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ZenDem

(442 posts)
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 11:09 AM Jul 2021

Job search advice...

I've had it with my job. It's killing me.

It pays okay, benefits are acceptable, but atmosphere is toxic. We have more managers than employees, change is constant and illogical and always falls on the Project Mgrs (me). The amount of stress is stupid for this industry (Commercial Print/Marketing).

I'm a 57/yo woman.
I have over 36 years experience in Printing, most in management/graphic arts.

I'm terrified of looking for a new job. I'm single and a homeowner. I don't have any backups if this fails, but I might actually get fired soon because I'm refusing to take on YET ANOTHER responsibility that is NOT part of my job description. I'm done. Over it.

I'm going to hire a resume writer and someone to finish my damned LinkedIn profile (freaking hate LinkedIn, full of bullshitters and ass-kissers).

Someone give me a freaking pep talk. Tell me someone will hire me. I'm good at what I do...really good. I can do damn near anything in this business other than run a press. I'm hiring material, right? Just because I'm "older" doesn't mean I'm useless, right?

Hate this...hate, hate, hate...

Oh, happy Friday!!!

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Job search advice... (Original Post) ZenDem Jul 2021 OP
Good luck. underpants Jul 2021 #1
Thank you! ZenDem Jul 2021 #8
Someone will hire YOU! Anon-C Jul 2021 #2
LOL! ZenDem Jul 2021 #9
Have you looked at Indeed.com ? CentralMass Jul 2021 #3
Yes...sort of? ZenDem Jul 2021 #11
Register at USAjobs.gov. mahatmakanejeeves Jul 2021 #4
Thanks! ZenDem Jul 2021 #12
Two thumbs up. You'll find yourself looking things up and getting organized in the process. mahatmakanejeeves Jul 2021 #13
I have never seen a better hiring phase than now WA-03 Democrat Jul 2021 #5
Heh... ZenDem Jul 2021 #14
Advice I gave my clients: cbabe Jul 2021 #6
It's difficult. ZenDem Jul 2021 #15
Think of having a cbabe Jul 2021 #23
PM me Bayard Jul 2021 #7
Thank you!!! ZenDem Jul 2021 #16
I'd be glad to do it. Bayard Jul 2021 #19
Take Bayard up on the offer!!! Nittersing Jul 2021 #20
Someone will hire you! Sanity Claws Jul 2021 #10
Thank you!!! ZenDem Jul 2021 #17
I really like MissB Jul 2021 #18
I hear you XanaDUer2 Jul 2021 #21
good luck! Kali Jul 2021 #22

underpants

(182,728 posts)
1. Good luck.
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 11:24 AM
Jul 2021

You should have options given the massive resignations and retirements going on.

Don’t rule out a public sector job. Retention is a huge problem there due to baby boomers retiring. The pay can be comparable depending on where you live. You will be qualified for more positions than you think. Since you have experience in printing you may want to look into your state lottery. Virginia’s is quite expansive in terms of employees.

ZenDem

(442 posts)
8. Thank you!
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 03:01 PM
Jul 2021

It's so hard for me to think outside the box. I've been doing this for so long, imagining being useful in another industry is impossible to imagine.

Anon-C

(3,430 posts)
2. Someone will hire YOU!
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 11:25 AM
Jul 2021

Think of me and focus your anger and hatred towards me, and you will have your wish.

ZenDem

(442 posts)
9. LOL!
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 03:02 PM
Jul 2021

It's hard for me to focus anger at someone that's actually being nice to me. Not impossible, just really hard. I appreciate the offer, though!

ZenDem

(442 posts)
11. Yes...sort of?
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 03:15 PM
Jul 2021

I've toyed with the idea of moving on for a few years, so I've glanced at Indeed. Once I get started, I'll give it a "real" try.

mahatmakanejeeves

(57,370 posts)
4. Register at USAjobs.gov.
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 11:30 AM
Jul 2021

Even if you don't intend to work for the Feds, you will be prompted to fill out a resume that you can use for any job to which you might apply. It's good discipline, and it's always accessible.

https://www.usajobs.gov/

mahatmakanejeeves

(57,370 posts)
13. Two thumbs up. You'll find yourself looking things up and getting organized in the process.
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 03:18 PM
Jul 2021

Having all the information available will prove of great value.

HTH

WA-03 Democrat

(3,039 posts)
5. I have never seen a better hiring phase than now
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 11:42 AM
Jul 2021

There are a lot of positions and your program management experience is applicable in many different industries. “Herd cats is something every business needs” a good PM friend of mine once said. They also like to show a chart with them in the middle like the Sun. It’s true. A good part of the job is reminding everyone what needs to get done.

You will find a new fit and start a new and better chapter!

ZenDem

(442 posts)
14. Heh...
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 03:19 PM
Jul 2021

...I love my spreadsheets. Everyone loves my spreadsheets. They actually have usable info in a simple to follow format (except for my own...those are a tailored to my own freakish brain).

Thanks for the vote of confidence!!!

cbabe

(3,537 posts)
6. Advice I gave my clients:
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 11:51 AM
Jul 2021

Keep your options open.Think skills not specific job. For example, managing others can be any industry not only your current job.

Research growth industries. Tech. Healthcare. How can you help them?

Network. Find out where people gather. Websites, coffee shops, little league.

Talk to everyone. Your dentist. Hairdresser. Ask for more names.

I actually had a Harvard law grad who didn't want to put it on her resume. Thought it was bragging.
Lead with your top two or three accomplishments.

Leave out soft personal goals.

ZenDem

(442 posts)
15. It's difficult.
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 03:25 PM
Jul 2021

I'm not a big fan of change so changing industries at my age is daunting.

My personal goals are to survive and not be a burden to my son and DIL. I'll probably leave that off my resume. LOL!!!

cbabe

(3,537 posts)
23. Think of having a
Sat Jul 31, 2021, 12:29 PM
Jul 2021

Grand Adventure. Like Wallace and Gromit.

Taking the road less traveled in the snowy wood.

Best reason ever to update your wardrobe.

Meet new best friends. Surprised by joy.

Let us know how it goes. Cheers!

Bayard

(22,038 posts)
7. PM me
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 01:00 PM
Jul 2021

I'm a retired headhunter. I can send you resume writing tips, and interview prep.

As someone else said, your project management skills would transfer to a lot of industries.

ZenDem

(442 posts)
16. Thank you!!!
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 03:32 PM
Jul 2021

I really appreciate the offer, but I hate asking for actual help. I need to find my resume...that's me thinking out loud. LOL!

Kind of a depressing side note; I used to get random hits from headhunters. That doesn't happen anymore. I think the last hit I received was about 5 or so years ago.

Nittersing

(6,353 posts)
20. Take Bayard up on the offer!!!
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 05:51 PM
Jul 2021

Years ago I was in a similar position...

I had an acquaintance on Compuserve (told you it was years ago) who had some experience with job counseling and offered to help. I shared my concerns and he sent back an email with a variety of questions that really helped to clarify the direction I wanted to go.

Nothing like a fresh set of eyes.

Sanity Claws

(21,846 posts)
10. Someone will hire you!
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 03:07 PM
Jul 2021

The market is opening up, even for older women.
I am an older woman (even older than you) and was contacted by 2 head hunters in the last two months. No one had contacted me in about two years.
Go for it.

ZenDem

(442 posts)
17. Thank you!!!
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 03:33 PM
Jul 2021

Everyone has given me so much hope! I knew this morning when I woke up that this was the place to go for a pep talk. I was right!

THANK YOU!!!

XanaDUer2

(10,630 posts)
21. I hear you
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 09:58 PM
Jul 2021

I'm so sorry this is happening to you.



I'm trying to get on ssdi due to getting ill from a very toxic job situation. I'm scared, too. I'm in my 50s.

You can do this! You've started the right way- have someone help with your cv. You can do a stealth job search. No job is worth your health. I know it's scary.

Take it one step at a time. Good luck

Kali

(55,006 posts)
22. good luck!
Fri Jul 30, 2021, 11:38 PM
Jul 2021

I don't have any way to help unless you want to come back and sharpen cactus spines, but I'm cheering for you anyway!

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