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My mother had Alzheimer's (Original Post) left-of-center2012 Nov 2019 OP
My uncle died of Alzheimers. The saddest part was when my Aunt went into his room redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 #1
I cared for my mom the last two years of Phoenix61 Nov 2019 #2
I'm with you, I wouldn't either. It's horrible pnwest Nov 2019 #3
Thanks. stopdiggin Nov 2019 #4
What a touching exchange. 3catwoman3 Nov 2019 #5
Something in my eye... JudyM Nov 2019 #6
Watching some stupid TV show the other night, a 30 year old grandson was with his granddad. Hoyt Nov 2019 #7
My Mom had Alzheimers Bayard Nov 2019 #8
Beautiful story!❤ Karadeniz Nov 2019 #9

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
1. My uncle died of Alzheimers. The saddest part was when my Aunt went into his room
Thu Nov 14, 2019, 03:17 PM
Nov 2019

and he asked her who she was and what was she doing there. They were married 55 years. She went out in the hall and cried.

Phoenix61

(16,993 posts)
2. I cared for my mom the last two years of
Thu Nov 14, 2019, 03:32 PM
Nov 2019

her life. Alzheimer’s is death one brain cell at a time. I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy.

pnwest

(3,266 posts)
3. I'm with you, I wouldn't either. It's horrible
Thu Nov 14, 2019, 04:07 PM
Nov 2019

to witness a loved one slip away like that. It’s taking my mother right now - one brain cell, one memory at a time. I just went to visit her last week, she’s in a locked memory care unit. I was very happy to see her up and active and participating in the group activity, she usually just wants to stay in her room and sleep. But then heartbroken that she just waved at me politely like you would to someone you recognize, but can’t quite place where you know them from. Like seeing the post office lady in the grocery store...

JudyM

(29,192 posts)
6. Something in my eye...
Thu Nov 14, 2019, 05:07 PM
Nov 2019

Been there.

My dad sometimes didn’t know who we were but that improved after we started him on cannabis... felt like a miracle.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
7. Watching some stupid TV show the other night, a 30 year old grandson was with his granddad.
Thu Nov 14, 2019, 05:14 PM
Nov 2019

The granddad was in a home, but was doing reasonably well. Apparently, they were very close, something might have happened to grandson's dad.

The granddad was saying to his grandson that the day was rapidly approaching where he wouldn't remember him.

Grandson said, without missing a beat, "I don't care, I will remember you . . . . . . and be here."

Bayard

(22,005 posts)
8. My Mom had Alzheimers
Thu Nov 14, 2019, 05:21 PM
Nov 2019

And now my mother-in-law was just put into assisted living with it.

Mom never forgot me. Sometimes she'd call me a couple times a day when I lived in Calif, when she was afraid or worried. I miss those conversations, even when they got a little wacky at times.

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