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Archae

(46,322 posts)
Sat Jan 7, 2012, 04:51 AM Jan 2012

I'm feeling a little depressed here.

My hearing is getting worse.

I have tinnitus, and I can only hear about 75% of normal sounds.
I keep asking, "What?"

My Dad went nearly deaf before he died.

I love sound, especially music.
But I have my music volume much higher that normal.

I'd be hugely depressed if I did go deaf.

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I'm feeling a little depressed here. (Original Post) Archae Jan 2012 OP
Damn. I'm sorry, dude, I don't know what to say except petronius Jan 2012 #1
I am really sorry for this. Behind the Aegis Jan 2012 #2
taking action unionworks Jan 2012 #3
+1. pacalo Jan 2012 #6
Oddly enough, TexasTowelie Jan 2012 #4
((( Archae ))) BlueIris Jan 2012 #5
I've had family who used hearing aids. They kept hearing well with those until they died of old age. applegrove Jan 2012 #7
be very careful with loud music dana_b Jan 2012 #8
I'm hoping that the volume isn't doing you any harm. (((Archae))) freshwest Jan 2012 #9
I know the feeling. Sorta quakerboy Jan 2012 #10
(((GOOD VIBES))) Odin2005 Jan 2012 #11
my dad is deaf also handmade34 Jan 2012 #12
When I was younger I used to ask the question... Wait Wut Jan 2012 #13
I know you're trying to be supportive, but if you have your hearing, you have no clue rustydog Jan 2012 #14
I'm a graphic artist. Wait Wut Jan 2012 #15

Behind the Aegis

(53,954 posts)
2. I am really sorry for this.
Sat Jan 7, 2012, 05:18 AM
Jan 2012

Is there no treatment? Can you not hear music well from headphones/earbuds?

I am not really one who can help you (I think there is still a deaf/hard of hearing group), but what if you started to associate sound with feel and sight? Perhaps playing favorite songs and such in programs that allow you to see different motions/colors associated with different sounds?

I hope things get better.

 

unionworks

(3,574 posts)
3. taking action
Sat Jan 7, 2012, 05:51 AM
Jan 2012

...is a great cure for depression. My Aunt is in her 80s, she went nearly deaf after an illness. The proper hearing aid restored her hearing. They are expensive, if you can't afford one look into charities that may help you. Hope everything works out!

TexasTowelie

(112,137 posts)
4. Oddly enough,
Sat Jan 7, 2012, 07:07 AM
Jan 2012

an ad for HearingRevolution.com popped up with this thread.

I would be depressed too if I went deaf so I hope that you can find a solution for your problem.

dana_b

(11,546 posts)
8. be very careful with loud music
Sat Jan 7, 2012, 09:24 PM
Jan 2012

as I am sure you already know. I also have tinnitus but mine has subsided bit since I have turned the volume down. I still have issues though. yesterday I was just watching a little t.v. (not loud at all) and I lost the hearing in my right ear. That terrible high pitched ring kept on for about a half an hour. I am lucky, I know.

Would a hearing aid help you?

quakerboy

(13,920 posts)
10. I know the feeling. Sorta
Sun Jan 8, 2012, 10:21 AM
Jan 2012

I am a reader. I could be ok with being deaf, but vision issues would destroy much of my chosen access to existance.

I am not there yet. I wear glasses, but I can get along without them at need.

But my mom just let me know that a lot of days things are so blurry she cannot read. And my dads glasses are thick enough to fry ants with. And he still has issues seeing things.

It really scares me. A lot. Without reading, I am just a brain trapped in a head.

handmade34

(22,756 posts)
12. my dad is deaf also
Sun Jan 8, 2012, 11:34 AM
Jan 2012

he gave me his old hearing aids last year (just in case)

Just remember BEETHOVEN!!

turn it up loud and enjoy








Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
13. When I was younger I used to ask the question...
Sun Jan 8, 2012, 11:52 AM
Jan 2012

..."Would you rather go deaf or blind". I always said I'd rather go blind because I love music and the sound of children laughing. I'm going blind. I've always loved sunrises more than sunsets, but I never appreciated them enough. I do now. I watched the moon set this morning and waited patiently for the glow over the mountains. Then I realized something, someday I won't be able to see the sunrise, but the birds will let me know how beautiful it is.

Losing either is hard, but remember, even though you may lose the ability to hear the music, you can still watch the children dance.

rustydog

(9,186 posts)
14. I know you're trying to be supportive, but if you have your hearing, you have no clue
Sun Jan 8, 2012, 02:38 PM
Jan 2012

You sleep horrible at night because you're afraid you will not hear the burglaror the fire alarm and not save your loved ones. You can't tell what ficking direction the noise (threat) is coming from and have to look in every direction frantically.

Archae, there are supposed to be some remedies for tinnitus. I don't have that condition, I just have no hearing in my right ear and the hearing aid in the left ear to compensate is killing hearing in my "good" ear.

I hope you find relief, don't give up.

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
15. I'm a graphic artist.
Sun Jan 8, 2012, 03:41 PM
Jan 2012

Losing my eyesight is more than a minor convenience. I'm also partially deaf in one ear, but between the two, losing my eyesight is going to be a huge obstacle. It's already seriously affected my work. I'm almost 50 years old, a woman and I've been a graphic artist for 30 years. Oh, and I suffered a minor stroke two years ago that totally screwed up my short term memory. My employment options will be slim.

I don't hear the "little" noises and my dog is deaf. When my husband is out of town, I make sure all the windows and doors are locked (and deadbolted) and I leave the lights on in our living room. My husband also has tinnitus. He hears less than I do.

Yes, I am trying to be supportive. If Archae had suggested he was concerned about burglars, etc., I would have offered different advice. First, buy a dog that can hear. Second, invest in good locks for your doors and windows. Third, an alarm system if affordable.

I was more touched by the concern for the quality of life for Archae. Safety becomes secondary when you think you'll lose the ability to enjoy the things you love. Though I will eventually be unemployable, I'd give up my financial security today if it meant that I could watch every sunrise until the day I die.

And, I already sleep horribly. I've had chronic insomnia since I was a kid. I'm just a barrel of fun ailments. But, the sunrise was beautiful this morning. Instead of a battle between which is worse, I'll choose to believe that neither is better.

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