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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsI'm reposting this from my friend LauraPourMeADrink:
Its important to note:
As today, her dad passed from Covid he did not have when he went in in early May..
Truly my thoughts and condolences.
From K: LauraPourMeADrink.
My dad is near death with COVID. He is on oxygen & morphine
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And the priest has been there. He has dementia but physically well and then went to hospital for a back problem on May 1st, he tested negative and on May 2, he was sent to a CT nursing home. He tested positive yesterday May 10 and they said death was now imminent.
I am 1500 miles away. CT has a 14 day self quarantine policy. Trying to figure out how to get up there.
My dad is a WW2 vet - South Pacific. He raised us 4 kids. My 94 yo mom has taken care of him but he fell and she couldn't lift him. Tremendous guilt like we all sent him into danger to his death.
Please takeaway, as Democrats, please, that these people in nursing homes are being literally exterminated in a different way. If you ever have any say so to help stop the slaughter by any means...asking for military medical help, state and local funding, an emergency revamp of facilities ASAP, PLEASE keep it in mind.
These great people don't deserve this horrible end. And when you have to hear your own mother cry, a good wife of 72 years, because she can't be there to hold his hand, you will never experience anything more heartbreaking in your entire life.
On edit: thank you so much. There are so many kind and loving people here. If you find yourself in a situation like ours, and you are lucky enough to be able to somehow afford it, store the dining room table, or bed and rent a hospital bed. Medicare may cover a visiting nurse. Don't do what we did. See if there's anyway they can stay home for a while. ❤️ to all
MLAA
(17,285 posts)tblue37
(65,336 posts)a horrifying tragedy.
Solly Mack
(90,762 posts)My heartfelt sympathies go out to her.
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)She needs all the wishes to stay strong.
Solly Mack
(90,762 posts)at such a time. Unthinkable, really.
I know she's strong and I do hope for her to hold on to that strength in the hours and days ahead. She does have people thinking of her.
Thank you, again LA.
brer cat
(24,560 posts)Sending thoughts for strength to Laura, her mother and family.
demmiblue
(36,841 posts)cayugafalls
(5,640 posts)This is heartbreaking news.
Heartstrings
(7,349 posts)These are trying times, wish there was more I could than just send a virtual hug....
SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)ms liberty
(8,573 posts)My FiL died on Apr. 4th of Covid. He was also in a nursing home, with dementia and cancer. He was death number two or three in NC, not sure which.
onethatcares
(16,166 posts)peace
MFM008
(19,806 posts)Thoughts.😥😔😿🙏
BigmanPigman
(51,585 posts)And also good advice for others in a similar situation in the coming months. I have thought of it myself...what if my mom needs to go into a hospital, then a care facility, would I be putting her in danger or helping her?
I am so sad this happened to you, your mom and family, especially when it wouldn't have happened during "normal times".
Johnny Noshoes
(1,977 posts)Fla Dem
(23,654 posts)who cannot have the comfort of having loving family with them as they pass from this life. And their families, that they cannot be at the bedside of their loved ones to tell them one last time how much they have been and are loved and to go in peace.
This is a terribly, terribly sad time.
Much sympathy to LauraPourMeADrink.
This is such a tragedy.
rurallib
(62,407 posts)My heart just breaks for her.
Hekate
(90,657 posts)warmfeet
(3,321 posts)It is killing so many.
My mother-in-law tested positive with Covid-19 yesterday. She is 82, has dementia, and is in a nursing home.
I am sorry for everyone.
Alliepoo
(2,215 posts)Wishing you and your family strength and peace.
Gothmog
(145,149 posts)CaptYossarian
(6,448 posts)I'm so very sorry for Laura's loss.
Thank you for posting.
Soph0571
(9,685 posts)stuffmatters
(2,574 posts)Karadeniz
(22,511 posts)Not right. We're so gutted that your family has had to experience this loss in this way. Sincerest condolences.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)Its heartbreaking. Im so sorry.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,681 posts)My deepest condolences to LauraPMAD. I just can't imagine how difficult and painful it must be - it's tough enough in normal circumstances to manage the situation of an elderly parent in a care home, but this would be absolutely the worst. I'm so sorry.
UTUSN
(70,684 posts)The Magistrate
(95,247 posts)My heart goes out to you all.
Niagara
(7,602 posts)Sending you and your family the strength to get through this difficult time. I'm sorry for your loss.