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appalachiablue

(41,131 posts)
Sun Sep 13, 2020, 09:16 PM Sep 2020

'From A Stable Job To A Tent: A Waiter's Homeless Struggle'

'From a stable job to a tent: A waiter’s homeless struggle.' By Kelli Kennedy, AP News, Sept. 12, 2020.

FORT LAUDERDALE, Fla. (AP) — Jeff Lello has never been rich, but the 42-year-old could pocket $100 cash most weekend nights at the steakhouse chain where he waited tables. He always had enough money for groceries, his car and the modest Orlando apartment he rented with roommates. But when he reported for work on a Friday night in March, the manager ushered him and the rest of the staff into an office and told them they were laid off indefinitely as the restaurant, along with much of the country, shut down amid the coronavirus pandemic.



- Jeff Lello stands in front of the van in which he lives, in the parking lot of a Cracker Barrel restaurant, since being laid off due to the coronavirus pandemic, Aug. 21, 2020, in Orlando, Fla. Lello is one of an estimated 20 million Americans living paycheck to paycheck, spending more than 30% of their income on rent, who are likely to experience homelessness at some point, according to the National Coalition for the Homeless. (AP Photo/P. M. Ebenhack) -

Still wearing his uniform, Lello left the restaurant where he’d worked for two years, unsure of what was next. He’d been waiting tables since he was a teenager. He often picked up extra shifts and could always scrimp by. He’d never had to rely on food stamps or unemployment. But now, as he waited for Florida’s backlogged unemployment system to send money, weeks turned into months. His meager savings dried up, and he could no longer afford rent or his car. Overnight, he went from having a roof over his head to living in a flimsy tent purchased with his last $75.

Lello is one of an estimated 20 million Americans living paycheck to paycheck, spending more than 30% of their income on rent, who are likely to experience homelessness at some point, according to the National Coalition for the Homeless. The group predicts that number could increase by 45% because of the pandemic. As the virus outbreak pushed unemployment rates to record numbers, Florida’s situation was especially dire. The Sunshine State was one of the slowest in the nation to process claims, delaying payments for months for Lello and others. By mid-June, the state hadn’t paid 40% of is 2.2 million claims.
“I don’t understand what I did wrong. Why me?” Lello said of the safety nets that failed him. “I had just lost all hope in everything.”

He’d never been much of a camper, but he pitched his yellow-and-blue tent deep in the woods. He feared bugs and spiders, and other homeless campers. Inside, he had a cot with a sleeping bag, and a shelf for food and belongings.
One corner was for clean clothes, the other for dirty. He threw a tarp over the top to protect against rain. Lello thrives on routine — he’d lost 150 pounds in the past year, running daily to clear his head. He was eager to maintain hard-fought gains. Most days, he was awake by 7 a.m., searching for a convenience-store bathroom to freshen up and wash a shirt. He’d head to the food bank and haul away a big brown bag of pasta, sauce and other things that require pots, pans and electricity. He gave most of it away, keeping peanut butter and granola bars — enough to get by for a day...

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'From A Stable Job To A Tent: A Waiter's Homeless Struggle' (Original Post) appalachiablue Sep 2020 OP
Donald tRump's America Blue Owl Sep 2020 #1
This man who did nothing wrong is one of way too many appalachiablue Sep 2020 #2
Well said! Blue Owl Sep 2020 #3
This man who did nothing wrong? Backseat Driver Aug 2022 #4

Blue Owl

(50,352 posts)
1. Donald tRump's America
Sun Sep 13, 2020, 09:31 PM
Sep 2020

Living in a car, no insurance, unable to get a job because tRump fucked up the entire system.

Thanks, Donald!

appalachiablue

(41,131 posts)
2. This man who did nothing wrong is one of way too many
Sun Sep 13, 2020, 10:18 PM
Sep 2020

Americans stressed and suffering under a brutal, inept administration escalating destabilization, corruption and the fast decline of institutions, human rights and democracy. It has to end, before it's too late.

In another 4 or 8 years of this what will the U.S. look like?; we can't wait to find out. Many Americans like this waiter in Fla. have worked hard and deserve a fair chance and decent life. The financial resources exist.

What's happening in the wealthiest nation in the world is truly a national and global disgrace.

Blue Owl

(50,352 posts)
3. Well said!
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 01:11 AM
Sep 2020

I shudder to think what the USA would look like under another 4 years of the unmentionable -- let alone 8...

Backseat Driver

(4,390 posts)
4. This man who did nothing wrong?
Fri Aug 5, 2022, 02:54 PM
Aug 2022

He's needed a life coach for a long time if he's been doing the same work that he did as a teen-ager. Where is his family of origin; his parents, uncles, or siblings? HS grad? Community college? Military service?

Did he have previous serious jail time served? Was there abuse and/or serious illness in his family? Did he think he'd make good forever betting that one rich Floridian or more at a steakhouse would leave him a huge tip that would solve all future obstacles?

Does he have an overly prideful, racially privileged attitude? It's a fair question for one stuck in Florida these days. No longer, I'm guessing, yet I'm well aware that there are those that have/had all of those life experiences that are still struggling to find the self-esteem to continue fighting for a satisfying life's journey while social safety nets disappear. It's very sad. A 42 year old should not be despairing of having a long, healthy, useful life.

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