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Rizen

(707 posts)
Sat Jul 31, 2021, 09:33 PM Jul 2021

I'm happy because I found someone...

On a dating website who was willing to give me her phone number so we can text. I'm autistic and dating is very hard for me. I like her very much, she a biologist and a writer who's brilliant. I'm attracted to intelligence. You may remember my post from a few months ago about my break up. So I though I'd post here about something finally working out.

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I'm happy because I found someone... (Original Post) Rizen Jul 2021 OP
Congrats! SheltieLover Jul 2021 #1
I'm happy for you! Aristus Jul 2021 #2
I gave up on more "beautiful" women for the intelligent one I married 53 years ago... Enter stage left Jul 2021 #3
32 years for us Unwind Your Mind Jul 2021 #4
Intelligence, and a good sense of humor. Enter stage left Jul 2021 #6
🍀🍀🍀 blm Jul 2021 #5
If two people can find love in this messed up world, well hell yeah! Eliot Rosewater Jul 2021 #7
Wonderful nt XanaDUer2 Jul 2021 #8
Good luck. multigraincracker Jul 2021 #9
Good luck! nt Ilsa Jul 2021 #10
Best wishes. Sounds promising! Evolve Dammit Jul 2021 #11
Big gz ( congrats ) Tetrachloride Jul 2021 #12
Yeah! MLAA Jul 2021 #13
Wishing you the best Retired Engineer Bob Jul 2021 #14
Good for you. With any luck she'll have a toe dipped in the spectrum, too Warpy Aug 2021 #15
Good luck! beveeheart Aug 2021 #16

Enter stage left

(3,394 posts)
3. I gave up on more "beautiful" women for the intelligent one I married 53 years ago...
Sat Jul 31, 2021, 09:44 PM
Jul 2021

We're still a happy couple.

Beauty fades, intelligence preservers.

Unwind Your Mind

(2,041 posts)
4. 32 years for us
Sat Jul 31, 2021, 09:54 PM
Jul 2021

I always say the most important thing is to find someone you enjoy and have fun with, it’s the thing that matters most in the long run.
14. Wishing you the best
Sat Jul 31, 2021, 11:56 PM
Jul 2021

Finding a suitable partner is a difficult but worthwhile task.

I did better than I deserve. I met my husband Jose in ‘96, we soon moved in together. In 2014 when the Supremes made it “official”, we got married. Still together, growing old together.

COVID has totally messed up the dating thing. I so look forward to being able to safely socialize, and am infuriated by the vax deniers that keep this from happening.

Warpy

(111,141 posts)
15. Good for you. With any luck she'll have a toe dipped in the spectrum, too
Sun Aug 1, 2021, 12:08 AM
Aug 2021

and it happens a lot more than you think it odes, autistic women were missed for decades because it is expressed so differently in women. Now they're starting to realize the ratio is close to 1:1. So your chances of finding someone on your own wavelength are better than people used to think they were.

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