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MissB

(15,806 posts)
Tue Feb 18, 2014, 12:46 PM Feb 2014

Misdirected emails - obligations?

Autocorrect redirects someone else's emails to me now and then. I know the other MissB lives in Texas, is a teacher, is getting married soon, and visits the dentist regularly.

I try to reply to these folks, letting them know that they've managed to get the wrong MissB. I was sorely tempted to mess with the "bridesmaids dresses" email chain, because really, all bridesmaids dresses suck so what harm could I truly do? But in the end, I noted that, once again, I wasn't the right MissB.

Do I have a moral obligation to answer these emails? Am I being too polite? Is it ever really ok to just delete?

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Misdirected emails - obligations? (Original Post) MissB Feb 2014 OP
It depends... Ron Obvious Feb 2014 #1
It doesn't take any longer to hit reply than to hit delete LoveMyCali Feb 2014 #2
well, anasv Feb 2014 #3
I get emails from a grammer school in Australia Ohio Joe Feb 2014 #4
Well if she is getting married AND visits the dentist regularly, then yes you have an obligation davidpdx Feb 2014 #5
Do you think she is getting emails meant for you? noamnety Feb 2014 #6
If somebody I know sends me an email meant for somebody else, I let them know struggle4progress Feb 2014 #7
At work.... sendero Feb 2014 #8
Depends on message - I got a voicemail - not an email but LiberalElite Feb 2014 #9
 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
1. It depends...
Tue Feb 18, 2014, 01:41 PM
Feb 2014

It happens to me from time to time as well. Some of them are clearly spam pretending to be misdirected email because they include a link. Some of those are quite clever, actually.

If it's obviously important and a genuine mistake is made, I usually reply. If it's just a group letter or a useless bit of FYI, I delete.

LoveMyCali

(2,015 posts)
2. It doesn't take any longer to hit reply than to hit delete
Tue Feb 18, 2014, 03:45 PM
Feb 2014

You don't have to give a big explanation just Wrong address should work. I would want someone one to tell me.

 

anasv

(225 posts)
3. well,
Tue Feb 18, 2014, 04:03 PM
Feb 2014

If they're genuine and it's only one or two people, I would tell them, and note that you'll just delete any future email from them.

If it's a bunch of people, I'd tell the right person what's happening and that you will just delete future such email. I assume you have her email address....

Ohio Joe

(21,755 posts)
4. I get emails from a grammer school in Australia
Tue Feb 18, 2014, 10:43 PM
Feb 2014

Been getting them for almost two years now. The first six months, I kept replying back and telling them I live in Colorado and was pretty certain I had no kids in their school but... They just keep sending them to me. Now they go to my spam filter.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
5. Well if she is getting married AND visits the dentist regularly, then yes you have an obligation
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 07:55 AM
Feb 2014

Sorry, I couldn't resist.

My only advice is do what you think is right.

 

noamnety

(20,234 posts)
6. Do you think she is getting emails meant for you?
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 08:24 AM
Feb 2014

Maybe an email straight to her setting an agreement that you'll forward each other's emails would be mutually beneficial.

struggle4progress

(118,281 posts)
7. If somebody I know sends me an email meant for somebody else, I let them know
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 07:02 PM
Feb 2014

I feel no obligation to the rest: I figure they might be fakes trying to mass produce lists of live email addresses for spammers

sendero

(28,552 posts)
8. At work....
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 10:28 PM
Feb 2014

.... my email address is one character different than another guy's. Every day or two I get something intended for him. Most of the time I reply with the correct address. Some times I forward with an admonition to inform the sender of the correct address.

It's all a big pain in the ass but somehow I cannot stop dealing with it. Most of the emails seem pretty important, some of them have contracts and such attached.

As much as I'd like to be a hard-ass about it and just delete them, I cannot.

LiberalElite

(14,691 posts)
9. Depends on message - I got a voicemail - not an email but
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 10:43 PM
Feb 2014

I got a message and it was a wrong number. So what you may think. Me too. Except the message from an unknown woman was: "Joy, Darling I can't wait to see you, Darling I'm only here for 3 days, Darling." (I'm not kidding.) Other wrong numbers I've ignored - I called back to tell her she dialed a wrong number - I wasn't "Joy." She thanked me.

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