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After 46 Years Together, Grandfathers Tie the Knot (Original Post) William769 Jan 2014 OP
They won't feel different unless tragedy strikes Warpy Jan 2014 #1
I disagree eggplant Jan 2014 #9
Recommended..... NYC_SKP Jan 2014 #2
Look at that smile. William769 Jan 2014 #3
Hooray! shenmue Jan 2014 #4
Adorable! Cha Jan 2014 #5
Aw. progressoid Jan 2014 #6
Hurrah! beac Jan 2014 #7
Huge K&R Iwillnevergiveup Jan 2014 #8
Nice. Warren DeMontague Jan 2014 #10

Warpy

(111,166 posts)
1. They won't feel different unless tragedy strikes
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 05:28 PM
Jan 2014

In that case, the survivor will be allowed into the ICU for visits and the survivor will be able to plan the funeral for the love of his life.

These are human rights not granted by contract law. It takes marriage.

eggplant

(3,908 posts)
9. I disagree
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 03:39 AM
Jan 2014

I lived with my wife for eight years before we tied the knot, and for all intents and purposes we were married. We had comingled finances, joint titles on our cars, you name it. I was even able to file as head of household and deduct her because she was a student living with me more than half the year and I was paying her expenses. We even referred to each other as husband and wife because it simplified dealing with people.

But getting married still made things different. Sure, there are all of the rights that are gained (and that is huge), but that's not what makes it different. Marriage isn't something you can simulate with civil unions, health care proxies, and wills. It's much, much more to the couple themselves.

I wish them all the best.

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