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Anybody else think that GD is kind of mean spirited? (Original Post) OmahaBlueDog Feb 2014 OP
well, maybe. Ptah Feb 2014 #1
KIND OF?!? Aristus Feb 2014 #2
Hmmmmmm.... OmahaBlueDog Feb 2014 #9
It only took ten minutes for the "Oh yeah? Well...well...well...car exhaust is deadly, so let's ban Aristus Feb 2014 #11
Good show! nt MrScorpio Feb 2014 #21
Nice! geardaddy Feb 2014 #43
That's like saying Kim Jong-un is bossy. rug Feb 2014 #3
He wouldn't last 5 minutes in GD OmahaBlueDog Feb 2014 #8
Yes. Agree completely nt riderinthestorm Feb 2014 #4
It took awhile sharp_stick Feb 2014 #5
Sadly, I think taking Meta off was a mistake. Xyzse Feb 2014 #31
I am relatively new kairos12 Feb 2014 #87
Meta was a place people could discuss grievances. Xyzse Feb 2014 #91
I think Meta was the greatest forum ever JonLP24 Feb 2014 #63
It sure as hell allowed the steam to blow off sharp_stick Feb 2014 #71
There is just something about it that I can't quite put my finger on. In_The_Wind Feb 2014 #6
GD has been hijacked by a group who continually belittles, insults but not vulgar enough to get txwhitedove Feb 2014 #7
I agree davidpdx Feb 2014 #79
Nah, it's not mean spirited. NutmegYankee Feb 2014 #10
Sometimes it's not Hydrochloric acid at all. A HERETIC I AM Feb 2014 #26
... lol... thanks for the visiual ... Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #29
Thanks a bunch!!!!! Now I'm going to have insert a bottle brush in my left ear and try to scrub..... LongTomH Feb 2014 #90
I want to put a PSA for the Lounge here, if you don't mind. Kali Feb 2014 #12
For the record, this is actually a copycat thread OmahaBlueDog Feb 2014 #16
I didn't get that, no - sorry. Kali Feb 2014 #17
mean-spirited? Chan790 Feb 2014 #13
If one does choose to go into battle there... NutmegYankee Feb 2014 #15
We're sorry, but your allotted time for using the computer is up... yuiyoshida Feb 2014 #14
I love that gif... Phentex Feb 2014 #40
What is it with cats and computers? Art_from_Ark Feb 2014 #49
It's not the keynoard. DamnYankeeInHouston Feb 2014 #50
This is GD in a nutshell. edbermac Feb 2014 #18
No... MrMickeysMom Feb 2014 #73
I don't care what side of an issue you are on aint_no_life_nowhere Feb 2014 #19
Yep, that's about right davidpdx Feb 2014 #27
Definitely MrScorpio Feb 2014 #20
GD is nowhere as bad as the YouTube comments. Jamaal510 Feb 2014 #22
I have solved my GD problem Sherman A1 Feb 2014 #23
I just did that too PasadenaTrudy Feb 2014 #34
I believe you will find Sherman A1 Feb 2014 #35
Smart man... Blue_Tires Feb 2014 #67
I would try Sherman A1 Feb 2014 #69
There does seem to be a problem with SI models, lol B Calm Feb 2014 #24
The SI is founded antiquie Feb 2014 #47
No, it's not just you. Lasher Feb 2014 #25
Kind of? DFW Feb 2014 #28
That's because... pipi_k Feb 2014 #30
Oh jeepers, don't start that again OmahaBlueDog Feb 2014 #36
Peaks and valleys Boom Sound 416 Feb 2014 #32
Twin Peaks: Good Eats, Scenic Views OmahaBlueDog Feb 2014 #38
I feel like I've heard that bit Boom Sound 416 Feb 2014 #42
Twin Peaks is a restaurant OmahaBlueDog Feb 2014 #83
Valleys? Seems more like the Marianas Trench. n/t winter is coming Feb 2014 #46
Oh it's deep in there Boom Sound 416 Feb 2014 #48
Hah! Try venturing into the Latin America forum now that Venezuela is in an uproar. a la izquierda Feb 2014 #33
I can tell you it is no fun hosting GD. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #37
I hope you realize I'm attempting to poke fun. OmahaBlueDog Feb 2014 #39
today we may need them. But yes GD has taken a dark turn at times. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #41
wanted to say, no problems with locking my thread today. Old and In the Way Feb 2014 #51
Thank you for not taking it personally. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #52
I take nothing said to me here, personally. Old and In the Way Feb 2014 #53
Hang in there. In_The_Wind Feb 2014 #54
Your not going to gd host again? hrmjustin Feb 2014 #55
No sir, I'm not. In_The_Wind Feb 2014 #56
Don't blame you at all. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #57
Thank you for understanding. In_The_Wind Feb 2014 #58
I think when I sign up for mirt again I might time my gd sign up to when my mirt term ends. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #59
Sounds like a plan for personal sanity. In_The_Wind Feb 2014 #60
Always fun working with you. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #61
Thank you for your service libodem Feb 2014 #65
Thanks my friend. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #66
Anyone else think the Pope is Catholic? nt LiberalEsto Feb 2014 #44
... Boom Sound 416 Feb 2014 #62
Your candidate sucks. WilliamPitt Feb 2014 #45
Hillary! Elizabeth! Hillary! Elizabeth! Hillary! OmahaBlueDog Feb 2014 #76
Duh libodem Feb 2014 #64
No bigwillq Feb 2014 #68
You know, the couple of times I've gotten really LisaLynne Feb 2014 #70
The Lounge has had some moments OmahaBlueDog Feb 2014 #84
a lot of the time treestar Feb 2014 #72
I was reading comments and I conclude... MrMickeysMom Feb 2014 #74
It's a place where politics gets discussed on the internet. NuclearDem Feb 2014 #75
Some political sites are mutual admiration societies OmahaBlueDog Feb 2014 #77
I love GD. ZombieHorde Feb 2014 #78
That's not exactly the words I'd use davidpdx Feb 2014 #80
See if you can get Google to translate the you'd use words into Latin of French OmahaBlueDog Feb 2014 #82
I probably could davidpdx Feb 2014 #88
No not at all just too many people with thin skin in GD wocaonimabi Feb 2014 #81
GD needs to be renamed to GF - General Fights kentauros Feb 2014 #85
I'd say it should be GF for Grautitous Fights. winter is coming Feb 2014 #86
You're right. kentauros Feb 2014 #89
Absolutely. Certain groups make a point of doing it too. Katashi_itto Feb 2014 #92
I have absolutely no problem with GD Madam Mossfern Feb 2014 #93

Aristus

(66,318 posts)
2. KIND OF?!?
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 07:52 PM
Feb 2014

Sheesh! It's like Idiocracy combined with Soylent Green in there.

I responded to a post once, in my capacity as a Physician Assistant, that smokers shouldn't smoke around their kids, or you know, smoke at all anyway. You should have heard the howls of outrage from the smokers. Everything from "nicotine isn't poison!" to "I've smoked three packs a day for forty years and I'm perfectly fine!" to "You're not really a medical provider if you dared to say something like that, so phthpthphthphth!"

I got called a torturer and an unethical provider when I mentioned an encounter once with a patient trying to shake me down for narcotics.

I have DU friends who are constantly raked over the coals in GD for anything at all or nothing.

It's insane...




Aristus

(66,318 posts)
11. It only took ten minutes for the "Oh yeah? Well...well...well...car exhaust is deadly, so let's ban
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 08:55 PM
Feb 2014

CARS!" idiot to show up...

Xyzse

(8,217 posts)
31. Sadly, I think taking Meta off was a mistake.
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 11:42 AM
Feb 2014

GD allows for actual conversation while Meta was a place for griping and drama.

The nice thing about Meta however, was that it was private and not shown in the general place if you're not a member.
It limits the kind of crazy that we see nowadays in GD that any body could see, and can be google-able.

I thought of Meta as a necessary evil as a release valve.

Xyzse

(8,217 posts)
91. Meta was a place people could discuss grievances.
Mon Feb 24, 2014, 03:15 AM
Feb 2014

However, it was private, and only members of the site can access it.

sharp_stick

(14,400 posts)
71. It sure as hell allowed the steam to blow off
Fri Feb 21, 2014, 10:51 PM
Feb 2014

I learned a lot about people during that phase of DU.

txwhitedove

(3,928 posts)
7. GD has been hijacked by a group who continually belittles, insults but not vulgar enough to get
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 08:19 PM
Feb 2014

banned. It's disgusting.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
79. I agree
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 07:26 AM
Feb 2014

They bash the president and the US. I've never seen people hate their own country so much except for maybe North Koreans.

NutmegYankee

(16,199 posts)
10. Nah, it's not mean spirited.
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 08:36 PM
Feb 2014

It's like a giant Olympic sized swimming pool just begging for a swimmer on a blazing hot day.

Only problem is it's filled with 100% Hydrochloric acid.

A HERETIC I AM

(24,366 posts)
26. Sometimes it's not Hydrochloric acid at all.
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 07:17 AM
Feb 2014

Sometimes it seems as if it is filled with 2000 middle aged, pot bellied Greek men with bad mustaches who are all wearing Speedos and speaking 25 different dialects of Greek, Albanian and Macedonian. They elbow their way to the spot on the slope of the pool that perfectly aligns with their nipples, and if you are in that spot, watch the fuck out.


Sorry.

I had a vision.

LongTomH

(8,636 posts)
90. Thanks a bunch!!!!! Now I'm going to have insert a bottle brush in my left ear and try to scrub.....
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 12:31 AM
Feb 2014

......that image from my frontal lobes!!!!

Kali

(55,007 posts)
12. I want to put a PSA for the Lounge here, if you don't mind.
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 08:56 PM
Feb 2014

and this goes to the folks replying as well (or maybe more so)

Part of what should make the lounge more comfortable than GD is that is is NOT GD. It is a generally accepted "policy" that we can rag on GD if it is done in a humorous way but calling out and real complaining of it or especially other groups or individuals is not cool.

So yeah, GD is and the Lounge is more with a touch of but please keep the out





end of my




Kali

(55,007 posts)
17. I didn't get that, no - sorry.
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 10:43 PM
Feb 2014

honestly your OP is even OK stand alone without knowing the copycat (though more funny is always better!) but a few of the replies were veering towards gd-level bleh.

Kind of touchy out there and it needs to STAY out there. I didn't alert or anything, and I doubt if we could get consensus to lock anyway just wanted to remind EVERYBODY of the Lounge's purpose.

Our social forum. Relax with your friends and talk about off-topic stuff. The Lounge is supposed to be a friendly, welcoming place for everyone. No cliquish behavior. No drama. No political arguments. No whining about DU.



 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
13. mean-spirited?
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 08:58 PM
Feb 2014

Understatement is not your friend.

It's a malevolent shithole many days where the knights of perpetual outrage joust for supremacy against the footmen of poor taste.

NutmegYankee

(16,199 posts)
15. If one does choose to go into battle there...
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 09:46 PM
Feb 2014

Given the rustiness of the spears and swords, get a tetanus shot first. Oh, and a big package of painkillers!

DamnYankeeInHouston

(1,365 posts)
50. It's not the keynoard.
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 09:17 PM
Feb 2014

It's human hands ignoring a cat. I used to get the same treatment when I graded papers. One would always plop down on top of the stack making it impossible to do my job. Excuse me, my other job, my not patting the cat job.

aint_no_life_nowhere

(21,925 posts)
19. I don't care what side of an issue you are on
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 11:16 PM
Feb 2014

there are people who will jump down your throat, often over a detail in your post that wasn't even your central point. If I posted that the sky is blue I'm sure I'd get responses calling me an idiot because it's actually azure, or it's only blue during daytime.

Jamaal510

(10,893 posts)
22. GD is nowhere as bad as the YouTube comments.
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 12:14 AM
Feb 2014

At least there, bigotry is generally frowned upon. On YouTube, anybody can type anything they want to with very little negative repercussions.

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
23. I have solved my GD problem
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 05:53 AM
Feb 2014

I trashed the forum completely. It no longer shows up in my Latest Threads. If I happen upon a GD thread on the home page, I may read it, but will under no circumstances comment upon it and for the most part I participate much less on DU overall. I have found FB to be a better news feed for me.

PasadenaTrudy

(3,998 posts)
34. I just did that too
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 12:21 PM
Feb 2014

I just got so fed up. I had to trash so many threads and words, why not the whole dang thing. I'm sure my mental health and anxiety levels will greatly improve now

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
69. I would try
Fri Feb 21, 2014, 07:26 PM
Feb 2014

trashing the GD forum for awhile and see if your DU experience improves. I have found that by just going to the Lounge and the various groups in which I subscribe, it is a whole new world and a much more pleasant one. Life really is just too short.

OmahaBlueDog

(10,000 posts)
36. Oh jeepers, don't start that again
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 01:38 PM
Feb 2014

It took days to bring that fire under control. When you look around GD you can still see the charred sections.

OmahaBlueDog

(10,000 posts)
83. Twin Peaks is a restaurant
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 09:07 AM
Feb 2014

The "Good Eats, Scenic Views" is a reference to the servers being rather attractive young ladies in shorts and halter tops.

http://www.twinpeaksrestaurant.com/

 

Boom Sound 416

(4,185 posts)
48. Oh it's deep in there
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 05:03 PM
Feb 2014

And while I'm often under the pile, I'm steering well clear of that one.

Besides it's all kind of silly. We all basically agree with one another fundamentally

a la izquierda

(11,791 posts)
33. Hah! Try venturing into the Latin America forum now that Venezuela is in an uproar.
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 12:14 PM
Feb 2014

No thanks. And I have a PhD in the damn field. I stay out of both forums as if my life depends on it.

OmahaBlueDog

(10,000 posts)
39. I hope you realize I'm attempting to poke fun.
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 01:41 PM
Feb 2014

You and the other hosts of GD have a thankless job, for which I thank you. Hopefully Skinner and Earl G bought the hosts PPE -- y'know: hard hats, safety glasses, hearing protection....

Old and In the Way

(37,540 posts)
51. wanted to say, no problems with locking my thread today.
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 09:57 PM
Feb 2014

I imagine you got a lot of grief on that, but I feel I made my point and I would have wasted a lot more time today had it been kept open.

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
60. Sounds like a plan for personal sanity.
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 10:47 PM
Feb 2014

Both volunteer positions are stressful.

I'll offer to help MIRT again next Fall.

libodem

(19,288 posts)
65. Thank you for your service
Fri Feb 21, 2014, 05:22 PM
Feb 2014

You guys have way more action than Politics 2014. Way more. It has been a heck of a week.

OmahaBlueDog

(10,000 posts)
76. Hillary! Elizabeth! Hillary! Elizabeth! Hillary!
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 12:44 AM
Feb 2014

It's like watching tennis -- back and forth and back and forth.

LisaLynne

(14,554 posts)
70. You know, the couple of times I've gotten really
Fri Feb 21, 2014, 07:32 PM
Feb 2014

"attacked' or whatever you want to call it, it's been in the Lounge.

OmahaBlueDog

(10,000 posts)
84. The Lounge has had some moments
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 09:09 AM
Feb 2014

The words "Olive" and "Garden" should not be used together in the Lounge unless you are prepared for a very strong response.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
72. a lot of the time
Fri Feb 21, 2014, 11:35 PM
Feb 2014

there is a lot of snakiness.

Last time I checked . . . . .
Because that worked so well . . . . .
Sorry you believe it's OK to be spied on . . . . .

this kind of tonal quality.

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
74. I was reading comments and I conclude...
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 12:38 AM
Feb 2014

You guys know more about what goes on in GD than I do! And, I post there!

OmahaBlueDog

(10,000 posts)
77. Some political sites are mutual admiration societies
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 12:46 AM
Feb 2014

..granted, most of those are conservative sites.

(also, I almost used a word other than "admiration&quot

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
80. That's not exactly the words I'd use
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 07:27 AM
Feb 2014

and I'd tell you what words I'd use but I'm 100% sure the post would be hidden.

OmahaBlueDog

(10,000 posts)
82. See if you can get Google to translate the you'd use words into Latin of French
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 08:55 AM
Feb 2014

Then your rant gets an air of sophistication or romance that no jury or host could resist.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
88. I probably could
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 08:11 PM
Feb 2014

But still with my luck it would still be hidden. I'm sure there are more than a people few on here that know French or Latin.

 

wocaonimabi

(187 posts)
81. No not at all just too many people with thin skin in GD
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 07:48 AM
Feb 2014

But I am big into free speech too so short of death threats I don't car what is said.

If someone wants to call me a name so what, it does not make it true.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
85. GD needs to be renamed to GF - General Fights
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 04:23 PM
Feb 2014

I strive to only comment on those few threads that are more along the lines of a discussion and only casually skim the fights, usually having to back out of them because they're bringing my former good mood down to the basement drain.


Something that DU has taught me over the years is a couple of personal definitions of words.

A discussion is a conversation between two or more people with the intent to learn something between them.

A fight/debate is a verbal/written brawl with the intent to WiN!!11! at all costs.

I don't care if the dictionary agrees or not; that's my interpretation in how both are approached on DU

winter is coming

(11,785 posts)
86. I'd say it should be GF for Grautitous Fights.
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 07:47 PM
Feb 2014

A lot of the OPs seem to be looking for a fight rather than trying to start a conversation.

Madam Mossfern

(2,340 posts)
93. I have absolutely no problem with GD
Mon Feb 24, 2014, 07:00 AM
Feb 2014

It's best to grow a thick skin, but also to remember that it's merely a message board. I've been on forums that make GD seem extremely polite and mellow. I thought we believe in free speech, and if things get a bit too rough and tumble, there is always the lounge.


Isn't a thread calling out GD kind of, sort of, doing the same things that you're complaining about?

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