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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsHello - I like old cemeteries
I like old brownstone or slate headstones with interesting carvings. I also like to learn about headstone carvers and their unique styles they put into their craft.
Does anyone else also like old cemeteries?
Scrivener7
(50,949 posts)Effete Snob
(8,387 posts)Its interesting to take down names and look them up later. I have met some of the most fascinating people I know in cemeteries.
Elessar Zappa
(13,964 posts)When Im traveling , Ill often visit old graveyards.
XanaDUer2
(10,643 posts)I love Find-A-Grave and put some family on it
SergeStorms
(19,193 posts)I've used it hundreds of times. There are many on-line sites from cemeteries around the world. Of course, the greatest collection of genealogical information are the records of the Mormon Church. You have to have special permission to access those though.
XanaDUer2
(10,643 posts)We got to visit that library. I was a librarian
XanaDUer2
(10,643 posts)We got to visit that library. I was a librarian
Marthe48
(16,935 posts)I use Family Search, which is free, but I also log in to my local public library and access some gen. sites for free. I'm in Ohio. I like Find a Grave, too.
Oneironaut
(5,492 posts)Haggard Celine
(16,844 posts)although I haven't been to one in years. I especially like the ones that have a lot of statues and other decorations on the tombs. There are old graves around here that have headstones written in French or Spanish. Those graves date back into the 1700s.
One thing you notice in those older cemeteries is how many children's graves there are. Diseases like flu and polio and smallpox killed a lot of them. A lot of women died young, too, back then. Many died from childbirth. And that's what too many people in this country want to go back to.
Rhiannon12866
(205,213 posts)The one grave that we always visited was "Little Lulu Cooper," an only child who died young in the 1800s and is buried between her parents.
My grandmother also took me to see her "family plot" where her own grandmother's children who died young are buried. Her grandmother gave birth to 14 children, but only six lived to grow up, all boys. And the eldest was my grandmother's father. The saddest ones were Robert and Leroy who were twins, they shared the same stone.
My grandmother's mother died young so she spent a lot of time with her paternal grandmother and her "job" was trimming the grass in that cemetery. My grandmother also took me to the cemetery to practice driving... I think she just wanted to check on things there.
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)Mr.Bill
(24,282 posts)and we have learned a lot by spending time in cemetaries. We found out who my great grandfather was, for instance, by asking for help in the office of the cemetary my grandfather was buried in. The gentleman working there went up into an attic and brought down a very dusty old book containing documents. He found my grandfathere's death certificate which included his father'e name. This was the first real proof we had.
We thanked him and asked if we could pay him for his time and effort. He said my family paid for that when my grandfather was buried. He was buried in 1957.
MLAA
(17,282 posts)way to help you.
panader0
(25,816 posts)Winifried Scott and George Armstrong Custer among many military greats. Here in nearby Fort Huachuca's
Bonny Blink Cemetary are many old Apache scouts' graves and some of young children dead from disease.
My dad's grave is there as well. A beautiful spot with large oaks.
I also liked the one in the old ghost town of White Oaks, New Mexico, with graves from some of the
Lincoln County War folks. One is a deputy who was shot by Billy the Kid when he escaped from the jail
in Lincoln. My mom loved this place with it's No Scum Allowed saloon where, if the bartender isn't there,
you just help yourself and leave the money on the bar. Her ashes are in the hills overlooking the ghost town.
GenThePerservering
(1,813 posts)love to visit churchyards when we travel, particularly in England. The earliest gravesite we've bagged was mid-16th century, which is unusual since usually they don't survive - this one was a small above-ground entombment which had part of a tree growing through it.
Skulls and skull/crossbones relief carvings were common in older headstones.
But the most instructive I ever saw was visiting relations at the local veterans cemetery where we go every year. This time I ran across a small headstone that said "Whatever you want to do, do it now" - I've never forgotten that vet for his wisdom beyond the grave.
Oldest church entombment was an unnamed knight in a late viking-era tomb in a cathedral in England - it was in the back of the enormous church all by himself and I stood by there for along time, looking into the startled eyes that seems to typify Viking/anglo-saxon carving wondering who this brave individual was, buried with his shield and sword a thousand years ago but now forgotten.
GenThePerservering
(1,813 posts)of children - sometimes all of the same surname and died in succession. In really old cemeteries you can trace the progression of various plagues that swept through the town by the dates on especially these little stones.
Most eerie cemetery was outside Alice Springs in Australia - it was desert dusty and had funerary details I'd not seem before. Many of the graves were very humble, some with a small wooden cross where someone had hand-carved just a name. There was a little area that was just children - some didn't even have names. It was silent and I'd been camping in the outback for a while by then - I swear I could hear the spirits whispering on the wind.
SergeStorms
(19,193 posts)for two large cemeteries in Upstate New York. As such, I had free reign over all the family crypts (keys included), all records and gravesites - which dated back to the late 18th century - and yes, I enjoyed it thoroughly. I'd do genealogical research for people who requested information from all over the world. I met quite a few amazing people and was more than happy to help all who requested it.
It got to be too much for me as I grew older, and grandchildren entered the picture. It was a voluntary position, and through the association that ran the cemeteries it wasn't difficult to find someone else from within who volunteered their time to the endeavor.
My favorite headstones were the ones crafted from zinc. They still look as new as they did the day they were first placed there, some dating back to the late 1800s. They were erroneously sold as "white bronze" but were made of cast zinc, and many were sold in the Northeast. They're rather rare outside of the New England states.
Due to acid rain (people from Midwestern and New England states will know what I'm talking about) many headstones made of sandstone and softer minerals are impossible to read anymore. Even some marble and granite headstones sustained a lot of damage from the smoke from Midwestern factories mixing with rainwater to form a dilute sulfuric acid. It almost killed hundreds of Adirondack Mountain lakes (and the fish within). A bad time in our country's history.
Yeah, I could go on all day with stories, but the answer to your question is, YES!
Bristlecone
(10,125 posts)Old granite headstones worn almost smooth from being so close the ocean and hundreds of years of weather. The oldest I ever found was early 1600s. Used to walk the dogs over there all the time. Allowed and encouraged by our town. Clean up after yourself and others was the rule.
cbabe
(3,539 posts)Finding and baking tombstone recipes has become a hobby for Rosie Grant ...
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Raine
(30,540 posts)I never knew about recipes on gravestones, nice to learn something new!
Croney
(4,657 posts)Paladin
(28,252 posts)Some of them dating from the 1600's, many of them unreadable.
And if you find yourself in Paris, the massive Pere Lachaise is a must-see. Lots of notable folks planted there, besides Jim Morrison.
NBachers
(17,107 posts)Of the dozens I took, this one, with my grand-daughter Sofia, has just the right amount of everything:
Laffy Kat
(16,377 posts)I'm originally from Tennessee and there are some unusual cemeteries in the state. There's one area, the Cumberland Plateau, that has unusual cemeteries consisting of tent graves. I used to love walking around those graveyards and reading the headstones:
https://www.onlyinyourstate.com/tennessee/comb-graves-tn/
SergeStorms
(19,193 posts)Thanks for posting that. I've seen the tent graves down south, but never knew the official name for them.
I try to learn something new each day, and tent graves are today's nugget of learning.
Raine
(30,540 posts)some people think I'm weird but I don't care. I'm a history buff and find old cemeteries so interesting!
cbabe
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