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Lady Freedom Returns

(14,120 posts)
Sun May 10, 2020, 11:05 PM May 2020

I need a hug so bad right now 😭.

Everything crashing in on me. I can't stop crying. For some reason I can't get get an apartment because I can't afford to buy furniture. I don't understand that. How can that block a housing voucher?

Need some vibs please.

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I need a hug so bad right now 😭. (Original Post) Lady Freedom Returns May 2020 OP
Sending hugs to you my dear. LiberalBrooke May 2020 #1
Thank you! Lady Freedom Returns May 2020 #4
incoming hugs mercuryblues May 2020 #2
Thank you. Lady Freedom Returns May 2020 #31
I am so sorry, LFR. Laffy Kat May 2020 #3
I don't know. Lady Freedom Returns May 2020 #9
(((hugs))) samnsara May 2020 #5
I am so sorry. Once you're in that cycle it's so hard to get out. AJT May 2020 #6
Look into it, LFR. elleng May 2020 #7
I don't even know if I'm allowed to have people help Lady Freedom Returns May 2020 #10
What 'program?' elleng May 2020 #13
Supposed to be through a joint operation with the.... Lady Freedom Returns May 2020 #15
Hate to say this, but sounds like you need legal assistance, elleng May 2020 #24
Sending lots and lots of divine energy your way. jrthin May 2020 #8
Thank you! Lady Freedom Returns May 2020 #18
In Chicago they have some places to get free used furniture if you have a voucher and delivered lunasun May 2020 #11
Thanks Lady Freedom Returns May 2020 #17
There are a lot of numbers listed by state at the end of the link lunasun May 2020 #21
Where are you? cate94 May 2020 #12
Bed, chair table. Lady Freedom Returns May 2020 #16
Sending you many hugs. jls4561 May 2020 #14
Thank you. Lady Freedom Returns May 2020 #20
I live in Tucson, I can get you some furniture. MLAA May 2020 #19
Thanks. Lady Freedom Returns May 2020 #22
Good. cate94 May 2020 #26
🙂 MLAA May 2020 #38
Hoping you can receive the help you need and deserve. onecaliberal May 2020 #23
elleng mentioned that you might need legal assistance. I did a search and came up with the alwaysinasnit May 2020 #25
Thank you. Lady Freedom Returns May 2020 #29
Here in Washington at least in my county there is a group called "Love inc." Doreen May 2020 #27
sending hugs; looks like there is some good info in this thread diva77 May 2020 #28
I furnished multiple places in Boston with castoffs I found on the street Warpy May 2020 #30
But it's the program for the voucher that is saying it Lady Freedom Returns May 2020 #37
You're not supposed to Warpy May 2020 #40
Sending you a hug... LuckyCharms May 2020 #32
Another resource to keep in mind, now and in the future, pnwmom May 2020 #33
Hug shenmue May 2020 #34
Here's a place for you in Tucson to contact and follow through with on Monday morning: NBachers May 2020 #35
Call your local Habitat for Humanity Duppers May 2020 #36
If you're not familiar with LFR's situation, her story on how her life went downhill last year Fla Dem May 2020 #39

Lady Freedom Returns

(14,120 posts)
15. Supposed to be through a joint operation with the....
Sun May 10, 2020, 11:36 PM
May 2020

city of Tucson, section 8 and all the homeless outreach groups.

But they are fighting with each other. They each have their own rules and are very territorial over the people they choose to help.

They have somehow lost my birth certificate and ss card. They needed them for paperwork and told me to come back in an hour to pick them up. Went to get them and they can't find them.

They've somehow messed up my snaps. I can't get my tax return money because I need to provide my paperwork to them to show I am who I am. And thus no stimulus.

I should have stayed on the streets.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
11. In Chicago they have some places to get free used furniture if you have a voucher and delivered
Sun May 10, 2020, 11:20 PM
May 2020

But of course those second hand stores that do that for people would be closed right now due to the virus so others here would be stuck now too.
I think it has to do with safety I’m not sure
Also sanitation reasons , but maybe try numbers for Salvation Army or Vincent de Paul in your area even if stores are closed they may have some means

Here is some numbers
https://www.needhelppayingbills.com/html/help_in_finding_free_furniture.html
If times were normal maybe these but can’t say now I know that but try some

jls4561

(1,253 posts)
14. Sending you many hugs.
Sun May 10, 2020, 11:27 PM
May 2020

There are some practical suggestions here, and I hope some will be able to help you.

But for now, major hugs.

cate94

(2,810 posts)
26. Good.
Mon May 11, 2020, 01:01 AM
May 2020

Let me know if it isn’t enough. I have friends there that might be able to help, or at least work through.

Doreen

(11,686 posts)
27. Here in Washington at least in my county there is a group called "Love inc."
Mon May 11, 2020, 01:13 AM
May 2020

If you need furniture they will give what you need free.

You might look around to see if such a thing exists were you are at.

Warpy

(111,170 posts)
30. I furnished multiple places in Boston with castoffs I found on the street
Mon May 11, 2020, 01:47 AM
May 2020

I slept many a night on an aluminum frame pool chair. I don't know what the hell the hangup with furniture is.

Hang in there. With what's about to hit them, they're going to be a lot less fussy in a month or two, desperate for tenants that can pay and that voucher is going to look too good to pass up.

Right now, their priorities are backward. First, the roof over your head. Next is scouting thrift shops and castoffs for something to sit on and a table to eat at and a mattress to sleep on, you can call it minimalist these days and get away with it.

Lady Freedom Returns

(14,120 posts)
37. But it's the program for the voucher that is saying it
Mon May 11, 2020, 03:51 AM
May 2020

And they aren't answering any questions about what I can do. They want me to have it all ready to move in. Yet they don't want me to work with other agencies that can help me.

I don't understand why not, if they can't help in that department.

I don't understand anything going on anymore.

Warpy

(111,170 posts)
40. You're not supposed to
Mon May 11, 2020, 02:38 PM
May 2020

Republicans have built Catch-22s into everything. You have no furniture because you have no place to put it, so they won't allow you to get a place to put it. I hate those people.

Check out every place you can scrounge anything, like churches, Craigslist, Freecycle, even the dump, if it's allowed. Salvation Army is good for some basics. Notes on bulletin boards in churches are good, people always have something they'd like to get rid of.

Just make a list and be flexible. It will likely look like shit when you're done but you can work on that later.

pnwmom

(108,959 posts)
33. Another resource to keep in mind, now and in the future,
Mon May 11, 2020, 01:59 AM
May 2020

is Catholic Community services. I know people they've helped and you don't need to be Catholic to get help. Here is the site for Southern Arizona, including Tucson. Good luck!

https://www.ccs-soaz.org/services

NBachers

(17,083 posts)
35. Here's a place for you in Tucson to contact and follow through with on Monday morning:
Mon May 11, 2020, 02:13 AM
May 2020

Southwest Fair Housing Council
177 N Church Avenue Suite 1104
Tucson, AZ, 85701
Tucson: 520-798-1568
Toll free: 1-888-624-4611

Fla Dem

(23,591 posts)
39. If you're not familiar with LFR's situation, her story on how her life went downhill last year
Mon May 11, 2020, 11:58 AM
May 2020

is on her gofundme page. The link is at the bottom of her post.

Hang in there girl.

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