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Coventina

(27,101 posts)
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 05:02 PM Sep 2015

Update on my neighbor's murder: The PD canvassed the neighborhood again last night.

8 months later....

They came by, asking all the questions they did before with the addition of: "Do you know of anyone in the neighborhood that seems strangely interested in the case?"

I'm starting to think that they really do think it was one of us that killed her. (By one of us, I mean someone within a few block's radius).

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Update on my neighbor's murder: The PD canvassed the neighborhood again last night. (Original Post) Coventina Sep 2015 OP
Wow, I remember when you first posted about this. cwydro Sep 2015 #1
I remember how surprised I was when I first learned that most homicides are committed by... ailsagirl Sep 2015 #2
Why would you think that most homicides are Snobblevitch Sep 2015 #7
I should have said, when I was a kid I thought murderers were strangers ailsagirl Sep 2015 #8
That is the most likely outcome. Initech Sep 2015 #10
it's not unusual to requestion Skittles Sep 2015 #3
This. Chan790 Sep 2015 #5
also, people who are afraid to speak out at first Skittles Sep 2015 #6
:( shenmue Sep 2015 #4
Wow that is fucked up! Initech Sep 2015 #9
Or possibly there is new information and they're trying to corroborate. mackerel Sep 2015 #11
Hmm. This jogged my memory about a Peeping Tom case in the San Diego area... R B Garr Sep 2015 #12
Yes, the boyfriend has been cleared by DNA and airtight alibi Coventina Sep 2015 #13
 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
1. Wow, I remember when you first posted about this.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 05:09 PM
Sep 2015

Scary, but on the other hand it looks like a killing based on a relationship.

Sure doesn't make you feel better, but in some ways it should.

ailsagirl

(22,896 posts)
2. I remember how surprised I was when I first learned that most homicides are committed by...
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 08:07 PM
Sep 2015

someone known to the victim. It still amazes me because you'd think it would be some stranger.

But that it's someone who knows the victim... that's just the freakiest thing.

I hope they find the perpetrator soon, Coventina. Eight months must seem like an eternity.

Snobblevitch

(1,958 posts)
7. Why would you think that most homicides are
Sat Sep 12, 2015, 12:18 AM
Sep 2015

committed by a stranger? Those kinds of crimes (rape and/or murder by a stranger) are extremely rare.

ailsagirl

(22,896 posts)
8. I should have said, when I was a kid I thought murderers were strangers
Sat Sep 12, 2015, 01:34 AM
Sep 2015

I was always cautioned not to talk to strangers, not to take rides with strangers, etc. because of the danger
involved. I was never told that it's those we know (and are oftentimes close to) that are the ones who typically
do harm to us. I don't think my parents had the guts to tell me that.

That's all

Initech

(100,063 posts)
10. That is the most likely outcome.
Sat Sep 12, 2015, 02:54 AM
Sep 2015

I just watched the movie True Story on a plane on the way back from London. If you haven't seen it, it's a pretty fucked up movie starring James Franco and Jonah Hill based on a real life story. I won't spoil it, but do a Google search on what happened. It really does dispel the theory that the people who are initially accused of a crime are the ones who are the most likely candidates, as opposed to the popular belief that the least likely are the ones who commit the crime.

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
5. This.
Sat Sep 12, 2015, 12:02 AM
Sep 2015

Many cold cases are solved because people forget the lies they've told...our recollection of our excuses and alibis tends to drift if they are untrue.

mackerel

(4,412 posts)
11. Or possibly there is new information and they're trying to corroborate.
Mon Sep 14, 2015, 12:31 AM
Sep 2015

It's creeping but at the same time they are trying.

R B Garr

(16,950 posts)
12. Hmm. This jogged my memory about a Peeping Tom case in the San Diego area...
Mon Sep 14, 2015, 08:43 AM
Sep 2015

a long time ago. A neighbor spotted the man peeping into the same bedroom window of the trailer home where a young teenager was raped and killed 3 years prior and that is how they found her killer. He was there in the neighborhood all along. There was another young girl living in the trailer and he had started watching her. The police came and tested his DNA, which was a semen and blood match and that's how he was caught.

I didn't want to respond about this if you're already nervous, so I hope you don't mind reading this. Maybe the police just match up bits and pieces of the murder scenario based on a database and they are trying this theory. There may not be a real neighborhood threat. Maybe if her friends/lover contacts came up clean, they are just drilling down on some other possibilities. Of course, a neighbor would have been known to her and could have accessed her by asking to borrow something if there was no forced entry. Some of the details about this San Diego case were that she was killed right after she hung up from talking to her boyfriend so the killer was obviously aware of his window of opportunity with the mother being gone. It all happened within about 19 minutes (if I remember correctly...?)

Here's the case if you want to read more about it and Google the trial, etc.
http://articles.latimes.com/1992-04-11/local/me-68_1_mobile-home



Coventina

(27,101 posts)
13. Yes, the boyfriend has been cleared by DNA and airtight alibi
Mon Sep 14, 2015, 10:51 AM
Sep 2015

Murderer's DNA was under her fingernails and doesn't match any probable suspects or anyone currently in the database.

A month after the murder, the PD asked all of us to be on the lookout for anyone in the neighborhood with unexplained scratches on their face and/or arms!!!!

Could you not have told us this right after it happened?!?!?!



Very interesting to read about your case.

There does seem to be some possible parallels.....

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