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Danmel

(4,913 posts)
Fri May 3, 2013, 07:21 AM May 2013

seriously, what is it with men and cigars?

is a cigar just a cigar? And if it is, why would anyone want to smell like that? I work for a man who smokes cigars socially if you will, but every time there is some vent, they all go off to smoke their cigars, leaving the women behind (maybe that is the point) and I work with a guy who smokes cigars in his car on the way to work, at lunch then comes into the office wearing a wool sweater saturated with cigar smoke and I want to hurl. And I cant say anything cause the boss buys him cigars!

So, is a cigar a psychosexual thing, a nicotine thing, a buys club thing? Cause they make me puke.

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seriously, what is it with men and cigars? (Original Post) Danmel May 2013 OP
what is it with people and cigarettes? RILib May 2013 #1
no Danmel May 2013 #2
They're just cigars. HappyMe May 2013 #3
I'm one of those women who smokes a cigar. In_The_Wind May 2013 #7
I have smoked cigars HappyMe May 2013 #8
My favorite is the thin Groovy Blue. In_The_Wind May 2013 #9
I haven't tried any flavored ones. HappyMe May 2013 #19
I enjoy flavored cigars better than plain. I only smoked cigarettes for a short time. In_The_Wind May 2013 #27
When I was still smoking, I liked a cigar now and then. sarge43 May 2013 #24
A cigar is just a cigar. I enjoy the flavors, nothing more. In_The_Wind May 2013 #26
Especially nice after a good meal. n/t sarge43 May 2013 #32
I must agree with the puke thing... uriel1972 May 2013 #4
I'm abroad. I can buy the real Cubans Recursion May 2013 #5
Some of you want a link between cigars and sex? Here ya go: Paladin May 2013 #18
I smoke cigars sometimes. In_The_Wind May 2013 #6
Message auto-removed Name removed Jul 2017 #37
A cigar is just a cigar... Earth_First May 2013 #10
As Mark Twain said: ohiosmith May 2013 #11
And what might that be? Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #12
Imbibing in one's beverage of choice of course! ohiosmith May 2013 #13
You? Perhaps not... Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #15
I love the smell of a good cigar... Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #14
Beats me. But I do love a good cigar. Moondog May 2013 #16
I usually light up mid-way through a motorcycle ride. In_The_Wind May 2013 #17
I'd think that the wind would cause them Moondog May 2013 #20
I know several bikers who smoke and ride at the same time. I don't. In_The_Wind May 2013 #23
Same here OriginalGeek May 2013 #34
what is it with women and artificial stench? Kali May 2013 #21
Amen sister! ohiosmith May 2013 #25
Against overpowering perfumes ... yes. In_The_Wind May 2013 #28
Hell yeah. HappyMe May 2013 #31
I agree on strong perfume/cologne NewJeffCT May 2013 #30
what is it with guys and cologne? RILib May 2013 #33
I've never smoked a cigar.. but cigars are pretty sophisticated compared to LeftinOH May 2013 #22
never smoked a cigar, cigarette or even a joint NewJeffCT May 2013 #29
You are the wisest person in this thread. Tobin S. May 2013 #35
there is just something about a man on the veranda Tuesday Afternoon May 2013 #36

Danmel

(4,913 posts)
2. no
Fri May 3, 2013, 07:26 AM
May 2013

cigars are more of a guy power thing. They smoke them after golf, fundraisers, political meetings, cigarettes are a physical addiction. Different.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
3. They're just cigars.
Fri May 3, 2013, 07:43 AM
May 2013

I think you are reading way too much into this.

I also know that women smoke cigars.

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
27. I enjoy flavored cigars better than plain. I only smoked cigarettes for a short time.
Fri May 3, 2013, 11:24 AM
May 2013

Tobacco isn't my first choice.

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
26. A cigar is just a cigar. I enjoy the flavors, nothing more.
Fri May 3, 2013, 11:21 AM
May 2013


I haven't smoked a cigar since last Fall. It's something I only do outside.

uriel1972

(4,261 posts)
4. I must agree with the puke thing...
Fri May 3, 2013, 07:55 AM
May 2013

Why anyone would start smoking those things, let alone keep smoking them is beyond me. It just ain't healthy physically and otherwise.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
5. I'm abroad. I can buy the real Cubans
Fri May 3, 2013, 08:02 AM
May 2013

Until you've tried one, you don't know what you're knocking. Holy shit, these are good.

Paladin

(28,253 posts)
18. Some of you want a link between cigars and sex? Here ya go:
Fri May 3, 2013, 09:55 AM
May 2013

To me, Cuban cigars are a lot like sex: the worst I ever had was magnificent.......

Response to In_The_Wind (Reply #6)

Earth_First

(14,910 posts)
10. A cigar is just a cigar...
Fri May 3, 2013, 08:23 AM
May 2013

Sometimes I enjoy one...

Generally occasions, weddings, childbirths, etc. once in awhile socially.

To me it's like coffee, wine or craft beer, they all have their subtleties...

ohiosmith

(24,262 posts)
11. As Mark Twain said:
Fri May 3, 2013, 08:30 AM
May 2013

"Eating and sleeping are the only activities that should be allowed to interrupt a man's enjoyment of his cigar."

With all due respect to Mr. Twain, I would include one additional activity.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
14. I love the smell of a good cigar...
Fri May 3, 2013, 08:37 AM
May 2013

and occasionally enjoy one myself. I had never thought of a cigar as a 'psychosexual thing' ... but perhaps it is.

Moondog

(4,833 posts)
16. Beats me. But I do love a good cigar.
Fri May 3, 2013, 09:47 AM
May 2013

I doubt if I have one more than once every three or four months. It takes me years to exhaust a ~ 60 cigar capacity humidor. It's about 3/4 full now.

That said, I hate the smell of stale cigar smoke. So, when I have one, I go out on the lanai, turn on all three ceiling fans out there, and puff away. Usually with the benefit of a nice cognac as an accompaniment. After I finish, I come inside, strip down, take a shower, do some oral hygiene, and throw what I had on into the washing machine and fire it up.

And that holds me for a few more months.

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
17. I usually light up mid-way through a motorcycle ride.
Fri May 3, 2013, 09:55 AM
May 2013

At coffee break time. Or after lunch on the ride.

Moondog

(4,833 posts)
20. I'd think that the wind would cause them
Fri May 3, 2013, 10:12 AM
May 2013

to burn irregularly. At least the larger ones, which I tend to favor, would burn oddly.

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
23. I know several bikers who smoke and ride at the same time. I don't.
Fri May 3, 2013, 10:41 AM
May 2013

I've smoked the large cigars also but I usually just let those go out.

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
34. Same here
Fri May 3, 2013, 03:04 PM
May 2013

I quit cigs in 2003 but I'll have 3 to 6 cigars a year.

Does a good humidor really keep them fresh? I generally just go to the cigar store nearby but even that place is hit and miss regarding whether or not you get a fresh one. They are more concerned with all the hip smoking accessories and little skinny cigarette style cigars. But they are close and cheap.

There's a neat shop downtown that I would trust but it's such a pain in the ass to get parked downtown. But if I could go in once a year and by enough to last me a year or so and they'd stay fresh that would kick ass.


Happiness is a glass of Laphroaig and a fresh Arturo Fuente Hemingway.

Kali

(55,007 posts)
21. what is it with women and artificial stench?
Fri May 3, 2013, 10:13 AM
May 2013

colognes and perfumes are at least as sickening as cigar stench 90% of the time.

people that enjoy strong aromas should all be locked in a room together (especially the ones who are clueless about how much their stench bothers other people)

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
31. Hell yeah.
Fri May 3, 2013, 11:35 AM
May 2013

Overpowering perfumes make my eyes water.

I don't like that potpourri junk or those sickening plug in oil doodads.

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
30. I agree on strong perfume/cologne
Fri May 3, 2013, 11:30 AM
May 2013

those men or women who bathe themselves in it. However, I don't mind a touch of perfume on a woman.

When I smell somebody with a lot of perfume or cologne, I think they either woke up late an didn't have time to shower, or else were too lazy to shower that day, and doused themselves in the perfume/cologne to cover it up. Of course, if they do that every day, it's obnoxious.

IMO, though, even one cigarette leaves a foul odor.

LeftinOH

(5,354 posts)
22. I've never smoked a cigar.. but cigars are pretty sophisticated compared to
Fri May 3, 2013, 10:24 AM
May 2013

CHEWING TOBACCO - and carrying around your spit in a paper cup.

Possibly the grossest damn thing ever.

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
35. You are the wisest person in this thread.
Fri May 3, 2013, 09:26 PM
May 2013

I've smoked all of those things and don't have anything to show for it except scarred up lungs and a lighter wallet. I quit smoking 10 months ago and I will never use tobacco again. Dope doesn't do anything good for me.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
36. there is just something about a man on the veranda
Fri May 3, 2013, 09:29 PM
May 2013

sipping good scotch and smoking a fine cigar. however, a gentle breeze is called for to complete the ambience.

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