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brooklynite

(94,360 posts)
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 06:04 PM Jan 2014

GOP congressman’s book: ‘The wife is to voluntarily submit’ to her husband

Source: Washington Post

A Republican member of Congress says in a recently released book that a wife is to "voluntarily submit" to her husband, but that it doesn't make her inferior to him.

Rep. Steve Pearce's (R-N.M.) memoir, "Just Fly the Plane, Stupid!" was released last month. Its publication -- and his acknowledgment in the book of the controversial nature of the submission debate -- come as the Republican Party reevaluates how it talks to and about women.

In the book, Pearce recounts his rise to owning an oil-field service company and winning election to Congress. In the book, the Vietnam War veteran says that both the military chain of command and the family unit need a structure in which everyone plays his or her role.

...snip...

"The wife is to voluntarily submit, just as the husband is to lovingly lead and sacrifice," he writes, citing the Bible. "The husband’s part is to show up during the times of deep stress, take the leadership role and be accountable for the outcome, blaming no one else."


Read more: http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/post-politics/wp/2014/01/22/gop-congressmans-book-the-wife-is-to-voluntarily-submit-to-her-husband/



Remind me how that "reaching out to women" thing is going?
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GOP congressman’s book: ‘The wife is to voluntarily submit’ to her husband (Original Post) brooklynite Jan 2014 OP
Submit voluntarily, goddammit! Deep13 Jan 2014 #1
This is a religious thing. AtheistCrusader Jan 2014 #2
OK, then. Why would we ever vote for a christian woman for public office? MsPithy Jan 2014 #3
Are you suggesting Marcus Bachmann wasn't up to the job? brooklynite Jan 2014 #9
Does that include bearing children when the wife doesn't want to? MsPithy Jan 2014 #4
"What War on Women" asks the Republican leadership..... nt okaawhatever Jan 2014 #5
That's a contradiction in terms, in any case LeftishBrit Jan 2014 #6
Hmm Scairp Jan 2014 #7
Wonder if she likes being outed as a Stepford wife elfin Jan 2014 #8
Very short biography at link, and he looks beatable....bring it on jerk Stuart G Jan 2014 #10
Isn't that part of Shira Law? chuckstevens Jan 2014 #11
I look forward to the sequel, "Just Plain Stupid". tanyev Jan 2014 #12
... Ash_F Jan 2014 #18
battered women's shelters are for women who "submit" Skittles Jan 2014 #13
I'm going to try this out with my wife Dread Pirate Roberts Jan 2014 #14
Actually you may be wrong there..... Swede Atlanta Jan 2014 #15
I already tried it with my wife calguy Jan 2014 #22
I'm 5'10", about 185 or so. pangaia Jan 2014 #23
And just how many stupid, Republican women do I know right now who agree with him? hamsterjill Jan 2014 #16
Dumb title, dumb book. Ash_F Jan 2014 #17
(hanging my head) This is MY Congressman duhneece Jan 2014 #19
Don't give up. /nt Ash_F Jan 2014 #20
Nevah!!! nt duhneece Jan 2014 #21

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
2. This is a religious thing.
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 06:09 PM
Jan 2014

I got that whole fucking spiel when working out our wedding vows with the pastor of the church we wanted to get married in. (Not members.)

We left that 'obey' shit out when we actually said our vows. I think he noticed but fuck him, we were renting the church, nothing more. Not members.

MsPithy

(809 posts)
3. OK, then. Why would we ever vote for a christian woman for public office?
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 06:11 PM
Jan 2014

Her husband is the one making the decisions.

MsPithy

(809 posts)
4. Does that include bearing children when the wife doesn't want to?
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 06:14 PM
Jan 2014

Sounds like... oh, what's the word...?

Slavery.

elfin

(6,262 posts)
8. Wonder if she likes being outed as a Stepford wife
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 06:28 PM
Jan 2014

He just might be in for a rude awakening by a seemingly docile wife who doesn't like this characterization. Here's to her consciousness being raised by the reaction to this stupid, stupid comment.

Stuart G

(38,414 posts)
10. Very short biography at link, and he looks beatable....bring it on jerk
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 06:43 PM
Jan 2014

Wikipedia:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steve_Pearce_(politician)

Stevan Edward "Steve" Pearce (born August 24, 1947) is an American politician who has been the U.S. Representative for New Mexico's 2nd congressional district since 2011. He is a member of the Republican Party. He previously held the seat from 2003 to 2009 and was an Assistant Minority Whip.

He is currently the only Republican in the New Mexico Congressional Delegation, as well as the only Republican Congressman who represents a district along the Mexico-United States border.

Skittles

(153,113 posts)
13. battered women's shelters are for women who "submit"
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 07:26 PM
Jan 2014

fuck that

he would fit in nicely with the Taliban

Dread Pirate Roberts

(1,896 posts)
14. I'm going to try this out with my wife
Thu Jan 23, 2014, 02:08 PM
Jan 2014

This may be my last post!

Obviously this book was not co-authored by the good congressman's wife.

 

Swede Atlanta

(3,596 posts)
15. Actually you may be wrong there.....
Thu Jan 23, 2014, 03:23 PM
Jan 2014

there are many, many "good" Christian women who believe all that crap about the woman being subservient to her husband and doing his bidding.

It relieves them of any obligation to be responsible for themselves or be culpable for their mistakes. The "hubby" will take care of them.

This belief system is often taught young girls at an early age. Their Daddy is their protector in their adolescence and Daddy will approve or disapprove of her husband. After marriage her husband is the master of the house.

pangaia

(24,324 posts)
23. I'm 5'10", about 185 or so.
Thu Jan 23, 2014, 11:04 PM
Jan 2014

My wife is Chinese 5' 0' 98 pounds after a shower and with a towel around her head.
She has practiced kung fu for 5-6 years.
I ain't tryin' non of this shit on her.

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
16. And just how many stupid, Republican women do I know right now who agree with him?
Thu Jan 23, 2014, 03:42 PM
Jan 2014

I can't believe that women...any women...can be so foolish, but there are plenty of them out there who believe this stuff AND decide to live by it.

It's bad enough when a man is trying to peddle that crap; it's even worse when women voluntarily do it. Candace Cameron Bure was in the news last week over this same stuff.

Un BE lieveable!

I'm a woman of the 60's movements and it's an equal partnership, or it's nothing at all.

Ash_F

(5,861 posts)
17. Dumb title, dumb book.
Thu Jan 23, 2014, 03:46 PM
Jan 2014

Dumb Republican.

Edit - Now that I think about it, I probably shouldn't make light of this because it is very serious that someone in a position of power has this mindset.

duhneece

(4,110 posts)
19. (hanging my head) This is MY Congressman
Thu Jan 23, 2014, 03:59 PM
Jan 2014

If you wonder what kind of women would support him, let me share with you that down here in southcentral NM, a woman state rep tried to pass a law making it illegal for a woman who has been raped to have an abortion...that would be destroying the evidence, don't you know?
Our second annual "We Trust Women Commemoration & Celebration of Roe v Wade" had a dozen or so rallyers, but the anti-choice vigil for unborn 'children' had 150 attend.
We fight hard to support Dem candidates and shit like this just fires me up.

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