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HERVEPA

(6,107 posts)
Thu May 30, 2013, 12:17 PM May 2013

Don't quite understand the celebration of drunkenness that occurs in the lounge

I do drink, understand that people sometimes get drunk occasionally, but the celebration of it here amazes me.
Yeh, I know if I get comments they won't be pleasant ones.

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Don't quite understand the celebration of drunkenness that occurs in the lounge (Original Post) HERVEPA May 2013 OP
Relax. MiddleFingerMom May 2013 #1
!!! CaliforniaPeggy May 2013 #2
Nary an unpleasant word from me. CrazyOrangeCat May 2013 #3
I must've missed such celebrations. Bertha Venation May 2013 #4
Why not? Chan790 May 2013 #5
I agree! And don't Bogart that! ohiosmith May 2013 #6
You know what? pipi_k May 2013 #7
Sorry, and thanks. HERVEPA May 2013 #9
I've seen these 'celebrations'. One that I recall started out "I drove drunk at work today. Ask bike man May 2013 #36
I just did a quart of Tango and a six pack of Shlitz for breakfast olddots May 2013 #8
What would Jesus do? Incitatus May 2013 #10
Dang! I picked up a 12 pack yesterday. In_The_Wind May 2013 #11
Enjoy. I don't like beer. HERVEPA May 2013 #15
Wine? I love wine... Callmecrazy May 2013 #29
. jakeXT May 2013 #12
Tried to watch thinking narnian60 May 2013 #27
The Lounge KT2000 May 2013 #13
Stoned on weed much preferable to being drunk a lot HERVEPA May 2013 #14
I agree n/t KT2000 May 2013 #16
Yep... pipi_k May 2013 #19
Ess tee oh, enn ee dee Callmecrazy May 2013 #30
This message was self-deleted by its author Still Blue in PDX May 2013 #17
An alcoholic isn't someone who ends his day with a drink or two. Aristus May 2013 #18
Pretty much agree HERVEPA May 2013 #20
We all live in different time zones. HappyMe May 2013 #22
If they're in the US, if it's early for me, it's earlier for them HERVEPA May 2013 #25
I know a bunch of people that work HappyMe May 2013 #26
It's always Miller time somewhere Major Nikon May 2013 #37
Absofuckinlutely. HappyMe May 2013 #40
Actually, you are judging what folks do. nolabear May 2013 #42
Yep, my dad... pipi_k May 2013 #23
Once, my GF and I and another couple went camping at Virginia Beach (BEAUTIFUL). MiddleFingerMom May 2013 #24
That was my pipi_k May 2013 #21
That's the late alcoholic phase Flying Squirrel May 2013 #31
Just don't read those threads/posts blueamy66 May 2013 #28
Yes, especially since most people are joking. GoCubsGo May 2013 #32
sipping on a Corona....did a shot of Jack blueamy66 May 2013 #33
Just finished a Leinenkugel's, myself. GoCubsGo May 2013 #34
Crazy game! blueamy66 May 2013 #35
Why yes, they are in town, from what I hear... GoCubsGo May 2013 #43
Sweet pic. Will have to send to Mark. blueamy66 May 2013 #44
The photo is from Ronnie's Twitter feed. GoCubsGo May 2013 #45
They live in NW Indy, so it's a bit of a drive blueamy66 May 2013 #48
finishing a Leinenkugel is something I've never been able to do. Xipe Totec May 2013 #39
The selection down here is pretty slim. GoCubsGo May 2013 #47
I believe in the power of ethanol Major Nikon May 2013 #38
Sweetheart. It's The Lounge. The Chapel is down the street. nolabear May 2013 #41
Amen blueamy66 May 2013 #46

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
7. You know what?
Thu May 30, 2013, 12:36 PM
May 2013

No negative comment from me.

Too many of my family members have died from alcohol...either directly, or indirectly.

Too many.

I grew up in an alcoholic home. Lots and lots of emotional pain there.

I spent much of 1969 so drunk and high that I don't remember too much of it. In my defense, I was 16/17.

These days I have maybe two drinks a year, if that.

I don't want to rain on someone else's parade, but damn...it does hurt to see the celebration of drunkenness.



 

bike man

(620 posts)
36. I've seen these 'celebrations'. One that I recall started out "I drove drunk at work today. Ask
Thu May 30, 2013, 08:43 PM
May 2013

me anything."

 

olddots

(10,237 posts)
8. I just did a quart of Tango and a six pack of Shlitz for breakfast
Thu May 30, 2013, 12:39 PM
May 2013

there is no problem in the lounge .....none

Callmecrazy

(3,065 posts)
29. Wine? I love wine...
Thu May 30, 2013, 04:21 PM
May 2013

My favorite is "I wanna go to Miami!"






Oh!... Can I get a DUzy rec?


Anybody? Anybody?

narnian60

(3,510 posts)
27. Tried to watch thinking
Thu May 30, 2013, 04:04 PM
May 2013

it would be like America's Funniest Videos, but after the first 2 guys, just got disgusted. Not funny when you can't stand up. I have been what I consider very drunk probably several times in my lifetime, but I never fell down!

KT2000

(20,572 posts)
13. The Lounge
Thu May 30, 2013, 01:35 PM
May 2013

can be construed as a cocktail lounge, a place to relax, a place for social drinkers.
I don't think anyone is promoting alcoholism though.
Also - there are plenty of weed comments too.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
19. Yep...
Thu May 30, 2013, 02:41 PM
May 2013

My younger brother would probably still be alive today if the place where he worked didn't test for pot.

He changed over to booze so he wouldn't lose his job.

Irony. They test for pot but not for alcohol.

It wasn't the pot that killed him. It was the booze. Dissolved his organs so that near the end he bled from just about every orifice. Horrible way to go, especially at only 40 years old.

Response to HERVEPA (Original post)

Aristus

(66,310 posts)
18. An alcoholic isn't someone who ends his day with a drink or two.
Thu May 30, 2013, 02:05 PM
May 2013

It's someone who can't start his day without one.

 

HERVEPA

(6,107 posts)
20. Pretty much agree
Thu May 30, 2013, 02:44 PM
May 2013

Some here seem to start pretty early, or at the least joke about it, and it's clear some aren't joking.
But I had a girlfriend who didn't start drinking until after dinner, and she never got sloppy, but she was absolutely an alcoholic.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
22. We all live in different time zones.
Thu May 30, 2013, 02:53 PM
May 2013

What may seem early to you, may not be where that person is.

I'm not going to judge people, it's none of my business. As far as stoned goes, Colorado is the only state it's legal in. You don't post on the internet in a vacuum.

 

HERVEPA

(6,107 posts)
25. If they're in the US, if it's early for me, it's earlier for them
Thu May 30, 2013, 03:21 PM
May 2013

I'm not judging what folks do.
Given the plague that is alcoholism (not alcohol), I'm concert that drunkenness is looked at so positively by many here.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
26. I know a bunch of people that work
Thu May 30, 2013, 03:27 PM
May 2013

the graveyard shift. Their couple of drinks after work starts at 8 or 9am.

I still don't think people have one too many is as big cause for concern.

nolabear

(41,959 posts)
42. Actually, you are judging what folks do.
Thu May 30, 2013, 09:26 PM
May 2013

Mind you, we all have opinions and I don't begrudge you yours, but might as well own it.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
23. Yep, my dad...
Thu May 30, 2013, 02:53 PM
May 2013

He went to work every day but when he got home that's when he started drinking.

The fridge was always stocked with a case or two of beer. Always.

When we went to my grandfather's house about 1 1/2 to 2 hours away, they would get drunk and my mom would have to drive us home. She would get lost every single time. My dad and two sisters would be sleeping. It was just me and mom awake on the way home, and, starting at around 9 years old, I am the one who had to give her directions because she could never remember how to get back home. That's how and why I learned how to read a map and have never become hopelessly lost anywhere.

When you're a kid in an alcoholic home, you often have to be the adult as well...

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
24. Once, my GF and I and another couple went camping at Virginia Beach (BEAUTIFUL).
Thu May 30, 2013, 03:14 PM
May 2013

.
.
.
I swore to myself that I was going to start each day with a BIG, strong frozen strawberry Daiquiri.
.
I took a blender, bought a case of strawberries at a farmer's market on the way out of town, and
took several half-gallons of rum.
.
Every morning about 6:30 AM (the sky was already bright by then), I would start the blender and
make daiquiris for myself and my friends. Almost every morning, a nearby camper would come over
kinda angry about the noise I was making so early. My answer was always, "Sorry... want a frozen
strawberry daiquiri?" They always did... and the person who came over as an angry neighbor never
failed to leave as a happy camper.
.
It was the only thing I drank all day -- but it sure was a wonderful way to start a beautiful morning.
.
.
.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
21. That was my
Thu May 30, 2013, 02:47 PM
May 2013

second husband, who is now dead.

First thing in the morning, there he would be, sitting at the kitchen table slugging down a few shots of Canadian Lord Calvert and a bottle of Bud.

He drove a truck for a steel company. Most of the time he was buzzed. I don't know how he ever escaped injuring or killing someone in that state.

He would come home and drink himself to sleep in front of the TV. How he managed not to burn himself up, I'll never know, either. He would pass out holding a lit cigarette. There were dozens of burn marks in the rug around his chair.

Next morning it would start all over again.

We lived together two years, were married for three before we separated.

What a god-awful life.

GoCubsGo

(32,078 posts)
32. Yes, especially since most people are joking.
Thu May 30, 2013, 07:47 PM
May 2013

I'm assuming...



(Yeah, Blackhawks! Please stop trying to kill me, guys.)

GoCubsGo

(32,078 posts)
34. Just finished a Leinenkugel's, myself.
Thu May 30, 2013, 08:15 PM
May 2013

Sunset Wheat. Perfect for a warm day like today. And, still trying to recover from last night's game (and the whole damn series). Holy crap! I almost resorted to the Sauza Gold to calm myself. Glad it turned out well.

 

blueamy66

(6,795 posts)
35. Crazy game!
Thu May 30, 2013, 08:26 PM
May 2013

Bad call! Saad didn't do a thing.

And it sux that they have to play back to back games this weekend! Stones in town or something? The ice is gonna be rough....

I told you about my guy's brother has some season tix, no? They sold their $200 per seat tix for last night's game for $1000.

I'll be cheering!! Keep in touch!



GoCubsGo

(32,078 posts)
43. Why yes, they are in town, from what I hear...
Thu May 30, 2013, 10:28 PM
May 2013



I don't know if I could have sold those tickets--not for under five figures, anyway. I understand that some of the seats on the glass were going for five grand each. I am sure there were some that paid more than that. And, yeah, that ref sucks. Don't get me started...
 

blueamy66

(6,795 posts)
44. Sweet pic. Will have to send to Mark.
Thu May 30, 2013, 10:38 PM
May 2013

His bro just had his knee replaced, so he was better off staying home! United center was rocking...no way the whistle was heard!

GoCubsGo

(32,078 posts)
45. The photo is from Ronnie's Twitter feed.
Thu May 30, 2013, 10:40 PM
May 2013

Your guy's brother picked a hell of a time to get his knee replace. Hope he's in better shape and can go to the next round.

 

blueamy66

(6,795 posts)
48. They live in NW Indy, so it's a bit of a drive
Thu May 30, 2013, 10:49 PM
May 2013

But my guy is willing to drive his bro for a chance to see a game!

GoCubsGo

(32,078 posts)
47. The selection down here is pretty slim.
Thu May 30, 2013, 10:48 PM
May 2013

I see the Sunset Wheat, Honey Weiss, Summer Shandy, and occasionally the seasonal Canoe Paddler. But, I have never been anywhere that sells the original Leinie's. Go figure.

nolabear

(41,959 posts)
41. Sweetheart. It's The Lounge. The Chapel is down the street.
Thu May 30, 2013, 09:24 PM
May 2013

Look, alcoholism is a terrible thing and causes terrible problems for many people. But all drinking is not alcoholism, just as all sex isn't abuse and all eating isn't gluttony and all flirting isn't a wild, raging affair.

Now, granted, I grew up in a part of the country where the consumption of alcohol has been raised to a high art like nowhere else on the planet. But like there, the emphasis here is, I think, on the celebration and not the drink.

And you'll find, I believe, that you'll suffer far less unpleasantness here than you will in the more, shall we say, "sober" (i.e. painfully neurotic and perpetually angry) areas of DU.

By the way, I don't drink much. But when I do I thoroughly, thoroughly enjoy it.

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