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Related: Culture Forums, Support Forums13 Things That Americans Do That The Rest Of The World Just Finds Bizarre
1. Driving everywhere
2. Being able to buy anything you want at Wal-Mart
3. Price tags
4. America's weird version of puritanism
Of course, the original survey is from Reddit, which many people find bizarre too.
more at link...
http://www.businessinsider.com/things-americans-do-that-seem-just-bizarre-to-the-outside-world-2013-5
onehandle
(51,122 posts)Teeth are never white, even when you're a kid. It's unnatural.
hamsterjill
(15,220 posts)Duer 157099
(17,742 posts)When that first aired, he indeed looked very different and strange. Now it's normal. Sigh.
jakeXT
(10,575 posts)Weve accepted NFL Cheerleaders and NBA Dance Teams, but do hockey and baseball need them?
http://www.thesportsbank.net/sidelineprincesses/baseball-hockey-cheerleaders-521/
I do hold out hope though that hockey cheerleaders will take a turn towards the more artistic, perhaps hire some women that didn't quite cut it as figure skaters. That would be exciting. They could do intermission routines.
Baseball is slow-paced. Cheerleaders can only add some excitement.
Duer 157099
(17,742 posts)Never even once considered the lack of cheerleaders, but now that it's been pointed out, that's what makes this the only tolerable sport for me to watch.
Please, no, never ever.
Pholus
(4,062 posts)At the opening ceremony the ex-jock color commentators were reaching hard to say something profound and instead came up with:
"Can you believe that there are countries in the world that don't know what a cheerleader is?"
I laughed so hard I missed 15 minutes of the ceremony after that.
Locut0s
(6,154 posts)Myrina
(12,296 posts)I think it's totally useless but I guess the fans need something to do between game periods other than wait in line for beer or to take a leak ...
Aristus
(66,294 posts)They remarked: "Americans vacation in their own country! That's weird."
I had never before thought of that as something which people might find unusual. It was interesting to get their perspective.
HughBeaumont
(24,461 posts)If I wanted to travel overseas, I'd have to save for at least 3-5 years with no landmines or touching that fund. For me and the wife alone (never mind if the kid wants to go), I'm spending a good 1-2 thousand and some change before even touching down in said country.
alarimer
(16,245 posts)And this a huge country; there's a lot to see and do.
I don't know how much it costs to travel from Europe to the US, but Europeans can travel just a short way, even by car or train and be in another country, without incurring vast expenses. For many of us, it's thousands of miles just to the Canadian border (and most of that is wilderness).
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)I paid 525 from NYC, so yes- lots cheaper. The exta fees are insane- sometimes more than the ticket itself!!
I think all the extra security- worldwide- is paid for by only our tickets.
caraher
(6,278 posts)Drive 6 hours in a random direction almost anywhere in the US and you're still in the US. The same is not true in Europe.
Or from another perspective, we had 2 visitors from Austria where I once worked in Michigan and we asked their weekend plans. They thought they'd check out Niagara Falls Saturday and New Orleans Sunday. No sense of the scale of this place...
Aristus
(66,294 posts)The size of the country really got to them. I told them it was possible to drive 800 miles in a straight line, and still be in the same state, (Texas, for example), let alone the same country. They just could not get their heads around that concept.
kentauros
(29,414 posts)I would have pulled out a map, and shown them how to read it, paying close attention to the scale portion
(In fact, it might be a good idea for me to keep a US map handy, just to educate Americans brought up on GPS devices )
krispos42
(49,445 posts)You gotta convert it into metric. 1,300 km.
No, wait, that's not right either.
1.300km
We use a comma, they use a period to divide groups of a thousand.
Adsos Letter
(19,459 posts)She takes rather frequent vacations,and I'm always amused/amazed at the destinations. Greece, French Riviera, Morocco, Romania (it's her home country).
She just recently posted on Facebook that she is taking another trip to somewhere in Africa. And she isn't a wealthy person.
RILib
(862 posts)I think most Europeans have no real idea how big and diverse this country is.
Ikonoklast
(23,973 posts)and drive to California.
On the way they were going to stop at Yellowstone and the Grand Canyon before being back at the end of the week.
We live in Ohio.
Locut0s
(6,154 posts)Are only unusual in terms of the degree that Americans go to. Most people are familiar with vacationing within their own country in Europe. But it's rare in Europe to never have left your country and to have spent all your vacations at home. While in the US it's quite common.
Recursion
(56,582 posts)Jesus Christ, I miss price tags
(expat here...)
Chan790
(20,176 posts)1.) Of the largest American cities, on average only approximately 50% of the population drives...lower in NYC and DC, higher out west.
2.) I could not tell you where the nearest Wal-Mart is. I can tell you where the two nearest Targets are only because one is on my bus-route and the other is across the street from the Metro station. They're the only two within several miles of W. DC. There's a few more in far NoVA.
3.) This might just be my neighborhood...but nothing has price tags on it. You either need it at any price or you do not. If you want to know what it costs...ask the stock-boy; he either knows and tells you or shrugs and does not.
4.) Conceded.
Locut0s
(6,154 posts)To the point where politics and the US global image become dominated by rural, red state, ideals. I would agree that Americans from the large cities are far more liberal and less odd to Europeans than those from the "sticks" but sadly the power distribution in the US is messed up.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)If you live in North Dakota your senator represents thousands. Yet their votes are equal. It's unfair.
telclaven
(235 posts)They do not. They represent the state. Each State in the Union gets two, and only two, Senators. They get a proportionate number of Representatives to stand for the populace.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)these senators vote on behalf of people (true that it's often "people" in the form of corporate bigwigs, but that's another story), not acreage. But the vote of a California senator on behalf of millions of people is diluted because a vote by a low-population rural red state senator has just as much power... And everybody suffers because of the dumbass red district morons who routinely get elected in rural and other rightwing areas. They have power disproportionate to their numbers, and part of that is Harry Reid's fault for not fighting for filibuster reform.
Yavin4
(35,421 posts)That's our greatest strength. We work hard on creating tolerances of differences. We're far far far from perfect, but we at least try. In other nations, being born into the wrong group or tribe is akin to a death sentence.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)Just sayin'
Yavin4
(35,421 posts)Your quality of life is miserable nation-wide.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)Not saying all the rural South is that way, but James Byrd comes to mind
lunamagica
(9,967 posts)drove everywhere. We used to joke that if he needed to go to the corner, he drove.
White teeth? not everybody wants white, perfect teeth? I believe it is is uncommon in other contries to fix teeth due to expense, not lack of wanting.
And it is my experience that most people love their flags, and think their country is the best in the world.
Locut0s
(6,154 posts)Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)The sports obsessions and rivalries -- don't get it. The poisonous way we eat -- insane. The focus on giant, resource-sucking houses -- can't stand it. The lack of outrage over the way the military takes all the resources away from education and healthcare -- can't understand it. The prevalence of "faith" vs. reason -- makes me ashamed. The rampant gun nuttery -- sickening.
I could go on ...
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)fizzgig
(24,146 posts)and flying is too expensive and a giant hassle.
i've gotta get my bike tuned up so i can start riding that to work
Populist_Prole
(5,364 posts)A few that really stand out:
- The Wall-Mart worship: There are people I've been around that can't go 8 minutes without mentioning Wal-Mart; What they bought, what they're going to buy, what you can buy there.... It's like they can't live without it.
- Coffee on the go: I agree exactly with the article when it sates it should be something consumed while relaxing. Sure, a couple of times here and there I've taken a cup to go but I'm talking about the sheer number of people where that's the only way they drink it: carried in a cardboard or styrafoam cup with a cover, obtained and drank frantically. I blame this on a go-go-go culture that seems to regard burning the candle at both ends as a normal way of living.
- Obsession with a college, being either one's alma mater or otherwise. This seems more common in the southern and midwestern part of the country. I know much of it is related to sports of some kind so, i can see this as somewhat of an extension of it, but geez louise; move on! I can't get over the number of people I've met where a college is the center of their self-respect.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)People fly the flags of either Univ. or Oregon or Oregon State on their cars on game days. I mean, okay, you had a good time in college and you like your alma mater, but, jeez. I find this obsessive "gotta show my colors and buy every t-shirt and sweatshirt available!" mentality is sort of ... pathetic ... in a way.
eppur_se_muova
(36,247 posts)to the school, don't even send their kids there. They donate money to the team, not to the school.
Not being a sports fan to any degree, I consider such behavior pathological.
Locut0s
(6,154 posts)I think this is the juxtaposition of the on the go businessman with coffee in hand all the time, with the European cafe culture, where coffee is meant to be sipped for hours over a pastry and paper. Thing is, business in Europe is now mostly the same as in the US, coffee on the go, no fucking time for anything. The Cafe culture is still there, but I don't think most Europeans find the Starbucks thing strange. Maybe the extent to which we take it?
.... reading this I was reminded of the Mad Men portrayal of people smoking in the office in the early 60's ... almost chain smoking. Well now it's coffee. I had a manager like that, would have her sleeved Starfux cup everywhere she went and if she happened to not have time, or was between doses, look out - she was a fucking terror. Got to the point that she started to get their cardboard carafe's ever morning to keep at her desk and have her toadies bring her coffee during meetings.
I think she would have gone into shock and DT's if she went more than 2 hours without mainlining it.
I never drank it, never liked the taste, so totally don't understand the obsession.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)Place is evil
tabbycat31
(6,336 posts)In two of the states I've worked in (both districts had major universities in them) half the people there liked the college because it was local or because of their sports. In both of those states, there are no professional major league sports teams.
HughBeaumont
(24,461 posts)Last edited Wed May 29, 2013, 02:14 PM - Edit history (1)
1. Flying is now an annoying, expensive and uncomfortable pain in the ass. Airlines have made flying into one of the absolute worst travel options. Stuck in a cramped tube overbooked and filled to capacity with people who smell bad, loud talkers, crying babies and kids who have to play their iPod at maximum volume with no noise cancelling ear-buds, yeah, SIGN ME UP. Which leads me to the worst plane specimens of all - personal-space-clueless males who recline in front of you so you get to look at their dandruffy, sweaty head up close for hours; dudes who immediately occupy the window AND aisle seat, forcing you to sit between their creepy asses and behind the other fuckstick that's reclining, leaving you about one cubic inch of personal space; guys who spill over into your seat and don't give two fucks; guys who like to spoon, guys that immediately take the arm rests . . . NO THANKS.
2. Dunno, I don't set foot in that garbage store. That's 'murca's hatred for small businesses and love for giant, resource-consuming and underpaying chains at work there. I love visiting Toronto (a 5-hour DRIVE); you don't really see much of that crap there.
3. Don't see this as that big a deal.
4. That's 'murica's unhealthy infatuation with violence due to puritan sexual repression at work right there.
5. And quite often not even REAL cheese, but fake, oil-based cheese product. Yecccch.
6. Don't get it either. Pumpkin is bitter tasting. I'll eat the roasted seeds, but not the meat.
7. It seems counterproductive, especially considering they're now stuntwomen and get injured a great deal in their routines.
8. Our patriotism is laughable, considering that we're one of the meanest, the most Darwinist, the most plutocratic, the most needlessly warmongering and most criminally ruthless major countries on the planet. I'm supposed to be PROUD of this shit?
9. "Eating/drinking coffee as you go, to me the best part of eating is sitting down, talking, and relaxing" Uh, work in any of 'MurUHca's corporations lately? Who lets you sit down, talk and relax?
10. Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports Sports . . . .
11. I went to three of them. Sloooooooooow learner. Proms are overrated. The hairspray made me cough.
12. Don't care.
13. Exceptionalism is the silliest bullshit on earth, and the main reason why we'll never progress.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)Demo_Chris
(6,234 posts)And high school athletes are not elevated the way they are here.
More, I have read that in Japan the big celebration comes not when a child graduates from school, but when they begin. Which makes some sense if you think about it.
Locut0s
(6,154 posts)Soccer is the world's sport almost everywhere outside the US and you bet the love their soccer from a very young age and take it damn seriously. In Japan baseball is, if possible, a bigger thing than it is in the US. The difference is that they don't commercialize people as much in other countries as they do in the US. When hot young start is seen rising in high school and college in the US they go to work marketing that guy quickly.
I'm not sure about celebrating when kids start school in Japan. But I know that the most stressful fucking time in most every Japanese persons like is passing the high school final exams. The Japanese system is competitive as shit and people feel that their entire lives are riding on getting a good mark in the HS finals, and in some ways it is. University is actually historically something that many Japanese kids breeze through, like US kids do in HS, because all the blood sweat and tears were spent getting there. If you get into a good university in Japan, by studying your ass off 24/7 for years, you used to be set. So I think graduating HS, if the results are good, would be a HUGE celebration there (but for different reasons). Not so much now with the global down turn but that's the way it used to be. Same in China and much of the rest of Asia.
Art_from_Ark
(27,247 posts)One of the local high schools used to specialize in recruiting players from around the country, and even won the national tournament once or twice.
I can't say for sure whether the entrance ceremony for a school ("Nyuugaku-shiki" is any more important than the graduation ceremony ("Sotsugyouo-shiki" . But I can say that high school final exams aren't really that important-- what's more important are the college entrance exams. Most students are restricted to one choice for a national (public) university (which is usually cheaper), but they can take as many tests as they want for private schools (sometimes costing $500 per test). But yes, once they get into college, then they can often breeze, if their subjects aren't too demanding. However, science and technology departments can be pretty tough, and of course medical school is quite rigorous.
Locut0s
(6,154 posts)I suppose I'm still a bit too close to the US as usually "The Rest of the World" means outside NA. Anyway one thing that the right wing IS right about is that it's popular to diss/hate the US. I don't like to agree with anything the right says but it's true, it's popular to dislike the US, in many cases because they are the largest, loudest, richest country in the world. Where the right is wrong is that there are MANY very good reasons not to like the US as everyone in this thread and the link posted in the OP agree upon. However I think many of the points in that link are silly and or bullshit, no offence intended to the OP, and seem like the kind of inarticulate shallow jabs at the US you see too much of, more for the sake of disliking the US than anything else. Many of these quips are also off the mark and are a distaste for global consumerism run amok, something that almost all western democracies share a large part of the blame for, and not the US specifically.
1. This is a problem for all countries with a wealthy populous spread out over a large geographic area. The US HAS indeed spearheaded the suburbia movement that made this 10x worse though, I'll give you that!
2. More a jab at global consumerism than the US in general. I've been to Europe and while they don't have Wallmarts exactly they have their own form of big box stores. They just don't realize it as much, Carefour, IKEA.
3. Huh? How is this a point?
4. I'll give you this, the US has a fucked up puritan moral foundation that is ruining a generation of kids.
5. Huh? Not a point that anyone thinks about. Again goes to mass consumerism and there are thousands of similar examples in other countries.
6. Huh? Again who cares, every country has their own flavours.
7. Huh? Have you seen Italian network TV?
8. Americans are indeed crazy patriotic to the point of sickness. But you'd be surprised how damn patriotic almost every country is. I can't think of a singly country where people don't fly their flag proudly. It's just that in other countries their flags are more about US(as in we) US US. Where the american flag often takes on connotations of ME, NOT YOU, ME, NOT YOU!!
9. Huh? Again consumerism, not US centric, and this is everywhere now. EVERYWHERE!
10. As others said this is more a college sports thing, which is unique to American culture.
11. Yeah I guess prom means more in the US than elsewhere, but I don't really think people find it bizarre.
12. This is a wealth thing and not so much american. It's pretty big in Asia.
13. Ok I'll give you this, we do find this bizzare
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OK now onto what I think most people ACTUALLY find bizarre and the points that I think actually matter.
1. America thinks it's #1. But it's only really #1 in gun violence, incarceration rates, etc...
2. How is it that the US, richest country in the world, can't pay for some form of single payer healthcare, or something equivalent, when almost every other westernized democracy has.
3. How can a single country spend $680 Billion a year on their military, 40% of the world's total!!
4. How can said country in #3 have such horrible poverty and social benefits problems while spending such sums on their military!?
5. How can a country be so fucking divided as to STILL be the land of promise and freedom to millions of immigrants, many of whom sing the praises of the US more than its own citizens, yet have a large portion of their population living in the 18th centre in terms of race relations?
6. How can the richest country in the world come dead last year after year in countless measures of education?
7. How does a country elect someone like Bush? Then REELECT him!?
8. How can it possibly be that being uneducated is seen as a positive character trait by so many, not a negative one?
Etc.. etc...
These are the issues that REALLY baffle us outside the US, not most of the stuff in the link
pink-o
(4,056 posts)The Supremes gave him the Office in 2000. Ken Blackwell gave it to him in 2008.
However, how does a country that believes in We The People and the Ultimate Democracy ALLOW our elections to be rigged and then not rise up and DO SOMETHING about it? We get our teeth whitened, then go to Walmart, I guess!!!
vanlassie
(5,663 posts)one if the first things she was surprised by was their surprise that we eat pumpkin pie. They think its just wrong. Also they don't put peanut butter in candy. I have to schlep peanut butter M&Ms over there. And hot Cheetos. Lots if hot Cheetos.
Sheldon Cooper
(3,724 posts)I've seen far more bizarre things being done in other ocuntries. We are no more weird than anyone else.
Dash87
(3,220 posts)I could see how someone with a functioning bullet train system in their country wouldn't understand, but America doesn't have the infrastructure. There are also extremely remote areas in the US where building rail wouldn't make sense. There is literally no other feasible way to get around.
CanSocDem
(3,286 posts)Auggie
(31,133 posts)Driving everywhere? In the 1950s this country ripped up a lot of mass transit systems and promoted the interstate highway system with the help of the automobile industry in order to sell more cars and busses.
White teeth? A cash cow for dentists. Of course they promote it.
Coffee? Superstores? Prom? All huge money makers.
Call Me Wesley
(38,187 posts)You have to. We're small and have a quite good public transportation system that works (most of the times, unless there's a mountain coming down on the tracks/streets.) If you live in one of the big cities here, you probably don't even need a car to begin with.
We have super stores, where you can buy everything in one place as well. Except guns. That's a tad bit more regulated here. I had to fill out a weapon permit for one of my last Birthday gifts - which was a replica of a Navy 1851 Colt. Had to send in copies of my passport, etc.
In certain stores, we have that here as well.
Okay, you got me there. I guess people would faint visiting a newspaper stand here. Or just walking along the shore of the local lake. No big deal. Also full sex ed in schools 'n stuff, with free condoms. The agony!
Hey, I'm Swiss. And lactose intolerant. I'm happy if you like it, though. Okay, I admit, I love Fondue. It comes with a price, but I'm willing to pay.
We, in our household, do import pumpkin spices from the US. But pumpkin soup is no stranger here.
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Uhhh. There's a Chniese flag sported next to a Swiss flag in one of the holiday homes here. But you don't see them on cars, bikes or such, usually. But at the yards. Patriotism is a worldwide spread virus.
Can't say much about it, because I haven't seen it. But taking your bottle of water everywhere, yes. I'm guilty of that, too.
Yes, happens here, too. Usually, you just hang your diplomas on the wall and be done with it. No rings, special handshakes, etc. that I know off.
Okay, that doesn't happen here. There's no prom (although I guess some are pushing it, like Valentine's Day, Halloween and stuff.) Mostly, at the end of your school, you go on a vacation together, London, Paris, or New York City.
Ohh, it's coming here. Kneel before Tom Cruise, your Xenu-Overteeth, errm Overlord.
We don't have massive fights between religion and races. Some try to stir it up, but it doesn't work well. We have four official languages, we have a truly French part as well as a truly Italian part next to the German part. We don't have a President like you have (agreed, we have one for a year who kind of represents the Federation,) but seven members from diverse political parties to resemble the Federal Council, acting as Head Of State. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Politics_of_Switzerland
We have health-care, social welfare systems, and no student loans.
And it's not perfect, so I'd be rather shy on calling one's country 'the best.'