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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsI have Covid 19, I was extremely careful.
No idea how I got it. Wife getting tested this week, she had more contact with people. You can be very careful and still get it. Be careful. The wife wasnt as careful as I was. Or it could have been a fluke take out food thing. Who knows.
I am doing OK. Fatigue and headache.
Stress levels are high though and contact tracing is stressful. Wife telling people she may have exposed them means they basically have to shut down their lives until they test negative. Not happy people.
Be careful. Even if you dont get really sick, youre effecting others.
LizBeth
(9,952 posts)She was one of the few wearing masks, distancing, washing hands, doing everything right in a city of red and then she got it.
LymphocyteLover
(5,636 posts)cloth masks mostly keep the virus from spreading from infected people... so if people aren't masked and infected, they will spread it.
Hope she's ok!
LizBeth
(9,952 posts)a mask helps some, but not totally, you are right. Mostly just keeping stuff off others.
LymphocyteLover
(5,636 posts)who wouldn't wear a mask
Laffy Kat
(16,373 posts)Droplets can enter via your eyes, as well.
LizBeth
(9,952 posts)Prescription for distance sunglasses and huge covering upper half of my face. Not perfect cause just glasses but I am sure protect some. I am all about lessening nay load even if I do get it. I just took them off this time inside and I never do that, just easier to see. I was thinking later I really should not have done that.
Laffy Kat
(16,373 posts)LizBeth
(9,952 posts)Laffy Kat
(16,373 posts)lisa58
(5,755 posts)..a coworkers daughter tested positive - I got tested out of the abundance of caution- negative. Made me up my game!
Its crazy out there people- be careful
BainsBane
(53,012 posts)I hope you recover swiftly. Please keep us posted.
Freddie
(9,256 posts)Rest. My daughter got it the same way. Shes a nurse (does not deal directly with patients) and has been very careful, but her young son was not so careful playing with relatives. Theyre both fine now but 2 months later she still gets tired very easily.
Johnny2X2X
(18,970 posts)Hope I dont get seriously sick.
Dont relax on this. Keep being careful to keep yourself and the people you know safe. It absolutely stinks having to worry who we may have infected. Its a very small list, but still too long.
Freddie
(9,256 posts)You can have breathing issues and not be aware of it. My daughter has mild asthma and kept monitoring herself. She was fortunate that other than a tight-chest feeling it never got worse.
ResistantAmerican17
(3,795 posts)allergies. But I bought a pulse ox and use it regularly..
underpants
(182,605 posts)One bump you werent aware of. One whatever. My coworker was very careful and they got it. Very mild luckily.
empedocles
(15,751 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(11,583 posts)I hope your symptoms stay mild and that your wife tests negative. Have a great Thanksgiving.
OhZone
(3,212 posts)I'm very silly (or not) in that I don't get any food that I can't wash or Zap for 20 or 30 seconds or more. I even sterilize boxes and cans or leave them in the garage for a few days.
I miss my salads and sushi, but I'll live.
Oh well.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)Stay well and go to the hospital if things get serious. Do you have a pulse oximeter? If not, see if someone can get you one and drop it off for you and monitor yourself regularly. I hope you feel better soon.
Siwsan
(26,250 posts)I don't know if my allergies are going haywire, or if I have a seasonal cold. If it's the 2nd, then I messed up. If it's something else, I'll just have to deal with it, but I think I'm past the big worry point. At least I hope so.
You are going to be in my thoughts.
livetohike
(22,123 posts)reminder.
MLAA
(17,250 posts)KatyaR
(3,445 posts)I've had a swollen (not really sore) throat for 3 or 4 days. I don't think I'm sick, but I want to make sure. I've been extremely careful, but you never know.
DonaldsRump
(7,715 posts)barbtries
(28,769 posts)my son's girlfriend was exposed at work; now they aren't coming over for thanksgiving. My son works in a grocery store and i'm so thankful we have escaped it so far.
get well soon.
dewsgirl
(14,961 posts)peacebuzzard
(5,148 posts)that is a call to remain focused and vigilant.
where I am, its on fire. today I started wearing a shield to pick up mail and a few items at the grocery store. with mask and goggles.
so many people do not take care and go mask-less, or pull it down to a chin mask, so I try to move fast with people around I do not know. You are right. remain careful.
Take care. hope you recover completely soon.
cynical_idealist
(359 posts)saw someone in 711 today without mask.
I moved to opposite side of store and waited until a few minutes after he left.
peace
Warpy
(111,141 posts)or get them and blow them off as something else.
You might easily have caught it from your wife, even if she's testing negative now.
It's a nasty virus, not something you can blame on yourself or anything else. Well, maybe the crooks in the administration and the Senate. They seriously dropped a very large bell just because Dumdum hated Obama.
NJCher
(35,619 posts)No idea how I got it. Wife getting tested this week, she had more contact with people. You can be very careful and still get it. Be careful.
There's a lot more Covid virus floating around out there. Maybe it was just a matter of the amount of the virus out there has increased.
Also, people who are in red states have to deal with environments where people refused to wear masks. Thus there's a lot more of it floating around in the air.
FakeNoose
(32,579 posts)If you have trouble breathing - especially at night - sleep in an almost sitting position. If you must lay down flat, sleep on your stomach with face down over the edge of your bed. Take deep breaths and hold for a count of 10, then exhale. Do this repeatedly throughout the day. Filling your lungs with air, then letting it go, is the best way to beat this.
Good luck Johnny! Let us know how you're doing.
forgotmylogin
(7,520 posts)Lying flat means you breathe against gravity. If you can sleep in a comfortable recliner or prop up supported in an easy chair or couch it's a big help when your breathing is compromised.
I solved a lot of chronic problems including acid reflux and snoring by getting a lightweight metal mattress base that inclines the head of a foam mattress just slightly even when not sick.
treehuggnlibrul
(137 posts)She is scheduled for surgery on a brain tumor (cerebellum) on Monday. The radiologists and tumor board gave us about 4 possibilities, but it has started to press into the left ventricle... needs to come out now.
COVID and the people who have scorned masks and distancing and caused the surge mean that hospital availability is difficult even for urgent cases.
It means that my 20year-old daughter will be having brain surgery while my husband and I are not able to sit in the hospital. Well be allowed into her room after surgery at alternate times.
She has her COVID test Friday, and weve tried to isolate her. But... well see. She ventured out one time with me and the one person at the register was wearing her mask on her chin while a dumbass customer came in with no mask. Both were standing too close even as I kept backing away. I sent her to wait in the car but felt horrible that she could have been exposed.
Knowing you got it while taking precautions Im so sorry. Sending you wishes for speedy and smooth recovery.
Johnny2X2X
(18,970 posts)Puts things into perspective. Good luck. Life is still going on in addition to Covid. The same trials and tragedies are still occurring with Covid fears on top of it all.
treehuggnlibrul
(137 posts)Tangent! 🥴 COVID is just as worrisome, and Im so sorry youre dealing with it. I think the people who havent taken it seriously... they have made it awful for those of us who do, and if wed had leadership to start with, this would all be different. Thank you for your kind thoughts for my daughter!
Tanuki
(14,914 posts)May all of your family stay strong and healthy.
💕🐦🌞
OregonBlue
(7,754 posts)Karadeniz
(22,470 posts)Begun contact tracing. Good luck to everyone!
MontanaMama
(23,295 posts)please take good care. Monitor your O2 if you can. Thank you and your wife for contact tracing. Some people dont do it.
oldsoftie
(12,491 posts)I've heard that SO many times
marlakay
(11,425 posts)My hubby isn't as careful as me, he wears mask and uses wipes like me but he gets closer than i do when we pass people walking the dog no mask and at stores he still touches many things, i say he shouldn't touch unless we buy it but its a habit with him, he is 70, he says he washes hands and uses wipes but I know people touch their face a lot so I worry sometimes.
Then I think we should only go out to store no more than once a week but he always finds an excuse and I am tired of being his mother....I tell him we can order most of what he needs online but god forbid any American has to wait 3-5 days for something!
We are in a pandemic and I know he reads the news I just don't get it...
Johnny2X2X
(18,970 posts)Shes feeling guilty right now. Shes been so careful, but one weekend without taking all precautions and shes worried she could have spread it to them or gotten it from them and spread it to me.
marlakay
(11,425 posts)My hubby would feel guilty too.
I haven't been perfect either we went by car to see my mom 92 that I hadn't seen in a year 3 weeks ago, wore masks, stayed at my cousins summer home so no one there but us. But still went out to eat, outside and I did see my older daughter who works in public again with masks.
We were lucky didn't catch anything, my daughter's work is extremely careful but like you say stuff happens.
Had to get temp taken and fill out questionnaire to get into my moms place, with freeze now even that wouldn't have been allowed.
AlexSFCA
(6,137 posts)The only way to be 100% certain is if your entire household doesnt leave house at all. We can do our best, most people dont know how they got the virus.
mchill
(1,017 posts)Means to you?
But you are only as careful as the people you live with, so may be a moot point.
I find my friends versions of careful is far below my own standards. It would be interesting to know how you define. Otherwise I wish a speedy recovery for you.
Johnny2X2X
(18,970 posts)She has had almost no contact. She saw her sister and brother in law once. I dont go to the store. My wife dies once a week and wears a mask. Ive gone into restaurants masked to pick up takeout several times. Thats about it.
Johnny2X2X
(18,970 posts)She has had almost no contact. She saw her sister and brother in law once. I dont go to the store. My wife dies once a week and wears a mask. Ive gone into restaurants masked to pick up takeout several times. Thats about it.
BobTheSubgenius
(11,559 posts)I hope the nasty thing is kind to you.
calimary
(81,110 posts)It just reminds me how much we still don't know about this virus.
Take gentle care of yourself, and lay low. And remember: you have every right to be lazy and boring right now! You probably should be. Rest. Stay hydrated. Stay mellow - it can't help to get all worried and fearful. Keep yourself as isolated as you can, and make sure you have a mask handy! We keep extra masks in the car in the storage pocket inside each door, just in case. And there's all kinds of things available in take-out form, ordering, and there'll be some good holiday viewing on TV, even if there isn't a parade or much in terms of football.
And take a deep breath and remind yourself that as of today (Tuesday, November 24th), it's only 57 days til we are officially, formally, and fully, DONE WITH DONALD! Joe Biden's coming to the rescue, and he's already deep in very professional preparations.
Just remind yourself that the adults will finally be back in charge - after four long miserable frustrating and sometimes horrifying years.
lambchopp59
(2,809 posts)I haven't asked my doctor about the immunity test, but I may if only out of curiosity.
This virus has been around longer than the first detected cases hit the media.
It was detected at a local university cadaver of a man who passed away of "pneumonia" last December.
Working in patient care, and caring for an extraordinarily sick person, before we knew much about this...
I got really sick over the weekend and two sick days, tight chest, substernal burning, short of breath all day and night.
Dismissed it as a flu so bad that I figured I'd caught a touch of pneumonia.
Then, as the literature emerged, and the symptom of losing taste and smell, I remembered everything tasted like metal for a couple weeks ever since just before I got really ill.
Symptoms lingered ever since. Arthritis and body aches, exacerbated asthma and tremendous fatigue.
I haven't looked good this whole damn year.
Only recently have I been able to sustain a full day like before.
Luckily, I haven't had stroke or blood clot symptoms I'm aware of, and my recent EKG was okay.
I've been on twice the dose of my blood pressure medicine ever since, and go through asthma inhalers at more than twice the rate as years before.
I'm finally taking some time off, and going to see my doctor next week for tests.
Others at work who have also been vigilant about precautions, PPE doffing, hand and face washing have also still managed to catch this damn thing.
Indoor spaces where some idiot has been coughing, yelling or generally being an ignorant jackass... are air spaces loaded with COVID.
I get so upset seeing these obstinate fools who still wander about stores maskless. They're everywhere.
crimycarny
(1,351 posts)I dont know if this helps or not, but UCSF put out an article with compelling evidence that wearing a mask, while not 100% effective in prevention, could reduce viral load to an extent that COVID-19 infection presents with milder symptoms.
So even though you ended up with COVID, the fact that you were so careful could mean you will have a milder case.
https://www.ucsf.edu/news/2020/07/418181/one-more-reason-wear-mask-youll-get-less-sick-covid-19
Not saying people dont need to be super careful of course! Just wanted to pass on some potentially reassuring info now that you ARE infected.
I also second getting an O2 monitor. Besides it alerting you to any drop in O2, it can also be very reassuring to see O2 remain stable.
Get natural sun if possible and take Vitamin D as others have already mentioned. Keep us posted!
RobinA
(9,886 posts)talk has given people the idea that COVID is a lot more controllable than it is.
Johnny2X2X
(18,970 posts)We needed to have 95% mask wearing here in MI and we got 65%. Its all about getting everyone to comply for the benefit of the group. Americans suck at that type of thinking.
Weve been so careful, but when its everywhere its harder to avoid.
Buckeye_Democrat
(14,852 posts)... from someone in their own household.
That's how my sister-in-law ended up in an ICU (still there after she seemed to be improving several days ago). She caught it from a young granddaughter who never had symptoms.
Lady Freedom Returns
(14,120 posts)My mask and clime under my bed. Don't come out till they have me come in for my vaccination shot ready. With the way the numbers keep going up, think think it is good advice.
Hang in there.
NNadir
(33,471 posts)She's a preschool teacher and of course it's disruptive to her students and their families. She was very careful at least at school and got it anyway.
Your advice with respect to all those affected by your diagnosis is well taken.
Again, wishing you a speedy recovery.