's most popular boy while a junior, an honor that almost always went to a senior.

There has always been speculation about the nature of his relationship with Laura Welch. One rumor asserts the two had never dated, but that Laura had been romantically interested in him. Another claims he had been Laura's boyfriend when he died, and another that he had once
been her boyfriend but the couple had subsequently broken up. (The latter theory is advanced in the 2002 biography of the Bushes, George and Laura: Portrait of an American Marriage, which states Laura Welch and Michael Douglas had dated throughout early and mid-1963, but by the fall of that year Michael was going out with Regan Gammon, one of Miss Welch's closest friends.)

<snip>

Read more at http://www.snopes.com/politics/bush/laura.asp

JVS

(61,935 posts)
57. Fathers of ex girlfriends seldom have nice things to say. Snowden had bigger things to worry about
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 05:59 AM
Jan 2014

He gets a pass for not calling.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
59. I don't think I care.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 06:26 AM
Jan 2014

I am not a Snowden fan, don't like the way he went about doing what he did, but I can see why he did some of it.
But "leaving her to fend for herself"?! Give me a break, she is grown, a few years younger than I am, and I'm sure she can take care of herself. I've never needed or wanted my ex to take care of me after a relationship ended. I know when I was dancing I never left work broke even on a bad night, and what she is doing for a living seems more difficult and is way nicer than any strip club I gigged at. I'm sure she can support herself just fine.
If her daddy is so worried about it he should take it upon himself to fend for her. I understand being angry at the guy who left your daughter, but this is too much.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
144. Her father ought to be glad Snowden made sure she knew nothing about
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:36 PM
Jan 2014

it, or she'd be in exile/big trouble, too.

And yes, I think all the pronouncements from the fainting couch that he was a cad are just a bit over the top. She was lucky he did it this way.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
147. He saved her a lot of trouble that's for sure.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:44 PM
Jan 2014

She could be with him right now, unable to return home. Her father should thank his lucky stars that Snowden left her in Hawaii. He left her in a beautiful place with nice weather and a job she seems to like.
Funnily enough, keeping his lady safe from prosecution is one of the things I respect about him. I'm not a fan, But this stupid Aunt Pittypat nonsense is beyond stupid.

LeftishBrit

(41,205 posts)
60. Typical Torygraph, acting more and more like a RW tabloid every day
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 06:28 AM
Jan 2014

Snowden may well be an unsatisfactory person in his personal life; but this doesn't affect the validity of his revelations, nor does it constitute major news; except in tabloidville.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,336 posts)
63. Just slip out the back, Jack, Make a new plan, Stan, ...
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 07:59 AM
Jan 2014

... go on the lam, Ed.

er, wait, that doesn't rhyme ...

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
64. I agree the article is overdone.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 08:17 AM
Jan 2014

But think how many people Snowden lied to. He broke the oath he signed. He lied to his coworkers to get their passwords. He lied to his girlfriend.

All to 'reveal' that the NSA has copies of telecom metadata, which we already knew about since 2007. Oh, and that the NSA spies on foreign individuals.

In other words, all for nothing.

Oh, and another lie: in a recent interview, he mentioned he would like to see his girlfriend again. Makes you wonder why he hasn't been in contact with her since he left the country.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]If you don't give yourself the same benefit of a doubt you'd give anyone else, you're cheating someone.[/center][/font][hr]

treestar

(82,383 posts)
65. so what?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 09:13 AM
Jan 2014

At 28, she is an adult, can she not take care of herself? They weren't married even. But then I'm surprised she hasn't tried for her 15 minutes of fame before this.

 

CFLDem

(2,083 posts)
70. How is this surprising?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 09:39 AM
Jan 2014

I mean what else should we expect a rat bastard like Snowden to do? Be responsible? Be considerate about the opinions and well-being of those closest to him?



Who knows- maybe it will turn out he named her as his beneficiary in his life insurance policy?

(I wouldn't bet on it though)

 

Bradical79

(4,490 posts)
78. She should be fine
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 10:33 AM
Jan 2014

She's ex-girlfriend to an international fugitive while also being talented, young, and beautiful. No doubt her life will be a circus for awhile, but from a financial standpoint, I think she would be in a pretty good position to make some nice cash.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
82. Actually, the worst thing to do to Snowden would be to ignore him.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 11:35 AM
Jan 2014

He has already self-destructed and painted himself into a corner in Russia.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]Everything is a satellite to some other thing.[/center][/font][hr]

former9thward

(31,961 posts)
87. He caused the President of the U.S. to make some reforms in the NSA.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 11:49 AM
Jan 2014

So no, he has not self-destructed and is admired by hundreds of millions of people in the world. He will do just fine much to your disappointment.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
89. I'm never disappointed in how reality plays out.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 11:57 AM
Jan 2014

I have no skin in this game, I've simply professed my opinions, all of which are subject to change upon new information being presented.

I think 'self-destructed' is appropriate. Snowden failed to complete almost everything in life, even high school. He has no friends and he couldn't even be happy with a girlfriend.

I think what drove him to steal as much as possible and run is a deeply rooted self-image of himself as a failure. He wanted to be a hero and now he's stuck in Russia.

Just my opinion but that's how I see it.
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hughee99

(16,113 posts)
180. To be accurate, he caused the President of the U.S. to make a speech.
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 01:14 PM
Jan 2014

We'll see if the reforms are ACTUALLY implemented. Oh wait, it's the NSA. We WON'T see if those reforms are actually implemented.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
85. What is unconstitutional about it?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 11:46 AM
Jan 2014

[hr][font color="blue"][center]Everything is a satellite to some other thing.[/center][/font][hr]

94. This
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:24 PM
Jan 2014

The right of the people to be secure in their persons, houses, papers, and effects, against unreasonable searches and seizures, shall not be violated, and no Warrants shall issue, but upon probable cause, supported by Oath or affirmation, and particularly describing the place to be searched, and the persons or things to be seized.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
96. Well, the metadata collection has long been ruled to be Constitutional.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:44 PM
Jan 2014

Third-party business records are not 'personal effects'. Anything else?
[hr][font color="blue"][center]Rules are made to be broken. Including this one.[/center][/font][hr]

113. Slavery was once ruled to be constitutional as well.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 01:39 PM
Jan 2014

So was "seperate but equal." Just because Scalia and Thomas say something is constitutional doesn't make it so. The courts make many bad decisions. I don't see how anyone can think the government keeping a collection of all phone calls, emails, etc is "reasonable." I tend to have my own viewpoint, and don't rely on what the Supreme Court says. They screw up MANY TIMES.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
116. The key ruling occurred in 1978 under President Carter.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 01:52 PM
Jan 2014

And the NSA needs 4 levels of approval before the metadata can even be viewed. That seems to be a good balance between privacy rights and national security to me. Carl Bernstein agrees with that. Or at least he did way back in June or July.

Keeping copies of what the telecoms already have is hardly comparable to slavery.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]Treat your body like a machine. Your mind like a castle.[/center][/font][hr]

118. Well, they decided wrong then.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 01:56 PM
Jan 2014

I'm not a lawyer and don't know the specifics. All I know is in my opinion, this is unconstitutional.

http://www.theguardian.com/world/2014/jan/16/nsa-collects-millions-text-messages-daily-untargeted-global-sweep


So is this.


http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2013/10/14/nsa-email-instant-messaging-contact-lists/2984055/


So is this.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/06/15/nsa-phone-calls-warrants_n_3448075.html


I don't care what some ruling from 1978 says. The fourth amendment is more important. Its only a paragraph long, and is very easy to understand. If any Supreme Court Justice claims that this is constitutional, they are quite simply wrong. Just because five Supreme Court Justices rule one way or another does not change my opinion on the constitutionality of something.


I also didn't mean to compare it to slavery. I was just pointing out the fallacy in the argument that, the supreme court decided something, that means its constitutional. I personally would rather take a less than 1 percent increased chance of dying from a terrorist attack, than the government unconstitutionally spying on pretty much everything I do electronically, but that's just me.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
120. And yours is a valid opinion. I don't so much as support the NSA as think they are irrelevant to me.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 02:01 PM
Jan 2014

But I don't see a problem with curtailing the NSA's reach, either. Thanks for your civil replies!
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neverforget

(9,436 posts)
168. And the ruling you cite is about an individual
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 10:32 PM
Jan 2014

a robber, not a massive government surveillance program. Do you see the difference in scale? Do you think the judge had this massive surveillance program in mind when he ruled for the police?

ronnie624

(5,764 posts)
90. So?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 12:00 PM
Jan 2014

It doesn't concern anyone but them. It is not an important issue where the conduct of political and economic affairs are concerned, and it shouldn't distract attention from the fact that barricades are being erected to prevent reform, and that the global elite class of society is consolidating its power over us with an increasingly sophisticated and powerful system of surveillance. That is what is truly relevant to us, as working class people with an enormous stake in the future of our society.

But I guess people just have to have a fucking soap opera.

RVN VET

(492 posts)
104. Didn't he do her a favor by not telling her anything?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 01:10 PM
Jan 2014

If he had told her, wouldn't she have been considered an accomplice and abettor under the law? Even if he just said he was leaving, without telling her why, wouldn't she have been subject to abuse by the government simply for knowing that he was going to leave the Country? Wouldn't the US have assumed that she must have known something else?

Hell, she's probably been under enough scrutiny by NSA and other parts of the Intelligence mob as it is.

Whether his reasons were noble or not, he probably did her a favor by not telling her he was leaving forever. He certainly did her a favor by not telling her what he had taken from NSA and what he was going to reveal to the media.

Jesus Malverde

(10,274 posts)
107. boo hoo..
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 01:14 PM
Jan 2014

God bless Edward Snowden. A brave whistleblower, risking his life to inform us of the crime and treason in our midst.

Fuck the CRIMINALS, Clapper, Alexander, and their acolytes.

America’s Spies Want Edward Snowden Dead

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blackspade

(10,056 posts)
114. So the fuck what?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 01:48 PM
Jan 2014

Of course he 'abandoned' her.
What was he supposed to do?
Leave her with a big chunk of change and implicate her in all of the leaks?

And this has fuck all to do with what exactly?
More tabloid journalism by the M$M.

Locrian

(4,522 posts)
163. exactly
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 08:44 PM
Jan 2014

WTF was he supposed to do? Send her secret codes so they can throw her in jail? It's not some move where love conquers all - it's better for her that she's still free without him than being used as a pawn by the gov to get him back.



Cleita

(75,480 posts)
127. Not the classiest way to break up with someone
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 02:46 PM
Jan 2014

but shit happens. Seems she should find someone more appreciative of her and move on instead of whining to the tabloids which makes her motives seem questionable.

cantbeserious

(13,039 posts)
129. More Deflection - More Character Assassination - Focus On The Loss Of Privacy And The 4th Amendment
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 02:49 PM
Jan 2014

eom

Douglas Carpenter

(20,226 posts)
142. and he boxes in his garage too - now that we know this - at least we don't half to worry about the
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 03:35 PM
Jan 2014

gargantuan and ever growing surveillance state --- This is a relief

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
161. Took her 7 months to realize her boyfriend left her?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 05:51 PM
Jan 2014

Yet, she has managed to live in Hawaii this long as a dancer paying some of the highest living prices in the world?

And, they cannot get her to say it, dad says it instead?

Hmmm.

JoeyT

(6,785 posts)
165. Abandoned to fend for herself?
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 09:13 PM
Jan 2014

Women aren't children. He didn't drop a five year old off at the edge of a desert with half a canteen of water and best wishes. She's a grown woman. The idea that a woman is incapable of fending for herself is sexism worthy of the vilest of Republicans.

fujiyama

(15,185 posts)
172. Pathetic that this is the best the Torrygraph could do
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 04:39 AM
Jan 2014

Then again, the Guardian has real reporters like Greenwald. The Telegraph is a hackish RW "news" outlet so of course they'll support the police state (like many tools on this site who have been put on ignore, the best function ever introduced on DU - sparing me much heartburn).

penultimate

(1,110 posts)
175. They were not married and people split up all the time....
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 11:55 AM
Jan 2014

I'd feel differently if they had kids together though. It might have been a dick move on his part to just up and leave, but in the grand scheme of things, it hardly seems like that big of a deal. She's a grown woman, I'm sure she was able to continue on with her life without much issue. She may have got a bit of attention early on, but I personally forgot all about her until I read this story.

Ilsa

(61,690 posts)
177. And if he left her pregnant, I might give a shit.
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 12:11 PM
Jan 2014

Sorry, I'm just not heartbroken over this. It's better she find out now where she stood with him than after she married him. Not matter if he's Snowden or Jones or Brown or Smith.

nilesobek

(1,423 posts)
179. Is there any real evidence
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 12:22 PM
Jan 2014

that she is a stripper, a psychedelic dancer, or whatever the current smear attempt is? Is there anything honorable in abandoning this woman? Does she strip at the corner hole-in-the-wall club and somehow that discredits Snowden?

What is really bothering me about the whole Snowden affair is my deeply held fear that there is something he wants to reveal that is so monstrous, so incendiary that it would change America forever.

So I say we stick together to find out the truth.

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