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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsI am a dad. Sunday is Father's Day and also my wedding anniversary
Which occasion should take priority?
annabanana
(52,791 posts)Your spouse does ALL the "Father's Day" stuff.. especially if your kid is a boy.
LuckyTheDog
(6,837 posts)I expect him to make at least a token effort.
annabanana
(52,791 posts)(I always had to poke my sons good and hard to make sure they at least came up with a card...)
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)hint hint
LuckyTheDog
(6,837 posts)It'll be our 23rd.
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)This year will be our 20th.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)On the other hand, once your kids give you a present they'll want to go out with their friends so do father's day in the am and go to dinner with your wife for your anniversary.
LuckyTheDog
(6,837 posts)Or, we might to our Saturday night because it's not a "school night" and the boy is old enough to not need a sitter, so we could stay out late.
VinDiezul
(3 posts)Wedding Anniversary is between two people. Father's day is for yourself, and if your family wants to celebrate/honor it, they would do so, you shouldn't have to bring it up.