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zanana1

(6,106 posts)
Mon Jul 12, 2021, 09:15 AM Jul 2021

Maybe a boomer can relate to this.

Let me start off by saying I'm 69, have grey hair and walk with a cane. A few days ago, I took a cab. When the cabbie called in to dispatch, he said "I just picked up a Boomerang".
I have a question; would you be insulted by being referred to as a "Boomerang"? The cabbie was surprised that I was. What do you think?

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Maybe a boomer can relate to this. (Original Post) zanana1 Jul 2021 OP
At least he thought... ret5hd Jul 2021 #1
That's just rude. Scrivener7 Jul 2021 #2
Round trip? n/t Harker Jul 2021 #3
That's what I think too. Hoyt Jul 2021 #14
I've been called worse. OLDMDDEM Jul 2021 #4
Same here.... if we were to get upset at every little comment, we's all be basket cases. secondwind Jul 2021 #7
I agree with you OLDMDDEM Jul 2021 #18
On the other hand, if we don't like what someone has called us, and we calmly say, "that Scrivener7 Jul 2021 #25
Better than being called a yo-yo unweird Jul 2021 #5
Are you talkin' to me, hack-driver? Goonch Jul 2021 #6
"Talkin' 'bout ya, not to ya. ret5hd Jul 2021 #19
I'm 68. SamKnause Jul 2021 #8
I would think that our generation is beyond being insulted by cute nicknames Walleye Jul 2021 #9
Were you not taking a round-trip? Seems a normal slang for "there and back" to me? hlthe2b Jul 2021 #10
Honestly, my first thought was that you must have lived a pretty carefree life if that bothers you Clash City Rocker Jul 2021 #11
It was a one way trip. nt zanana1 Jul 2021 #12
overthinking it, friend Piasladic Jul 2021 #15
OKAY. I get it. zanana1 Jul 2021 #17
I disagree. Did it bother you? If so, you have the right to say, "That's not very polite" or Scrivener7 Jul 2021 #24
So, if someone is called something that bothers them, they should call you and find out Scrivener7 Jul 2021 #23
He could have called you an old hippie. hunter Jul 2021 #13
I AM an old hippie. zanana1 Jul 2021 #16
I'm 61 mockmonkey Jul 2021 #20
At 75 years I am/was too young and too old too sanatanadharma Jul 2021 #21
Nope. I don't insult that easily. n/t malthaussen Jul 2021 #22
Never heard Boomerang used for someone of the boomer generation Sanity Claws Jul 2021 #26
Not sure how I would have felt but I think it's rude... Phentex Jul 2021 #27

OLDMDDEM

(1,570 posts)
18. I agree with you
Mon Jul 12, 2021, 10:01 AM
Jul 2021

If I were to be upset over every time I heard a comment like that, I would be in therapy. It isn't worth the effort.

Scrivener7

(50,932 posts)
25. On the other hand, if we don't like what someone has called us, and we calmly say, "that
Mon Jul 12, 2021, 12:24 PM
Jul 2021

isn't very polite," we are likely not to be called it again.

Why is it a problem to do that?

unweird

(2,529 posts)
5. Better than being called a yo-yo
Mon Jul 12, 2021, 09:27 AM
Jul 2021

If you were doing a round trip somewhere and back seems like an easy slang term for the fare. Save the umbrage for things that matter.

Walleye

(30,996 posts)
9. I would think that our generation is beyond being insulted by cute nicknames
Mon Jul 12, 2021, 09:39 AM
Jul 2021

We are still being called communist and anarchist and lazy good-for-nothings. Boomerang sounds kind of cute but I don’t think it was really meant as an insult to us.

hlthe2b

(102,190 posts)
10. Were you not taking a round-trip? Seems a normal slang for "there and back" to me?
Mon Jul 12, 2021, 09:39 AM
Jul 2021

after all, that is what boomerangs do.

Not sure I'd take any offense...

Clash City Rocker

(3,396 posts)
11. Honestly, my first thought was that you must have lived a pretty carefree life if that bothers you
Mon Jul 12, 2021, 09:44 AM
Jul 2021

I assume he just meant that he was taking you somewhere and then taking you back. If he said that every time he did it, it would be rather time-consuming. In every business, people develop shorthand terms for people and for things, to save time. He wasn’t claiming you were literally a curved stick, nor was the term a personal insult to you. I’ve probably been called a million things worse than that.

Piasladic

(1,160 posts)
15. overthinking it, friend
Mon Jul 12, 2021, 09:56 AM
Jul 2021

I get that being in a car with someone you don't know is awkward. Being called a boomerang is nothing like what have been called for just not shaving. Jeees... the privilege

Scrivener7

(50,932 posts)
24. I disagree. Did it bother you? If so, you have the right to say, "That's not very polite" or
Mon Jul 12, 2021, 12:20 PM
Jul 2021

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something of the sort.

What are these people saying? We aren't allowed to express our opinions? Screw that! From your reaction here, I'm sure you would not have been dopey about it, but you are allowed to express your preference.

And why did the cabbie feel the need to refer to your age anyway? If he referred to your race or gender, it would have been weird. This was weird too.


Scrivener7

(50,932 posts)
23. So, if someone is called something that bothers them, they should call you and find out
Mon Jul 12, 2021, 12:17 PM
Jul 2021

if you have been called worse. If you have, they need to just shut up. If you haven't, they are free to express their objection to being called what they have been called.

That makes total sense.

PS: Jeez. The privilege on YOU to tell someone they are not allowed to express their preference to a cab driver.

mockmonkey

(2,815 posts)
20. I'm 61
Mon Jul 12, 2021, 10:28 AM
Jul 2021

The first time I heard "Ok, Boomer!" I laughed my ass off. I wouldn't have known what a Boomerang was and maybe I would have thought it was a rider that goes round trip in the cab. I probably would have laughed at the cabbies answer as well.

sanatanadharma

(3,693 posts)
21. At 75 years I am/was too young and too old too
Mon Jul 12, 2021, 10:36 AM
Jul 2021

It was decades ago when the amusement-ride operator asked me, as I stepped off the ride, "Are you all right Pops?"

At 75 years I am/was, one too young to be a beatnik and two, too old to be a hippie.
Too lazy to be a lover, I became a philosopher.
Too old to be young, I am left being the wise-old-pops having a second childhood, to get it right.

As a devotee of the Vedic understanding, I have every intention of completing this life such that "my boomerang won't come back".


Sanity Claws

(21,845 posts)
26. Never heard Boomerang used for someone of the boomer generation
Mon Jul 12, 2021, 12:32 PM
Jul 2021

Boomerangs are things that return to the sender. Were you on a return trip? Or did you ask the driver to both pick you up and return you?
Why get insulted when you don't even know what was meant?

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
27. Not sure how I would have felt but I think it's rude...
Mon Jul 12, 2021, 01:27 PM
Jul 2021

I think I might have pretended to have an Australian accent and ask him all kinds of personal questions and also pretend to be hard of hearing.

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