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Get it off your chest: current most detested / trite phrase or word.... (Original Post) hlthe2b Mar 2017 OP
I know, right? underpants Mar 2017 #1
+1 lutherj Mar 2017 #101
For some reason, I don't mind that one. ailsagirl Mar 2017 #186
IKR? yuiyoshida Mar 2017 #238
Sentences that start with the word Florida-Liberal Apr 2017 #360
Sou desu ka? yuiyoshida Apr 2017 #361
Trump Cary Mar 2017 #2
All things "trump" is a category of its own...uggh hlthe2b Mar 2017 #4
+1 Jarqui Mar 2017 #33
It's DT for me pat_k Mar 2017 #232
+1 Heartstrings Apr 2017 #352
Not new but I can't stand it - baby bump meadowlark5 Mar 2017 #3
Definitely! hlthe2b Mar 2017 #5
Ugh! I hate "baby bump" smirkymonkey Mar 2017 #15
Me too, hate both of those!! BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2017 #51
What is... 3catwoman3 Mar 2017 #225
i believe it's a term of endearment orleans Mar 2017 #229
Its used a lot in Korean...so yeah next time someone says Bae... yuiyoshida Mar 2017 #241
OMG, yes! Along with "We're pregnant." GoCubsGo Mar 2017 #170
I actually appreciate 2naSalit Apr 2017 #277
I prefer "We're expecting" or some version of that. GoCubsGo Apr 2017 #291
Fair enough. 2naSalit Apr 2017 #295
Just A Bit/A Little Bit Me. Mar 2017 #6
I hate hearing the word "like" in ever sentence, sometimes two or 3 times. appleannie1943 Mar 2017 #7
Add "you know" right along with that one... nt yagotme Mar 2017 #22
Totally. NT mahatmakanejeeves Mar 2017 #45
Oh my. Don't even get me started on all the "valley" talk. yagotme Mar 2017 #133
Like, you know, and wasup. Alice11111 Mar 2017 #47
"I mean, it's like, fershure, yaknow, right?" lastlib Mar 2017 #25
Listening to NPR and hearing actual adult radio people using "like" LuckyLib Mar 2017 #67
My grandson's wife graduated magna cum laude from college almost 10 years ago and that appleannie1943 Mar 2017 #117
Agreed. It damages their credibility. spooky3 Mar 2017 #151
I'm going to go out on a limb, here, and guess that you're over 55 years old. Warren DeMontague Mar 2017 #261
"Old school." I hate it. yardwork Mar 2017 #8
Uh-oh. mahatmakanejeeves Mar 2017 #46
!!! Almost always redudant, as we are looking at post. Alice11111 Mar 2017 #49
"Get it off your chest" True Dough Mar 2017 #9
Ok. You get that one... hlthe2b Mar 2017 #11
For years it was FYI neeksgeek Mar 2017 #10
"Going forward" is mine too! n/t Dale Neiburg Mar 2017 #28
Pregnant persons Phoenix61 Mar 2017 #12
'get over it' samnsara Mar 2017 #13
Translate: I have no empathy Alice11111 Mar 2017 #52
At the end of the day. . . n/t cloudbase Mar 2017 #14
Yep...me too but,replaced by "In this day and age" WTF does that even mean?? n/t Bengus81 Mar 2017 #81
Yeah, I am SO SICK OF THAT. milestogo Mar 2017 #179
Compining celeb couples names Soxfan58 Mar 2017 #16
Thank you. 3catwoman3 Mar 2017 #125
The invisible hand of the market Ron Obvious Mar 2017 #17
Animal spirits, of the Trump Rally Alice11111 Mar 2017 #53
Worse Yet, Ron... ProfessorGAC Apr 2017 #292
"Snowflake" got REALLY annoying REALLY fast. skypilot Mar 2017 #18
It's disruptive for me because I have to stop and figure out Alice11111 Mar 2017 #60
An oversensitive and "fragile" person. skypilot Mar 2017 #84
Thank you. It wasn't in the dictionary. Alice11111 Mar 2017 #92
I thought snowflakes were fertilized eggs in cryo. Didn't they call them that for awhile? CrispyQ Apr 2017 #280
Anybody calls me one, I tell him what happens when snowflakes get together. Warpy Mar 2017 #126
SNAP!!! skypilot Mar 2017 #174
That is the food stamp program. Evidently, you are Alice11111 Apr 2017 #323
????? skypilot Apr 2017 #345
Sports cliches applied to everyday speech Mendocino Mar 2017 #19
Me too...it feels so Dudebro to me. BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2017 #54
You hit a home run with that one! (nt) klook Apr 2017 #310
This message was self-deleted by its author NightWatcher Mar 2017 #20
"And so it begins." mahatmakanejeeves Mar 2017 #21
What's GD and LBN? oldcynic Mar 2017 #38
General Discussion and Late Breaking News. NT mahatmakanejeeves Mar 2017 #39
DU needs a printable glossary n/t oldcynic Mar 2017 #42
Then ***** would know what we were talking about. mahatmakanejeeves Mar 2017 #43
***** is listening to you too? oldcynic Mar 2017 #64
"I'm sorry if I've offended anyone." CrispyQ Apr 2017 #283
"On the ground" Tripper11 Mar 2017 #23
On the ground refers to campaign staff too crazycatlady Mar 2017 #173
"We have a lot of work to do" UrbScotty Mar 2017 #24
"True freshman" Initech Mar 2017 #26
True freshman SCantiGOP Mar 2017 #34
"Take a listen" k8conant Mar 2017 #27
"I love him/her to death" cyndensco Mar 2017 #29
Although it was a fun movie. pat_k Mar 2017 #233
"Deals" Docreed2003 Mar 2017 #30
!!! Alice11111 Mar 2017 #55
"Invite" used as a noun. Croney Mar 2017 #31
Nah! This one goes WAAAAY back! AFAIK, it's an Italian-American thang. (And so am I!) WinkyDink Mar 2017 #65
"Literally," when it is referring to something that isn't literal at all. mahatmakanejeeves Mar 2017 #32
"Literally" over-used all the time, and used incorrectly 99% of the time. n/t pnwest Mar 2017 #35
Push the envelope? Blanks Mar 2017 #36
No matter how much you push the envelope ... eppur_se_muova Apr 2017 #296
Thanks, I had no idea on the origin. I always thought it was an business offer... Blanks Apr 2017 #299
"Your concern is noted." Raster Mar 2017 #37
Was that prior to DU? True Dough Mar 2017 #70
Since I joined DU. Raster Mar 2017 #78
I think it's DU-ese for "Bless your heart". nt JustABozoOnThisBus Mar 2017 #89
I say bless your heart quite a bit... it reminds me of southern grandmothers... Raster Mar 2017 #95
How do I hate thee, let me count the ways... oldcynic Mar 2017 #40
I left my Associated Press style book at work. mahatmakanejeeves Mar 2017 #44
I also hate "all-volunteer." The correct term is "mercenary." Glorfindel Apr 2017 #304
Thank you. I was attempting discretion. oldcynic Apr 2017 #337
I disagree, the term I prefer is "Professional" The Polack MSgt Apr 2017 #339
right now it's "and the like" Skittles Mar 2017 #41
"Reach out" BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2017 #48
I think it means "contact" ailsagirl Mar 2017 #182
Exactly!! BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2017 #189
How 'bout: "Just wanted to touch base with you." Blech. n/t sprinkleeninow Mar 2017 #198
Let's unpack that. BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2017 #211
If I agreed and said it was woof yer cookies 'worthy' sprinkleeninow Mar 2017 #216
____ worthy and ____ envy, are those two being overused now? BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2017 #219
Hay, ima digging yer 'hurlage quotient'! sprinkleeninow Mar 2017 #221
Where are ____envy and ____worthy being used? BlancheSplanchnik Apr 2017 #286
Apologies. Didn't mean to steal your thunder. (Oopsie, 'steal your thunder'.) Can any of us'ns sprinkleeninow Mar 2017 #217
Lololol!! BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2017 #220
Did I see a mention of dessert?🍨 🍰 🍦 sprinkleeninow Mar 2017 #222
That phrase is SO 2011. stopbush Apr 2017 #359
"touching base" sucks. MontanaMama Apr 2017 #305
Can I add that I hate the new custom of hugging everyone. CrispyQ Apr 2017 #282
LOLOL! BlancheSplanchnik Apr 2017 #287
Falsehood jiminvegas Mar 2017 #50
!!! Alice11111 Mar 2017 #56
Add "misspoke," a neologism that means the same thing, lie NT Warpy Mar 2017 #129
Yes!!!!!!!n/t jrthin Mar 2017 #141
Pivot democrank Mar 2017 #57
Thank you for this thread! Alice11111 Mar 2017 #58
oops...wrong spot. Iggo Mar 2017 #99
"I'm humbled." Dark n Stormy Knight Mar 2017 #59
I skipped this article in the NYT. Thanks for the link. Alice11111 Mar 2017 #61
sacrifice is in the eye of the beholder oldcynic Mar 2017 #66
I also have some ridiculously wealthy relatives, so I feel your pain. Of course, they're RWers Dark n Stormy Knight Mar 2017 #75
Good to know I'm not alone. The idea that Jesus favors Alice11111 Mar 2017 #106
Sorry I missed your reply. Dark n Stormy Knight Mar 2017 #263
Aren't most racists RW religious fundamentalists? Alice11111 Mar 2017 #264
Put this on a tee-shirt & wear it to the next family event. CrispyQ Apr 2017 #285
An excellent commentary! CrispyQ Apr 2017 #284
The "humblebrag" is a hilariously cringeworthy trend. klook Apr 2017 #302
"fake news" UTUSN Mar 2017 #62
♡ nt littlemissmartypants Mar 2017 #79
"Absolutely". Especially when "yes" does the job. NCjack Mar 2017 #63
I'm guilty of that one ailsagirl Mar 2017 #208
".... as fuck" or AF for short n/t TexasBushwhacker Mar 2017 #68
Ah crap...guilty of that nadine_mn Apr 2017 #325
My bad Metsie Casey Mar 2017 #69
I hate that, too. Freedomofspeech Mar 2017 #118
THAT IS HORRIBLE!!! ailsagirl Mar 2017 #181
Sounds like cutesy teen or a toddler learning to talk Alice11111 Mar 2017 #266
Awesome lpbk2713 Mar 2017 #71
That's still going strong ailsagirl Mar 2017 #184
Ima uncouth tonite... sprinkleeninow Mar 2017 #200
That's about it! ailsagirl Mar 2017 #207
And I thank you. Love your signature line mucho grande!😍 (no text) sprinkleeninow Mar 2017 #218
Thank you ailsagirl Mar 2017 #223
"at the end of tha day" Kimchijeon Mar 2017 #72
That one definitely needs to just go away! n/t Different Drummer Mar 2017 #270
I was going to type this! JHan Apr 2017 #319
Incredible elleng Mar 2017 #73
Pop of color erinlough Mar 2017 #74
Alll of those remodeling shows on HGTV must require the same glossary... hlthe2b Mar 2017 #83
alt/right NBachers Mar 2017 #76
"Fact of the matter is...". nt Purveyor Mar 2017 #77
'nuff said......I hate this phrase. madaboutharry Mar 2017 #80
Agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! n/t RKP5637 Mar 2017 #111
Awful. Just awful. VOX Mar 2017 #132
And I've heard people say that, then continue with more sentences. spooky3 Mar 2017 #163
This isn't really new, but... zanana1 Mar 2017 #82
Yes. And True Dough Mar 2017 #122
Unless you sell your joolery to your real-uh-tor. Iggo Mar 2017 #147
"if you will" ploppy Mar 2017 #85
Hate that too! we can do it Mar 2017 #196
Welp. dawg Mar 2017 #86
Beginning a sentence with "So". Polly Hennessey Mar 2017 #87
So, yeah, I'd like totally agree with you, but ... JustABozoOnThisBus Mar 2017 #90
"Use it or lose it." "At the end of the day." sprinkleeninow Mar 2017 #157
Indeed. The most annoying grammatical "trend" of this century. OilemFirchen Mar 2017 #91
Especially when the speaker draws it out: "So-o-o..." spooky3 Mar 2017 #154
Doing it in the topic line here at DU Warpy Mar 2017 #128
Oops--I didn't see your post before adding a similar one! I spooky3 Mar 2017 #153
Reminds me of "in band camp" Alice11111 Mar 2017 #175
Shit that's another one I do nadine_mn Apr 2017 #327
"Link to Tweet" Orrex Mar 2017 #88
LOL...yep. Iggo Mar 2017 #98
Yes. meadowlander Mar 2017 #212
Me too. 2naSalit Apr 2017 #278
I dare say I struck a nerve with this thread! hlthe2b Mar 2017 #93
Troublemaker! ProfessorGAC Apr 2017 #293
"It is what it is" FakeNoose Mar 2017 #94
THIS I hear it a dozen times a day. FSogol Mar 2017 #183
"It is what it is." Drives me up the wall. Particularly if spoken as a real bit of wisdom. argyl Mar 2017 #247
Yes! I was getting worried it took so long for this to pop up nadine_mn Apr 2017 #328
that's the expression i *really* can't stand orleans Apr 2017 #343
"...the American people..."...n/t bluecollar2 Mar 2017 #96
"Spot on." Iggo Mar 2017 #97
Yes! Squinch Mar 2017 #131
and, "nailed it.", per KConway, after the State of the Union speech Alice11111 Mar 2017 #172
That's it JCinNYC Mar 2017 #180
Listing women by their first names (sometimes right alongside men listed by their last names). Iggo Mar 2017 #100
That's what she said. lutherj Mar 2017 #102
The following 2 phrases are relatively new and I have been irked by both since I first heard them. LOL Lib Mar 2017 #103
I don't even know what "stay woke" means ailsagirl Mar 2017 #185
It is a very meaningful phrase that originated LOL Lib Mar 2017 #188
It's not exactly an intuitive term ailsagirl Mar 2017 #209
Agreed! LOL Lib Mar 2017 #210
Richt Back 'Atcha! ailsagirl Mar 2017 #213
Reminds me of this ... eppur_se_muova Apr 2017 #297
Thanks! That is interesting. I never knew the origin of "hip." LOL Lib Apr 2017 #298
um um um um ....... stonecutter357 Mar 2017 #104
"So we're on the same page!" n/t RKP5637 Mar 2017 #105
"At the end of the day!" n/t RKP5637 Mar 2017 #107
"In this day and age!" n/t RKP5637 Mar 2017 #108
"Get real!" n/t RKP5637 Mar 2017 #109
"Make America Great Again!" n/t RKP5637 Mar 2017 #110
"I feel your pain!" n/t RKP5637 Mar 2017 #112
Everything happens for a reason Bayard Mar 2017 #113
I'm with you on that one! True Dough Mar 2017 #123
"Everything happens for a reason" just irritates me... 3catwoman3 Mar 2017 #226
+1000. Add "It's all good." Sometimes, it's not. Alice11111 Mar 2017 #171
Woman Comic... ProfessorGAC Apr 2017 #294
Get your (fill in the blank) on. TBA Mar 2017 #114
"A republican I think I could work with/support". 58Sunliner Mar 2017 #115
Awoke and Awoken WhiteTara Mar 2017 #116
I Have A Couple That Annoy The Piss..... becca da bakkah Mar 2017 #119
These cookies available in Canada are not helping your cause at all! True Dough Mar 2017 #124
Would It Be Decadent of Me If I Asked.... becca da bakkah Mar 2017 #144
I don't know about decadent True Dough Mar 2017 #145
Per Merriam-Webster, that use of "decadent" is okay... VOX Mar 2017 #135
This message was self-deleted by its author VOX Mar 2017 #137
One definition is radical noodle Apr 2017 #312
"boobs" nt. marybourg Mar 2017 #120
"draining the swamp" nt RainCaster Mar 2017 #121
True That! Nt HopeAgain Mar 2017 #127
¡¡ ICONIC !! VOX Mar 2017 #130
"death spiral" vlyons Mar 2017 #134
"Have a good one." After I've just paid the clerk. CrispyQ Mar 2017 #136
In our neck o' the woods, it's "Hurry back now!" sprinkleeninow Mar 2017 #161
"Let me get this straight"... VOX Mar 2017 #138
link to tweet randr Mar 2017 #139
"Bombshell." Save it for something with proof that will stick, not the latest conspiracy theory or Hoyt Mar 2017 #140
Still going strong: "Amazing". HeartachesNhangovers Mar 2017 #142
Ditto for "awesome." That word once meant something. spooky3 Mar 2017 #155
Two littlemissmartypants Mar 2017 #143
Impactful. 3catwoman3 Mar 2017 #146
Oh dear god, no! Iggo Mar 2017 #149
I am afraid so. 3catwoman3 Mar 2017 #158
Or using "I" as an object: "would you like to go on vacation with John and I?" spooky3 Mar 2017 #156
I hear this all the time, and have to work... 3catwoman3 Mar 2017 #159
I do too. One friend who was in a top mgt position spooky3 Mar 2017 #162
"Impact" for "effect" (nt) pat_k Mar 2017 #236
Let's hope we don't start... 3catwoman3 Mar 2017 #243
OMG Mendocino Mar 2017 #148
"Should of" instead of should've (Should have) BunkieBandit Mar 2017 #150
Agreed! It's horrible and it sounds moronic. VOX Apr 2017 #316
That drives me absolutely nuts! shanti Apr 2017 #366
This message was self-deleted by its author spooky3 Mar 2017 #152
Using "less" instead of "fewer" Chiquitita Mar 2017 #160
Me too. I started to add that one, but I didn't want to edit Alice11111 Mar 2017 #165
There is a local grocery store... 3catwoman3 Mar 2017 #166
Yep. Been hearing it way more and more lately. GoCubsGo Mar 2017 #169
Two old ones--"Go for it." "Bite me." sprinkleeninow Mar 2017 #164
I never understood what "bite me" means. Alice11111 Mar 2017 #167
It's derogatory. Different shades of derogatory. Someone we knew would say it repeatedly. sprinkleeninow Mar 2017 #199
It's the PG version of "bite my ass" or "kiss my ass" Manly_Scream Apr 2017 #355
Thanks Alice11111 Apr 2017 #370
Calling everything a "hack", when GoCubsGo Mar 2017 #168
Yes, this. meadowlander Mar 2017 #214
Double down Maeve Mar 2017 #176
"Religious Freedom" - a buzzword used by the right to exercise bigotry and act in unChristian ways Doodley Mar 2017 #177
I'm good--- northoftheborder Mar 2017 #178
What about "I'm fine" in lieu of 'No, thank you". sprinkleeninow Mar 2017 #202
Honestly...... NCTraveler Mar 2017 #187
Pimp Wolf Frankula Mar 2017 #190
People posting "This!!!" as a subject line... Thor_MN Mar 2017 #191
The "GD" phrase...if you ask, believe me, she will damn....not cool!!!! fNord Mar 2017 #192
Boots on the ground Marthe48 Mar 2017 #193
So Marthe48 Mar 2017 #194
It is what it is. we can do it Mar 2017 #195
bad "optics" caraher Mar 2017 #197
somebody in GD just used "the optics" Phentex Apr 2017 #347
Needless to say.... marlakay Mar 2017 #201
That one's been bugging people for decades. BluesRunTheGame Apr 2017 #350
One more popped into my puddin' head earlier this eve. sprinkleeninow Mar 2017 #203
I rather enjoy saying Wolf Frankula Mar 2017 #248
👍 sprinkleeninow Mar 2017 #250
Anything attacking Democrats or liberals jmowreader Mar 2017 #204
Libtard is making fun of retarded persons, handicapped. Alice11111 Mar 2017 #228
"world class" democratisphere Mar 2017 #205
Agree to Disagree LanternWaste Mar 2017 #206
PR/Spin is now "corporate storytelling". meadowlander Mar 2017 #215
President Trump red dog 1 Mar 2017 #224
I have trouble saying or writing his name or that FBI guy Alice11111 Mar 2017 #227
DT pat_k Mar 2017 #234
Yeah, or something else. DT also means delirium tremens Alice11111 Mar 2017 #235
I almost avoided using DT for that reason, ... pat_k Mar 2017 #240
I decided it is an interesting coincidence. Alice11111 Mar 2017 #242
FBI Director James Comey's 10/28/2016 letter to Congressional leaders, red dog 1 Mar 2017 #244
"Hillary's private server," The C guy at the FBI deserves jail for Alice11111 Mar 2017 #245
+ 1 red dog 1 Mar 2017 #246
"it is what it is" orleans Mar 2017 #230
Chronic interrupters. You state four words, they grab one word, Alice11111 Mar 2017 #237
lol "Chris Matthews is getting worse all of the time." orleans Mar 2017 #254
Those people don't listen, just talk over others. Matthews has Alice11111 Mar 2017 #255
corporatist BainsBane Mar 2017 #231
"drives success" "drives marketing impact" pat_k Mar 2017 #239
RAMP IT UP ailsagirl Mar 2017 #249
"I'm good" RelativelyJones Mar 2017 #251
"I'm glad you asked that question" followed by nothing, in any way, resembling Maru Kitteh Mar 2017 #252
Folks defacto7 Mar 2017 #253
Back in the day ashling Mar 2017 #256
Take a listen ashling Mar 2017 #257
alt-news gopiscrap Mar 2017 #258
I get a little tired of "lessons learned." n/t Beartracks Mar 2017 #259
"it's in my wheelhouse" Warren DeMontague Mar 2017 #260
This is the one I was going to post. Fuck you and your wheelhouse! Phentex Apr 2017 #273
I agree steve2470 Apr 2017 #275
GET OFF MY LAWN! Warren DeMontague Mar 2017 #262
"Sad," "Many people are saying," "Winners," & "Losers" Alice11111 Mar 2017 #265
The "GD" phrase...... fNord Mar 2017 #267
I'm an honest person Alice11111 Mar 2017 #268
"President Trump" IrishEyes Mar 2017 #269
Makes my blood boil/stomach churn every time ailsagirl Apr 2017 #290
Blah blah blah SHIT and blah blah blah SHIT and more blahs SHIT steve2470 Apr 2017 #271
jaw-dropping! steve2470 Apr 2017 #272
double down doc03 Apr 2017 #274
Normalize. Yonnie3 Apr 2017 #276
(I am - we are ) Sorry for your loss n/t auntAgonist Apr 2017 #279
This message was self-deleted by its author CrispyQ Apr 2017 #281
OH, so many mikehiggins Apr 2017 #288
Selfie..Sammich...n/t PasadenaTrudy Apr 2017 #289
Sammich!!! Gah!!! MontanaMama Apr 2017 #306
ISSUE JCMach1 Apr 2017 #300
Closure. hrmjustin Apr 2017 #301
Experts say..... get the red out Apr 2017 #303
President trump kacekwl Apr 2017 #307
"Awesome". IMHO, it is the most overused word in the English language Siwsan Apr 2017 #308
"Disrupt" klook Apr 2017 #309
me likey / my bad/ jus sayin luvMIdog Apr 2017 #311
Neo-liberal radical noodle Apr 2017 #313
lol. Yes! omg.......... make it die. make it die. JHan Apr 2017 #318
Get behind LeftInTX Apr 2017 #314
I have two. tazkcmo Apr 2017 #315
B-school lingo: "impactful," "scalable," "mission-critical," "face time," "price point," etc. VOX Apr 2017 #317
I can see you're passionate about this. klook Apr 2017 #322
"Personally I think" - ..... Yes, "i think" covers it thanks... JHan Apr 2017 #320
The word "basically" JHan Apr 2017 #321
PROLLY Skittles Apr 2017 #324
....... JHan Apr 2017 #326
"Not gonna lie" nadine_mn Apr 2017 #329
The term "butthurt". NewDealProgressive Apr 2017 #330
"Passed" instead of "passed away" LeftInTX Apr 2017 #331
My favorite "passing" expression leftyladyfrommo Apr 2017 #348
100% Jane Austin Apr 2017 #332
"Bigly," whether used ironically or not. subterranean Apr 2017 #333
I have a friend who pronounces thyme Doreen Apr 2017 #334
Didn't we just do this a week or so ago Alice11111 Apr 2017 #335
Thinking outside the box. Lunabell Apr 2017 #336
"Civilian", when used by police to describe non-police. JustABozoOnThisBus Apr 2017 #338
Anything that sounds pretentious HeiressofBickworth Apr 2017 #340
Blessed. Have a blessed day grantcart Apr 2017 #341
"Trigger warning". Yuck. vanlassie Apr 2017 #342
Lately it has been duncang Apr 2017 #344
"curated" steve2470 Apr 2017 #346
There's much to "unpack" with that issue. kairos12 Apr 2017 #349
"Perfect" BluesRunTheGame Apr 2017 #351
A list murielm99 Apr 2017 #353
"yeah, yeah, yeah" in very quick succession JenniferJuniper Apr 2017 #354
Circle back. mahina Apr 2017 #356
"Several" teezy Apr 2017 #357
Mano a Mano. stopbush Apr 2017 #358
"My Bad" BlancheSplanchnik Apr 2017 #362
Throwing people "under the bus" rhiannon55 Apr 2017 #363
There are two which really get me Fortinbras Armstrong Apr 2017 #364
"Females" used as a noun to refer to women. athena Apr 2017 #365
This Thor_MN Apr 2017 #367
Optics. spiderpig Apr 2017 #368
"It's gone viral" Boomerproud Apr 2017 #369

yuiyoshida

(41,829 posts)
238. IKR?
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 04:51 AM
Mar 2017
hey, I think words should be fun.. life should be fun.. should be but, its not always. And I been told its way too short!

yuiyoshida

(41,829 posts)
361. Sou desu ka?
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 10:20 AM
Apr 2017

1. この指輪は高いそうです。
2. 彼のスーツケースは重いそうです。
3. そのゲームは難しいそうです。
4. その町は静かだそうです。
5.彼の携帯は便利だそうです。

more examples...
https://nihongoshark.com/japanese-grammar-sou/

pat_k

(9,313 posts)
232. It's DT for me
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 04:12 AM
Mar 2017

The inescapable drum beat of $#ump this and $#ump that was making me ill. I can't shut out the radio/news, but at least i i've been pretty successful at banishing the "sound" from my thoughts and typing. Somehow it helps -- a little anyway.

meadowlark5

(2,795 posts)
3. Not new but I can't stand it - baby bump
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 12:44 PM
Mar 2017

Usually when referring to a celeb's pregnant belly.

Oh, and referring to foods that are really delicious and you can't stop eating as "crack". So stupid.

hlthe2b

(102,192 posts)
5. Definitely!
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 12:47 PM
Mar 2017

I also can't stand when couples state THEY are pregnant!

They are surely both expecting, but only she is pregnant, for heaven's sakes

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
51. Me too, hate both of those!!
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 05:58 PM
Mar 2017

Bae sounds stupid and feels harder to say without a closing consonant.

Baby bump...arg I've always detested that. Cutesy-wootsy, 🤢

And I don't care about your effing spawn anyway. I'm just plain old, thoroughly aghast at all the breeding when we're already killing everything with our relentless reproduction. "The cretins cloning and feeding" 🎼

orleans

(34,043 posts)
229. i believe it's a term of endearment
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 01:47 AM
Mar 2017

the youngins use because they are too damn lazy to say or type "babe" which was the initial shortening of "baby"

(as in reference to boyfriend/girlfriend)

yuiyoshida

(41,829 posts)
241. Its used a lot in Korean...so yeah next time someone says Bae...
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 04:58 AM
Mar 2017

You can say...neo hangug-eo hal jul al-a?? That means, do you Speak Korean? I have heard people use: "oppa" (As in oppa gangnam style ) Oppa means older brother.

GoCubsGo

(32,078 posts)
170. OMG, yes! Along with "We're pregnant."
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 10:32 PM
Mar 2017

No. She is pregnant. He is not, nor is he capable of becoming pregnant.

2naSalit

(86,502 posts)
277. I actually appreciate
Sun Apr 16, 2017, 10:57 AM
Apr 2017

the "we're pregnant" phrase, it's more like a milestone in consciousness when you get that the man part of the pair of parents is accepting and embracing his role and responsibility. That is big in our social collective.

GoCubsGo

(32,078 posts)
291. I prefer "We're expecting" or some version of that.
Sun Apr 16, 2017, 04:34 PM
Apr 2017

To me, "We" coming from the male half suggests that he accepts and embraces his role and responsibility.

2naSalit

(86,502 posts)
295. Fair enough.
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 12:49 AM
Apr 2017

It's interesting how people interpret a phrase and whether it sits well or not.

The phrase I would have offered would be the recent acceptance of "across the world".

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
47. Like, you know, and wasup.
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 05:47 PM
Mar 2017

I'm around a woman who says "you know what I mean," about twice in every sentence, "it's like," turrets syndrome.
I've tried saying, no, I don't know know what you mean, but she buzzes on.

lastlib

(23,193 posts)
25. "I mean, it's like, fershure, yaknow, right?"
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 04:44 PM
Mar 2017

Or: "I'm like, whaat?" For some people (even otherwise intelligent adults), those are considered a complete thought.

LuckyLib

(6,819 posts)
67. Listening to NPR and hearing actual adult radio people using "like"
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 10:05 PM
Mar 2017

every 5-6 words is fingernails on a chalkboard to me.

The younger the reporter is, the more "likes" are part of the report/conversation.

appleannie1943

(1,303 posts)
117. My grandson's wife graduated magna cum laude from college almost 10 years ago and that
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 04:38 PM
Mar 2017

how she talks. She sounds like an idiot that never had an English class.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
261. I'm going to go out on a limb, here, and guess that you're over 55 years old.
Thu Mar 16, 2017, 06:23 AM
Mar 2017

I hate to break it to you, but that ship has like, totally sailed.

mahatmakanejeeves

(57,370 posts)
46. Uh-oh.
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 05:46 PM
Mar 2017

Last edited Sun Mar 12, 2017, 08:30 AM - Edit history (2)

I use that expression. For example, I say that I have an old-school fax machine, because it cranks out a piece of paper.

The term does have a correct usage, when it is applied to BMX and skateboard tricks.

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
49. !!! Almost always redudant, as we are looking at post.
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 05:49 PM
Mar 2017

I can see that there is no more added, but then I have to stop and wonder, why did he or she post n/t.

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
52. Translate: I have no empathy
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 05:58 PM
Mar 2017

When my bro called to tell me my father had died, after he had been in the hospital over 24 hours, and I didnt know anything was wrong. I was stunned because a few days before, I had had an hour long good phone conversation with my father, and everything was good. My shocked response to his death, was, what? My brother said, "Get over it. Its done." He's a good Christian Republican.

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
17. The invisible hand of the market
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 01:21 PM
Mar 2017

Or the magic of the free market, or variations thereof.

Not recent, just a phrase I've detested for many years.

ProfessorGAC

(64,960 posts)
292. Worse Yet, Ron...
Sun Apr 16, 2017, 04:44 PM
Apr 2017

...that is untrue as the "invisible hand" has NEVER actually worked on a macro level
Makes it even more annoying

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
60. It's disruptive for me because I have to stop and figure out
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 07:12 PM
Mar 2017

what someone is talking about. It seems to have multiple applications. What exactly is a "snowflake."

skypilot

(8,852 posts)
345. ?????
Thu Apr 20, 2017, 09:24 AM
Apr 2017

It's not an acronym, it's a word. As in "Oh, SNAP!" I guess it's an expression you're not familiar with.

Mendocino

(7,484 posts)
19. Sports cliches applied to everyday speech
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 02:53 PM
Mar 2017

dropped the ball
get with the program
out for the count
no I in team
heavy hitter
playing hardball
throw a hale Mary
Monday morning quarterback
run up the score
going to the bench

etc


BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
54. Me too...it feels so Dudebro to me.
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 06:06 PM
Mar 2017

I'm so non-sports, it seems like a man's world thing to me. Sexist, and alienating.

Response to hlthe2b (Original post)

mahatmakanejeeves

(57,370 posts)
21. "And so it begins."
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 03:47 PM
Mar 2017

As seen in GD and LBN.

Look, "it" was beginning a long time ago.

Apologies if I've offended anyone here doing that, but you asked.

And come to think of it, "if I've offended anyone" has worn out its welcome.

mahatmakanejeeves

(57,370 posts)
43. Then ***** would know what we were talking about.
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 05:41 PM
Mar 2017

And by "*****," I mean "T****." Also, by "what we were talking about," I mean "him."

CrispyQ

(36,438 posts)
283. "I'm sorry if I've offended anyone."
Sun Apr 16, 2017, 11:40 AM
Apr 2017

It's such a non-apology & subtly puts the blame on the ones who are offended, not the one doing the offending.

Tripper11

(4,338 posts)
23. "On the ground"
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 04:35 PM
Mar 2017

In media when referring to ANYTHING except military.

AND

any reporter who says in their report "I can tell you ....." Really? Isn't that why you are standing there talking to me right now????

crazycatlady

(4,492 posts)
173. On the ground refers to campaign staff too
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 11:16 PM
Mar 2017

Many senior staffers are brought in from all over the place and the term refers to when they actually arrive in district and start working.

Also on conference calls, the term is used a lot. "I have X canvassers on the ground knocking doors right now."

(Campaign jargon).

SCantiGOP

(13,867 posts)
34. True freshman
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 05:13 PM
Mar 2017

Has a distinct meaning in college sports to differentiate it from a redshirt freshman.

pat_k

(9,313 posts)
233. Although it was a fun movie.
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 04:19 AM
Mar 2017

"I Love You to Death"
Kevin Kline. Tracey Ullman, River Phoenix, Joan Plowright, Wm Hurt

mahatmakanejeeves

(57,370 posts)
32. "Literally," when it is referring to something that isn't literal at all.
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 05:01 PM
Mar 2017

Last edited Sat Mar 11, 2017, 05:37 PM - Edit history (1)

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10141725956

Environmental Protection Agency Administrator Scott Pruitt’s phones have been ringing off the hook — literally — since he questioned the link between human activity and climate change.


No, the phone was not literally ringing off the hook.

ETA: edited, literally, after the other post that mentions "literally."

Blanks

(4,835 posts)
299. Thanks, I had no idea on the origin. I always thought it was an business offer...
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 09:53 AM
Apr 2017

Like there's an amount of money IN the envelope and it is pushed across the table to the person receiving the offer. I suppose it would have been easy enough to google, I had no idea it was an engineering concept.

True Dough

(17,296 posts)
70. Was that prior to DU?
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 10:56 PM
Mar 2017

Or since you joined this forum?

Those words didn't bother me several months ago, but now I cringe when I read them.

Raster

(20,998 posts)
95. I say bless your heart quite a bit... it reminds me of southern grandmothers...
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 02:31 PM
Mar 2017

...and is generally a positive reaction or statement.

Your concern is noted is generally NOT a positive reaction, at least as used here at DU.

oldcynic

(385 posts)
40. How do I hate thee, let me count the ways...
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 05:35 PM
Mar 2017

"all-volunteer"
"amount" when it should be number
most acronyms
........

mahatmakanejeeves

(57,370 posts)
44. I left my Associated Press style book at work.
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 05:44 PM
Mar 2017

Which is fortunate, as otherwise this thread might never end.

Glorfindel

(9,725 posts)
304. I also hate "all-volunteer." The correct term is "mercenary."
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 05:02 PM
Apr 2017

One who sells one's services to the military in return for money, as opposed to a "conscript," which is what I was a half-century ago.

oldcynic

(385 posts)
337. Thank you. I was attempting discretion.
Tue Apr 18, 2017, 03:47 PM
Apr 2017

Ask yourself to whom a mercenary army will give their loyalty? Especially one which has been infiltrated by right-wing religionist ideologies.

The Polack MSgt

(13,186 posts)
339. I disagree, the term I prefer is "Professional"
Tue Apr 18, 2017, 10:51 PM
Apr 2017

Selling your service?

Cashing your paycheck during your enlistment is also something that conscripts do.

If we accept your concept of military service, all the NCOs and Officers during your enlistment were "mercenaries" - since Officers can't be drafted and enlisted troops can only be drafted once. You must volunteer for and be accepted by your service for every subsequent enlistment in your career.

Mercenaries are private contractors who work for any Govt. or non-government group that hires them.

People who raise their right hand and give up a few years of their life in the US military are not fucking Mercenaries and that term is (I suspect intentionally) insulting and dismissive.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
189. Exactly!!
Mon Mar 13, 2017, 06:44 PM
Mar 2017

I hate "reach out" so frikken much! It's such an obvious attempt to paste a veneer of personalized compassion over what is strictly a business communication.

Phony cheer, pseudo-sentiment....I can't stand it.

Yecch.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
211. Let's unpack that.
Tue Mar 14, 2017, 11:56 AM
Mar 2017

Vom. 🤢


I know, that's not the same kind of meaning, but it came to mind. Same kind of vomitosityness.

sprinkleeninow

(20,235 posts)
216. If I agreed and said it was woof yer cookies 'worthy'
Tue Mar 14, 2017, 03:29 PM
Mar 2017

would that define it as having (fill in the blank)____'envy'?
____worthy
____envy
Two more I do not like very very VERY...😒

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
219. ____ worthy and ____ envy, are those two being overused now?
Tue Mar 14, 2017, 04:05 PM
Mar 2017

There's so much mass media that makes me woof my cookies (lolol!) I just don't watch. That reduces the hurlage quotient. 😆


sprinkleeninow

(20,235 posts)
221. Hay, ima digging yer 'hurlage quotient'!
Tue Mar 14, 2017, 04:35 PM
Mar 2017

Not just mass media.
Business over here, indubitably a franchise, is: 'Massage Envy'! I get nauseous having to grocery shop next door.
How about--> 'All about this or all about that'? Oh how very ingenious.

Humans. I'm old enuff to remember when businesses were named Acme, A-1, etc. One reason was that they'd get a choice spot in the phone directory. Hahah. Smart!

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
286. Where are ____envy and ____worthy being used?
Sun Apr 16, 2017, 12:08 PM
Apr 2017

I haven't come across them. And I'm probably grateful for that.

sprinkleeninow

(20,235 posts)
217. Apologies. Didn't mean to steal your thunder. (Oopsie, 'steal your thunder'.) Can any of us'ns
Tue Mar 14, 2017, 03:42 PM
Mar 2017

function w/o relying on these eventually overwrought and annoying phrases, etc.
Good grief!

👊 comin' yer way!

sprinkleeninow

(20,235 posts)
222. Did I see a mention of dessert?🍨 🍰 🍦
Tue Mar 14, 2017, 04:46 PM
Mar 2017

I'd rather have that than nutritional food for regular meals; I do what I want!
My mom's dad, yes, my grandfather, would ask for dessert first if the supper wasn't quite ready. And he'd get it!! My hero. Hahah.
Toodles. Laundry calling....😉

CrispyQ

(36,438 posts)
282. Can I add that I hate the new custom of hugging everyone.
Sun Apr 16, 2017, 11:34 AM
Apr 2017

What's wrong with the handshake? A perfectly good way to greet someone you know casually. I've taken to extending my hand way out in front of me to make it clear we are going to shake, not hug. And you know what? I've seen many grateful expressions.

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
58. Thank you for this thread!
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 06:43 PM
Mar 2017

With all due respect, which means, you ignorant AH.

What goes around comes around...a cliche, but we all wish it were true.

Karma, because its just easier than sorting through the facts.

"Rehashing the primary, " when if someone had bothered to read my short post, it was not about the primary. I was just complimenting Bernie for his leadership, even though I WAS ALWAYS A HILLARY supporter, not that it should matter. The good thing was it gave me some insight into the sting the Bernie supporters feel, when they are ignored and deleted, in real life.

"I need to take care of myself, " as a justification for mistreating someone else.

The "P," word thrown around so casually, which was a degrading term for women (as the "C" word once was), although I'm getting used to it. Reappropriation of language.

The "N" word. I don't want us to get used to it, although racism seems to be in vogue. It's still anathema to me, and I find it offensive and very disrespectful, to me, and everyone. I am Caucasian. I don't hang with people who use it ever, but it's on TV, including comedy shows, a lot. I don't want this generation of children to get used to it either.

TBD, as used by K Conway, and others. I loved the SNL spoof.

Dark n Stormy Knight

(9,760 posts)
59. "I'm humbled."
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 07:08 PM
Mar 2017

The New York Times Magazine had a good piece on this by By Carina Chocano

Calling Yourself ‘Humbled’ Doesn’t Sound as Humble as It Used To

These days, humility is not what it used to be. It may even be the opposite of what it used to be. A few days before Christmas, Donald Trump presented his former campaign managerwith the title “counselor to the president.” In response, Kellyanne Conway declared herself “humbled and honored,” a sentiment she echoed later that day on CNN: “I’m just really pleased and frankly very humbled to take on this role in the West Wing, near the president.” Then she went on Twitter to reassure her boss that power hadn’t changed her, and that she was still the same old true-blue, fawning, deferential Kellyanne: “Grateful & humble, @realDonaldTrump,” she wrote.

We are living in humbling times. People are humbled all over the place. Lately it’s pro forma — possibly even mandatory — for politicians, athletes, celebrities and other public figures to be vocally and vigorously humbled by every honor awarded, prize won, job offered, record broken, pound lost, shout-out received, “like” copped and thumb upped.

Diving at random into the internet and social media finds this new humility everywhere. A soap-opera actress on tour is humbled by the outpouring of love from fans. Comedians are humbled by big laughs, yoga practitioners are humbled by achieving difficult poses, athletes are humbled by good days on the field, Christmas volunteers are humbled by their own generosity and holiday spirit.

There are many downsides to our worship of fame and money, and one is that it makes people confuse sucking up to the rich and famous with spirituality.
And yet none of these people sound very “humbled” at all. On the contrary: They all seem exceedingly proud of themselves, hashtagging their humility to advertise their own status, success, sprightliness, generosity, moral superiority and luck.

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
61. I skipped this article in the NYT. Thanks for the link.
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 08:21 PM
Mar 2017

I would not have read it otherwise, and it was a good read.

I have billionaire cousins who are continually humbled, blessed, and fortunate, for their mansion, their jet, and such. They have "sacrificed" dearly to be good parents to their kids, now in expensive colleges, because they never used their MD or other degrees to work a day in their lives. Choosing between not having one of a full time cook, housekeeper, gardener, nanny or pilot was a humbling experience, but they needed to " cut back." They are able to donate to local, state and national Republicans; they are generous people, who want Medicaid, Obamacare, and the estate tax abolished.

oldcynic

(385 posts)
66. sacrifice is in the eye of the beholder
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 08:56 PM
Mar 2017

Had a rich aunt who wrote complaining she was forced to sell one of her BMWs to by her daughter a dressage horse. Life is tough all over.

Dark n Stormy Knight

(9,760 posts)
75. I also have some ridiculously wealthy relatives, so I feel your pain. Of course, they're RWers
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 03:22 AM
Mar 2017

who think they've done well because their RW Jesus recognizes how superior they are to most of the rest of and so rewarded them with piles of cash.

Every misfortune of theirs is somehow somebody's fault but their own, but the less fortunate are responsible for all of their own problems. And all the rest of your typical RW BS. It's nauseating.

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
106. Good to know I'm not alone. The idea that Jesus favors
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 03:52 PM
Mar 2017

Them, with their selfish policies, and as you said, buckets of cash, over others is nauseating, insane, not logical, blah, balh...not to even mention, where was Jesus, during the Holocaust, when those people in camps must have outprayed the world. The RW is whooping it up now, with their money, and watching DT give his bizarre bs to the Dems, and I'm sure that are thanking god for their blessings. I'm really not anti religion, though I sound like it lately; I'm just against using it hypocritically.
It always amuses me when some bunches of both sides are praying to win at football games.

Dark n Stormy Knight

(9,760 posts)
263. Sorry I missed your reply.
Thu Mar 16, 2017, 02:35 PM
Mar 2017

Have been trying to stay off DU, twitter, etc. and get something done in my life! Kinda got bogged down in the mire and needed to disconnect.

Anyway, though you may never see this, I just wanted to say that I share some of your thoughts on religion. Particularly, "where was Jesus, during the Holocaust, when those people in camps must have outprayed the world." (Though I suppose the Jesus folks might argue something about the Jews having killed their saviour, even though, wasn't that necessary for him to be their savior? But then, religion and logic are not the best of friends...) And, yeah, the idea of Jesus/god intervening in sports matches seems absurd to me.

I must admit that thanks to these sorts of things, and worse, I am anti-religion. In the grand scheme of things, it seems to have done far more harm than good. Especially when you think that most of the good it's done could have been accomplished without it and without the negatives it's caused.

Even the idea that maybe it's not so bad considering it's a comfort to people was tainted for me when I saw it fail my super-religious grandmother at the end. When she was close to death, she was very despondent over her fear that she was not going to heaven. And not for the reasons she ought to have been worried--her extreme racism mostly. In fact, I think her religious belief supported her racist views. I wish people looked to the idea of making life right here on earth--the only life we know for sure we will have--a better experience for all as a sacred mission and a comfort. If that were to rise to the level of religious fervor, perhaps any afterlife would take care of itself.

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
264. Aren't most racists RW religious fundamentalists?
Fri Mar 17, 2017, 01:54 AM
Mar 2017

Hi I did get your reply obviously.
"...Though I suppose the Jesus folks might argue something about the Jews having killed their saviour, even though, wasn't that necessary for him to be their savior?" Good point!!
Another irony or two, most of the RW fundamentalist Christians are RW pro Israel, including the settlements, though neither the RW nor the Left or center want the US RW fundamentalists Christians' support.

Re: the story about your grandmother. My mom told me that people get religious when they got old because they were afraid they wouldn't go to heaven. She did, and the hypocrisy of it drives me nuts.

You raised another point: have you ever known a racist who wasn't into some sort of fundamentalists religion...Christain, Muslim, Jewish?
While certainly not all religious believers are racists. All or maybe all racists are some sort of religious fundamentalists, Christian, Jewish, Muslim, whatever.
(Feels like I'm back in logic classes.)

I'm trying to spend less time here too. It can be a time sink hole. Obviously, we all need to talk to someone who empathizes with our outrage of what is going on w our country.

CrispyQ

(36,438 posts)
284. An excellent commentary!
Sun Apr 16, 2017, 11:55 AM
Apr 2017
When did humility get so cocky and vainglorious? I remember the first time, around 15 years ago, that I heard someone describe herself as “blessed.” An old friend of my boyfriend’s came to visit and spent the evening regaling us with stories of her many blessings. She wasn’t especially religious, which somehow made her choice of words worse. Every good thing in her life — friends, job, apartment, decent parking space — was a blessing: i.e., something deliberate, something thoughtfully picked out for her by a higher power. It took a while to put a finger on why it got on my nerves. The problem was that she couldn’t just let herself be lucky, because luck was random, meaningless, undeserved. Luck was a roll of the dice. She had to be chosen.


Years ago I read a sci fi story & one of the characters was a human & she was chosen for the quest because she'd been bred to be the luckiest human alive.

klook

(12,153 posts)
302. The "humblebrag" is a hilariously cringeworthy trend.
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 04:57 PM
Apr 2017

You know, like tweeting "Humbled to be named to Oprah's childhood diabetes taskforce."

I mean, if you were really "humbled," you'd let somebody else do the bragging for you, right?

UTUSN

(70,671 posts)
62. "fake news"
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 08:29 PM
Mar 2017

The perfectly serviceable, correct, and precise words are:

* disinformation
* propaganda
* lie

NCjack

(10,279 posts)
63. "Absolutely". Especially when "yes" does the job.
Sat Mar 11, 2017, 08:43 PM
Mar 2017

Example: "Would you recommend Dr. X to your family? check one: 0 1 2 4 5 6 7 8 9 10, where 0 = No and 10 = Absolutely."

Well my answer is 5, where 5 = maybe. And never will I check "10 = Absolutely."

If I find that Dr. Y is better than Dr. X, I promise you (absolutely) that I'm moving over to Dr. Y and recommending to my family and friends that they do the same.

"Absolutely" is now most surveys, TV news Q&As, and promises by #45. One way #45 tells us he is lying is when he uses "absolutely."

Now, I absolutely expect some improvements immediately on this problem.

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
266. Sounds like cutesy teen or a toddler learning to talk
Fri Mar 17, 2017, 02:04 AM
Mar 2017

I've actually gotten that in emails from lawyers when they fucked up or just got caught.

ailsagirl

(22,893 posts)
184. That's still going strong
Mon Mar 13, 2017, 04:32 PM
Mar 2017

We used to be able to say something like, "The Grand Canyon is awesome."

Now people use it to describe a sandwich.

erinlough

(2,176 posts)
74. Pop of color
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 01:33 AM
Mar 2017

And Pantone color of the year.....

First one is a way to sell ugly accessories the second is a way to get you to buy paint for a room that doesn't need painting.

hlthe2b

(102,192 posts)
83. Alll of those remodeling shows on HGTV must require the same glossary...
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 09:02 AM
Mar 2017

It is ALWAYS
"pop of color"
"this space" (never "room," "garage", "bedroom", etc)
"so cute"
"high design"

and on and on...

madaboutharry

(40,200 posts)
80. 'nuff said......I hate this phrase.
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 07:36 AM
Mar 2017

There is an arrogance to it, as if trying to cut off discussion and debate.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,336 posts)
90. So, yeah, I'd like totally agree with you, but ...
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 11:43 AM
Mar 2017

... at the end if the day, I could care less.

Irregardless, thanks for your concern.

(I think I hit enough annoying phrases for now)

sprinkleeninow

(20,235 posts)
157. "Use it or lose it." "At the end of the day."
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 09:31 PM
Mar 2017

(Host thanking a guest for coming on their show):
Host: "Thanx for coming!"
Guest: "Thanx for having me!"
Make me want to hurl.

Also, heard that "Bless your heart" could flipside be construed as "B.Y.H. (you dingbat.)"

OilemFirchen

(7,143 posts)
91. Indeed. The most annoying grammatical "trend" of this century.
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 11:48 AM
Mar 2017

Makes me want to literally punch the speaker. But it's a thing. Big time.

meadowlander

(4,393 posts)
212. Yes.
Tue Mar 14, 2017, 12:23 PM
Mar 2017

Especially 14 in a row in the same post and super especially when Link to Tweet just links to a tweet with a link to an actual article or webpage in it. Just link straight to the webpage! And spend 5 seconds providing context so I know what I'm clicking.

hlthe2b

(102,192 posts)
93. I dare say I struck a nerve with this thread!
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 01:27 PM
Mar 2017

I agree with all contributions--perhaps even "struck a nerve" or "dare say"...

FakeNoose

(32,613 posts)
94. "It is what it is"
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 01:30 PM
Mar 2017

Favorite expression of my boss and almost everyone in my company.

WTF does that mean? Nobody knows, but they say it anyway.


argyl

(3,064 posts)
247. "It is what it is." Drives me up the wall. Particularly if spoken as a real bit of wisdom.
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 05:16 PM
Mar 2017

On occasion I've replied, " It is what it is, it ain't what it ain't, it 'tis what it 'tis, and it tain't what it tain't."
That really leaves 'em scratching their heads.

nadine_mn

(3,702 posts)
328. Yes! I was getting worried it took so long for this to pop up
Tue Apr 18, 2017, 12:11 AM
Apr 2017

That maybe I am the only one who screams "what!? That doesn't make sense!"

orleans

(34,043 posts)
343. that's the expression i *really* can't stand
Thu Apr 20, 2017, 01:46 AM
Apr 2017

and yet i love the expression

whatever...

whatever pairs nicely with a shrug of indifference

JCinNYC

(366 posts)
180. That's it
Mon Mar 13, 2017, 12:50 PM
Mar 2017

That's the one.
That's is the single phrase that brings on an aneurysm for me.

Used to hear it all the time at Corp meetings when people simply agreed with a very mundane, not-so-original comment that someone else thought was pure "genius".
UGH! UGH!

Iggo

(47,545 posts)
100. Listing women by their first names (sometimes right alongside men listed by their last names).
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 03:34 PM
Mar 2017

Grr.

LOL Lib

(1,462 posts)
103. The following 2 phrases are relatively new and I have been irked by both since I first heard them.
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 03:44 PM
Mar 2017

"Stay woke"...makes me cringe I can't explain why. I totally understand the importance, it's just the phrase.

"What you said"...I had to listen to someone repeat this phrase over and over in a Dr's office one day. First off, you should have the decency to take your call in private, and the constant droning of the same phrase over and over tested my patience.

LOL Lib

(1,462 posts)
188. It is a very meaningful phrase that originated
Mon Mar 13, 2017, 04:48 PM
Mar 2017

During recent years after tragedies like what happened in Ferguson, MO.

From Urban Dictionary:
Deriving from "stay awake," to stay woke is to keep informed of the shitstorm going on around you in times of turmoil and conflict, specifically on occasions when the media is being heavily filtered- such as the events in Ferguson Missouri in August 2014.

The headlines say they looted McDonald's, but they won't tell you about the tear gas the police threw at the crowds, or the fact that they needed the milk from the McDonald's to treat the effects of it. Stay woke.

ailsagirl

(22,893 posts)
209. It's not exactly an intuitive term
Tue Mar 14, 2017, 11:22 AM
Mar 2017

A lot of these newer phrases-- at least, some-- the meaning can be guessed. But this one is not one of them.

Thanks for the info!

eppur_se_muova

(36,256 posts)
297. Reminds me of this ...
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 02:55 AM
Apr 2017
If any of the competing explanations rings the truest, it is probably the suggestion by Holloway and Vass in The African Heritage of American English that hip is derived from Senegalese slaves for whom xipi in their native Wolof language meant ‘to have your eyes open, to be aware’.

http://blog.oxforddictionaries.com/2015/06/history-of-hip/

True Dough

(17,296 posts)
123. I'm with you on that one!
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 05:36 PM
Mar 2017

Those two phrases are usually spoken in times of disappointment or tragedy, so I just quietly tolerate it the vast majority of the time. I know the speaker means well, but I'm thinking: "Your trite show of faith means nothing to me."

3catwoman3

(23,965 posts)
226. "Everything happens for a reason" just irritates me...
Tue Mar 14, 2017, 09:56 PM
Mar 2017

...to no end. Much the same for any of the "It's God's will" crap. God must be a mean SOB instead of a loving parent.

The best explanation I have seen for the various heartbreaking events that occur was a bumper sticker I saw many years ago - "Shit Happens."

It sure does.

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
171. +1000. Add "It's all good." Sometimes, it's not.
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 11:04 PM
Mar 2017

I once said, what was God's point of the Holocaust?
Maybe, sometimes evil wins.

I really like the person making the statement, but I just couldn’t stand it. I said it very nicely, like with curiosity.

ProfessorGAC

(64,960 posts)
294. Woman Comic...
Sun Apr 16, 2017, 04:53 PM
Apr 2017

...Laura something (brain cramping on her surname; Keitlinger maybe) had this great line about that
She said when she felt down and someone said that, she heard " anything can happen with a razor "

becca da bakkah

(426 posts)
119. I Have A Couple That Annoy The Piss.....
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 04:40 PM
Mar 2017

....out of me. The first is calling a gender-neutral object, "That Bad Boy". Most recently heard regarding eating a big batch of crab cakes, for God's sake! The other is calling something "decadent", usually when chocolate is involved.

No...sorry. Decadent means to be in a state of decay; deteriorating. Hardly something chocolate would cause. Eating chocolate is NOT decadent.

Unless you're doing it off a six year old's tushie! Now THAT would be decadent!

VOX

(22,976 posts)
135. Per Merriam-Webster, that use of "decadent" is okay...
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 06:09 PM
Mar 2017

But I agree, it's *still* annoying! Lifted straight from the text:

Full Definition
1 : marked by decay or decline
2 : of, relating to, or having the characteristics of the decadents
3 : characterized by or appealing to self-indulgence <decadent pleasures>
dec·a·dent·ly adverb
Examples
The book condemns some of society's wealthiest members as decadent fools.
a wealthy and decadent lifestyle
a decadent hotel room, complete with a hot tub

Response to VOX (Reply #135)

VOX

(22,976 posts)
130. ¡¡ ICONIC !!
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 05:59 PM
Mar 2017

Used way too much, and often inappropriately. Seems like everything's iconic these days.

sprinkleeninow

(20,235 posts)
161. In our neck o' the woods, it's "Hurry back now!"
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 10:15 PM
Mar 2017

First time I heard that I said to myself, "I'll just put these purchases in the car and hurry back thru the revolving doors to buy some more stuff. Is that fast enuff for yaaa??"
I can be a little wise asp.

VOX

(22,976 posts)
138. "Let me get this straight"...
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 06:19 PM
Mar 2017

Originally, a hoary device in play- or screenwriting to set up an exposition of plot summary/review for lazy or confused viewers.

Now used ironically, when a person is about to air out some egregious trespass, blow-by-blow, a snarky talking-point summation.

I cannot stand it. The moment I hear "Let me get this straight," I cringe.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
140. "Bombshell." Save it for something with proof that will stick, not the latest conspiracy theory or
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 06:32 PM
Mar 2017

prayer to redo the election.

3catwoman3

(23,965 posts)
146. Impactful.
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 08:13 PM
Mar 2017

That one makes me clench my teeth. What's wrong with good old inluential?

I have also heard several instances of people making a possessive from "I." "John and I's vacation."

3catwoman3

(23,965 posts)
158. I am afraid so.
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 09:40 PM
Mar 2017

I first heard it years ago, on a General Hospital episode (you now know my deep dark secret) and chalked it up to a young and not-very-good actor, figuring he had probably droped out of school to pursue his acting dream.

I cringed then, hoping to never hear it again. Unvortuntely, it was not the only time.

I also cannot stand the "Him and me/Me and him" use for a subject - "Me and him went to see the new Star Wars movie." No one ever messes it up in the singular. I have never heard anyone say, "Me went to the store, or "Him went to 6 Flags." I don't understand why that doesn't carry over to plural subjects.

3catwoman3

(23,965 posts)
159. I hear this all the time, and have to work...
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 09:50 PM
Mar 2017

...very hard not to correct those I hear committing this offense.

spooky3

(34,425 posts)
162. I do too. One friend who was in a top mgt position
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 10:20 PM
Mar 2017

consistently made this mistake. I think what grates is that the speaker is trying to sound "educated" or "classy." If s/he would simply go with the usage heard as a child s/he would not make the error.

Mendocino

(7,484 posts)
148. OMG
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 08:21 PM
Mar 2017

not when someone simply says oh my god, but when they say OMG by just using the letters or OH...MY...GOD very slowly and loudly.

Truth to power is getting old.

What say you ?...ugh

Response to hlthe2b (Original post)

Chiquitita

(752 posts)
160. Using "less" instead of "fewer"
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 10:14 PM
Mar 2017

I saw a poster at a bank last week that advertised "less fees." That was a sad moment for me. Like Stanis Baratheon I may be on the losing side of the historical fight to keep "fewer" in the English language.

... oh, and "bespoke." So pretentious.

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
165. Me too. I started to add that one, but I didn't want to edit
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 10:28 PM
Mar 2017

my list. It is so common, even in TV commercials and magazine ads.

3catwoman3

(23,965 posts)
166. There is a local grocery store...
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 10:29 PM
Mar 2017

..that actually has its fast lane sign saying "10 items or fewer." My husband and I were shocked and delighted.

sprinkleeninow

(20,235 posts)
164. Two old ones--"Go for it." "Bite me."
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 10:27 PM
Mar 2017

(Come closer so I can drop my lunch on yer shoes.) Oh and, SHADDAPP!! 😣

meadowlander

(4,393 posts)
214. Yes, this.
Tue Mar 14, 2017, 12:28 PM
Mar 2017

Separating whites and colours isn't a "laundry hack". It's a tip.

Also clickbait staples like "The 14 Most Recent Paintings My Nephew Has Done... Number 8 Will Astonish You!"

Maeve

(42,279 posts)
176. Double down
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 11:30 PM
Mar 2017

Ok, so you're a freaking gambler and you don;t realize it's a bad bet--we GET that!!!!!

northoftheborder

(7,571 posts)
178. I'm good---
Sun Mar 12, 2017, 11:41 PM
Mar 2017

When declining an offer of something, instead of "no thank you."

Also, "Where it's/he's/she's at." Instead of "where it is". That is becoming more and more common - hear it on radio and TV all the time. So sloppy.

Also, why are so many people pronouncing "nd" sound at the end of a word as "nt"???? Such as "sount" instead of "sound", and "ant" instead of "and"????? Rachel Maddow was the first person I noticed doing this, but others are also.

sprinkleeninow

(20,235 posts)
202. What about "I'm fine" in lieu of 'No, thank you".
Tue Mar 14, 2017, 02:42 AM
Mar 2017

Maybe them being 'fine' is up for debate??
I'm so fine. (No, you ain't.)

"Would you like a refill on that sweet tea?"
"I'm fine."

Wolf Frankula

(3,600 posts)
190. Pimp
Mon Mar 13, 2017, 06:45 PM
Mar 2017

As in Pimp My Ride, Pimp My Car, It's Pimp.

I would like to change the meaning of pimp to this


As in clean up the pimp your dog leaves on the sidewalk.

Wolf

 

Thor_MN

(11,843 posts)
191. People posting "This!!!" as a subject line...
Mon Mar 13, 2017, 09:41 PM
Mar 2017

Making it obvious that one is unable to add anything to the conversation doesn't strike me as a good thing....

Marthe48

(16,927 posts)
194. So
Mon Mar 13, 2017, 10:31 PM
Mar 2017

added to the beginning of every sentence. And having to do verbal somersaults trying to make it work.

sprinkleeninow

(20,235 posts)
203. One more popped into my puddin' head earlier this eve.
Tue Mar 14, 2017, 03:04 AM
Mar 2017

It is {{{ }}}:
"Been there, done that."

Thanks for this thread. It's been entertaining.

jmowreader

(50,546 posts)
204. Anything attacking Democrats or liberals
Tue Mar 14, 2017, 03:17 AM
Mar 2017

Such as libtard, social justice warrior...

Naturally, "President Trump" is worse.

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
228. Libtard is making fun of retarded persons, handicapped.
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 01:23 AM
Mar 2017

Seems to be something Repubs find funny! The Prez is their model.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
206. Agree to Disagree
Tue Mar 14, 2017, 11:03 AM
Mar 2017

Agree to Disagree and Magic Thinking.

They are two standard fallacies embraced warmly by the biased and are little more than vapid buzz words for lazy minds who require a "get out quick" card in many discussions.

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
227. I have trouble saying or writing his name or that FBI guy
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 01:17 AM
Mar 2017

who violated precedent to throw the election to that so called president guy

pat_k

(9,313 posts)
234. DT
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 04:22 AM
Mar 2017

I can't filter out when others say it, but when I talk, write, think, it's DT. Don't feel quite as ill.

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
242. I decided it is an interesting coincidence.
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 05:20 AM
Mar 2017

He is sick, out of control, not lucid, and he has other characteristics in commom with the condition.

red dog 1

(27,792 posts)
244. FBI Director James Comey's 10/28/2016 letter to Congressional leaders,
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 01:48 PM
Mar 2017

erroneously stating that new evidence had surfaced relating to the closed investigation of Hillary Clinton's use of a private email server, and his decision to discuss it at a news conference just 11 days before the election is currently under investigation by DOJ's Inspector General,
Michael E. Horowitz.
http://www.nytimes.com/2017/01/12/us/politics/james-comey-fbi-inspector-general-hillary-clinton.html

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
245. "Hillary's private server," The C guy at the FBI deserves jail for
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 03:21 PM
Mar 2017

Interference in an election. He is jammed in. He might want to throw the Dems a couple of bones so they let his investigations continue, while hoping he exposes the truth. On the other hand, the trumpsters are protecting him, and letting him stay on, so he knows they aren't likely to throw him under the bus, as long as he stalls and plays along.

Slimey creep. Not as boorish and unsophisticated as DT, but he's Iago.

orleans

(34,043 posts)
230. "it is what it is"
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 01:49 AM
Mar 2017

ARGH!!!

OH REALLY? THEN KILL ME NOW so i don't ever have to hear that fucking phrase again

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
237. Chronic interrupters. You state four words, they grab one word,
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 04:46 AM
Mar 2017

and go off on it, before you've even finished your sentence, which was about another topic.
This is not a word or phrase, but it has to do with thwarted articulation.

Everyone interrupts occasionally, but these people do it almost like turret's syndrome or a nervous habit. It is impossible to have a conversation.

Chris Matthews is getting worse all of the time.

orleans

(34,043 posts)
254. lol "Chris Matthews is getting worse all of the time."
Thu Mar 16, 2017, 01:12 AM
Mar 2017

he's been an expert at it for years and years

used to drive me CRAZY

then i got rid of my cable (only have local channels) so the temptation to turn on msnbc is useless b/c i can no longer turn it on. however--while i still had it i hadn't watched him for about seven years.

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
255. Those people don't listen, just talk over others. Matthews has
Thu Mar 16, 2017, 01:22 AM
Mar 2017

gone off the rails the last few years. It's like he has turrets AND alzheimers, and both are getting worse. He adds nothing.

pat_k

(9,313 posts)
239. "drives success" "drives marketing impact"
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 04:51 AM
Mar 2017

... and other bullshit marketing phrases.

best-of-breed

value proposition

outside the box

solution-driven

Maru Kitteh

(28,333 posts)
252. "I'm glad you asked that question" followed by nothing, in any way, resembling
Thu Mar 16, 2017, 12:44 AM
Mar 2017

an actual answer.



If you hear the words "I'm glad you asked that question" get ready for a whole frontloader full of pure, uncured fertilizer.

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
253. Folks
Thu Mar 16, 2017, 12:47 AM
Mar 2017

I hate that one. It's disingenuous. Trying to sound "folksy", average, like the normal, everyday guy... when you really don't think you are. Some use it because it's part of their background, but when a politician uses it, it sounds like they're dumbing down to the little people for effect.

ashling

(25,771 posts)
257. Take a listen
Thu Mar 16, 2017, 01:47 AM
Mar 2017

Is it too much to ask of a highly educated (hopefully) and highly paid (indubitably) tv news personality to say "listen to this audio clip of ....?"

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
260. "it's in my wheelhouse"
Thu Mar 16, 2017, 06:22 AM
Mar 2017

I don't know why. Just makes me want to shout "okay, buddy, pull the pretentiousness bus over to the side of the self-regard freeway"

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
275. I agree
Sun Apr 16, 2017, 10:27 AM
Apr 2017

Maybe this is a small town thing or southern small town thing, but I was lambasted constantly for using any words that were above 6th grade and I damn sure never tried to be pretentious. You HAD to be down to earth in every way, or you got put in your place pretty fast.

To this day, I am still this way. Yes, I have two degrees etc but I feel no need to show off my intellect or vocabulary.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
262. GET OFF MY LAWN!
Thu Mar 16, 2017, 06:24 AM
Mar 2017

I don't actually mind that phrase, I'm just making fun of everyone who responded in this thread.

fNord

(1,756 posts)
267. The "GD" phrase......
Fri Mar 17, 2017, 05:39 AM
Mar 2017

I'm not a religious man in the normal sense, but I do believe words have power, and invoking a deity to "damn" your cat for knocking over your remote is a bit harsh.

All words have power. Please be careful how you use them.

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
269. "President Trump"
Sat Mar 18, 2017, 05:26 AM
Mar 2017

It hate hearing those words. They don't belong anywhere near each other. Also, "one stop shop". It is a phrase used by businesses a lot. I'm not sure why but it I find the phrase annoying. I loath the words "pop a squat".

ailsagirl

(22,893 posts)
290. Makes my blood boil/stomach churn every time
Sun Apr 16, 2017, 01:33 PM
Apr 2017

Among the nicer things you can say abut him:

He's an imposter:
pretender
phony
Charlatan
Fake
Fraud
dissembler
deceiver
SOB

Never in a million years would this country have voted that cretin in

So, yes-- when I see that clod addressed in such a manner, I go ballistic

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
271. Blah blah blah SHIT and blah blah blah SHIT and more blahs SHIT
Sun Apr 16, 2017, 10:07 AM
Apr 2017

Sigh. I get it. You like the word shit. You use it constantly.

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
272. jaw-dropping!
Sun Apr 16, 2017, 10:12 AM
Apr 2017

Holy fuck, if I have to read that one more time on the net, I might break my keyboard LOL joking

Yonnie3

(17,427 posts)
276. Normalize.
Sun Apr 16, 2017, 10:36 AM
Apr 2017

Seen on DU regularly. "Don't normalize <insert name or office>".

Typically this is a response to information or a view posted which makes no attempt to "normalize" anything.

It didn't bother me the first hundred times.

Response to hlthe2b (Original post)

get the red out

(13,460 posts)
303. Experts say.....
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 04:58 PM
Apr 2017

I hate that, what "experts"? What makes these invisible experts EXPERTS???? Where did you even hear that they SAY...................???????

Siwsan

(26,256 posts)
308. "Awesome". IMHO, it is the most overused word in the English language
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 05:12 PM
Apr 2017

It is used so often, it has completely lost its meaning.

klook

(12,153 posts)
309. "Disrupt"
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 05:13 PM
Apr 2017

as in "Cincinnati startup is set to disrupt the pencil market." Really? I'm just looking for a pencil, for cryin' out loud!

Ok, I made up that example, but it wouldn't surprise me to see that next to some click bait like "9 breakfast habits of successful entrepreneurs -- #5 will shock you."

radical noodle

(8,000 posts)
313. Neo-liberal
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 05:23 PM
Apr 2017

I got sick of that one a long time ago, particularly when it was being thrown at DU members on a daily basis.

LeftInTX

(25,202 posts)
314. Get behind
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 05:32 PM
Apr 2017

As in supporting a candidate....what do they mean?
Become their campaign manager? Donate? Funnel their Superpac toward? Volunteer? Vote for? Say nice things about on the internet?

tazkcmo

(7,300 posts)
315. I have two.
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 05:43 PM
Apr 2017

The word "literally" and the phrase, "...it's been a minute since.." or "I haven't done/seen/heard from in a minute..." with "minute" meaning "in a while" which is normally referring to a period of time much longer than a mere minute.

VOX

(22,976 posts)
317. B-school lingo: "impactful," "scalable," "mission-critical," "face time," "price point," etc.
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 07:56 PM
Apr 2017

These business-school-generated words/phrases are like kryptonite to me. They're akin to cheap white bread-- few nutrients and blown full of air.

klook

(12,153 posts)
322. I can see you're passionate about this.
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 08:39 PM
Apr 2017

Too many of us are siloed and need to reach out to stakeholders in a proactive way.

Oh, God - now I need to take a shower!

JHan

(10,173 posts)
320. "Personally I think" - ..... Yes, "i think" covers it thanks...
Mon Apr 17, 2017, 08:01 PM
Apr 2017

I hate when I am guilty of this too.

Most redundant thing ever.

nadine_mn

(3,702 posts)
329. "Not gonna lie"
Tue Apr 18, 2017, 12:17 AM
Apr 2017

As in, not gonna lie I like some of these detested phrases.

Why would you lie ...why would you need to tell me you aren't going to lie to me?

LeftInTX

(25,202 posts)
331. "Passed" instead of "passed away"
Tue Apr 18, 2017, 12:32 AM
Apr 2017

or "crossed over" (To where do they cross over???)

or "safe passaging" (Someone is dying. Is dying supposed to be safe?)

When someone says, "My grandfather passed"....or "Barney the Dinosaur passed"

What did he pass? math? a kidney stone? his citizenship exam? his civil service exam?

After my dad died, I was trying to be PC saying "My dad passed away".....Sounded too fuzzy and nice.
Eventually, I just started saying, "My dad died".

Another term, I find annoying is "Peace Out"....I don't even know what it means, except I think it is supposed to be cool.

leftyladyfrommo

(18,868 posts)
348. My favorite "passing" expression
Thu Apr 20, 2017, 10:46 AM
Apr 2017

is one from the older, black culture here in Kansas City. It is "stepped on board" as in Chester stepped on board. Meaning stepped on board the Glory Train.

subterranean

(3,427 posts)
333. "Bigly," whether used ironically or not.
Tue Apr 18, 2017, 01:02 AM
Apr 2017

Some people use it in a tongue-in-cheek way when talking about Trump, who didn't actually say it, but lately I've seen the word creeping into ordinary usage (even on this site), and I find that most annoying.

Doreen

(11,686 posts)
334. I have a friend who pronounces thyme
Tue Apr 18, 2017, 01:19 AM
Apr 2017

like the first part of Thoroughbred or thought instead of time. I guess it drives me nuts when words are not pronounced correctly but that on in particular.

I said "drives me nuts" does that one bother anyone?

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,336 posts)
338. "Civilian", when used by police to describe non-police.
Tue Apr 18, 2017, 05:07 PM
Apr 2017

"Civilian" is anyone not in one of the five service branches. Most police are civilians.

HeiressofBickworth

(2,682 posts)
340. Anything that sounds pretentious
Wed Apr 19, 2017, 10:18 PM
Apr 2017

For example the word "pairing". Drives me nuts.
Worst example (with apologies to TCM) The "pairing" of the world of wine with the world of movies. Makes me cringe every time I hear it. Couldn't even tell you exactly why but it just irks me.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
341. Blessed. Have a blessed day
Wed Apr 19, 2017, 10:44 PM
Apr 2017

Can't believe that wasn't number one.

Besides the awful condescending tone that the speaker exudes by assuming everyone is in the same faith nomenclature and structure is the silly ambiguity, what exactly are you wishing for me, that I win the lottery or get lucky with my wife?

I went to Seminary and if anyone had used the phrase they would have been laughed out of the room.

Close second "Haves a good one".

duncang

(1,907 posts)
344. Lately it has been
Thu Apr 20, 2017, 05:09 AM
Apr 2017

When a repub who doesn't like dipshit donnie says "he really isn't a republican"

No D.A.'s he is the number 1 repub. he is what all those repub's voted for and who all those repub politicians endorsed. So yes he is a true repub. you bought him own him.

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
346. "curated"
Thu Apr 20, 2017, 09:30 AM
Apr 2017

With apologies to museum curators everywhere, I know the word is technically accurate in some cases, but it always strikes me as oh so pretentious. If a musem curator curates his or her collection, I get it. It's his/her job. I dunno.

JenniferJuniper

(4,510 posts)
354. "yeah, yeah, yeah" in very quick succession
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 12:23 AM
Apr 2017

when you are trying to talk to someone.

I don't know when this became a thing, but it comes off as though the listener wants you to hurry up and finish. I hear people doing it to others all the time now.

teezy

(269 posts)
357. "Several"
Fri Apr 21, 2017, 01:57 AM
Apr 2017

I also loathe passive aggressive language in e-mails. Any of you working in an office setting will know what I'm talking about.

rhiannon55

(2,671 posts)
363. Throwing people "under the bus"
Sat Apr 22, 2017, 02:24 PM
Apr 2017

I am so tired of hearing that phrase.

Also, have you guys notice how often politicians begin their spiel with "Look!"?

It always makes them seem defensive and kind of rude.

Fortinbras Armstrong

(4,473 posts)
364. There are two which really get me
Sat Apr 22, 2017, 04:21 PM
Apr 2017

"True facts". A fact is by definition true. Similarly, "free gift". If you have to pay for it, it's not a gift,

athena

(4,187 posts)
365. "Females" used as a noun to refer to women.
Sat Apr 22, 2017, 06:53 PM
Apr 2017

It is becoming more and more common. I never hear anyone refer to men as "males" or a man as "a male". The word "woman", on the other hand, is becoming less and less common.

Here is an example:
https://www.democraticunderground.com/10141757046

“I don’t know about racial and ethnic divisions, but there’s some very good females on there that would make good Supreme Court Justices as well,” he said, according to the paper.


Calling women "females" while continuing to call men "men" is a way of reducing women to animals, while representing men as human beings. It's disrespectful and dismissive. When referring to a woman, please, please call her a woman, not "a female".
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