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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsMaybe a boomer can relate to this.
Let me start off by saying I'm 69, have grey hair and walk with a cane. A few days ago, I took a cab. When the cabbie called in to dispatch, he said "I just picked up a Boomerang".
I have a question; would you be insulted by being referred to as a "Boomerang"? The cabbie was surprised that I was. What do you think?
ret5hd
(20,486 posts)you were gonna live long enough to return?
Scrivener7
(50,932 posts)Harker
(14,007 posts)Hoyt
(54,770 posts)OLDMDDEM
(1,570 posts)No, I wouldn't have been insulted. I'm 73.
secondwind
(16,903 posts)OLDMDDEM
(1,570 posts)If I were to be upset over every time I heard a comment like that, I would be in therapy. It isn't worth the effort.
Scrivener7
(50,932 posts)isn't very polite," we are likely not to be called it again.
Why is it a problem to do that?
unweird
(2,529 posts)If you were doing a round trip somewhere and back seems like an easy slang term for the fare. Save the umbrage for things that matter.
Goonch
(3,603 posts)ret5hd
(20,486 posts)SamKnause
(13,091 posts)I wouldn't give a shit.
Walleye
(30,996 posts)We are still being called communist and anarchist and lazy good-for-nothings. Boomerang sounds kind of cute but I dont think it was really meant as an insult to us.
hlthe2b
(102,190 posts)after all, that is what boomerangs do.
Not sure I'd take any offense...
Clash City Rocker
(3,396 posts)I assume he just meant that he was taking you somewhere and then taking you back. If he said that every time he did it, it would be rather time-consuming. In every business, people develop shorthand terms for people and for things, to save time. He wasnt claiming you were literally a curved stick, nor was the term a personal insult to you. Ive probably been called a million things worse than that.
zanana1
(6,106 posts)Piasladic
(1,160 posts)I get that being in a car with someone you don't know is awkward. Being called a boomerang is nothing like what have been called for just not shaving. Jeees... the privilege
zanana1
(6,106 posts)I guess I was being just a tad sensitive.
Scrivener7
(50,932 posts)Last edited Mon Jul 12, 2021, 12:53 PM - Edit history (1)
something of the sort.
What are these people saying? We aren't allowed to express our opinions? Screw that! From your reaction here, I'm sure you would not have been dopey about it, but you are allowed to express your preference.
And why did the cabbie feel the need to refer to your age anyway? If he referred to your race or gender, it would have been weird. This was weird too.
Scrivener7
(50,932 posts)if you have been called worse. If you have, they need to just shut up. If you haven't, they are free to express their objection to being called what they have been called.
That makes total sense.
PS: Jeez. The privilege on YOU to tell someone they are not allowed to express their preference to a cab driver.
hunter
(38,309 posts)Alas my hair got too thin for a ponytail.
zanana1
(6,106 posts)That would have made me happy.
mockmonkey
(2,815 posts)The first time I heard "Ok, Boomer!" I laughed my ass off. I wouldn't have known what a Boomerang was and maybe I would have thought it was a rider that goes round trip in the cab. I probably would have laughed at the cabbies answer as well.
sanatanadharma
(3,693 posts)It was decades ago when the amusement-ride operator asked me, as I stepped off the ride, "Are you all right Pops?"
At 75 years I am/was, one too young to be a beatnik and two, too old to be a hippie.
Too lazy to be a lover, I became a philosopher.
Too old to be young, I am left being the wise-old-pops having a second childhood, to get it right.
As a devotee of the Vedic understanding, I have every intention of completing this life such that "my boomerang won't come back".
malthaussen
(17,183 posts)Sanity Claws
(21,845 posts)Boomerangs are things that return to the sender. Were you on a return trip? Or did you ask the driver to both pick you up and return you?
Why get insulted when you don't even know what was meant?
Phentex
(16,334 posts)I think I might have pretended to have an Australian accent and ask him all kinds of personal questions and also pretend to be hard of hearing.