My ex messaged me to ask how I was after my accident...

[Gravitycollapse]

And then proceeded to scold me for being reckless and stupid.

I was kind of in awe and didn't know how to respond.

Seriously, why would she do that?

[BainsBane]

1. Sounds like she was worried about you

and then old habits kicked in.

[B Calm]

2. Sounds like she still loves you!

[snappyturtle]

3. She cares. nt

[Gravitycollapse]

4. I find that hard to believe considering how she threw our relationship away like it was nothing.

[snappyturtle]

5. People change. nt

[eShirl]

6. I find it entirely believeable, assuming she's not a sociopath.

Humans are complicated and sometimes inconsistent.

[pinboy3niner]

8. Were you being reckless and stupid?

She may know you better than we do.

[DFW]

9. Memory fails me

It's been 40 years since I've had an ex

[nomorenomore08]

10. I agree with the others on the thread. She may not have "feelings" for you anymore

but clearly she still cares about you as a person. And I'm sure she's well aware that she hurt you, whether she considers that a necessary evil or not.

[NewJeffCT]

11. she might care about you as a person

just not a boyfriend.

[Suich]

12. How's your arm today, Gravitycollapse?

Take all your pills???

[Gravitycollapse]

13. Yes, all pills have been taken. The infection is receding.

And becoming very itchy.