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sl8

(13,748 posts)
Tue May 8, 2018, 05:28 PM May 2018

He searched for his Japanese birth mother. He found her -- and the restaurant she had named after him

From https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/inspired-life/wp/2018/05/08/he-searched-for-his-japanese-birth-mother-he-found-her-and-the-restaurant-she-had-named-after-him/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.5e05cbd2b018

He searched for his Japanese birth mother. He found her — and the restaurant she had named after him.

By Kathryn Tolbert May 8 at 8:00 AM


Bruce Hollywood with his mother, Nobue Ouchi. (Courtesy of Bruce Hollywood)

It began with a heart attack in the Pentagon parking lot in pre-dawn darkness. Air Force Col. Bruce Hollywood was on his way to work and found himself on the ground, thinking: “This is where it ends.”

Later, as he lay in the ambulance racing to Walter Reed Army Hospital, two regrets popped into his head. One was that he wouldn’t be able to help his son with his college applications. The other was that he never thanked the Japanese woman who gave birth to him, then gave him up for adoption in 1960.

Hollywood was adopted by an American couple who were stationed in Japan with the U.S. military and who could offer him a good life in America.

It took that heart attack in 2005 for Hollywood to set out to find his birth mother, something his adoptive mother, who had passed away, had repeatedly encouraged him to do. Before that, he said, he never felt something was missing. His adoption was not something he had reflected on much.

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He searched for his Japanese birth mother. He found her -- and the restaurant she had named after him (Original Post) sl8 May 2018 OP
Beautiful story and picture.. whathehell May 2018 #1
Thank you! Shanti Mama May 2018 #2
It is sad that racism within society made a loving mother feel she had no choice but StevieM May 2018 #3
Wonderful story GeoWilliam750 May 2018 #4

Shanti Mama

(1,288 posts)
2. Thank you!
Tue May 8, 2018, 06:57 PM
May 2018

I'm an adoptive mother of an Asian child who knows her birth family. And she loves all things Japanese. This filled me heart. I sent it to her.

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
3. It is sad that racism within society made a loving mother feel she had no choice but
Tue May 8, 2018, 07:09 PM
May 2018

to allow her mixed-race baby to be adopted.

She obviously loved him very much and would have liked to keep him.

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