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applegrove

(118,501 posts)
Mon May 4, 2015, 07:51 PM May 2015

My mom passed away early Sunday morning. She had

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Parkinsons' for more than a decade. It was peaceful and we all had a good numbers of goodbyes with her since she stopped eating months ago. She grew up in the country so she was very community oriented which she carried into her life with my dad in Ottawa. The most important theme in her life was service. She was a good egg. She believed in a stiff upper lip. Kind of a throwback mother. In summers she and my dad would garden together for hours and hours. My mom insisted that cbc radio be played in the background of our life. It was a wonderful childhood. Love you mum.

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My mom passed away early Sunday morning. She had (Original Post) applegrove May 2015 OP
In a few words you shared her with us all. rug May 2015 #1
It has been great to hear what she meant to others over the last few applegrove May 2015 #6
You have my condolences on your loss... N/T catnhatnh May 2015 #2
I appreciate it. applegrove May 2015 #7
My sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your Mom. livetohike May 2015 #3
Oh I do feel peace at times. Especially when around family. applegrove May 2015 #8
I am sorry. murielm99 May 2015 #4
Yes. We had the best care for her. And a couple of days applegrove May 2015 #9
May she rest in peace. lovemydog May 2015 #5
Yes. She did a lot in her life. She deserves the peace parkinsons' applegrove May 2015 #10
My sympathies, Applegrove. HeiressofBickworth May 2015 #11
Yes. I took her for a walk outside three weeks ago. She was applegrove May 2015 #21
Condolences applegrove panader0 May 2015 #12
Yes. This is the start of a new relationship with her. I'm applegrove May 2015 #19
I am very sorry for the loss of your mother, applegrove. femmocrat May 2015 #13
I have such fond memories of her from when I was underfoot. applegrove May 2015 #18
so sorry, applegrove Skittles May 2015 #14
Family is about and that is the greatest good. applegrove May 2015 #17
My sympathy, applegrove. JohnnyLib2 May 2015 #15
That is very apt. Thank you for putting that feeling into words. applegrove May 2015 #16
My condolences. Prisoner_Number_Six May 2015 #20
Thanks. applegrove May 2015 #22
I'm so sorry for your loss, applegrove LiberalEsto May 2015 #23
Talk about being a good egg, that's you. n/t UTUSN May 2015 #24
I am so very sorry. bigwillq May 2015 #25
I am so sorry for your loss! hrmjustin May 2015 #26
I am so sorry for your loss... magical thyme May 2015 #27
I'm sorry Applegrove. Joe Shlabotnik May 2015 #28
my condolences, applegrove steve2470 May 2015 #29
I'm so very sorry for the loss of your mom. KMOD May 2015 #30
So sorry TuxedoKat May 2015 #31
so sorry for your loss. she sounds a truly remarkable woman. niyad May 2015 #32
I am sorry for your loss and glad it was peaceful. cbayer May 2015 #33
My condolences. The Velveteen Ocelot May 2015 #34
I am so sorry for your loss irisblue May 2015 #35
i am so very sorry for your loss fizzgig May 2015 #36
your mom sounds terrific NJCher May 2015 #37
... Kali May 2015 #38
... shenmue May 2015 #39
So sorry for the loss of your mother... Tom_Foolery May 2015 #40
My deepest sympathy apple grove riderinthestorm May 2015 #41
My condolences to you. I would like to have known her. kairos12 May 2015 #42
I am sorry for you loss Worried senior May 2015 #43
(((((applegrove))))) UrbScotty May 2015 #44
I'm sorry about your mom, Apple Grove LeftInTX May 2015 #45
I am glad you have so many good memories of her. dixiegrrrrl May 2015 #46
I do. Especially from when I was a kid. All of that is coming flooding back. applegrove May 2015 #47
No matter how old we are... 3catwoman3 May 2015 #48
Having just lost my mom last August..... A HERETIC I AM May 2015 #49
thanks applegrove . . . ucrdem May 2015 #50
Sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace. nt kelliekat44 May 2015 #51
My deepest condolences question everything May 2015 #52
My condolences Tsiyu May 2015 #53

livetohike

(22,124 posts)
3. My sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your Mom.
Mon May 4, 2015, 08:02 PM
May 2015
May all your good memories of her bring you comfort and peace.

applegrove

(118,501 posts)
9. Yes. We had the best care for her. And a couple of days
Mon May 4, 2015, 08:18 PM
May 2015

of free nursing in the end. I love socialized medicine more than ever if that is possible.

applegrove

(118,501 posts)
21. Yes. I took her for a walk outside three weeks ago. She was
Mon May 4, 2015, 09:04 PM
May 2015

a country girl and missed the outside when she got sicker. She bubbled like a brooke with happiness on that one warm day in April.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
12. Condolences applegrove
Mon May 4, 2015, 08:37 PM
May 2015

My mom was a good egg and a throwback too. She's been gone over twenty years and I still miss her very much.
I am so sorry.

applegrove

(118,501 posts)
18. I have such fond memories of her from when I was underfoot.
Mon May 4, 2015, 09:01 PM
May 2015

She used to tell me the strengths I had when I was 12. Late in life I rediscouvered those very strengths. I should have paid more attention to her then.

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
25. I am so very sorry.
Mon May 4, 2015, 09:53 PM
May 2015


Seemed like a great lady.

My grandmother (Dad's mom) had Parkinson's for as long as I could remember. Had to be for 20 years or so. Awful disease.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
30. I'm so very sorry for the loss of your mom.
Mon May 4, 2015, 10:32 PM
May 2015

I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and wish you much peace and comfort.

TuxedoKat

(3,818 posts)
31. So sorry
Mon May 4, 2015, 10:50 PM
May 2015

for the loss of your beloved mother. I think I remember you were looking for old songs for her a few years back. Hope they were enjoyable for her. (((HUGS)))

Worried senior

(1,328 posts)
43. I am sorry for you loss
Tue May 5, 2015, 01:48 PM
May 2015

My mother had Parkinson's too among other things. She died in 2006, we managed to keep her home with us but it wasn't easy.

LeftInTX

(25,148 posts)
45. I'm sorry about your mom, Apple Grove
Tue May 5, 2015, 05:24 PM
May 2015

My mom also had Parkinson's for about 10 years.
However, she died of an aneurysm before it got real bad.

3catwoman3

(23,950 posts)
48. No matter how old we are...
Tue May 5, 2015, 10:08 PM
May 2015

...and no matter how much of a release from suffering it might be, I don't think we are ever totally ready to say that last farewell to the person who loved us before she even met us. I am 64 and my mom is 93, and I know I am not ready.

Wishing you the strength and support you need as you adjust to this inevitable event.

A HERETIC I AM

(24,362 posts)
49. Having just lost my mom last August.....
Tue May 5, 2015, 10:14 PM
May 2015

I know how this feels.

You have my sincerest condolences. Stay strong, but let yourself cry and grieve.

question everything

(47,438 posts)
52. My deepest condolences
Wed May 6, 2015, 12:47 AM
May 2015

How wonderful that you have great memories to cherish. And how grateful you must be to have had your chance to say goodbye.

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