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Trump emboldened white woman calls cops on Black couple bar- b- queing in the Park (Original Post) tomhagen May 2018 OP
Hope her job finds out about this and fires her. lark May 2018 #1
This white woman is STUPID. CaliforniaPeggy May 2018 #2
The ugly is strong in that one. trusty elf May 2018 #3
It's her twin Lulu Mae joe_stampingbull May 2018 #29
Now being an openly racist coward calling the police on black people just living... brush May 2018 #4
White people will have to call out other white peoples racism. irisblue May 2018 #5
Eventually we as white liberals will have to stand the ground for the Eliot Rosewater May 2018 #51
So how did this drama end? infullview May 2018 #6
pooooooorr, delicate, scared little snowflake. niyad May 2018 #7
youre correct. But heres the kicker..the fear is REAL (and I have absolutley NO idea why). Volaris May 2018 #43
I gave up being afraid at the height of the cold war, when the air raid sirens went niyad May 2018 #60
We the people freshman22 May 2018 #8
I'm white and we are sick of it too. MythosMaster May 2018 #11
I'm an old white woman--and I am sick of this crap too.I have been telling people for decades niyad May 2018 #22
Another old white woman here. May I join you on the bench? sarge43 May 2018 #31
scooting over, and patting seat--lots of room, comfy bench! niyad May 2018 #32
Why thank you. sarge43 May 2018 #35
all of you are the best!! niyad May 2018 #61
another old white woman here Randomthought May 2018 #36
Oh, count me in. Polly Hennessey May 2018 #53
scooting over--welcome. niyad May 2018 #63
welcome!!!! niyad May 2018 #62
Is that a feature or a bug? Anon-C May 2018 #52
I was sick and tired of it 40 years ago grantcart May 2018 #44
A sullen racist gets called out and reacts like a sullen racist RVN VET71 May 2018 #9
This is sickening.... Upthevibe May 2018 #10
Would like to know how this turned out packman May 2018 #12
See my post #17 Yonnie3 May 2018 #18
She had nothing better to do for two hours? jberryhill May 2018 #13
Oh, the drama! eissa May 2018 #14
The video references a blog that indicates the cops did nothing, but the woman came back hours later SunSeeker May 2018 #20
Should have invited her to stay and wash up the dishes. KY_EnviroGuy May 2018 #30
She sounds like some of the people in my HOA geardaddy May 2018 #38
What an absolute piece of shit. geardaddy May 2018 #15
Why was she allowed to buy a phone.......................... turbinetree May 2018 #16
and the rest of the story. Yonnie3 May 2018 #17
Thanks C Moon May 2018 #45
To paraphrase Gilbert Gottfried in Beverly Hills Cop.... paleotn May 2018 #49
Interesting how people behave when they're unsure of themselves. bmpbmp May 2018 #19
The expression on the first officers face was priceless. madaboutharry May 2018 #21
I would'a been laughing at her sorry ass. 3Hotdogs May 2018 #33
Sounds like she calls the police a lot askyagerz May 2018 #23
It is fortunate that she was not armed. Provocateurs of privilege often are. Remember Trayvon. Marcuse May 2018 #24
That woman is nuts and needs to get a life. avebury May 2018 #25
Another self absorbed brainwashed butterfly LiberalLovinLug May 2018 #26
What is John George (Idiot says at about the 15 minute mark avebury May 2018 #27
I knew that was Lake Merritt!!! I was born right by there ... mr_lebowski May 2018 #28
apparently, the police say they don't actually bother with the charcoal grill thing. niyad May 2018 #34
The rule is probably to prevent kids in bare feet from stepping on hot coals. Hassin Bin Sober May 2018 #50
They said she made racist remarks, she also lied about them assaulting her. bettyellen May 2018 #56
Should have let the crazy women alone. kacekwl May 2018 #37
WOW RayStar May 2018 #39
The one stalking and taking video ? If so, I agree. Trust Buster May 2018 #40
Really? RhodeIslandOne May 2018 #54
So I FF'ed through a lot of this. How is it determined that she is "trump emboldened" JDC May 2018 #41
but she is NOT a "racist". stop calling her that. eye roll. pansypoo53219 May 2018 #42
So often they play the "it's for the children" card, too. C Moon May 2018 #46
Obnoxious racist woman, maybe off a bit too. She has nothing better appalachiablue May 2018 #47
If they were grilling and stuck a big chicken leg in her face............ Bengus81 May 2018 #48
MFG! Duppers May 2018 #55
All she had to do was give the damned card back. She was asking for it. Lil Missy May 2018 #57
Stationary pits are nasty. Why not let people enjoy their day? Girl, get a life. YOHABLO May 2018 #58
It reminds me of an old Laugh In skit where Judy Carnes and Chelsea Brown exchange race.... marble falls May 2018 #59

brush

(53,737 posts)
4. Now being an openly racist coward calling the police on black people just living...
Thu May 10, 2018, 11:52 AM
May 2018

life is a thing—the trump effect.

I love how the picnickers are paying no attention to her as they continue their cookout.

irisblue

(32,918 posts)
5. White people will have to call out other white peoples racism.
Thu May 10, 2018, 11:54 AM
May 2018

Watching the video is difficult, seeing aggressive passive behavior by blue hoody woman is teeth gritting.

Eliot Rosewater

(31,106 posts)
51. Eventually we as white liberals will have to stand the ground for the
Thu May 10, 2018, 07:34 PM
May 2018

minorities that the deplorables clearly plan on harming.

This is all a warm up for the day when they have to do their Russian duty and defend putin/rump

Volaris

(10,266 posts)
43. youre correct. But heres the kicker..the fear is REAL (and I have absolutley NO idea why).
Thu May 10, 2018, 04:30 PM
May 2018

how does a person live their day to day life in that kind of existential dread and NOT end up in a mental health facility (other than we got rid of a good number of them).

I cant imagine being that afraid of my own life and surrounding world. maybe when I was 5....

niyad

(113,045 posts)
60. I gave up being afraid at the height of the cold war, when the air raid sirens went
Fri May 11, 2018, 01:12 PM
May 2018

off for the third time n one month (at night). haven't given in to that kind of fear since.

niyad

(113,045 posts)
22. I'm an old white woman--and I am sick of this crap too.I have been telling people for decades
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:23 PM
May 2018

that it isn't the crazies in other countries I worry about, it is the crazies here. they are soooo scared, sooooo frightened, they are like cornered, dangerous beasts.

sarge43

(28,940 posts)
31. Another old white woman here. May I join you on the bench?
Thu May 10, 2018, 02:27 PM
May 2018

A society, a civilization always destroys itself from within.

RVN VET71

(2,689 posts)
9. A sullen racist gets called out and reacts like a sullen racist
Thu May 10, 2018, 12:07 PM
May 2018

The woman is reprehensible and, had she any sense of shame, would feel enormously ashamed of her actions. That said, the woman accosting her in the video needs to understand that she'd already won the battle. Her relentless in-your-face demand for whatever her card was and however she handed it to the woman who then refused to return it was just, well, unnecessarily escalating -- I know she was ticked off at sunglasses-lady, but why confuse an obviously racist situation in which you were being victimized by being overtly threatening and casting a shadow on yourself?

Don't know how the cops resolved the issue. But by the time they arrived -- and they had much, much more important things to do that day, I'm sure -- they had to sort out "who did what to whom and when" because it had to look to them like the big crybaby was, quite possibly the victim in this situation.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
13. She had nothing better to do for two hours?
Thu May 10, 2018, 12:18 PM
May 2018

Good golly.

The park regulations and the map in question:

http://www2.oaklandnet.com/government/o/opr/s/Parks/index.htm

Charcoal grilling: Allowed in designated areas only where stationary grill pits have been installed. Please do not remove hot coals from pits.

Non-charcoal grilling: Allowed in designated areas only. You may bring in your own portable non-charcoal grill, not to exceed 27 inches in width.

Please note: Charcoal grills are not allowed in non-charcoal designated areas.


http://www2.oaklandnet.com/oakca1/groups/opr/documents/marketingmaterial/oak056316.pdf

Portable charcoal grills are not allowed in that park, but I doubt that is what is driving this woman's problem.

eissa

(4,238 posts)
14. Oh, the drama!
Thu May 10, 2018, 12:38 PM
May 2018

She so turned on the tears as soon as the police showed up. You really have to have absolutely no life to commit yourself for this long over a grill. Love to know how this ended.

SunSeeker

(51,508 posts)
20. The video references a blog that indicates the cops did nothing, but the woman came back hours later
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:13 PM
May 2018
At around 11:20 AM a white woman approached a black man named Deacon for having a BBQ grill at Lake Merritt today. She told him he could not BBQ there and called the police. She would not leave Deacon alone. A young black woman was walking by overheard how the white woman was harassing him telling him he can not be there, she stopped and asked the woman to leave her alone. The white woman became aggressive with the woman. She started filming the woman's aggressive behavior and has told us it's up on Facebook (probably a live stream).

More at blog:

After the lady ran away to a Quik Stop on Brooklyn and Newton, the police arrived and talked to her. The officer told Dione that she did not do anything wrong following her as long as she did not touch her. Dione informed the police that the woman should have called the Park services and not the police. The police agreed. As Smith noticed that she appeared to be mentally unstable, the police said that she wanted to evaluate her mental health too.

All this was taking place within 30 minutes, and despite the police showing up, the lady returned later at 4:15 pm according to Smith. The White woman harassed them again and said they weren’t supposed to be there, they were supposed to move. Smith told her that the Oakland police officer said to them that they did not have to move, and that the charcoal code was not enforced.


https://panthertimes.com/2018/05/02/white-privilege-used-to-fight-racially-charged-harassment-at-lake-merritt/

What is amazing is this woman spent all day obsessing with going after a few people having a BBQ at a park.

turbinetree

(24,683 posts)
16. Why was she allowed to buy a phone..........................
Thu May 10, 2018, 12:57 PM
May 2018

she was questioning the use of the open pit vs the enclosed pit..............I just gotta ask, did this person do the same thing....................at some point in her barbecuing life-------------------------how many minutes does her phone company have on her plan.......................they really should shrink it to less than 1 minute of calling time and take her phone away, after all the 911 operator on the other end might be getting a call of some major accident, or something really important..................but nope they have someone making a fool of themselves......................

Yonnie3

(17,419 posts)
17. and the rest of the story.
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:00 PM
May 2018
<snip>

Police did ultimately respond to calls over the grill and took down a report with both parties saying they were harassed. No one was cited or arrested, and the barbecue was allowed to continue.


https://www.sfgate.com/bayarea/article/Oakland-barbecue-Lake-Merritt-Sunday-confrontation-12902520.php

paleotn

(17,876 posts)
49. To paraphrase Gilbert Gottfried in Beverly Hills Cop....
Thu May 10, 2018, 07:17 PM
May 2018

There are people out there with chainsaws and you're calling us! It's a damn grill!

bmpbmp

(310 posts)
19. Interesting how people behave when they're unsure of themselves.
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:12 PM
May 2018

First, waiting for 2 hours for police to break up a family bbq in a public park is a bit much. It's reasonable to consider racism in this thing, but in the end, the woman's assertion appears to be correct. Is she as aggressive though, for jaywalking, etc?

What was interesting to me is how people behave when they've stepped out of their comfort level and found themselves challenged.

The video of the guy tearing up (well, trying to) a sign a few days ago - he had no idea what to do. He actually lifted the lid off a garbage can at his antagonist's urging, only to put it back because he was completely void at that moment of how to behave.

The sunglass woman in this OP's video - same thing, except she was a lot weirder. What would have happened if she'd given the videotaper's card back at any point in the video?

And what a drama queen when LE arrived! Human behavior is fascinating.

madaboutharry

(40,184 posts)
21. The expression on the first officers face was priceless.
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:17 PM
May 2018

He looked like he was thinking "For crying out loud, why am I dealing with this crap!"

askyagerz

(776 posts)
23. Sounds like she calls the police a lot
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:35 PM
May 2018

She definitely had the rules down like it was rehearsed and was like "they usually call back". I bet they could arrest her on 911 violations if they investigated it

avebury

(10,951 posts)
25. That woman is nuts and needs to get a life.
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:42 PM
May 2018

It is interesting to see how a harasser reacts when people stand up to her. She didn't like it one bit. Too bad.

LiberalLovinLug

(14,164 posts)
26. Another self absorbed brainwashed butterfly
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:51 PM
May 2018

So tough when she stood there with her phone with the plan to bring down God's white justice on this dark stain in her neighbourhood. I wish they had been two black policemen that had answered the call. I'm sure she'd have a different reaction. Her face at seeing that white cop was like...OMG daddy is here to save me and coddle me and wipe away my tears and protect me from these bad people that are harassing me just because I was harassing others that don't fit into my world.

avebury

(10,951 posts)
27. What is John George (Idiot says at about the 15 minute mark
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:55 PM
May 2018

to the Dispatch on the phone). Someone in the comment section of the YouTube page indicated that John George is a psychiatric facility.

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
28. I knew that was Lake Merritt!!! I was born right by there ...
Thu May 10, 2018, 02:05 PM
May 2018

Seems like pretty much a b***h, but if the rules of the park says no charcoal, they shouldn't be using charcoal to grill there, that's straight-forward. It's not real difficult to understand why using a charcoal grill on top of GRASS ... is maybe not the best idea. Granted it's green and therefore unlikely to catch fire, but it can still get burnt and damaged.

Now ... *I'd* never call the cops on someone for it, no matter what color, race, etc. But some people are just busy-bodies ... doesn't necessarily mean this woman must be 'racist' simply because she's white, and the scofflaw renegade Quers ... are not.

I don't subscribe to the 'anytime a white calls the police on a non-white, it must be because they are racists' ... if the non-white is actually breaking the law, I require addt'l evidence before asserting 'racism'. But that's just me.

Feel free to flame away, but personally I'd rather save my outrage for cases where I can more positively assert 'racism', otherwise I feel like I'm crying wolf.

She's definitely a super-lame person though ... in serious need of 'a life' it would appear.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,311 posts)
50. The rule is probably to prevent kids in bare feet from stepping on hot coals.
Thu May 10, 2018, 07:28 PM
May 2018

It happened to the kid of someone I know. What looks like a small pile oh white ash can still burn the shit out of a kid’s foot. Not pretty.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
56. They said she made racist remarks, she also lied about them assaulting her.
Thu May 10, 2018, 08:23 PM
May 2018

At least two people heard her make racist remarks. So you might want to rethink your position.

kacekwl

(7,010 posts)
37. Should have let the crazy women alone.
Thu May 10, 2018, 02:47 PM
May 2018

After 2 hours the police would have come and told her to go home. You can't reason with this type of nut. After awhile you start to look crazy too.

JDC

(10,114 posts)
41. So I FF'ed through a lot of this. How is it determined that she is "trump emboldened"
Thu May 10, 2018, 03:56 PM
May 2018

She seems to be a weirdo that calls the cops on people a lot. She knew the process pretty well.

Her breaking down into hysterics at the end makes me think she is unstable. Also, does she say anything that is racist, or just call the cops because she thinks Charcoal BBQs are not allowed in the park?

appalachiablue

(41,102 posts)
47. Obnoxious racist woman, maybe off a bit too. She has nothing better
Thu May 10, 2018, 05:33 PM
May 2018

to do & was this maybe set up to involve police? Due to racist aggression, or problems wanting attention. Sickening hassler.

Bengus81

(6,928 posts)
48. If they were grilling and stuck a big chicken leg in her face............
Thu May 10, 2018, 06:04 PM
May 2018

This would have never seen the light of day. She would have woofed it down and been back for more.

marble falls

(56,996 posts)
59. It reminds me of an old Laugh In skit where Judy Carnes and Chelsea Brown exchange race....
Fri May 11, 2018, 09:07 AM
May 2018

and Judy Carnes says. "I've black for two minutes and already I don't like white people."

I haven't been black even one second and I have to admit, I don't like white people.

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