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It was her face that was the issue. 
No...while she was not a pretty woman (experimentation in "Can I date and eventually become attracted to someone I really like the personality of but who I find physically unappealing?" No, for those keeping score at home.), the real problems stemmed from her eventually-grating personality, demands that I propose after dating for less than 6 months, her taking it upon herself to invite herself to a family gathering when I was out of town (N.B. I hadn't introduced her to my family or my parents) and introducing herself as my fiance.
I not only dumped her and she assumed it was anything except her fault or the reason I gave her, I also had to get a TRO because she stalked me and thought "No." (As in "I won't let you break up with me."
was a reasonable response to said break-up.
