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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsI start my new job today. If I sat home one more day, I was going to burn a computer and a TV ...
I'm going to cashier/bus four hours per day at a local health food restaurant.
I told one of the servers I had retired a long time ago and she told me I looked pretty sturdy for being in my fifties. I had to tell her I'm in my seventies.
Put a bounce in my step the rest of the day.
samnsara
(17,616 posts)...but thankfully (HA!) I have two garages full of dead relatives stuff i have to go thru...
marble falls
(57,077 posts)... I have nice chairs in the garage from my grandparent, joys got a huge stash of 'documents' from her father from 1985.
We've been giving to friends and donating and (hard for me) 'Dempsey dumping'.
When I had to give up my shop, I had collected tons of plastic for reuse in dyeing. And there was no mechanism for recycling it. I was really guilty over dumping it.
I don't know if we own it or it owns us. It means we own a larger home than either one of us wants.
Irish_Dem
(46,918 posts)Pared way down, and when I kick off, my offspring won't have a lot of work to do.
Evolve Dammit
(16,723 posts)and just having something positive to look forward to. I had to clean out five generations of family accumulations and it took me two years. It was quite possibly the hardest thing I've ever done. Had to sue a crooked consignment shop (who woulda thought??), donated a ton, set up collections at Universities and Historical Associations, and gave Goodwill, Salvation Army and the local thrift stores a ton. I still have more to do, but I'm 90% I think...
Anyhow, best wishes for your newest chapter!
spooky3
(34,438 posts)Fla Dem
(23,650 posts)viva la
(3,286 posts)I hope you get a free meal each day too.
Jilly_in_VA
(9,965 posts)Nice to pick up some pocket change too. Getting out of the house was one reason I started volunteering at the SPCA. No $$$ in that but I love it.
marble falls
(57,077 posts)... told her they wanted $2/hr less than she offered. I also told her I did not want the servers to tip me.
I'm there to help me as much as to help her: a win/win deal that's plenty good enough for me.
I'm not heavy, but I have destroyed our couch. Just sitting on it through the Pandemic.
marble falls
(57,077 posts)... cancer surgery. I am fairly big and long haired. I used to scare my daughter's boyfriends when the met me. I'm a biker looking hippy. I am afraid of scaring kids so I don't tutor, my situation calls for working at a place that really needs the help. I've known Janet for years and she needs help.
She has to need help. She hired a 70+ busboy!!!
Jilly_in_VA
(9,965 posts)the dogs and cats don't care how you look. The new guy in charge of dogs at the shelter looks pretty much like you describe yourself. The new person in charge of the stray cat jail is a 20-something young woman with multiple piercings, tattoos, and an insulin pump that beeps at odd moments. She's amazing with our terrified stray babies though. And the guy with the dogs is very soft-spoken with them. We do have some, ahem, different-looking folks behind the scenes. Our four-legged friends just care that you're kind to them.
marble falls
(57,077 posts)Harker
(14,012 posts)Beautiful.
Soph0571
(9,685 posts)Irish_Dem
(46,918 posts)Especially sitting home since Covid for a year and a half.
I think you made a good decision, it will be something interesting and a way to get out and about.
Also get some exercise.
Congratulations on your new endeavor!
3Hotdogs
(12,372 posts)Im 79 in two weeks. As I posted a fee weeks ago, it looks like 80 is the new 85.
NJCher
(35,658 posts)(health food restaurant workers, owner, and patrons)
Just be sure to mask up. Hope you have your booster. I read where the top 5 places to catch Covid, restaurants are #5. Guess what was #1? Church!
calimary
(81,220 posts)We found an additional approach:
New kittens! Just adopted a week ago! HEAVEN times two!
Evolve Dammit
(16,723 posts)so we went the puppy route. We had dogs ~25 years ago. She is darn cute. Got the "puppy eyes" thing down.
calimary
(81,220 posts)Double Heaven! They play with each other, sleep curled up together, and keep each other company. Probably makes the whole adjustment thing easier, Im guessing.
Evolve Dammit
(16,723 posts)dogs. Seemed odd, but they know way more than I do. I think it's great! enjoy.
calimary
(81,220 posts)Again, a male and a female. And it is working out just as well this time as it did the first time! And maybe its just cuz were talking cats.
Evolve Dammit
(16,723 posts)DFW
(54,349 posts)Yesterday I had to run down to France for the day. The usual early train wasnt running, and the commuter train line from town is out due to a tunnel collapse (the USA doesnt have a monopoly on infrastructure failures). So I took a taxi to the airport train station, got a commuter train down to a suburban train station outside of Cologne, where the through train to Brussels was stopping. It was late getting into Brussels, but I still made the Thalys down to Paris. I ran around like crazy due to having three hours less to get my stuff done than I would have normally. The 5:10 PM train to Frankfurt (only game in town) left on time, but got in late. The train I did get in Frankfurt was an hour late getting into Düsseldorf, so I treated myselfk to a 40 taxi home (Im billing the company). I got home around 12:45, did paperwork until my eyes started falling shut.
I conked out just before 3:00 AM, woke up at 8, found out an hour later I needed to run down to Frankfurt immediately. I called the travel agency and had them prepare a ticket. I jumped into my wifes car (I gave her mine to drive up to see her mom, who had had a medical emergency last Saturday), got my ticket, drove like mad back to the airport train station, and made my train down to Düsseldorf with 90 seconds to spare. I made it to Frankfurt on time, only needed half an hour, and was back at the Frankfurt central station in time for the 2:10 PM train back up to Düsseldorfexcept that it had been canceled. So, I got rebooked via the Frankfurt airport station, got back to Düsseldorf at 5 instead of 3:30, was home at 6 instead of 4, and tomorrow morning, I still have to run over to Utrecht in the Netherlands in time to be in my office there by 9:30 AM.
Ill trade a day of this for some boring. Any takers?
Evolve Dammit
(16,723 posts)Got any vacation coming?
DFW
(54,349 posts)I'm sure I've heard the term before..........
DFW
(54,349 posts)A country's biggest critics are always the locals (especially France) unless it's someplace like North Korea, where being an open critic gets you a one-way ticket to incarceration, starvation, or both.
Evolve Dammit
(16,723 posts)DFW
(54,349 posts)I do tend to vanish from the face of the earth every July.
Evolve Dammit
(16,723 posts)DFW
(54,349 posts)I still get phone calls. But I tell them, "no I CAN'T be in Madrid (or wherever it is this time) tomorrow," and that's then end of it. They suddenly grow spontaneous flexibility when I tell them that I'm more than a 2 hour flight away, and really, REALLY can't make it.
And Madrid NEVER has the time to come see me, of course. I'm always the one that has to go there. Mohammed must go to the mountain. The mountain never goes to Mohammed.
Evolve Dammit
(16,723 posts)DFW
(54,349 posts)But they can still ask. I can say "no," too--in more than ten languages--but that doesn't stop everybody from asking. Besides, I don't put out a Facebook post with my travel plans. The world doesn't have to know every move I make. That's why my wife and I hate credit cards. No one has to know every when and where we stop for a lobster roll or an espresso, especially some ideologically driven control freak bureaucrat with a computer screen and a lack of a life away from it.
Evolve Dammit
(16,723 posts)place to be. And phones and credit cards are visible trails. I'm a bit of a techno-phobe and don't do any social media. DU is the closest I come!
DFW
(54,349 posts)But to get there I had to paint myself into a corner. Making yourself indispensable is only an asset as long as you want to be just that. I was already that thirty years ago. At 69, Im looking for a replacement. Six figure pay, lots of travel, decide your own vacation, nice gig, right? All you need are counterfeit money detecting skillsgoing back 2500 yearsconversational English, French, German, Russian, Spanish, Italian, one Scandinavian language, and Dutch. Also: an EU residence and work permit. A willingness to travel, too, as in a different country every day, is also essential.
Im sure you get the picture. Though Ive never had to worry about someone taking my job, now I have to worry about NO ONE taking my job. Still, like Clemenceau said, the cemeteries are full of irreplaceable people. Im in no hurry, but I dont get a permanent waiver, either.
Evolve Dammit
(16,723 posts)or wherever your future endeavors lead you, I hope they are rewarding in some way. I'm in my 60's as well, and I look at post-work possibilities with the main thought, "will I find this rewarding to myself and is it a cause that benefits the planet, human or animal life and needs assistance"? No shortage of causes and organizations to investigate.
Your career sounds very interesting, unique and is obviously always needed, as criminals just keep thinking of new ways to be criminals. Job security I guess!
Take care,
ED
DFW
(54,349 posts)When I was recruited, it was the summer of 1975. I asked for some extra vacation time (before I even started!) to be able to visit my then-girlfriend (now wife) in Germany. Instead of laughing me off, the top guy, said, "granted, as long as you use the time to establish some work for yourself over there." We were both 23. He is still the top guy (co-top guy, now, as he merged with his biggest rival during the Reagan recession). We were an innovative niche outfit of about 12 people, average age about ours, some over, some under. We are now over 500 people worldwide, almost all of us niche people. Same people at the top. I recruited the guy in our Geneva office when he was 37. He'll be 75 next year. He shows no signs of slowing down, but we all do eventually, don't we?
We're always looking, but the kind of people we need don't exactly line up for interviews. There just aren't all that many to begin with. Of the people we could use, maybe a tenth of them are interested in coming to join us long term. The hours are long, it's not always without danger or inconvenience, and there's a lot to put up with. On the other hand, the leadership is realistic and compassionate. Employees with serious illnesses--whether themselves or immediate family--are told "take all the time you need." Monthly birthday parties, yearly house Barbecues (for 500 people!), that kind of thing. If there's some catastrophe that requires downsizing, the top people, who now include me, go down to $1 salary until things improve. Letting people go is only an extreme last resort, and we haven't done it yet. Years ago, one of our guys in Dallas got pulled in by some fanatic Christian cult, and he started trying to convert the whole office. His wife left him, and we had to let him go, too. But we kept him on the books at minimum wage so he'd keep his health insurance while looking for something else. There are always jobs in Dallas, so he found something a few months later. Sort of "you pull your weight for us, and we've got your back if you need it." Not a lot of employee turnover, as you might expect. One kid who started out in the mail room 25 years ago proved to be really smart. He is now head of logistics, running over to Holland or Hong Kong to organize stuff that needs organizing. We also rotate people that get sent to Hong Kong, so that a maximum of Dallas employees that could never afford a trip on their own get a trip there on the company dime, with the option of a few extra days there to look around.
So, as you can imagine, post-work for me looks more like a void, or a state of suspended animation at best. Stop working, and do WHAT that sounds better? I never know what the next day will bring, or which countries are on the schedule for the following week. It keeps things interesting. If I drop dead in the meantime, at least, it won't be due to boredom, which, to me, sounds like the pinnacle of torture. But to reap the benefits, you need to be able to fit into the niche. I have yet to find the man or woman who fits into mine. And so, for now, I remain in this corner I painted my self into. I haven't stopped looking. Some day, somewhere, I still hope to find someone who wants to do my job, and CAN.
chocolatpi
(7,888 posts)Let us know how it goes
Marthe48
(16,935 posts)But, if I get restless, I figured out that I am doing what I'm supposed to be doing
Congrats on your job Hope you like it!
StClone
(11,683 posts)I can sprint...yes run at full speed...and I am in my mid-60's. I took up a job working in produce at a local store. Because after I did all those fun things I always planned on doing post-retirement, I got bored and felt like I was degenerating.
Now I am back lifting, moving, and doing a lot of interacting with customers. They know me and I get a lot of comments of thanks and praise as "your department is their favorite of any store around." Good for mind, body, and soul, and seeing how fast things deteriorate when I am off for days makes me feel guilty!
Nanuke
(487 posts)and started volunteering 2 afternoons/week at our local food shelf/pantry. (Exactly 2 weeks after getting vaccinated in March). So many people in need. Were now offering rental assistance. Best job since I retired from my corporate VP position 4 years ago. All run by volunteers. Great people. It has helped to lift my COVID and Trump depression.