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Is anyone afraid of dying? (Original Post) MrScorpio Sep 2013 OP
... nolabear Sep 2013 #1
No, but I'm not ready to try it. In_The_Wind Sep 2013 #2
Remember what your life was like before you were born? Xithras Sep 2013 #7
... In_The_Wind Sep 2013 #16
The human mind is not able to make sense out of nothing, or nonexistence. Dash87 Sep 2013 #29
Look beyond In_The_Wind Sep 2013 #30
Nah. rrneck Sep 2013 #3
Only by shark attack. RiffRandell Sep 2013 #4
I'm afraid of dying... RevStPatrick Sep 2013 #5
Kinda Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #6
I am less afraid of dying Jenoch Sep 2013 #8
I don't really worry about the being gone part of dying. I just don't want it to hurt. Arkansas Granny Sep 2013 #9
Painfully or lingering, yes. Denninmi Sep 2013 #10
Who honestly isn't? Jamaal510 Sep 2013 #11
Yes. but I try not to think about it. I think we all are, deep down. nt raccoon Sep 2013 #12
I was diagnosed with liver cancer 10 days ago. Before that, not so much.... Rowdyboy Sep 2013 #13
Aww Rowdy, so sorry Marrah_G Sep 2013 #15
Thanks. The more I stay busy, the less I dwell on it. I have good doctors, a good support system Rowdyboy Sep 2013 #18
Keep us updated okay? Marrah_G Sep 2013 #20
Will do. I'm optimistic by nature Rowdyboy Sep 2013 #21
I'm sorry. In_The_Wind Sep 2013 #17
Much appreciated my friend ...And I really don't want to hijack this thread.... Rowdyboy Sep 2013 #19
I know you don't want to hijack the thread, LeftofObama Sep 2013 #25
Vibes coming your way for a complete recovery liberaltrucker Sep 2013 #24
You are in my prayers Rowdyboy. hrmjustin Sep 2013 #32
many prayers and a speedy recovery nt steve2470 Sep 2013 #35
Not afraid of dying, but afraid that it will hurt Marrah_G Sep 2013 #14
I understand completely. hrmjustin Sep 2013 #33
Nope. One of my theme songs liberaltrucker Sep 2013 #22
Not really. I am 74 and don't want to rush it to my demise. n/t RebelOne Sep 2013 #23
Not at all, because thanks to denial, I'm going to live forever! NuclearDem Sep 2013 #26
I'll try anything once! Twice if I'm really good! Dash87 Sep 2013 #27
Two things bother me rurallib Sep 2013 #28
Not so much Generic Brad Sep 2013 #31
A part of me wants to live forever... MrMickeysMom Sep 2013 #34
yea steve2470 Sep 2013 #36
Noone gets to die. RedCloud Sep 2013 #37

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
7. Remember what your life was like before you were born?
Mon Sep 9, 2013, 01:43 PM
Sep 2013

If there's nothing, then that's what dying would be like.

Dash87

(3,220 posts)
29. The human mind is not able to make sense out of nothing, or nonexistence.
Mon Sep 9, 2013, 09:41 PM
Sep 2013

It's a complete contradiction and paradox in our minds. We believe that everything must have a start and finish, everything is real only if we see it, and nothingness cannot exist.

The concept of 'nothing' is illogical when described as a feeling, as feelings always require something as a stimulus. People can't experience 'nothing,' and therefore there's no reason to worry about it.

RiffRandell

(5,909 posts)
4. Only by shark attack.
Mon Sep 9, 2013, 11:17 AM
Sep 2013

Last edited Mon Sep 9, 2013, 04:54 PM - Edit history (1)

Other that that no, but I would feel bad leaving my husband and kids behind.

 

RevStPatrick

(2,208 posts)
5. I'm afraid of dying...
Mon Sep 9, 2013, 11:45 AM
Sep 2013

...but I'm not afraid of being dead.

When you're dead, you're dead.
But dying can be ugly and painful and take a long time.
I want to go fast.
Once I'm gone, no problem...

Bertha Venation

(21,484 posts)
6. Kinda
Mon Sep 9, 2013, 11:50 AM
Sep 2013

I sure as hell don't want to die, but I'm not sure I fear it.

Being tremendously co-dependent, mainly I don't want to die because of how the people I leave behind will feel. Thinking of their grief kills me.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
8. I am less afraid of dying
Mon Sep 9, 2013, 02:53 PM
Sep 2013

than I am afraid of surviving an accident with severe disabilities that would make me a large burden on my family.

Arkansas Granny

(31,515 posts)
9. I don't really worry about the being gone part of dying. I just don't want it to hurt.
Mon Sep 9, 2013, 03:06 PM
Sep 2013

Quick and painless is what I'm hoping for.

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
10. Painfully or lingering, yes.
Mon Sep 9, 2013, 03:19 PM
Sep 2013

Watched a coworker I had become close to die of ALS, it was horrible for everyone involved. She took it with a lt of dignity though.

Jamaal510

(10,893 posts)
11. Who honestly isn't?
Mon Sep 9, 2013, 03:37 PM
Sep 2013

Everyone probably is at least a little afraid of death. But for me personally, I try not to worry about the inevitable or other things that I have no control over.

Rowdyboy

(22,057 posts)
13. I was diagnosed with liver cancer 10 days ago. Before that, not so much....
Mon Sep 9, 2013, 04:02 PM
Sep 2013

Today, yeah, pretty much. It definitely changes your outlook. No idea yet what stage or if its spread but I'll know more in a week or two.

Rowdyboy

(22,057 posts)
18. Thanks. The more I stay busy, the less I dwell on it. I have good doctors, a good support system
Mon Sep 9, 2013, 04:59 PM
Sep 2013

and both regular and cancer insurance. That's about the best anyone could hope for until we know more.

And thanks for the hug. I appreciate every single one....

Rowdyboy

(22,057 posts)
19. Much appreciated my friend ...And I really don't want to hijack this thread....
Mon Sep 9, 2013, 05:00 PM
Sep 2013

Last edited Mon Sep 9, 2013, 07:00 PM - Edit history (1)

So far so good.

LeftofObama

(4,243 posts)
25. I know you don't want to hijack the thread,
Mon Sep 9, 2013, 06:17 PM
Sep 2013

but I just wanted to pop in to say you are in my thoughts. I wish you a speedy healing and recovery. Please keep us informed.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
33. I understand completely.
Mon Sep 9, 2013, 10:55 PM
Sep 2013

My grandmother was in a coma for a month before she died and it was hard to watch. I loved her very much. My mother and I took shifts with her in the last 3 years of her life so she did not have to leave her home. She died looking in my eyes.

My friend died of brain cancer and I took care of him the last 6 months of his life and watched a strong 69 year old man turn into an invalid. He was in so much pain but the hospice took over and he had a peaceful death.

I want to just drop dead and that is it.

liberaltrucker

(9,129 posts)
22. Nope. One of my theme songs
Mon Sep 9, 2013, 05:48 PM
Sep 2013


I had a few VERY close calls during my trucking years.
By any measure, I shouldn't be here today.
I'm not afraid of death, but as was mentioned upthread,
I hope it isn't painful. I'm a wuss when it comes to pain.




MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
34. A part of me wants to live forever...
Mon Sep 9, 2013, 11:53 PM
Sep 2013

But, that may be true, once I leave this form... So, it's a work in progress. I'm not afraid of dying, but I don't want to get "old"... I want to be free until I leave "this form".

Ain't it the truth, Mr. Scorpio? And what of you?

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
36. yea
Tue Sep 10, 2013, 12:43 AM
Sep 2013

I'm definitely not ready to die. There's too much life left to live.

Quick and painless and all loose ends tied up, please. I was going to write a lot more, but this isn't the Religion group

RedCloud

(9,230 posts)
37. Noone gets to die.
Tue Sep 10, 2013, 11:44 AM
Sep 2013

You just get rematerialized and become slaves of superadvanced beings often confused with gods.

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