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ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
Mon Jun 3, 2019, 02:10 AM Jun 2019

Does Taste in Music Change? Become "Mature"?

Had the "top three bands on a desert island" conversation with my brother in law this afternoon. He told me he used to be into Zeppelin and The Who, but his taste in music changed. Yet he is still going to choose The Beatles as one of the bands he listens to on the island. That seems strange to me. Maybe it's because I started out on The Beatles when I was really young and then branched out into other rock bands? I thought of it as a progression (no disrespect to The Beatles.) Are certain bands commonly viewed as "immature" when people get into their forties or fifties?

Or maybe I'm venting because Zeppelin are rock gods!

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Does Taste in Music Change? Become "Mature"? (Original Post) ProudLib72 Jun 2019 OP
*waves* check-in @ 50- not yet! lol TalenaGor Jun 2019 #1
I'm 59 and still like Led Zepplin. CentralMass Jun 2019 #2
54yo, still love Zep. And yes, musical taste flibbitygiblets Jun 2019 #17
beatles are extremely musical with a wide variety of sounds. most bands just crank out the same msongs Jun 2019 #3
Yes. I think you'd want some variety of styles in your limited "three" collection & beatles achieves hlthe2b Jun 2019 #6
I guess mine hasn't... 50 Shades Of Blue Jun 2019 #4
You saw them live? ProudLib72 Jun 2019 #9
Yep! Here's the whole bill -- 50 Shades Of Blue Jun 2019 #16
Mine is still the same MFM008 Jun 2019 #5
Lyrics take on different meanings in each stage of life for me oregonjen Jun 2019 #7
I'm almost 40 and I love a wide variety of music. Initech Jun 2019 #8
Well sure, if it's good, it's good ProudLib72 Jun 2019 #11
Yeah just because I listen to Amon Amarth and Ghost, doesn't mean Iron Maiden is suddenly lame. Initech Jun 2019 #12
No one will see Cobalt with me! ProudLib72 Jun 2019 #13
I wind up going to a lot of shows by myself. Initech Jun 2019 #14
I went to an Aerosmith cover band concert alone last month. zanana1 Jun 2019 #21
I love Steve Wilson and Porcupine Tree! Turin_C3PO Jun 2019 #25
Cool! Initech Jun 2019 #38
I've been eclectic all my life. Lady Freedom Returns Jun 2019 #10
If I liked it in youth I still like it. Brainfodder Jun 2019 #15
Stones, Dead, Zappa all time favs PufPuf23 Jun 2019 #18
Great choices PufPuf jcgoldie Jun 2019 #20
I wish I was alive when Zappa was touring. Turin_C3PO Jun 2019 #24
Yip, changes *drastically* - even genres AND even to NO music!1 UTUSN Jun 2019 #19
Not mine Leith Jun 2019 #22
I saw Fugazi in the mid 90s ProudLib72 Jun 2019 #26
My taste in music has remained the same since high school. Turin_C3PO Jun 2019 #23
Zappa you say? ProudLib72 Jun 2019 #27
I'm 46. Zeppelin and the Beatles were before my time True Dough Jun 2019 #28
I only turned 47 last month, so we are not that far apart in age ProudLib72 Jun 2019 #32
Blondie and Nirvana are okay True Dough Jun 2019 #36
I discovered the Cranberries (and Delores O'Riordan) this year. guillaumeb Jun 2019 #29
No, your gain! True Dough Jun 2019 #37
True. It was my loss for the time I was unaware of them. guillaumeb Jun 2019 #39
Most people's musical tastes are formed PoindexterOglethorpe Jun 2019 #30
I've gotten where I prefer acoustic instruments and vocals, to rock music. I still like Hoyt Jun 2019 #31
Acoustic? Like this? ProudLib72 Jun 2019 #33
That works. My favorite music today is Mandolin Orange, acoustic Steve Earle, etc. Hoyt Jun 2019 #35
My tastes have broadened. Harker Jun 2019 #34
Absolutely. I embraced a lot of extreme music later in life. Codeine Jun 2019 #40

flibbitygiblets

(7,220 posts)
17. 54yo, still love Zep. And yes, musical taste
Mon Jun 3, 2019, 02:56 PM
Jun 2019

does evolve. My 19yo stepdaughter grew up loving pop music, but over the years she grew to appreciate more mature music. Proud to say she's s now totally into Zeppelin!

msongs

(67,351 posts)
3. beatles are extremely musical with a wide variety of sounds. most bands just crank out the same
Mon Jun 3, 2019, 02:56 AM
Jun 2019

old thing with variations here and there

hlthe2b

(102,119 posts)
6. Yes. I think you'd want some variety of styles in your limited "three" collection & beatles achieves
Mon Jun 3, 2019, 07:24 AM
Jun 2019

50 Shades Of Blue

(9,919 posts)
4. I guess mine hasn't...
Mon Jun 3, 2019, 06:21 AM
Jun 2019

I'm 66, and I'll take the Beatles over Led Zep any day. They just weren't and aren't my cup of tea. But I still love Jimmy Page's former band, the Yardbirds! I even saw him play with them when they were part of one of those Dick Clark Caravans, in November '66.

50 Shades Of Blue

(9,919 posts)
16. Yep! Here's the whole bill --
Mon Jun 3, 2019, 02:31 PM
Jun 2019

November 26, 1966 Washington Coliseum, Washington DC Talent: Dino, Desi & Billy, Little Anthony, Sam the Sham & The Pharaohs, The Yardbirds, Distant Cousins, Bobby Hebb, Brian Hyland

https://concerts.fandom.com/wiki/Dick_Clark%27s_Caravan_of_Stars_1966

oregonjen

(3,334 posts)
7. Lyrics take on different meanings in each stage of life for me
Mon Jun 3, 2019, 10:27 AM
Jun 2019

I hear songs that were popular when I was a teenager and I don’t like them now. Then again, there are songs I listen to that are much more meaningful as I age.
I would take The Beatles, John Denver and maybe some Bach or Vivaldi. Classical wouldn’t have been on my radar when I was young.

Initech

(100,034 posts)
8. I'm almost 40 and I love a wide variety of music.
Mon Jun 3, 2019, 11:01 AM
Jun 2019

Old bands, new bands. Young musicians, experienced musicians. All kinds of different styles and genres, you name it!

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
11. Well sure, if it's good, it's good
Mon Jun 3, 2019, 01:31 PM
Jun 2019

But it doesn't mean that, as soon as you find a new band, the old band you were listening to suddenly become lame.

Which reminds me that I need to go listen to some Neutral Milk Hotel.

Initech

(100,034 posts)
12. Yeah just because I listen to Amon Amarth and Ghost, doesn't mean Iron Maiden is suddenly lame.
Mon Jun 3, 2019, 01:39 PM
Jun 2019

And I'm going to see all 3 bands this year!

Initech

(100,034 posts)
14. I wind up going to a lot of shows by myself.
Mon Jun 3, 2019, 01:55 PM
Jun 2019

Like I'm a huge Steven Wilson fan, no one else I know likes Steven Wilson so it's impossible to find anyone to go to his shows. Same for a lot of the hard rock and metal that I listen to. So I wind up going anyways because it definitely beats sitting at home listening to the albums on my computer!

zanana1

(6,102 posts)
21. I went to an Aerosmith cover band concert alone last month.
Tue Jun 4, 2019, 07:47 AM
Jun 2019

The place was packed, but they were just all right.

Initech

(100,034 posts)
38. Cool!
Tue Jun 4, 2019, 11:58 PM
Jun 2019

I just got In Absentia on vinyl, and I really want to get Blackfield II and Grace For Drowning on vinyl as well. I want to see Steven Wilson live again when he comes back to LA for sure.

PufPuf23

(8,754 posts)
18. Stones, Dead, Zappa all time favs
Mon Jun 3, 2019, 04:45 PM
Jun 2019

Last edited Tue Jun 4, 2019, 01:19 AM - Edit history (1)

Attended shows regularly from 67 up to 1988, last show was Dead and Nevilles in Oakland Arena (Henry Kaiser Auditorium)

Fortunate to have been local for Fillmore West (68-71) plus Winterland and later lived in Berkeley on and off from 73-87. Since 88 saw the remnants of Spirit in a Eureka beer bar in 93 and David Lindley in another Eureka beer bar in 94. But saw Samantha Fish at Stateline NV Aug 18 and have tickets for SF Sept 19 at South Lake Tahoe.

Except for SF and other blues musicians mostly listen to music from mid 60s to mid 80s.

jcgoldie

(11,612 posts)
20. Great choices PufPuf
Mon Jun 3, 2019, 11:18 PM
Jun 2019

I replace Zappa with Clapton... wife and I gearing up for 2 Dead&Co weekends this summer in Chicago and Boulder!

Turin_C3PO

(13,906 posts)
24. I wish I was alive when Zappa was touring.
Tue Jun 4, 2019, 10:51 PM
Jun 2019

Well, I was alive but pretty young. He’s probably my favorite artist.

Leith

(7,808 posts)
22. Not mine
Tue Jun 4, 2019, 10:41 PM
Jun 2019

I still like some good, rollicking Ringo Starr pop, Tom Lehrer, Led Zeppelin, a Strauss waltz, Irish, operetta, and folk performed without electricity. The only thing I added was a bit of punk. If it was good enough for 1970, it's good enough for me.



ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
26. I saw Fugazi in the mid 90s
Tue Jun 4, 2019, 10:53 PM
Jun 2019

That was the last concert I actually enjoyed. Can you imagine what it would have been like to see The Ramones or Sex Pistols live? Now there is only one punk band from recent times that I like: Refused.

Turin_C3PO

(13,906 posts)
23. My taste in music has remained the same since high school.
Tue Jun 4, 2019, 10:50 PM
Jun 2019

Beatles, Zappa, and classic Hard Rock/Heavy Metal. I do appreciate Jazz and modern classical more than I used to.

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
27. Zappa you say?
Tue Jun 4, 2019, 10:56 PM
Jun 2019

I would never have guessed.

I've been to the Zappa memorial in Lithuania: https://www.atlasobscura.com/places/frank-zappa-memorial

Actually, it was kind of a fluke. I was staying in some dorms about a block away from the memorial, and I passed by it every time I left to go into town.

True Dough

(17,246 posts)
28. I'm 46. Zeppelin and the Beatles were before my time
Tue Jun 4, 2019, 11:00 PM
Jun 2019

but I've grown to appreciate them. That said, I still eat the candy that is top 40, at least some of it. I check out new releases every Friday and repeatedly listen to the songs that grab me.

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
32. I only turned 47 last month, so we are not that far apart in age
Tue Jun 4, 2019, 11:07 PM
Jun 2019

I was listening to the Beatles by the time I was five. Zeppelin came much later. When I go to the music store, I head straight to the metal listening section and don't leave. Having said that, I turned on the car radio for twenty minutes this morning and heard Blondie and Nirvana. That was good.

True Dough

(17,246 posts)
36. Blondie and Nirvana are okay
Tue Jun 4, 2019, 11:26 PM
Jun 2019

I'm more partial to Coldplay and Collective Soul. Also love some Simon and Garfunkel. Top 40, pop, alternative. That's where it's at for me. No country, no jazz, no classical.

As for metal, I went through a period where I listened to a lot of KISS. Not much of a "metal head" though.

EDITED TO ADD: I'm fond of Post Malone too!

EDITED AGAIN!!! Because I want to say that I'm not a big rap fan but I'm hooked on this new tune...




True Dough

(17,246 posts)
37. No, your gain!
Tue Jun 4, 2019, 11:28 PM
Jun 2019

You could still be oblivious to Delores's rich vocals. Glad you are aware of their talent, even if they won't be cranking out more albums. That said, are you aware of this release from earlier this year?


PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,812 posts)
30. Most people's musical tastes are formed
Tue Jun 4, 2019, 11:00 PM
Jun 2019

by the time they are twenty or so, and never really change much. We especially are unlikely to change our favorites.

That said, in recent years I've taken up liking Native American instrumental music that I find here in New Mexico. I find classical Western music, which I always liked (along with the bands of my youth naturally!) to be unpleasant to listen to. I certainly wouldn't call this a maturation of my taste, just a change. I keep on expecting I'll stop liking the new music and want to go back to the old, but I'm 11 years into this new phase at age 70.

When I do Geeks Who Drink, I almost never recognize a single song in the audio round. Although one time they did have Bobby Darin singing "Mack the Knife" and I was the only one on our team old enough to recognize it.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
31. I've gotten where I prefer acoustic instruments and vocals, to rock music. I still like
Tue Jun 4, 2019, 11:06 PM
Jun 2019

“protest” music, folk music, and the like. Still have my black light too.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
35. That works. My favorite music today is Mandolin Orange, acoustic Steve Earle, etc.
Tue Jun 4, 2019, 11:21 PM
Jun 2019

A Hendrix Unplugged would have been awesome.

Harker

(13,976 posts)
34. My tastes have broadened.
Tue Jun 4, 2019, 11:19 PM
Jun 2019

I still listen to rock and blues, but along the way I added opera, film score music, Sinatra, punk, etc., etc.

There's little from my youth that I would no longer enjoy.

My first 45 rpm was Bobby Darin's "Splish Splash" and my most recent CD a thrift store copy of a Merle Haggard collection.

I suppose, in a way, that expanding tastes is a sign of maturity - at least a more open mind.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
40. Absolutely. I embraced a lot of extreme music later in life.
Wed Jun 5, 2019, 05:55 PM
Jun 2019

I was in my forties before I started listening to black metal, and my taste in jazz just keeps getting more and more “out there” over time.

But I’ll never like Led Zeppelin. That’s musical torture for me.

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