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Related: Culture Forums, Support Forumsonce in a while people get my name slightly wrong
it really makes me cringe, I'm not sure why. It's just a mistake after all. And I'm sure I get people's names wrong at least as often as the other way around. I hate it when I do that too.
Is that the same with everyone?
graywarrior
(59,440 posts)But during official business or at a doctors office, it gets used. I cringe. Sometimes I refuse to respond. I hate my first name. HATE IT!
Enrique
(27,461 posts)your middle name? a nickname? I won't even as what your first name is.
graywarrior
(59,440 posts)My last name has 12 with z's and y's and r's and t. Messes with people's heads.
fizzgig
(24,146 posts)and to mispronounce her name is to push her biggest button.
my name can be spelled two different ways and cringe is exactly what i do when i see someone has misspelled it.
graywarrior
(59,440 posts)Populist_Prole
(5,364 posts)I don't know if it's laziness, or their unfamiliarity with anything other than anglo sounding names. It's an Italian name three syllables, but I've heard it pronounced with 4 or 5 syllables and transposed consonants. It's like they just see the first and last letters and then just blurt out whatever they please between the beginning and end.
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siligut
(12,272 posts)Seriously I have to use the NATO phonetic alphabet to help people spell it correctly. At Safeway food stores, the checkers always try to thank you by your name, I had to sign-up for a card without my name I felt so bad for them everytime. I don't cringe, but had I known, I might have thought harder about keeping my maiden name, it was so easy to spell and say. I am not attached to any of my names though, you are different, sorry that it makes you uncomfortable, that would be a daily trial for me.
UnrepentantLiberal
(11,700 posts)Alright, knock it off.
Tikki
(14,557 posts)And my middle name (which I use) is a few letters long and all three
names start with the same letter.
People tongue twist it unmercifully.
Think like:Jenny Jean Jennings
Tikki
applegrove
(118,622 posts)because I didn't want to embarrass her. But she kept doing it and I thought - it will just embarrass her more if I let her go on. So I corrected her. And now I know her name.