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Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 08:13 PM Aug 2013

Do you have a dream? What and Why? What are you willing to do to get it?

My dream for about the past 8 months has been to get myself into great shape so I can take triathlon training in 2014 and be able to enter a few amateur tri's by this time next year.

The why? To me, it seems to be one pinnacle of fitness, physical and mental. It is the opposite of weak. I was weak last year, with disastrous results. Never again.

Me, as I discussed in another thread, working out in a serious way, a professionally designed and supervised program. Cycling is easy, I'm great at that. Running, well, I hadn't run in 20 years almost, and I was never that serious about it back then. So out of shape a year ago walking was a challenge at first. Running is picking up serious steam now.

Which brings us to swimming. Signed up for the lessons 2 months ago. Had never swam, never been in a pool, had a near drowning incident as a young kid. Terrified of water. Faced my fears, stared it down, did 5 laps this morning, very poorly. But it is amazing progress for me.

As I said in another thread, talked to the tri coach, he says do what I'm doing, and I will be totally ready come 2014.

What is your dream?

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Do you have a dream? What and Why? What are you willing to do to get it? (Original Post) Denninmi Aug 2013 OP
That is an incredible journey, Denninmi. femmocrat Aug 2013 #1
Good for you, my dear Denninmi! CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2013 #2
I am the same way about painting, Peggy. femmocrat Aug 2013 #3
Ah, thank you! CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2013 #4
Thanks so much. femmocrat Aug 2013 #5
I dream of training my arabian mare to grand prix in dressage magical thyme Aug 2013 #6
Determined. Denninmi Aug 2013 #8
I think my problem is that I no longer have a dream. mnhtnbb Aug 2013 #7
I know what you're saying... pipi_k Aug 2013 #10
I felt that way last year. Denninmi Aug 2013 #12
Never too late. Denninmi Aug 2013 #13
Already did a marathon Xyzse Aug 2013 #9
My dream is planned to happen in six years Bunnahabhain Aug 2013 #11

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
1. That is an incredible journey, Denninmi.
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 08:22 PM
Aug 2013

You have more than dreams, you have GOALS.

I have "dream"-dreams.... you know, the kind that will probably never come true. Going to Paris, buying a condo at the beach, dancing at my granddaughter's wedding. I am getting near retirement and I have make some decisions about how I want to live the rest of my life.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,534 posts)
2. Good for you, my dear Denninmi!
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 08:23 PM
Aug 2013

You have really been tenacious about your dreams and goals, and this is paying off.

My dream is to be a really good poet. I've been writing and taking classes for a number of years now, and I'm doing pretty well. I haven't been very aggressive about getting published, but now and then a piece does get accepted. It's a great feeling!

I often lack the discipline to write and I know this is holding me up. I have to be inspired to write really well, and that doesn't always happen. But when I work at it, then it does.

I know I have the ability to do well...



femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
3. I am the same way about painting, Peggy.
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 08:28 PM
Aug 2013

I know I have the ability, but lack the inspiration. I admire those who can devote themselves entirely to their talent. I just don't have that work-ethic, or passion, or whatever it takes.

Congratulations on your successes, though. That has to give you that little "push" to keep at it.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,534 posts)
4. Ah, thank you!
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 08:32 PM
Aug 2013

I love the challenge of the blank computer screen when the words are forming inside my head! And the real satisfaction that arrives when I've read them before a crowd who enjoyed hearing me.

Good luck with your painting!

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
5. Thanks so much.
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 08:35 PM
Aug 2013

Right now I am looking at a fairly large (unfinished) watercolor that has been sitting here for months.... and I need it for school next week. LOL Nothing like a little pressure to spur performance. I'm a terrible procrastinator.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
6. I dream of training my arabian mare to grand prix in dressage
Tue Aug 13, 2013, 08:06 AM
Aug 2013

I've raised her since she was 18 months old; she is very athletic, high energy, smart, sensitive and bit reactive, but has demonstrated all the right moves (along with quite a few scary "airs above the ground&quot in her pasture play. My original dream was to train a hanoverian mare, but fate and money (of lack of) sidetracked that dream until after I win the lottery.

To that end, after my hi-tech marcom career crashed in 2002, I bought a minifarm in Maine, built a barn (learned to use power tools in the process) and fenced the pasture (pro-installed on roadside, learned to use t-stake pounder on inside), brought my elderly gelding home, and eventually rescued a small breeder by buying Dahli. All of these stages have excrutiatingly long and agonizing stories attached.

Anywho, after many delays, and endless ground training, I started Dahli under saddle last summer and early fall. After 10 weeks of not putting one hoof out of place, she turned rodeo bronc. Aaack. She is very athletic. This summer she is back under saddle and repeating last summer's work, plus moving ahead slowly. Weather, work schedule and fatigue are constant battles.

Every day I wake up exhausted, a bit achey, and determined to work with her in whatever way possible. Today, I am using up my sick day and playing hookey from work to keep her somewhat on track and schedule. We are working on walk/trot/walk transitions and sitting trot, turn on forehand through the walk, and leg yield at walk and trot. As soon as the footing permits, we'll re-introduce canter. I also need to start working her on "rubber banding" (shortened working trot to lengthened working trot back to shortened working trot, to introduce the concept of collection).

mnhtnbb

(31,374 posts)
7. I think my problem is that I no longer have a dream.
Tue Aug 13, 2013, 08:31 AM
Aug 2013

I did, about 15 years ago, aspire to writing a one woman show for myself.
Had taken up acting when I was 40--wrote my first play when I was 49--lost
everything I'd ever written (kept journals since I was late 30's) in a house
fire when I was 56. Now I'm 62 and don't know if I have the determination,
inspiration, or discipline to pursue that same dream. I may have to figure
out another dream.

Good for you for going after your dream. You can do it!

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
10. I know what you're saying...
Tue Aug 13, 2013, 11:52 AM
Aug 2013

When I was younger I had all sorts of dreams.

I wanted to travel to England...the Amazon...

I wanted to be a figure skater

I wanted, after the kids were grown, to buy a motor home and travel around the US, meeting new people (Inspired by Charles Kuralt's show, "On The Road" and by William Least Heat Moon's, "Blue Highways".

I wanted to hike the Appalachian Trail

Those dreams will never happen now. I have a disability which severely restricts my travel, and my knees and feet, never good to begin with, are shot.

All these years later I still get choked up whenever I see the Christmas cartoon, "Rudolph the Red-nosed Reindeer" and on the Island of Misfit Toys, Charlie-in-the-box says he's going to bed to dream of next Christmas, and the little dolly says, "I have no more dreams left to dream".

There's nothing worse that can happen to a person's psyche than to lose one's dreams.

Like you, I will have to figure out some other ones...

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
12. I felt that way last year.
Tue Aug 13, 2013, 01:35 PM
Aug 2013

In fact, I thought I was literally going to die on the street, homeless, miserable. I'm a dramatically happier boy a year later. The other thing, I felt like the system was designed to make people buy into a belief that they are weak, sick, dependent, not capable of either recovery or having a life of independence, dignity, be self-supporting, functional, normal. Not all MH professionals/systems mind you, but some. I guess one thing, the program I did was full of profoundly ill people, many straight from inpatient. So, geared to the demographic I guess.

Xyzse

(8,217 posts)
9. Already did a marathon
Tue Aug 13, 2013, 11:40 AM
Aug 2013

Next dream is doing American Ninja Warrior, at least the first challenge. Even if I only make it up to the 2nd challenge, I don't care.
Yep.

Good luck on yours!

 

Bunnahabhain

(857 posts)
11. My dream is planned to happen in six years
Tue Aug 13, 2013, 12:28 PM
Aug 2013

I want to play the piobaireachd "Lament for the Children" while standing in front of the MacCrimmon's cairn on the Island of Skye. This is not me, this is Bruce Gandy (a very famous piper) playing the lament.

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