I just realized today that I am attracted to men who are blond, attractive, and sulky.

[raccoon]

James Dean, a neighbor who was my first RL crush, and somebody I see occasionally now.

[KamaAina]

1. I'll dye my hair.

[loli phabay]

2. always thought you were a female, dont know why

[KamaAina]

3. I get that a lot.

Perhaps because the name ends in a vowel (it means "local person" in Hawaiian, where I lived when I joined DU).

[loli phabay]

4. yup i think its due to the name ending in an a, which i think means female

My mistake of course but funny how the subconscious works.

[KamaAina]

6. Asa

is a counterexample.

[loli phabay]

8. yup, in the east the a is usually the feminine

[libodem]

13. me too

I find it oddly disorienting when I'm wrong. Even after I'm corrected I occasionally forget who is what.

[In_The_Wind]

5. Meh. I prefer a man with those attributes but with darker hair.

It could be dark blond but not a light blond.

[KamaAina]

7. Talk to me.

[loli phabay]

9. rich and powerful.

[NewJeffCT]

10. Isn't that kind of Brad Pitt now?

or is he not sulky enough?

[raccoon]

20. Not sulky enough. nt

[Manifestor_of_Light]

11. I like "smart as hell" and brunette, can be tall or short.

Though I prefer short, because I'm petite myself.

When I got to college I found out about smart ones (science/engineering/math majors) who were also crazy musicians. I used to date fiddlers I met in orchestra (viola, cello or bass players).

Clue: The guy in my avatar who has a Ph.D. in Astrophysics, so you should call him "Dr. May".

My other celebrity crush is Lewis Black. I've met him in person after one of his gigs, and he's adorable and has a total aura of "nice person radiating force field of charisma".

At my age I don't see very many men who impress me with their talent and charisma. Another one with charisma is Paul Stookey.

[DFW]

12. I always adored tall, willowy brunettes

Asian, Latin, Black haired Celtic, it didn't matter to me.

So who do I end up marrying? A blue-eyed German blonde woman. Never try to second-guess fate, because you'll lose.

[dawg]

14. Yay!

Thanks for showing some love for us "less than gigantic" guys.

[Manifestor_of_Light]

28. I never figured out why guys were supposed to be tall.

I think short people are often dominated by tall men. In fact, some tall men admit that they enjoy intimidating other people.

I had a tall mother, a tall grandmother, a taller than average dad (five-eleven, big strong man at 180 lbs), uncles on both sides that were six foot two and skinny--so what happened to me?

Five foot two and small bones. I'm a mini me version of Mom, she had small bones, but just taller & bigger frame.

[dawg]

15. I know I'm not blond ...

Attractive is in the eye of the beholder; some women think I'm attractive, others don't.

But I really have to wonder ...

Am I sulky?

[raccoon]

21. You could work on the sulky part, and bleach your hair. nt

[pipi_k]

16. Not a big fan

of blond men, really.


I'm more attracted to the Native American type.

Like Eric Schweig (Last of the Mohicans)







And Lolly Vegas, of Redbone...

[cherokeeprogressive]

18. How about Adam Beach, when he was in Smoke Signals?

[Brigid]

19. Love him!

He was in Wind Talkers" too, and was on "Law & Order SVU" for a while.

[pipi_k]

25. Didn't see

that movie, but yeah...he would be on my list too.

[magical thyme]

26. oooohhhh...be still my heart

yes, he is definitely my type.

[cherokeeprogressive]

27. LOL I'm a straight guy and he could be my type. n/t

[loli phabay]

17. for me height and weight proportionate is also very important

[B Calm]

22. What's wrong with short, fat, bald men

with lots of money?

[loli phabay]

23. depends on how much money and how much would come my way i suppose.

[RedCloud]

24. I have two of those if you count bulky as "sulky".

I am hoping to come in second place or so.