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Angry mother beats son for participating in Baltimore riots (Original Post) BeyondGeography Apr 2015 OP
That scene doesn't look like a riot. Kid's got his school backpack on. Police wouldn't let the kids libdem4life Apr 2015 #1
Curious about something Ruby the Liberal Apr 2015 #8
I didn't notice that ... but the kids throwing rocks didn't have backpacks and hoodies on. libdem4life Apr 2015 #10
Its in the video Ruby the Liberal Apr 2015 #11
Well, I raised a son and there's no accounting for some of the things teenagers do...referring libdem4life Apr 2015 #12
Here's more from the mother...she was thinking pretty clearly, imo BeyondGeography Apr 2015 #14
she's a black woman trying to get her black son to adulthood. I would slap his ass too. I am roguevalley Apr 2015 #19
Well, slapping his ass is last century...some persist, I acknowledge. libdem4life Apr 2015 #24
so was lynching. They have now substituted guns for ropes. Slapping a kid's ass for making himself roguevalley Apr 2015 #45
I saw a couple of other guys in hoodies nt LiberalElite Apr 2015 #13
Looked to me like everyone in the video was wearing cold weather gear. N/T Malraiders Apr 2015 #30
Oh goodness yeoman6987 Apr 2015 #2
I hate this jehop61 Apr 2015 #3
However you feel about it BeyondGeography Apr 2015 #4
Not having him dead was on her mind donnasgirl Apr 2015 #5
A mother's love of her son is the most impotant thing at the moment. She is protecting him Thinkingabout Apr 2015 #6
Exactly donnasgirl Apr 2015 #7
yep. like a momma bear or a raccoon momma. pansypoo53219 Apr 2015 #9
Too bad Some Cops didn't have their Mothers doing the Same eom LarryNM Apr 2015 #15
Most likely they did...the old spare the rod and spoil the child. I raised a son and never once libdem4life Apr 2015 #17
I Agree. LarryNM Apr 2015 #18
Why not, if, IF he was throwing rocks at police, as this report reported progree Apr 2015 #21
Angry Mom Beats Son...Am I the only one that gets this? You NEVER strike a child. Never. It just libdem4life Apr 2015 #16
This news report say differently, FWIW progree Apr 2015 #20
Allegedly...right..we know the MSM always gets it right. So, I get it. Police violence is terrible libdem4life Apr 2015 #23
No, definitely ski mask weather. progree Apr 2015 #25
Really grasping for straws there, and off topic. Weather had Nothing To Do With It. Kid wears ski libdem4life Apr 2015 #28
The ski mask and the hoodie up was so wouldn't be identified by surveillance cameras while progree Apr 2015 #31
Oh yes, I've been in the business, as they say, for decades. It used to be 100%, so progress. Why libdem4life Apr 2015 #34
"How about cops?" I agree they resort to violence way too often progree Apr 2015 #35
good grief to all the hand-wringing over a teenage kid getting smacked upside the head geek tragedy Apr 2015 #22
Hand-wringing??? No, just someone standing up for kids...especially those just watching. I didn't libdem4life Apr 2015 #26
I don't think he was just standing around watching progree Apr 2015 #29
No one said they weren't "on the street". That's pretty damn clear. They had no way home. libdem4life Apr 2015 #32
Child beating. Oh for Chrissakes, she wasn't hurting the much taller kid. progree Apr 2015 #33
Tanks...rioting....police. Was he supposed to have broken bones or bleed, FFS? Reread the title. libdem4life Apr 2015 #36
The news report said she saw him throwing rocks at the police. progree Apr 2015 #37
"Reread the title" - OK, I did progree Apr 2015 #39
"I blame the police for the kids all being there...they would not allow them to get on their buses" progree Apr 2015 #40
It was a long tweet from one of the teachers...that when school let out, they were not allowed on libdem4life Apr 2015 #41
And ann--- Apr 2015 #27
Which one? The mother for disciplining her son or the kid if he was actually throwing rocks cstanleytech Apr 2015 #38
Eyewitnesses: The Baltimore Riots Didn't Start the Way You Think...Important News Article libdem4life Apr 2015 #42
Do you know what she was yelling at her son? Koch Ebola Apr 2015 #43
Well put...concise...so true. libdem4life Apr 2015 #44
One thing we all can agree on.. liberaltrucker Apr 2015 #46
 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
1. That scene doesn't look like a riot. Kid's got his school backpack on. Police wouldn't let the kids
Tue Apr 28, 2015, 04:32 PM
Apr 2015

on their school buses, as per a teacher's twitter account. This poor kid ... cops and a violent Mom. She is probably scared for him, too. Hope she sees what she looks like.

Ruby the Liberal

(26,219 posts)
11. Its in the video
Tue Apr 28, 2015, 07:05 PM
Apr 2015

She kept trying to rip the hood/mask off his face (along with smacking the crap out of him).

Look at what she is wearing as a reference to the weather...

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
12. Well, I raised a son and there's no accounting for some of the things teenagers do...referring
Tue Apr 28, 2015, 07:24 PM
Apr 2015

to his dress...not to rioting. And I taught school. Look at the rest of the kids...they weren't rioting. Remember, they had no way to go home...the busses were locked down. The only angry person in that video I saw was the Mother. Sorry, IMO, she was the one out of control.

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
19. she's a black woman trying to get her black son to adulthood. I would slap his ass too. I am
Tue Apr 28, 2015, 11:49 PM
Apr 2015

sure that all she could think of no matter what is how close he is to the cop's guns.

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
45. so was lynching. They have now substituted guns for ropes. Slapping a kid's ass for making himself
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 01:39 PM
Apr 2015

a target by doing something in a charged atmosphere that is an excuse to be shot by idiots is self preservation these days. That child might just make it to adulthood without getting gunned down for a stupid move. That I acknowledge. Unfortunately.

jehop61

(1,735 posts)
3. I hate this
Tue Apr 28, 2015, 04:43 PM
Apr 2015

Not the way to parent. Humiliating him in front of cameras will just alienate and anger him further. Perhaps her parenting by violence is why he joined the rioters. Sad.

Thinkingabout

(30,058 posts)
6. A mother's love of her son is the most impotant thing at the moment. She is protecting him
Tue Apr 28, 2015, 05:26 PM
Apr 2015

though he may not see it now but she doesn't want him to die.

donnasgirl

(656 posts)
7. Exactly
Tue Apr 28, 2015, 05:32 PM
Apr 2015

People in this Country have forgotten what it is to bury a Child, most can say they can imagine but truly have no idea what that is like. My Grand mother buried all but one of her children and I will never forget the hurt she endured doing so and my husband also watched two of his siblings buried, there are no words to describe the hurt, so a slap on the head is a small price to pay as far as I am concerned.

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
17. Most likely they did...the old spare the rod and spoil the child. I raised a son and never once
Tue Apr 28, 2015, 11:04 PM
Apr 2015

lifted my hand against him...never. I taught school and they did not allow teachers to hit children. They used to, but we learned how not to. It never was needed. It's training. Perhaps some family counseling.

progree

(10,901 posts)
21. Why not, if, IF he was throwing rocks at police, as this report reported
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 12:26 AM
Apr 2015
http://news.yahoo.com/mom-why-one-baltimore-woman-disciplined-her-son-183200946.html

allegedly discovered her masked son participating in the Baltimore riots on Monday afternoon. ... reportedly finds her son, clad in black, in the midst of the riots. Baltimore’s ABC affiliate WMAR filmed the encounter, and reported that the mother caught her son throwing rocks at the police.


[font color = blue]>>Just that such actions seem to get favorable treatment when it is done to a "rioter".<<[/font]
 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
16. Angry Mom Beats Son...Am I the only one that gets this? You NEVER strike a child. Never. It just
Tue Apr 28, 2015, 11:00 PM
Apr 2015

shows a lack of self-control. Flame away. This is the same twisted logic that got us to this place.
That kid is not rioting, nor are the rest of the group. Again, these are kids that couldn't get on the freaking bus to go home or are curious about a Big Deal going on.

progree

(10,901 posts)
20. This news report say differently, FWIW
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 12:25 AM
Apr 2015
http://news.yahoo.com/mom-why-one-baltimore-woman-disciplined-her-son-183200946.html

allegedly discovered her masked son participating in the Baltimore riots on Monday afternoon. ... reportedly finds her son, clad in black, in the midst of the riots. Baltimore’s ABC affiliate WMAR filmed the encounter, and reported that the mother caught her son throwing rocks at the police.


& wearing a ski mask in 70 degree weather

[font color = blue]>>That kid is not rioting, nor are the rest of the group. Again, these are kids that couldn't get on the freaking bus to go home or are curious about a Big Deal going on.<<[/font]

True, not rioting then and there in that video clip, but didn't mean she didn't see him earlier ...
 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
23. Allegedly...right..we know the MSM always gets it right. So, I get it. Police violence is terrible
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 11:25 AM
Apr 2015

Rock throwers violence???(rocks)??? against tanks and armored vehicles military police (Think Gaza...looked just like it) very terrible. Parents beating kids...just peachy.

Again...Parents beating children (I guarantee you that wasn't the first time) is Never Ever Ever OK. They learn from adults how to behave as adults...including police families. She would be arrested for child abuse in some places.

As to the weather...lots of the kids had long sleeved hoodies...when you leave to get on buses early in the morning, it's not 70 degrees.

I don't know whether the schools in Maryland are allowed "corporal punishment",but if so, these kids get hassled at home, at school and out of school by police...when there usually are no adults to supervise. Most schools have outlawed it for good reason. Teachers are now trained with alternative ways to discipline.

Let's go back to the top: killing innocent black men is Murder...aka Freddie Gray, et al ... Expressing fear and hatred by Throwing Rocks is wrong. Beating children...anyone...is Wrong.

progree

(10,901 posts)
25. No, definitely ski mask weather.
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 11:45 AM
Apr 2015

The films I saw of rocks being thrown at police weren't at armored vehicles.

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
28. Really grasping for straws there, and off topic. Weather had Nothing To Do With It. Kid wears ski
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 11:51 AM
Apr 2015

mask, gets beaten by mother. Straw argument. That mom lost her authority long before this incident. Wonder why.

progree

(10,901 posts)
31. The ski mask and the hoodie up was so wouldn't be identified by surveillance cameras while
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 12:10 PM
Apr 2015

(reportedly) throwing rocks at police. So not off topic at all.

I saw a recent survey of parents, and about 70% IIRC said that corporeal punishment was sometimes necessary. So I think you are in the minority (which doesn't make you wrong).

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
34. Oh yes, I've been in the business, as they say, for decades. It used to be 100%, so progress. Why
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 12:18 PM
Apr 2015

do you think no one peeps or don't believe or ct when police beat people up? This isn't the first month that has happened. We wouldn't have this expose on violence if it wasn't for the cell phone.

Back in the 70s, teachers were required to report evidence of home violence or abuse of any kind. It was our duty, and not one taken lightly.

How about cops? You know, slamming people down, et al. That used to be OK too...until the cell phone...thank god it has shown us the underbelly of the Privilege of Violence.

This mother has humiliated herself and her son. The cops have outed themselves. Now, society will progress.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
22. good grief to all the hand-wringing over a teenage kid getting smacked upside the head
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 11:21 AM
Apr 2015

by his mother who's significantly shorter, as she tries to keep his fool ass from getting Freddie Grayed as he's rioting (throwing rocks at police counts as rioting).





 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
26. Hand-wringing??? No, just someone standing up for kids...especially those just watching. I didn't
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 11:46 AM
Apr 2015

see one kid in the "riot photos throwing rocks" dressed in a sweatshirt with a backpack on.

And if those still smacking kids upside the head, I humbly suggest there are ever so many more appropriate ways than to teach a kid that when a parent is angry...for whatever reason, it's perfectly OK to strike out in violence. They need to learn to train the kid...not in violence and hit them...but how to resolve problems...both of them.

And yes I know, many (myself included) were beaten as children at home and at school, especially my generation, it did No Good. If we turned out well, it wasn't because of the beatings/spankings, it was in spite of them. It wasn't that I didn't forgive my mother ,I did...later. But I never had a close relationship with her. I guarantee you that's what's in store in this case.

I never lifted a hand against my son...and he was ADHD...sometimes it was really, really hard not to even just "manhandle" him...you know, shake him up, push him on the couch to "listen". In the beginning sometimes I had to almost hold on my own hand, it was so ingrained, but I had made a vow never to hit him. It got easier.

We can agree to disagree. But you'll find precious little literature from professionals and child advocates in this decade, other then religious folk still using "the rod", who encourage or apologize for violent punishment. It just isn't OK anymore. The police are going to learn this, as well. Then we'll be further on the path of civilization.

progree

(10,901 posts)
29. I don't think he was just standing around watching
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 12:00 PM
Apr 2015

[font color = blue]>>especially those just watching. <<[/font]

Not sure that's true in this case.

Baltimore’s ABC affiliate WMAR filmed the encounter, and reported that the mother caught her son throwing rocks at the police.

http://news.yahoo.com/mom-why-one-baltimore-woman-disciplined-her-son-183200946.htm
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[font color = blue]>>I didn't see one kid in the "riot photos throwing rocks" dressed in a sweatshirt with a backpack on.<<[/font]

I did.

Many of those on the streets appeared to be African-American youths, wearing backpacks and khaki pants that are a part of many public school uniforms.

http://www.wjla.com/articles/2015/04/breaking-news-protesters-throwing-bricks-near-baltimore-mall-met-by-police-in-riot-gear-113555.html

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
32. No one said they weren't "on the street". That's pretty damn clear. They had no way home.
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 12:11 PM
Apr 2015

Tanks with turrets, full riot gear, military presence, a senselessly dead kid and another kid throws rocks. They didn't show the part about "throwing rocks...which they say they "saw". The apologists for violence here give cause to pause. How many times have we heard in the last few days, Violence Is Never the Answer. Well, except for the violence we like.

Apparently child beating doesn't fall within that category? It was justified.

progree

(10,901 posts)
33. Child beating. Oh for Chrissakes, she wasn't hurting the much taller kid.
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 12:13 PM
Apr 2015

Unlike getting hit by a rock or a brick of the size that I've seen being thrown.

The report said the mother saw her kid throwing rocks at police. I don't know what tanks and all that have to do with it.

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
36. Tanks...rioting....police. Was he supposed to have broken bones or bleed, FFS? Reread the title.
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 12:24 PM
Apr 2015

She needs parenting classes...they need counseling...both of them. I blame the police for the kids all being there...they would not allow them to get on their buses. Comments?

progree

(10,901 posts)
37. The news report said she saw him throwing rocks at the police.
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 12:25 PM
Apr 2015
http://news.yahoo.com/mom-why-one-baltimore-woman-disciplined-her-son-183200946.html

allegedly discovered her masked son participating in the Baltimore riots on Monday afternoon. ... reportedly finds her son, clad in black, in the midst of the riots. Baltimore’s ABC affiliate WMAR filmed the encounter, and reported that the mother caught her son throwing rocks at the police.

progree

(10,901 posts)
39. "Reread the title" - OK, I did
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 12:32 PM
Apr 2015

I assume you mean the OP's title. It says:

"Angry mother beats son for participating in Baltimore riots"

Participating in riots doesn't mean standing around waiting for the bus. Especially if that WMAR news report is correct, that she saw him throwing rocks at the police.

progree

(10,901 posts)
40. "I blame the police for the kids all being there...they would not allow them to get on their buses"
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 12:37 PM
Apr 2015

I hadn't heard that aspect of the story before...

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
41. It was a long tweet from one of the teachers...that when school let out, they were not allowed on
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 12:41 PM
Apr 2015

buses. Police had the buses locked down. I'll look for the quote. Funny, the media missed that little item. They missed lots of items and ginned up others. That's what they do. They share much blame in this, too. Not a peep about police brutality. Not a peet about how many charges had been brought up and "fines" paid by the City (i.e. the taxpayer)

cstanleytech

(26,281 posts)
38. Which one? The mother for disciplining her son or the kid if he was actually throwing rocks
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 12:31 PM
Apr 2015

at police?

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
42. Eyewitnesses: The Baltimore Riots Didn't Start the Way You Think...Important News Article
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 12:58 PM
Apr 2015

Mother Jones...RightWingers can go to Goodle "Baltimore Teacher Tweet" if you don't like MJ.

Eyewitnesses: The Baltimore Riots Didn't Start the Way You Think
Baltimore teachers and parents tell a different story from the one you've been reading in the media.

—By Sam Brodey and Jenna McLaughlin
| Tue Apr. 28, 2015 6:00 PM EDT


Patrick Semansky/AP

After Baltimore police and a crowd of teens clashed near the Mondawmin Mall in northwest Baltimore on Monday afternoon, news reports described the violence as a riot triggered by kids who had been itching for a fight all day. But in interviews with Mother Jones and other media outlets, teachers and parents maintain that police actions inflamed a tense-but-stable situation.

More coverage of the protests in Baltimore.

Orioles Exec: It's Inequality, Stupid

The funeral of Freddie Gray, a 25-year-old black man who died in police custody this month, had ended hours earlier at a nearby church. According to the Baltimore Sun, a call to "purge"—a reference to the 2013 dystopian film in which all crime is made legal for one night—circulated on social media among school-aged Baltimoreans that morning. The rumored plan—which was not traced to any specific person or group—was to assemble at the Mondawmin Mall at 3:00 p.m. and proceed down Pennsylvania Avenue toward downtown Baltimore. The Baltimore police department, which was aware of the "purge" call, prepared for the worst. Shortly before noon, the department issued a statement saying it had "received credible information that members of various gangs…have entered into a partnership to 'take-out' law enforcement officers."

When school let out that afternoon, police were in the area equipped with full riot gear. According to eyewitnesses in the Mondawmin neighborhood, the police were stopping busses and forcing riders, including many students who were trying to get home, to disembark. Cops shut down the local subway stop. They also blockaded roads near the Mondawmin Mall and Frederick Douglass High School, which is across the street from the mall, and essentially corralled young people in the area. That is, they did not allow the after-school crowd to disperse.

Meghann Harris, a teacher at a nearby school, described on Facebook what happened:

Police were forcing busses to stop and unload all their passengers. Then, [Frederick Douglass High School] students, in huge herds, were trying to leave on various busses but couldn't catch any because they were all shut down. No kids were yet around except about 20, who looked like they were waiting for police to do something. The cops, on the other hand, were in full riot gear, marching toward any small social clique of students…It looked as if there were hundreds of cops.

The kids were "standing around in groups of 3-4," Harris said in a Facebook message to Mother Jones. "They weren't doing anything. No rock throwing, nothing…The cops started marching toward groups of kids who were just milling about."


A teacher at Douglass High School, who asked not to be identified, tells a similar story: "When school was winding down, many students were leaving early with their parents or of their own accord." Those who didn't depart early, she says, were stranded. Many of the students still at school at that point, she notes, wanted to get out of the area and avoid any Purge-like violence. Some were requesting rides home from teachers. But by now, it was difficult to leave the neighborhood. "I rode with another teacher home," this teacher recalls, "and we had to route our travel around the police in riot gear blocking the road… The majority of my students thought what was going to happen was stupid or were frightened at the idea. Very few seemed to want to participate in 'the purge.'"

A parent who picked up his children from a nearby elementary school, says via Twitter, "The kids stood across from the police and looked like they were asking them 'why can't we get on the buses' but the police were just gazing…Majority of those kids aren't from around that neighborhood. They NEED those buses and trains in order to get home." He continued: "If they would've let them children go home, yesterday wouldn't have even turned out like that."

Meg Gibson, another Baltimore teacher, described a similar scene to Gawker: "The riot police were already at the bus stop on the other side of the mall, turning buses that transport the students away, not allowing students to board. They were waiting for the kids.…Those kids were set up, they were treated like criminals before the first brick was thrown." With police unloading busses, and with the nearby metro station shut down, there were few ways for students to clear out.

Several eyewitnesses in the area that afternoon say that police seemed to arrive at Mondawmin anticipating mobs and violence—prior to any looting. At 3:01 p.m., the Baltimore Police Department posted on its Facebook page: "There is a group of juveniles in the area of Mondawmin Mall. Expect traffic delays in the area." But many of the kids, according to eyewitnesses, were stuck there because of police actions.

The Baltimore Police Department did not respond to requests for comment.

Around 3:30, the police reported that juveniles had begun to throw bottles and bricks. Fifteen minutes later, the police department noted that one of its officers had been injured. After that the violence escalated, and rioters started looting the Mondawmin Mall, and Baltimore was in for a long night of trouble and violence. But as the event is reviewed and investigated, an important question warrants attention: What might have happened had the police not prevented students from leaving the area? Did the department's own actions increase the chances of conflict?

As Meghann Harris put it, "if I were a Douglas student that just got trapped in the middle of a minefield BY cops without any way to get home and completely in harm's way, I'd be ready to pop off, too."

On social media, eyewitnesses chronicled the dramatic police presence before the rioting began:






 

Koch Ebola

(831 posts)
43. Do you know what she was yelling at her son?
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 01:04 PM
Apr 2015

Don't ever Slap! get involved in SLAP! Violence!!!! Slap! Slap! Unquote. I don't about you but the word, "hypocrisy" could be applicable here

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