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[link:http://www.usatoday.com/story/money/personalfinance/2014/04/13/reasons-not-to-marry-or-remarry/7648231/|
Sheldon Cooper
(3,724 posts)Laws relating to worker's compensation insurance are one example of this. Someone whose spouse has died in a work-related accident may be eligible to receive a monthly benefit, paid for the rest of his or her life. However, most state laws provide that the benefits end if the recipient remarries.
This puts a real cost to remarrying. Consider a woman who, at age 50, loses her husband to a work-related accident and receives a settlement of $2,000 a month for life. Assuming she will live another 35 years and could invest the proceeds in a 3% bond, the present value of that income stream is $520,000. That means a person would need $520,000, invested at 3%, to give a monthly income of $2,000 for 35 years.
Therefore, if this woman fell in love and wanted to remarry two years into receiving the payments, the remaining 33 years of monthly payments she would forfeit has a value of $502,000. This puts a rather quantifiable cost on one's social, emotional and religious values.
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)Medical bills which can be in many thousands of dollars.
for many legally married couples living on low income, those bills can wipe out all living expenses.
Art_from_Ark
(27,247 posts)Who is paying 3%? The best I've seen is a fraction of 1%.
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)now in our 50s and still see no reason to marry. No kids, no house.
Downwinder
(12,869 posts)rates don't go up.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)because it would screw up their benefits. They both have disabilities.
Kaleva
(36,294 posts)Snap benefits and Home Heating Credit would be gone too.
My ex and are are both disabled and we weren't eligible for a number of benefits when we were married because of our combined income put us over the top. Divorced, we qualify.
We've talked about getting remarried but the way the system is set up, that doesn't make financial sense.
DFW
(54,338 posts)My wife and I got married because we got invited to our wedding by my brother, and it seemed like the thing to do. We didn't even think about finances at the time (it probably would have come up if we had had more finances to think about! LOL).