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bobbieinok

(12,858 posts)
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 01:46 PM Nov 2019

'Would you rather have a house full of old masters or old mistresses?' Days of women's liberation

Illustration of how every term used for women, even most positive, becomes over time a term to reduce them to a 'just a' sex object.

Originally 'mistress's was the female equivalent of 'master'

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'Would you rather have a house full of old masters or old mistresses?' Days of women's liberation (Original Post) bobbieinok Nov 2019 OP
Is a mistress in the affair sense "just a sex object" though? Loki Liesmith Nov 2019 #1
In today's vernacular, the term mistress is used for a woman in an extramarital relationship... dlk Nov 2019 #2
I really wish people would slow down a little before bringing sexism into things... TreasonousBastard Nov 2019 #3
It takes two to tango. MicaelS Nov 2019 #4
My childhood town had a post mistress Ron Obvious Nov 2019 #5
What did she become after she was a "mistress?"... Wounded Bear Nov 2019 #6
She was a post mistress with pre-diabetes and a large posterior. Ron Obvious Nov 2019 #7

dlk

(11,509 posts)
2. In today's vernacular, the term mistress is used for a woman in an extramarital relationship...
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 02:07 PM
Nov 2019

usually with a married man and has become a pejorative.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
3. I really wish people would slow down a little before bringing sexism into things...
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 02:23 PM
Nov 2019

Like sex.

Yes, mistress can be used as a pejorative, but I have known a number of women who prefer married men for their affairs. Mistress to them is more of a bragging point.

Context is everything.

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
4. It takes two to tango.
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 02:48 PM
Nov 2019

Any woman dating a married man should know what she is in for, going into the relationship.

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
7. She was a post mistress with pre-diabetes and a large posterior.
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 06:30 PM
Nov 2019

There's a country western song in that.

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