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marble falls

(57,077 posts)
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 10:19 AM Oct 2021

I start my new job today. If I sat home one more day, I was going to burn a computer and a TV ...

I'm going to cashier/bus four hours per day at a local health food restaurant.

I told one of the servers I had retired a long time ago and she told me I looked pretty sturdy for being in my fifties. I had to tell her I'm in my seventies.

Put a bounce in my step the rest of the day.

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I start my new job today. If I sat home one more day, I was going to burn a computer and a TV ... (Original Post) marble falls Oct 2021 OP
yay for you!!! ( and for the rest of us in that age group) :) samnsara Oct 2021 #1
We decided to get rid of it before we go, they're not interested and really, I can't fault them ... marble falls Oct 2021 #5
I did the same, got rid of tons of stuff..... was fairly ruthless. Irish_Dem Oct 2021 #15
I just want to say "Congratulations" for getting the job, looking 20 years younger (always a plus) Evolve Dammit Oct 2021 #22
I love it! Hope you enjoy the job. Nt spooky3 Oct 2021 #2
Good for you! More than anything, I hope you enjoy your time there. Fla Dem Oct 2021 #3
Have fun working with the youngsters! viva la Oct 2021 #4
Enjoy! Jilly_in_VA Oct 2021 #6
I told her I did not want the $100 bonus. And I know I am the first person she hired that ever ... marble falls Oct 2021 #7
The volunteer options are few here. Also, I have extreme lifting limits due to effects from ... marble falls Oct 2021 #8
Fortunately Jilly_in_VA Oct 2021 #10
Time to go punch in! marble falls Oct 2021 #9
That's a nice way to share your joy with others. Harker Oct 2021 #11
yay Soph0571 Oct 2021 #12
Good for you! I am getting really bored too. Irish_Dem Oct 2021 #13
Yeaaa. Good for you. 3Hotdogs Oct 2021 #14
will be nice to be around like-minded people NJCher Oct 2021 #16
Excellent! calimary Oct 2021 #17
We just got a rescue pup. I forgot how much work it is. How many did you get? I'm allergic to cats Evolve Dammit Oct 2021 #24
Two kittens. Litter mates! calimary Oct 2021 #29
Aww. That is great. Our shelter said they break up litter mates for sibling issues later? But that's Evolve Dammit Oct 2021 #32
Well, we're two for two. This is our second pair of litter mates. calimary Oct 2021 #33
Awesome. Our female rescue pup had a litter mate and it was so tempting (male)! Evolve Dammit Oct 2021 #35
After the last two days, I think I'd trade one of my days for some "bored" DFW Oct 2021 #18
Holy crap. That is really tressful, but sounds really exciting just to be somewhere a bit more sane? Evolve Dammit Oct 2021 #25
What is that? DFW Oct 2021 #26
And just ask anyone in France or Germany if they think THEIR country is sane DFW Oct 2021 #27
I guess it is a world-wide unraveling. Scary times. Still hope you get a vacation! Evolve Dammit Oct 2021 #28
Except if you hang in Wellfleet, Truro or Provincetown DFW Oct 2021 #30
Vanishing is good. No cell phone reception where I'm going. See you in _x weeks. Period. Evolve Dammit Oct 2021 #31
I'm not THAT good DFW Oct 2021 #34
Ha! I've gotten much better at just saying No. I can't do that. If they can't handle the truth fine! Evolve Dammit Oct 2021 #36
My colleagues know I can't beam myself up (don't call me Scotty). DFW Oct 2021 #37
very good points. Glad to know you have a handle on it. You must be in high demand! Not a bad Evolve Dammit Oct 2021 #38
The high demand has certainly provided job security DFW Oct 2021 #39
Yes, a replacement will be very difficult. Hopefully your employer(s) are thinking ahead? Whatever Evolve Dammit Oct 2021 #40
We've been thinking ahead for the last 40 years DFW Oct 2021 #41
Have a wonderful first day chocolatpi Oct 2021 #19
I'm retired and some days it is hard Marthe48 Oct 2021 #20
Good for you! I plan on working long after retirement, too! StClone Oct 2021 #21
I had to get out of the house too Nanuke Oct 2021 #23

samnsara

(17,616 posts)
1. yay for you!!! ( and for the rest of us in that age group) :)
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 10:21 AM
Oct 2021

...but thankfully (HA!) I have two garages full of dead relatives stuff i have to go thru...

marble falls

(57,077 posts)
5. We decided to get rid of it before we go, they're not interested and really, I can't fault them ...
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 11:05 AM
Oct 2021

... I have nice chairs in the garage from my grandparent, joys got a huge stash of 'documents' from her father from 1985.

We've been giving to friends and donating and (hard for me) 'Dempsey dumping'.

When I had to give up my shop, I had collected tons of plastic for reuse in dyeing. And there was no mechanism for recycling it. I was really guilty over dumping it.

I don't know if we own it or it owns us. It means we own a larger home than either one of us wants.

Irish_Dem

(46,918 posts)
15. I did the same, got rid of tons of stuff..... was fairly ruthless.
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 12:28 PM
Oct 2021

Pared way down, and when I kick off, my offspring won't have a lot of work to do.

Evolve Dammit

(16,723 posts)
22. I just want to say "Congratulations" for getting the job, looking 20 years younger (always a plus)
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 01:16 PM
Oct 2021

and just having something positive to look forward to. I had to clean out five generations of family accumulations and it took me two years. It was quite possibly the hardest thing I've ever done. Had to sue a crooked consignment shop (who woulda thought??), donated a ton, set up collections at Universities and Historical Associations, and gave Goodwill, Salvation Army and the local thrift stores a ton. I still have more to do, but I'm 90% I think...
Anyhow, best wishes for your newest chapter!

Jilly_in_VA

(9,965 posts)
6. Enjoy!
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 11:27 AM
Oct 2021

Nice to pick up some pocket change too. Getting out of the house was one reason I started volunteering at the SPCA. No $$$ in that but I love it.

marble falls

(57,077 posts)
7. I told her I did not want the $100 bonus. And I know I am the first person she hired that ever ...
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 11:35 AM
Oct 2021

... told her they wanted $2/hr less than she offered. I also told her I did not want the servers to tip me.

I'm there to help me as much as to help her: a win/win deal that's plenty good enough for me.

I'm not heavy, but I have destroyed our couch. Just sitting on it through the Pandemic.

marble falls

(57,077 posts)
8. The volunteer options are few here. Also, I have extreme lifting limits due to effects from ...
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 11:40 AM
Oct 2021

... cancer surgery. I am fairly big and long haired. I used to scare my daughter's boyfriends when the met me. I'm a biker looking hippy. I am afraid of scaring kids so I don't tutor, my situation calls for working at a place that really needs the help. I've known Janet for years and she needs help.

She has to need help. She hired a 70+ busboy!!!

Jilly_in_VA

(9,965 posts)
10. Fortunately
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 11:55 AM
Oct 2021

the dogs and cats don't care how you look. The new guy in charge of dogs at the shelter looks pretty much like you describe yourself. The new person in charge of the stray cat jail is a 20-something young woman with multiple piercings, tattoos, and an insulin pump that beeps at odd moments. She's amazing with our terrified stray babies though. And the guy with the dogs is very soft-spoken with them. We do have some, ahem, different-looking folks behind the scenes. Our four-legged friends just care that you're kind to them.

Irish_Dem

(46,918 posts)
13. Good for you! I am getting really bored too.
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 12:22 PM
Oct 2021

Especially sitting home since Covid for a year and a half.

I think you made a good decision, it will be something interesting and a way to get out and about.
Also get some exercise.

Congratulations on your new endeavor!

3Hotdogs

(12,372 posts)
14. Yeaaa. Good for you.
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 12:23 PM
Oct 2021

I’m 79 in two weeks. As I posted a fee weeks ago, it looks like 80 is the new 85.

NJCher

(35,658 posts)
16. will be nice to be around like-minded people
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 12:32 PM
Oct 2021

(health food restaurant workers, owner, and patrons)

Just be sure to mask up. Hope you have your booster. I read where the top 5 places to catch Covid, restaurants are #5. Guess what was #1? Church!

Evolve Dammit

(16,723 posts)
24. We just got a rescue pup. I forgot how much work it is. How many did you get? I'm allergic to cats
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 01:20 PM
Oct 2021

so we went the puppy route. We had dogs ~25 years ago. She is darn cute. Got the "puppy eyes" thing down.

calimary

(81,220 posts)
29. Two kittens. Litter mates!
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 03:43 PM
Oct 2021

Double Heaven! They play with each other, sleep curled up together, and keep each other company. Probably makes the whole adjustment thing easier, I’m guessing.

Evolve Dammit

(16,723 posts)
32. Aww. That is great. Our shelter said they break up litter mates for sibling issues later? But that's
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 06:12 PM
Oct 2021

dogs. Seemed odd, but they know way more than I do. I think it's great! enjoy.

calimary

(81,220 posts)
33. Well, we're two for two. This is our second pair of litter mates.
Fri Oct 8, 2021, 01:34 AM
Oct 2021

Again, a male and a female. And it is working out just as well this time as it did the first time! And maybe it’s just cuz we’re talking cats.

DFW

(54,349 posts)
18. After the last two days, I think I'd trade one of my days for some "bored"
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 12:52 PM
Oct 2021

Yesterday I had to run down to France for the day. The usual early train wasn’t running, and the commuter train line from town is out due to a tunnel collapse (the USA doesn’t have a monopoly on infrastructure failures). So I took a taxi to the airport train station, got a commuter train down to a suburban train station outside of Cologne, where the through train to Brussels was stopping. It was late getting into Brussels, but I still made the Thalys down to Paris. I ran around like crazy due to having three hours less to get my stuff done than I would have normally. The 5:10 PM train to Frankfurt (only game in town) left on time, but got in late. The train I did get in Frankfurt was an hour late getting into Düsseldorf, so I treated myselfk to a €40 taxi home (I’m billing the company). I got home around 12:45, did paperwork until my eyes started falling shut.

I conked out just before 3:00 AM, woke up at 8, found out an hour later I needed to run down to Frankfurt immediately. I called the travel agency and had them prepare a ticket. I jumped into my wife’s car (I gave her mine to drive up to see her mom, who had had a medical emergency last Saturday), got my ticket, drove like mad back to the airport train station, and made my train down to Düsseldorf with 90 seconds to spare. I made it to Frankfurt on time, only needed half an hour, and was back at the Frankfurt central station in time for the 2:10 PM train back up to Düsseldorf—except that it had been canceled. So, I got rebooked via the Frankfurt airport station, got back to Düsseldorf at 5 instead of 3:30, was home at 6 instead of 4, and tomorrow morning, I still have to run over to Utrecht in the Netherlands in time to be in my office there by 9:30 AM.

I’ll trade a day of this for some “boring.” Any takers?

Evolve Dammit

(16,723 posts)
25. Holy crap. That is really tressful, but sounds really exciting just to be somewhere a bit more sane?
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 01:23 PM
Oct 2021

Got any vacation coming?

DFW

(54,349 posts)
27. And just ask anyone in France or Germany if they think THEIR country is sane
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 01:40 PM
Oct 2021

A country's biggest critics are always the locals (especially France) unless it's someplace like North Korea, where being an open critic gets you a one-way ticket to incarceration, starvation, or both.

DFW

(54,349 posts)
30. Except if you hang in Wellfleet, Truro or Provincetown
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 03:54 PM
Oct 2021

I do tend to vanish from the face of the earth every July.

DFW

(54,349 posts)
34. I'm not THAT good
Fri Oct 8, 2021, 10:42 AM
Oct 2021

I still get phone calls. But I tell them, "no I CAN'T be in Madrid (or wherever it is this time) tomorrow," and that's then end of it. They suddenly grow spontaneous flexibility when I tell them that I'm more than a 2 hour flight away, and really, REALLY can't make it.

And Madrid NEVER has the time to come see me, of course. I'm always the one that has to go there. Mohammed must go to the mountain. The mountain never goes to Mohammed.

Evolve Dammit

(16,723 posts)
36. Ha! I've gotten much better at just saying No. I can't do that. If they can't handle the truth fine!
Fri Oct 8, 2021, 03:01 PM
Oct 2021

DFW

(54,349 posts)
37. My colleagues know I can't beam myself up (don't call me Scotty).
Fri Oct 8, 2021, 03:31 PM
Oct 2021

But they can still ask. I can say "no," too--in more than ten languages--but that doesn't stop everybody from asking. Besides, I don't put out a Facebook post with my travel plans. The world doesn't have to know every move I make. That's why my wife and I hate credit cards. No one has to know every when and where we stop for a lobster roll or an espresso, especially some ideologically driven control freak bureaucrat with a computer screen and a lack of a life away from it.

Evolve Dammit

(16,723 posts)
38. very good points. Glad to know you have a handle on it. You must be in high demand! Not a bad
Fri Oct 8, 2021, 05:49 PM
Oct 2021

place to be. And phones and credit cards are visible trails. I'm a bit of a techno-phobe and don't do any social media. DU is the closest I come!

DFW

(54,349 posts)
39. The high demand has certainly provided job security
Sat Oct 9, 2021, 02:35 AM
Oct 2021

But to get there I had to paint myself into a corner. Making yourself indispensable is only an asset as long as you want to be just that. I was already that thirty years ago. At 69, I’m looking for a replacement. Six figure pay, lots of travel, decide your own vacation, nice gig, right? All you need are counterfeit money detecting skills—going back 2500 years—conversational English, French, German, Russian, Spanish, Italian, one Scandinavian language, and Dutch. Also: an EU residence and work permit. A willingness to travel, too, as in a different country every day, is also essential.

I’m sure you get the picture. Though I’ve never had to worry about someone taking my job, now I have to worry about NO ONE taking my job. Still, like Clemenceau said, the cemeteries are full of irreplaceable people. I’m in no hurry, but I don’t get a permanent waiver, either.

Evolve Dammit

(16,723 posts)
40. Yes, a replacement will be very difficult. Hopefully your employer(s) are thinking ahead? Whatever
Sat Oct 9, 2021, 10:04 AM
Oct 2021

or wherever your future endeavors lead you, I hope they are rewarding in some way. I'm in my 60's as well, and I look at post-work possibilities with the main thought, "will I find this rewarding to myself and is it a cause that benefits the planet, human or animal life and needs assistance"? No shortage of causes and organizations to investigate.
Your career sounds very interesting, unique and is obviously always needed, as criminals just keep thinking of new ways to be criminals. Job security I guess!
Take care,
ED

DFW

(54,349 posts)
41. We've been thinking ahead for the last 40 years
Sat Oct 9, 2021, 10:53 AM
Oct 2021

When I was recruited, it was the summer of 1975. I asked for some extra vacation time (before I even started!) to be able to visit my then-girlfriend (now wife) in Germany. Instead of laughing me off, the top guy, said, "granted, as long as you use the time to establish some work for yourself over there." We were both 23. He is still the top guy (co-top guy, now, as he merged with his biggest rival during the Reagan recession). We were an innovative niche outfit of about 12 people, average age about ours, some over, some under. We are now over 500 people worldwide, almost all of us niche people. Same people at the top. I recruited the guy in our Geneva office when he was 37. He'll be 75 next year. He shows no signs of slowing down, but we all do eventually, don't we?

We're always looking, but the kind of people we need don't exactly line up for interviews. There just aren't all that many to begin with. Of the people we could use, maybe a tenth of them are interested in coming to join us long term. The hours are long, it's not always without danger or inconvenience, and there's a lot to put up with. On the other hand, the leadership is realistic and compassionate. Employees with serious illnesses--whether themselves or immediate family--are told "take all the time you need." Monthly birthday parties, yearly house Barbecues (for 500 people!), that kind of thing. If there's some catastrophe that requires downsizing, the top people, who now include me, go down to $1 salary until things improve. Letting people go is only an extreme last resort, and we haven't done it yet. Years ago, one of our guys in Dallas got pulled in by some fanatic Christian cult, and he started trying to convert the whole office. His wife left him, and we had to let him go, too. But we kept him on the books at minimum wage so he'd keep his health insurance while looking for something else. There are always jobs in Dallas, so he found something a few months later. Sort of "you pull your weight for us, and we've got your back if you need it." Not a lot of employee turnover, as you might expect. One kid who started out in the mail room 25 years ago proved to be really smart. He is now head of logistics, running over to Holland or Hong Kong to organize stuff that needs organizing. We also rotate people that get sent to Hong Kong, so that a maximum of Dallas employees that could never afford a trip on their own get a trip there on the company dime, with the option of a few extra days there to look around.

So, as you can imagine, post-work for me looks more like a void, or a state of suspended animation at best. Stop working, and do WHAT that sounds better? I never know what the next day will bring, or which countries are on the schedule for the following week. It keeps things interesting. If I drop dead in the meantime, at least, it won't be due to boredom, which, to me, sounds like the pinnacle of torture. But to reap the benefits, you need to be able to fit into the niche. I have yet to find the man or woman who fits into mine. And so, for now, I remain in this corner I painted my self into. I haven't stopped looking. Some day, somewhere, I still hope to find someone who wants to do my job, and CAN.

Marthe48

(16,935 posts)
20. I'm retired and some days it is hard
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 01:01 PM
Oct 2021

But, if I get restless, I figured out that I am doing what I'm supposed to be doing

Congrats on your job Hope you like it!

StClone

(11,683 posts)
21. Good for you! I plan on working long after retirement, too!
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 01:02 PM
Oct 2021

I can sprint...yes run at full speed...and I am in my mid-60's. I took up a job working in produce at a local store. Because after I did all those fun things I always planned on doing post-retirement, I got bored and felt like I was degenerating.

Now I am back lifting, moving, and doing a lot of interacting with customers. They know me and I get a lot of comments of thanks and praise as "your department is their favorite of any store around." Good for mind, body, and soul, and seeing how fast things deteriorate when I am off for days makes me feel guilty!

Nanuke

(487 posts)
23. I had to get out of the house too
Thu Oct 7, 2021, 01:18 PM
Oct 2021

…and started volunteering 2 afternoons/week at our local food shelf/pantry. (Exactly 2 weeks after getting vaccinated in March). So many people in need. We’re now offering rental assistance. Best job since I retired from my corporate VP position 4 years ago. All run by volunteers. Great people. It has helped to lift my COVID and Trump depression.

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