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steve2470

(37,457 posts)
Sun May 11, 2014, 04:25 AM May 2014

Men: Do you color your hair ?

Color = to another color or to hide gray, etc.

Personally, I do not (as he looks at his gradually graying follicles), but I have thought about it.

Simply curious. Ladies, if you want to chime in, feel free.


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Men: Do you color your hair ? (Original Post) steve2470 May 2014 OP
What hair? n/t intaglio May 2014 #1
one less decision to make :) nt steve2470 May 2014 #2
my point exactly... nt uriel1972 May 2014 #4
I'm in the same boat--voted "pass" and thought "I have hair?!" Chan790 May 2014 #6
Yup. Agschmid May 2014 #9
Yeah. I keep a tan on my scalp. trof May 2014 #22
Yep, mine is Shiny Scalp color. nt Codeine May 2014 #24
I dye my dark brown hair gray, to look more distinguished. Scuba May 2014 #3
I don't have any hair.. sendero May 2014 #5
I don't seem to need to... Ron Obvious May 2014 #7
Hell no! One of the true joys of getting old is that I no longer OffWithTheirHeads May 2014 #8
I'm more bummed about losing it than it going gray OriginalGeek May 2014 #10
actually I'm the same as you, but probably a tad more gray steve2470 May 2014 #11
lol yep OriginalGeek May 2014 #12
I don't really have enough hair to color. Aristus May 2014 #13
I've thought about it, but it isn't for me. Jokerman May 2014 #14
Nah, can't be bothered. DFW May 2014 #15
Nope....never thought much about it... Wounded Bear May 2014 #16
Hardly worth it with a #0 dipsydoodle May 2014 #17
Oh good gawd no! Iggo May 2014 #18
Not since the early 2000's Paulie May 2014 #19
I've never had to (yet), Jamaal510 May 2014 #20
Female here, only 33 - dye my hair regularly (no gray yet) just hate the natural blonde and but lov MillennialDem May 2014 #42
no female input ? ok nt steve2470 May 2014 #21
Most women do BainsBane May 2014 #30
your mother was very brave, for want of a better word steve2470 May 2014 #32
33 and not a single gray (yet) but already dye it because I don't like my natural color. I will cont MillennialDem May 2014 #43
I'm considering it. PeteSelman May 2014 #23
I did in high school (black, maroon, burgundy, blue) Codeine May 2014 #25
my hair refuses to gray handmade34 May 2014 #26
No. bigwillq May 2014 #27
I voted other PRETZEL May 2014 #28
Only the hair on my Chinny-chin-chin. n/t cherokeeprogressive May 2014 #29
Tried it once but the crayons kept breaking! whistler162 May 2014 #31
Don't need it yet. Xyzse May 2014 #33
I'm glad to see the 'No' vote winning. Wait Wut May 2014 #34
Hair??? progressoid May 2014 #35
I think the trick for men for dying hair is to get it to look natural Arugula Latte May 2014 #36
he must love that shade steve2470 May 2014 #37
Yes, to hide gray. It makes a difference, IMO. closeupready May 2014 #38
I don't think the gray in my hair looks all that bad. dawg May 2014 #39
Yes...about four different colors, all woven together jmowreader May 2014 #40
ughh, not another pubic hair thread again. Joe Shlabotnik May 2014 #41
No wonder so many said they shaved it off. MillennialDem May 2014 #44
I thought about it when I was looking for a job JustABozoOnThisBus May 2014 #45
. baldguy May 2014 #46
My coworker is four years younger than me and he's started darkening his beard Bucky May 2014 #47
I've been doing it for years. bif May 2014 #48
 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
6. I'm in the same boat--voted "pass" and thought "I have hair?!"
Sun May 11, 2014, 08:45 AM
May 2014

Actually I do have hair but it's only 1/4" long.

Also, neither of my parents has begun to gray...and none of my grandparents started graying before the cusp of 70.

sendero

(28,552 posts)
5. I don't have any hair..
Sun May 11, 2014, 08:01 AM
May 2014

.... but I do touch up my beard. That's one reason people guess my age 10 years low

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
7. I don't seem to need to...
Sun May 11, 2014, 09:02 AM
May 2014

For some reason my hair refuses to go grey, even though I'm at an age where it should have.

I have a little bit of grey at the temples which I rather like, but I'm actually less grey now than 10 years ago. I don't know how that's possible either, since I don't have any noticeable hair loss..

As someone who looked about 13 in High School and was carded well into his forties and hated it, I would actually rather welcome more grey...

 

OffWithTheirHeads

(10,337 posts)
8. Hell no! One of the true joys of getting old is that I no longer
Sun May 11, 2014, 10:46 AM
May 2014

give a fuck about how other peoplee think I look. As long as my wife is happy, I'm happy.

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
10. I'm more bummed about losing it than it going gray
Sun May 11, 2014, 11:16 AM
May 2014

I have a little gray at the temples and have no plans to ever change that.

I might have had more gray in the middle if I still had much hair in the middle. :/

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
11. actually I'm the same as you, but probably a tad more gray
Sun May 11, 2014, 11:22 AM
May 2014

I've been slowing losing hair on top for maybe 15 years. My maternal grandfather was totally bald on top, so I'm always told that may be my fate. Meh. If it happens, ok. The hairdressers are always asking me if I want to use Minoxidil etc and I always say no. If someone can't cope with me being partially bald, that's their problem.

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
12. lol yep
Sun May 11, 2014, 12:20 PM
May 2014

I doubt I would use any product either but I'd still rather keep it than not. My maternal grandpa had a head full of stark white hair into his 80s so I'm wondering if my mom ruined my genes or something.


If she were alive she'd probably blame me for pulling it into a pony tail for the last 30+ years.


I don't mind my gray and I'd be perfectly fine with hair as white as Grandpa Smith's. But as long as I can keep a little evidence of counterculture I'll be OK. I'm thinking "Larry" but my wife isn't so sure lol

Aristus

(66,310 posts)
13. I don't really have enough hair to color.
Sun May 11, 2014, 12:30 PM
May 2014

And it isn't the color that is the problem with my gray hairs. It's the texture. What is left of my brown hair is the way it has always been: soft, silky, and baby-fine. My gray hairs, on the other hand, are wiry, crinkly, and essentially unmanageable. And they grow seemingly ten times faster than my brown hair. In-between haircuts, I'm always plucking or snipping the gray hairs I wake up with, just so I don't go the whole day with bed-head.

My dad had the same problem with his gray hairs, but unlike me, he never did anything about it. He always looked as if he had just awakened from a two-week sleep underneath a sofa.

Jokerman

(3,518 posts)
14. I've thought about it, but it isn't for me.
Sun May 11, 2014, 12:30 PM
May 2014

I'm fortunate to still have may hair and I have only recently started to turn gray.

Most people guess my age to be 10-15 years younger than I really am and that is nice but my rapidly graying hair is about to put that to an end.

I'd like to keep looking younger but the bottom line is that I'd eventually get tired of having to maintain an artificial hair color and then I'd end up going gray all at once.

May as well just let nature take its course.

DFW

(54,330 posts)
15. Nah, can't be bothered.
Sun May 11, 2014, 12:35 PM
May 2014

I have to think it would make more of a difference to me if I were single. But I'm not, have had the same girlfriend/wife for nearly forty years, and couldn't imagine for the life of me what it would mean to suddenly be looking again. To say I'm out of practice would be a rather gross understatement.

Wounded Bear

(58,634 posts)
16. Nope....never thought much about it...
Sun May 11, 2014, 12:44 PM
May 2014

Pretty sure I never will, unless I get a starring role in a movie or something.

Paulie

(8,462 posts)
19. Not since the early 2000's
Sun May 11, 2014, 03:11 PM
May 2014

High school I had white. Powered bleach, cream activator, pour on scalp, scream, rinse then Alberto VO5 hot oil treatment.

When I was done with white I used temporary wash in brown which became permanent.

Then in the late 90s early 2000's used Clairol Hydrance (no ammonia) to add in a purpleish shade on the grey that were stating to come in.

Now I let it go; mostly grey with brown highlights.

Jamaal510

(10,893 posts)
20. I've never had to (yet),
Sun May 11, 2014, 04:43 PM
May 2014

but once I do start going gray, I'll only use hair dye on occasion. Using it too often can make a person's hair fall out, I hear.

 

MillennialDem

(2,367 posts)
42. Female here, only 33 - dye my hair regularly (no gray yet) just hate the natural blonde and but lov
Fri May 16, 2014, 05:31 AM
May 2014

e the midnight brown in a bottle.

Anyway.

Been dying it bimonthly for 12ish years and my hair is still thick and 2/3 of the way down my back so I think what you've been told is BS. Maybe if you wanted to have really long hair and you were bleaching it platinum blonde and your hair was already thin/fragile/weak you'd lose a decent amount.

BainsBane

(53,027 posts)
30. Most women do
Mon May 12, 2014, 09:46 AM
May 2014

once they start to gray. My mother never dyed her hair, and she started to gray in her 20s.

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
32. your mother was very brave, for want of a better word
Mon May 12, 2014, 10:39 AM
May 2014

I'm perfectly ok with women not dying their hair. Either way works for me, and of course, not my business or decision.

 

MillennialDem

(2,367 posts)
43. 33 and not a single gray (yet) but already dye it because I don't like my natural color. I will cont
Fri May 16, 2014, 05:32 AM
May 2014

inue to dye it to hide the gray.

PeteSelman

(1,508 posts)
23. I'm considering it.
Sun May 11, 2014, 07:23 PM
May 2014

Not to cover grey or whatever but because it might be fun to have electric blue hair.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
25. I did in high school (black, maroon, burgundy, blue)
Sun May 11, 2014, 08:51 PM
May 2014

but now I'm bald as a billiard ball. The men in my family lose it early.

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
27. No.
Sun May 11, 2014, 09:57 PM
May 2014

Don't think I ever will since I shave my head once a week. When my hair becomes gray, I'll probably just shave it more than once a week.

PRETZEL

(3,245 posts)
28. I voted other
Mon May 12, 2014, 08:59 AM
May 2014

about 20 years ago, a young lady in my office said I looked "distinguished".

I was in my mid 30's.

Decided shaving it off was better than dyeing it.

Have been doing it ever since.

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
34. I'm glad to see the 'No' vote winning.
Mon May 12, 2014, 12:03 PM
May 2014

I've been obsessed with men with gray/salt & pepper hair since I was about 8. I loved gray hair so much that I tried to convince my stylist to dye my own hair gray...at 16. He started to hyperventilate.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
36. I think the trick for men for dying hair is to get it to look natural
Mon May 12, 2014, 01:55 PM
May 2014

by maybe letting a little gray show through. This "I've got one shade of hair and I'm sticking with it" method looks weird on older men like Sir Paul:

dawg

(10,622 posts)
39. I don't think the gray in my hair looks all that bad.
Mon May 12, 2014, 03:33 PM
May 2014

I had a friend once tell me that I needed to have *something* to make me look my right age. I took it as a compliment.

jmowreader

(50,552 posts)
40. Yes...about four different colors, all woven together
Fri May 16, 2014, 02:59 AM
May 2014

It is naturally extremely dark brown. I have a deep red, a lighter brown and two blonde shades in it during the summer; during the winter we do three shades - red, medium brown and light brown. It's fun and people like it.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,336 posts)
45. I thought about it when I was looking for a job
Fri May 16, 2014, 07:18 AM
May 2014

I thought a little color might help during interviews.

But then I got a job, so forget about it. It doesn't matter.

Now my hair is mostly gray, and the rest is white.

Bucky

(53,986 posts)
47. My coworker is four years younger than me and he's started darkening his beard
Sat May 17, 2014, 08:43 AM
May 2014

Dude's a sell out. Once I get some gray, I'm gonna flaunt it

bif

(22,693 posts)
48. I've been doing it for years.
Sat May 17, 2014, 01:01 PM
May 2014

You've heard of salt & pepper hair? Mine would be salt if I didn't color it. Started going white when I was 17.

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