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Siwsan

(26,260 posts)
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 09:16 AM Jul 2021

I was in the yard with ALL FIVE kitties, this morning.

Spooky was 'sheltering' beneath a lawn chair but only about 4 or 5 feet away from me. Skittish was sitting, keeping an eye on him and all 3 kittens saw me, but instead of running away, they all started to play. I'm beginning to realize that Mittens is the bravest, then comes Spooky Jr. and finally, Scooter. Mittens and Spooky Jr have started to check me out, albeit at a distance, but today was the FIRST time Scooter didn't rapidly scoot when I walked out the door.

I did get a nice photo of Spooky's handsome face, while battling off a squadron of mosquitoes that were determined to drain e of every drop of blood.

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I was in the yard with ALL FIVE kitties, this morning. (Original Post) Siwsan Jul 2021 OP
Awwwwwwwwww . .. Lovie777 Jul 2021 #1
How sweet! You're making great progress. You might try tossing treats to them. femmedem Jul 2021 #2
I'm so glad they are warming up to you. SheltieLover Jul 2021 #3
One of the ferals I feed does almost the same thing, but no longer hisses. lark Jul 2021 #15
Awwww SheltieLover Jul 2021 #17
Too lovely malaise Jul 2021 #4
I hope we can do a TNR on all of them. Siwsan Jul 2021 #5
Cool because they multiply malaise Jul 2021 #6
I wish I could lure Skittish to 'den' in my yard. I'll work on another shelter Siwsan Jul 2021 #7
Anything you build must have a way out that she can access malaise Jul 2021 #12
That's amazing patience and love for animals you have, Malaise! KY_EnviroGuy Jul 2021 #14
I've always loved animals - more dogs than cats malaise Jul 2021 #16
This message was self-deleted by its author malaise Jul 2021 #13
If you can do a TNR Jilly_in_VA Jul 2021 #9
Absolutely! Siwsan Jul 2021 #10
Mittens is just a doll! SheltieLover Jul 2021 #18
From what I've read SheltieLover Jul 2021 #19
They don't come in the house unless a kittem gets curious when I open the patio door malaise Jul 2021 #23
That's awesome, Malaise! SheltieLover Jul 2021 #25
I welcome the old ones malaise Jul 2021 #27
That is very nice of you SheltieLover Jul 2021 #28
Is Spooky the kittens' daddy? Ocelot II Jul 2021 #8
One of the kittens is his spitting image. Siwsan Jul 2021 #11
Thank you. You're not only doing good deeds but sharing your experiences and photos is a abqtommy Jul 2021 #20
I'm absolutely loving these updates. Niagara Jul 2021 #21
Thanks! Siwsan Jul 2021 #22
I love your updates and photos of these sweeties. IcyPeas Jul 2021 #24
Thanks for the updates! Buckeye_Democrat Jul 2021 #26
Must be different ferals. I don't own any kayaks Siwsan Jul 2021 #30
What good company you keep! Blue Owl Jul 2021 #29

femmedem

(8,201 posts)
2. How sweet! You're making great progress. You might try tossing treats to them.
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 09:26 AM
Jul 2021

Or attracting them with feather wands. Those two tricks have worked for me when taming feral cats and kittens.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
3. I'm so glad they are warming up to you.
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 09:27 AM
Jul 2021

I have one feral who visits occasionally who will rub against my legs & let me pet him -- right up until he realizes it's my hand touching him, then he flinches, sometimes hisses. He walks a few steps away & often comes back for more.

lark

(23,094 posts)
15. One of the ferals I feed does almost the same thing, but no longer hisses.
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 12:00 PM
Jul 2021

He's funny, he lets me touch him with the back of my hand, albeit very briefly and so soft I barely touch. He won't accept the palm of my hand - yet. He also rubs against my legs and will eat immediately with me standing beside the plate now - so good progress on a very old and not in good health kitty.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
17. Awwww
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 12:26 PM
Jul 2021

Sounds like a real sweetie! Sorry to hear kitty is not in good health.

Ty for caring for this sweet kitty.

Siwsan

(26,260 posts)
5. I hope we can do a TNR on all of them.
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 10:14 AM
Jul 2021

If I can 'train' them to be socialized outdoor cats, I'd be content. Ideally, I'd love to keep Mittens.

Siwsan

(26,260 posts)
7. I wish I could lure Skittish to 'den' in my yard. I'll work on another shelter
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 10:51 AM
Jul 2021

She doesn't seem to like the one I have. If she does have more kittens before I can catch her, at least I might have an easier time of catching them.

malaise

(268,949 posts)
12. Anything you build must have a way out that she can access
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 11:02 AM
Jul 2021

Last edited Mon Jul 19, 2021, 12:01 PM - Edit history (1)

Cats are very clever that way. I buy cat balls and other toys and start playing with the kitties early without touching them. Eventually theynuzzle up around your feet and trust you enough to stay around for food. I let them play in the travelling cage and put food in there - then by week seven or eight it's off to the JSPCA.

malaise

(268,949 posts)
16. I've always loved animals - more dogs than cats
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 12:06 PM
Jul 2021

After Roots (the greatest dog I ever owned) had to be put down, I decided to just feed the stray cats. I grew up with dogs and cats so it's no biggie.


I think I just try to keep the cat population down - either tame them and give them away or feed them for ever - more like OK I'll feed a few of you but you are not taking over this place

Response to Siwsan (Reply #7)

Jilly_in_VA

(9,965 posts)
9. If you can do a TNR
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 10:58 AM
Jul 2021

be sure you get one of each one's ears "tipped". That's a signal to most animal control officers and humane societies that they belong somewhere and have been altered. Also get them chipped if possible. That way they can be returned if picked up.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
19. From what I've read
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 12:33 PM
Jul 2021

It is not usually advisable or successful to try to tame ferals beyond a certain point because they have missed the developmental stage appropriate for learning how to interact with humans.

I had a friend years ago who tried this with a kitty in Chicago. The harsh winters prompted ger to go beyond just feeding outdoors to integrating the feral into her home.

She did it, but the cat would frequently freak out & attack her, often sinking its teeth down to the bone in her hands & arms.

She was very cat savvy, gentle & loving. She kept him until he crossed the Rainbow Bridge.

malaise

(268,949 posts)
23. They don't come in the house unless a kittem gets curious when I open the patio door
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 03:59 PM
Jul 2021

Last edited Mon Jul 19, 2021, 08:32 PM - Edit history (1)

I am always aware about that with the very old ones because they're feral cats but I've been feeding them for ages and their kittens have never attacked.

malaise

(268,949 posts)
27. I welcome the old ones
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 04:11 PM
Jul 2021

and tame and give away the kittens. We don't want a neighborhood problem with too many cats around, although they keep the rats away.

abqtommy

(14,118 posts)
20. Thank you. You're not only doing good deeds but sharing your experiences and photos is a
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 01:32 PM
Jul 2021

bonus to us all.

Niagara

(7,595 posts)
21. I'm absolutely loving these updates.
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 03:28 PM
Jul 2021

I may not comment on them all the time, but these updates sure make my day.

Siwsan

(26,260 posts)
22. Thanks!
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 03:31 PM
Jul 2021

Looking after them has been a great distraction, for me. Every little step of progress towards gaining their trust is something to celebrate.

Siwsan

(26,260 posts)
30. Must be different ferals. I don't own any kayaks
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 07:59 PM
Jul 2021

They are living beneath the bushes at my neighbor's. I keep hoping that Skittish will move them to my yard, since it's closer to the dining room.

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