Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

Judi Lynn

(160,525 posts)
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 08:30 PM Jan 2014

Oklahoma Republican’s bill would block same-sex marriage by stopping ALL marriages

Source: Raw Story

Oklahoma Republican’s bill would block same-sex marriage by stopping ALL marriages
By David Ferguson
Saturday, January 25, 2014 12:17 EST

A Republican lawmaker in Oklahoma has proposed a controversial way to stopping same-sex marriages in the state. According to News9.com, state Rep. Mike Turner (R) has proposed scrapping marriage in the state altogether.

The lawmaker contends that it is the only way to keep same-sex marriage illegal in the state while still defending the U.S. Constitution.

“(My constituents are) willing to have that discussion about whether marriage needs to be regulated by the state at all,” Turner told Channel 9.

Other lawmakers feel the same way, he said. They envision a state that doesn’t recognize any marriages at all.


Read more: http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2014/01/25/oklahoma-republicans-bill-would-block-same-sex-marriage-by-stopping-all-marriages/

74 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
Oklahoma Republican’s bill would block same-sex marriage by stopping ALL marriages (Original Post) Judi Lynn Jan 2014 OP
The nuts keep on geting nuttier! LOL :) n/t Tx4obama Jan 2014 #1
I really hope they do this Heather MC Jan 2014 #47
It's the social con version of the fiscal con government shutdown. nt Bernardo de La Paz Jan 2014 #2
The very reason for LGBT marriage legality. al_liberal Jan 2014 #3
Marriage is not needed for any of those. former9thward Jan 2014 #13
I don't consider it a conservative institution, but a useful one, to bestow next of kin rights... Humanist_Activist Jan 2014 #20
Would you say that to out sisters and brothers in the DU LGBTQ community? Raine1967 Jan 2014 #34
Don't! New Orleans Strong Jan 2014 #37
You are both right and completely and utterly wrong Fearless Jan 2014 #42
Your history is off. former9thward Jan 2014 #66
There was marriage in Native American and Easter Societies. Fearless Jan 2014 #71
okla... kardonb Jan 2014 #56
What a good idea!!! elleng Jan 2014 #4
This is really revealing. If anyone thinks for a moment that your enemy wouldn't just as soon jtuck004 Jan 2014 #5
I like very much your comparison to people who blow themselves up. pangaia Jan 2014 #22
I fear people like this within the US more than "them" over there. It is a window into RKP5637 Jan 2014 #27
The enemy within atreides1 Jan 2014 #50
+100 (or so BC) timeless truth ! lunasun Jan 2014 #57
these people are hateful, evil bigots. beyond redemption. period. stg81 Jan 2014 #60
Divorce lawyers won't like that one bucolic_frolic Jan 2014 #6
Oklahoma has one of the highest divorce rates in the country theHandpuppet Jan 2014 #58
They keep proving that Republican Party is nuts neverforget Jan 2014 #7
Yep, the republican party now has all of the terrorists, religious nuts and wackos in one RKP5637 Jan 2014 #28
How does doing away with legal marriage "defend the US Constitution"? uppityperson Jan 2014 #8
They are getting wise to the fact that the constitution may protect everyone, not just straights. quakerboy Jan 2014 #44
It's the goats. Bernardo de La Paz Jan 2014 #9
How does that even work? MNBrewer Jan 2014 #10
Republicans are incapable of deductive logical reasoning/decisions, so for the entire state it RKP5637 Jan 2014 #31
fool weissmam Jan 2014 #11
yeah right. barbtries Jan 2014 #12
Fundies will be very happy HockeyMom Jan 2014 #14
Disappointing to see posters who call themselves progressive defending former9thward Jan 2014 #15
What are you talking about? Raine1967 Jan 2014 #29
I don't defend the institution of marriage. former9thward Jan 2014 #64
You called in conservative. Raine1967 Jan 2014 #65
I am opposed to state sponsored marriage. former9thward Jan 2014 #67
Can these bastards get crazier? :) Ahpook Jan 2014 #16
hard to believe but I could go along with that rurallib Jan 2014 #17
They're in their death throes. n/t defacto7 Jan 2014 #18
And what would be the difference between that and civil unions rocktivity Jan 2014 #19
shockingly - I AGREE! The govt should recognize only civil unions stg81 Jan 2014 #21
To me, religion has way too much baggage with marriage. I agree, let the civil unions RKP5637 Jan 2014 #32
In California, a civil wedding and a religious rite are two different things. JDPriestly Jan 2014 #41
To me, that is excellent. We want to get married for legal purposes, but could care less RKP5637 Jan 2014 #43
May be the same where you are. Check. Google it. JDPriestly Jan 2014 #48
Ohio law cares not one bit about the religious aspect riqster Jan 2014 #54
The government won't recognize a church wedding anyway. arcane1 Jan 2014 #33
Not The Onion? NastyRiffraff Jan 2014 #23
Ahhh, the beauty of home skoolin' blkmusclmachine Jan 2014 #24
just when i think TEXAS has won stupid.... Burf-_- Jan 2014 #25
I though KS might win at one time, but this sure puts OK far beyond KS. n/t RKP5637 Jan 2014 #45
These people are absolute assholes. Why don't they suceed, maybe that would solve their RKP5637 Jan 2014 #26
We don't wanna wedding date! We just wanna fornicate! Lint Head Jan 2014 #30
My guess is watoos Jan 2014 #35
that's one way of lowering the state's high divorce rate. nt NoGOPZone Jan 2014 #36
thank you for posting this. I reallllly needed the laugh. niyad Jan 2014 #38
The first half yes quakerboy Jan 2014 #46
Wow, just wow! hrmjustin Jan 2014 #39
This would have interesting tax repercussions for the people of the state. JDPriestly Jan 2014 #40
He got this from Rand Paul: freshwest Jan 2014 #49
You're traveling through another dimension, a dimension not only of hate and crass but of stupidity Nanjing to Seoul Jan 2014 #51
Yes! Please run, run, RUN with this, Mr. Turner! SoapBox Jan 2014 #52
I can just see the veto message jmowreader Jan 2014 #53
"Mark my word, if and when these preachers get control of the [Republican] party,... WhoWoodaKnew Jan 2014 #55
This just takes crazy area51 Jan 2014 #59
Ah..the old scorched earth strategy. Ash_F Jan 2014 #61
Oh, so that's how same-sex marriage is going to destroy traditional marriage. tanyev Jan 2014 #62
He believes women should be owned, not married. Scuba Jan 2014 #63
Do it, Turner. Paladin Jan 2014 #68
The right wing Christians won't like that treestar Jan 2014 #69
So what about all those old religious "living in sin" laws? L0oniX Jan 2014 #70
So they're the ones who are threatening the sanctity of marriage KamaAina Jan 2014 #72
I wonder how this goes with Rand Paul's comments on unwed mothers and benefits? apnu Jan 2014 #73
Rename the state "Oklahomophobia". Spitfire of ATJ Jan 2014 #74
 

Heather MC

(8,084 posts)
47. I really hope they do this
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 11:26 PM
Jan 2014

If they do this, maybe this case would make it to the Supreme Court and this time the SC will do the right thing and make all marriage legal.

al_liberal

(420 posts)
3. The very reason for LGBT marriage legality.
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 08:38 PM
Jan 2014

How the fuck are they going to explain to their dipshitted constituents that nothing will lawfully become the property of the survivor if one partner dies? How about dealing with the end of life directives? How about property ownership?

These fucking people are the very definition of idiots. god bless them if that's their plan, they'll destroy marriage in any form in the US.

former9thward

(31,987 posts)
13. Marriage is not needed for any of those.
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 09:15 PM
Jan 2014

Contracts can be made for anything. End of life directives have nothing to do with marriage. Why are progressives suddenly defending most conservative institution of all?

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
20. I don't consider it a conservative institution, but a useful one, to bestow next of kin rights...
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 09:33 PM
Jan 2014

to a person you choose, the simplest, cheapest, and most reliable way possible, and it should be universal, for same sex or opposite sex couples.

Other methods are more expensive, less reliable, and less recognized, and hence, less universal, than marriage, its as simple as that.

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
34. Would you say that to out sisters and brothers in the DU LGBTQ community?
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 10:23 PM
Jan 2014

I personally find marriage equality a civil rights issue, and I;m going to leave it there.

It's NOT a conservative institution.

New Orleans Strong

(212 posts)
37. Don't!
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 10:36 PM
Jan 2014

Don't you DARE say that advanced directives - even those signed and fucking having a raised seal - are EVEN considered in Louisiana. Please don't even say it. Please. The story is too sad -

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
42. You are both right and completely and utterly wrong
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 11:08 PM
Jan 2014

You are right in that contracts can protect assets. However, those assets will be subject to legal pursuit by family members and taxation based on state laws.

In reality it has to do with much much more than this however. And in this you are staggeringly wrong. It has to do with two things:

1.) Marriage inequality is unconstitutional. It is treating some group of people as second class citizens.

2.) Marriage is NOT a conservative institution. It has been perverted by conservative groups to attain power. Power over women. Marriage has existed LONG before Christianity. Long before American conservatism and the rise of religious Puritanism and fanaticism. LONG BEFORE.

The idea of marriage is this:

Two people are validated in their love for each other by their friends, families, and the world at large. Denying anyone that validation is wrong. Ethically, morally, constitutionally, and legally. To us it signifies a huge benchmark in the effort to be accepted by society.

former9thward

(31,987 posts)
66. Your history is off.
Sun Jan 26, 2014, 11:31 AM
Jan 2014

State sponsored marriage is very recent historically. It does not exist before Christianity. Marriage licences starting being issued in the 1600s. Before that a public declaration by a couple that they were married was accepted.

Don't try and make a strawman by bringing up marriage inequality. I am talking about state sponsored marriage no matter who it is between.

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
71. There was marriage in Native American and Easter Societies.
Mon Jan 27, 2014, 12:31 AM
Jan 2014

They were state or "community" sponsored.

They also existed in Egypt.

I don't have my history wrong. I actually have a degree in it.

 

kardonb

(777 posts)
56. okla...
Sun Jan 26, 2014, 01:53 AM
Jan 2014

the repuke party is fast becoming a BAD JOKE ! Or a new disease : bacterium republicanum ,or serial dementia .

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
5. This is really revealing. If anyone thinks for a moment that your enemy wouldn't just as soon
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 08:43 PM
Jan 2014

burn the country down around us all if they thought there was a chance of you winning, take a look at this.

If they don't get their way they think everyone should just be dead. And they have not a moment's hesitation about it, regardless of how small or large the "thing" is. No different from the person that blow themselves up to kill complete strangers, as is anyone who works in a bipartisan fashion with them.

That's why it's so easy for things like this to come out of their mouths - it's a window into their soul.

pangaia

(24,324 posts)
22. I like very much your comparison to people who blow themselves up.
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 09:40 PM
Jan 2014

Very perceptive...
This is why they really ARE American terrorists.

RKP5637

(67,106 posts)
27. I fear people like this within the US more than "them" over there. It is a window into
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 09:56 PM
Jan 2014

their minds. They are totally fucked up and dangerous in so many ways. This, is just one more example.

atreides1

(16,076 posts)
50. The enemy within
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 11:41 PM
Jan 2014

“A nation can survive its fools, and even the ambitious. But it cannot survive treason from within. An enemy at the gates is less formidable, for he is known and carries his banner openly. But the traitor moves amongst those within the gate freely, his sly whispers rustling through all the alleys, heard in the very halls of government itself. For the traitor appears not a traitor; he speaks in accents familiar to his victims, and he wears their face and their arguments, he appeals to the baseness that lies deep in the hearts of all men. He rots the soul of a nation, he works secretly and unknown in the night to undermine the pillars of the city, he infects the body politic so that it can no longer resist. A murderer is less to fear.”
― Cicero

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
58. Oklahoma has one of the highest divorce rates in the country
Sun Jan 26, 2014, 02:45 AM
Jan 2014

Go figure.

BTW, there was interesting article from the Huffington Post about the irony of red state divorce rates:

'Red' States Have Higher Divorce Rates Than 'Blue' States, And Here's Why
Posted: 01/21/2014
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/01/21/divorce-study_n_4639430.html

It may seem counterintuitive, but divorce rates are higher in religiously conservative "red" states than "blue" states, despite a Bible-based culture that discourages divorce.

In a new study titled "Red States, Blue States, and Divorce: Understanding the Impact of Conservative Protestantism on Regional Variation in Divorce Rates," which will be published later this month in the American Journal of Sociology, demographer and University of Texas at Austin professor Jennifer Glass set out to discover why divorce rates would be higher in religious states like Arkansas and Alabama -- which boast the second and third highest divorce rates, respectively -- but lower in more liberal states like New Jersey and Massachusetts.

It was previously thought that socioeconomic hardships in the South were largely to blame for high divorce rates, however Glass and her fellow researchers concluded that the conservative religious culture is in fact a major contributing factor thanks to "the social institutions they create" that "decrease marital stability."

Specifically, putting pressure on young people to marry sooner, frowning upon cohabitation before marriage, teaching abstinence-only sex education and making access to resources like emergency contraception more difficult all result in earlier childbearing ages and less-solid marriages from the get-go, Glass writes in the paper.... MORE

RKP5637

(67,106 posts)
28. Yep, the republican party now has all of the terrorists, religious nuts and wackos in one
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 10:01 PM
Jan 2014

party. In some ways it's convenient as they collectively demonstrate over and over again what a deranged and delusional party the republican party is. Frankly, I think it's a form of mental illness, yet stated as such. Short of that, it's evident many are misfiring on more than a few cylinders.


quakerboy

(13,920 posts)
44. They are getting wise to the fact that the constitution may protect everyone, not just straights.
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 11:14 PM
Jan 2014

In theory that could leave open the door for all or none, and he is claiming none is preferable to some. Roughly equivalent to doing away with public restrooms rather than integrating them for whites and nonwhites.

My guess is he is not actually for his proposal, but just trying to provoke a reaction among his constituents.

MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
10. How does that even work?
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 09:03 PM
Jan 2014

The state will pretend that the legal designation of marriage doesn't exist any more? It will amend all laws that impinge on the rights and responsibilities of married people? It will amend all child custody laws? Tax laws? Inheritance laws? No marriages from other states will be recognized as valid, and will be considered null-and-void in OK?

RKP5637

(67,106 posts)
31. Republicans are incapable of deductive logical reasoning/decisions, so for the entire state it
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 10:05 PM
Jan 2014

really doesn't matter, It will just add to the F'ed-up-ness of OK.

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
14. Fundies will be very happy
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 09:17 PM
Jan 2014

since Holy Matrimony is only performed in a church before god. ALL civil marriages are not real marriages anyway; gay or straight.

Do some research, or trolling, and you will hear this.

former9thward

(31,987 posts)
15. Disappointing to see posters who call themselves progressive defending
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 09:19 PM
Jan 2014

the most ultra-conservative institution society has. I remember when feminists called marriage legalized rape. How far we have regressed. At least some of us.

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
65. You called in conservative.
Sun Jan 26, 2014, 11:25 AM
Jan 2014

I defend equality under the law. Either you are being purposefully obtuse or you are against equality.

former9thward

(31,987 posts)
67. I am opposed to state sponsored marriage.
Sun Jan 26, 2014, 11:32 AM
Jan 2014

For everybody. It is none of the state's business. You defend a conservative practice.

rurallib

(62,410 posts)
17. hard to believe but I could go along with that
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 09:28 PM
Jan 2014

Let people do what they want in drawing up commitments to each other and get the government out of the interpersonal relations business. Marriage is mostly a religious institution anyway, at least in my opinion.
I saw a lecture many moons ago that stated the first state to regulate marriage was Alabama after the civil war. I think you can figure out why.

rocktivity

(44,576 posts)
19. And what would be the difference between that and civil unions
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 09:31 PM
Jan 2014

which could then by recognized their church of their choice if they wish?


rocktivity

stg81

(351 posts)
21. shockingly - I AGREE! The govt should recognize only civil unions
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 09:36 PM
Jan 2014

If you want a church marriage - go for it. But the government should ignore it. The only marriage that should be recognized by the government is a civil union between two people - get a license at the courthouse.

RKP5637

(67,106 posts)
32. To me, religion has way too much baggage with marriage. I agree, let the civil unions
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 10:09 PM
Jan 2014

be done for legal affairs. Then, as a separate path, they can go off and do the marriage and religion bit only if wanted.

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
41. In California, a civil wedding and a religious rite are two different things.
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 11:08 PM
Jan 2014

The pastor or priest fills out the form for the civil wedding and files it according to state law, but no one is required to have the religious wedding.

RKP5637

(67,106 posts)
43. To me, that is excellent. We want to get married for legal purposes, but could care less
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 11:14 PM
Jan 2014

about the religious part.

riqster

(13,986 posts)
54. Ohio law cares not one bit about the religious aspect
Sun Jan 26, 2014, 12:08 AM
Jan 2014

We were married by a shaman. Perfectly legal.

 

Burf-_-

(205 posts)
25. just when i think TEXAS has won stupid....
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 09:46 PM
Jan 2014

BAM... my own home state.... out stupids them.... Gotta love that red river rivalry... GO SOONERS !! ....

RKP5637

(67,106 posts)
26. These people are absolute assholes. Why don't they suceed, maybe that would solve their
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 09:52 PM
Jan 2014

problems and allow them to have their totally fucked up state. We don't even drive through Oklahoma, we drive around it.

Lint Head

(15,064 posts)
30. We don't wanna wedding date! We just wanna fornicate!
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 10:04 PM
Jan 2014

Rah rah sisk boom bah! No more Momma no more Pa! Oklahoma blah blah blah!

niyad

(113,275 posts)
38. thank you for posting this. I reallllly needed the laugh.
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 10:39 PM
Jan 2014

of course, if all marriages are banned, that means no adultery, no illegitimate children, no marital rape exceptions, domestic violence treated as actual assault, etc., etc., yes??
guess marriage counselors, divorce attorneys, etc., would all have to find new lines of work. and what will that mean for wedding planners, wedding dress companies, bakeries, florists, not to mention city coffers?

quakerboy

(13,920 posts)
46. The first half yes
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 11:21 PM
Jan 2014

Also, no divorce, a complete redefinition of custody issues, property concerns, etc.

But an end to marriage as a legal device doesn't end it as a social or religious custom. Baptisms and first communion and babys first snake handling all still go on unabated. Those jobs are fairly safe, I think.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
49. He got this from Rand Paul:
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 11:32 PM
Jan 2014
Tea Party GOP Candidate Rand Paul Rails Against Same-Sex Marriage

http://thenewcivilrightsmovement.com/tea-party-gop-candidate-rand-paul-rails-against-same-sex-marriage/politics/2010/10/16/13853

Rand Paul Wants To Abolish Department Of Education So Kids Don’t Have To Learn About ‘Two Mommies’

http://thinkprogress.org/politics/2010/10/15/124465/paul-kids-moms/

This is another rant about Paul's views on gays, and everything.

http://www.nationalmemo.com/add-same-sex-marriage-to-the-list-of-things-rand-paul-doesnt-understand/

This link ncludes a *wonderful* video with Bryan Fischer's show! They sound almost reasonable. Bring the barf bag anyway.

Another video I posted on Fischer's support for Duck Dynasty shows Fischer's true love is Libertarianism. He began with a few Bible verses, waxed orgasmic on Libertarianism and then approved of Duck Dynasty's views.

The only links I can find that explain Rand Paul's method to deny gays the right to marriage are from RW sites, Rush, Freeperville, Fox. The plan is to keep marriage out of the tax code.

But you can see the background on what this man thinks and is doing. He's well schooled in his father's views, a full libertarian corporatist, but will get support among many who say they are liberal, I guess.

His ideas are from the Victorian era and will end democracy world wide. The only freedoms will be for the wealthy. He showed his desire for private militias in a video I posted, too. Sickening.

 

Nanjing to Seoul

(2,088 posts)
51. You're traveling through another dimension, a dimension not only of hate and crass but of stupidity
Sat Jan 25, 2014, 11:50 PM
Jan 2014

a journey into a horrific land whose boundaries are that of irrational thought. That's the signpost up ahead; your next stop...the Republican Zone.

(my apologies to Rod Serling)

WhoWoodaKnew

(847 posts)
55. "Mark my word, if and when these preachers get control of the [Republican] party,...
Sun Jan 26, 2014, 01:31 AM
Jan 2014

and they're sure trying to do so, it's going to be a terrible damn problem. Frankly, these people frighten me. Politics and governing demand compromise. But these Christians believe they are acting in the name of God, so they can't and won't compromise. I know, I've tried to deal with them."

Barry Goldwater 1988)

Paladin

(28,254 posts)
68. Do it, Turner.
Sun Jan 26, 2014, 11:45 AM
Jan 2014

Learn for yourself how powerful, money-drenched, and well-connected the Wedding Industry is, even in Oklahoma.
Latest Discussions»Latest Breaking News»Oklahoma Republican’s bil...