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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsGet it off your chest: current most detested / trite phrase or word....
Ok, mine is:
That current Wayfair commercial is sending me over the brink.
Yours?
underpants
(182,726 posts)That's what immediately came to mind. It's what people say when they don't want to engage.
ailsagirl
(22,893 posts)It's far less offensive than so many others
yuiyoshida
(41,829 posts)Florida-Liberal
(5 posts)So.
yuiyoshida
(41,829 posts)1. この指輪は高いそうです。
2. 彼のスーツケースは重いそうです。
3. そのゲームは難しいそうです。
4. その町は静かだそうです。
5.彼の携帯は便利だそうです。
more examples...
https://nihongoshark.com/japanese-grammar-sou/
If I could only never have to hear that word again...
hlthe2b
(102,192 posts)It goes without saying
pat_k
(9,313 posts)The inescapable drum beat of $#ump this and $#ump that was making me ill. I can't shut out the radio/news, but at least i i've been pretty successful at banishing the "sound" from my thoughts and typing. Somehow it helps -- a little anyway.
meadowlark5
(2,795 posts)Usually when referring to a celeb's pregnant belly.
Oh, and referring to foods that are really delicious and you can't stop eating as "crack". So stupid.
hlthe2b
(102,192 posts)I also can't stand when couples state THEY are pregnant!
They are surely both expecting, but only she is pregnant, for heaven's sakes
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)It's insulting.
Another thing I hate is "bae". Drives me up a wall.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)Bae sounds stupid and feels harder to say without a closing consonant.
Baby bump...arg I've always detested that. Cutesy-wootsy, 🤢
And I don't care about your effing spawn anyway. I'm just plain old, thoroughly aghast at all the breeding when we're already killing everything with our relentless reproduction. "The cretins cloning and feeding" 🎼
3catwoman3
(23,965 posts)..."bae?"
orleans
(34,043 posts)the youngins use because they are too damn lazy to say or type "babe" which was the initial shortening of "baby"
(as in reference to boyfriend/girlfriend)
yuiyoshida
(41,829 posts)You can say...neo hangug-eo hal jul al-a?? That means, do you Speak Korean? I have heard people use: "oppa" (As in oppa gangnam style ) Oppa means older brother.
GoCubsGo
(32,078 posts)No. She is pregnant. He is not, nor is he capable of becoming pregnant.
2naSalit
(86,502 posts)the "we're pregnant" phrase, it's more like a milestone in consciousness when you get that the man part of the pair of parents is accepting and embracing his role and responsibility. That is big in our social collective.
GoCubsGo
(32,078 posts)To me, "We" coming from the male half suggests that he accepts and embraces his role and responsibility.
2naSalit
(86,502 posts)It's interesting how people interpret a phrase and whether it sits well or not.
The phrase I would have offered would be the recent acceptance of "across the world".
Me.
(35,454 posts)appleannie1943
(1,303 posts)yagotme
(2,919 posts)mahatmakanejeeves
(57,370 posts)yagotme
(2,919 posts)That crap drove me crazy!
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)I'm around a woman who says "you know what I mean," about twice in every sentence, "it's like," turrets syndrome.
I've tried saying, no, I don't know know what you mean, but she buzzes on.
lastlib
(23,193 posts)Or: "I'm like, whaat?" For some people (even otherwise intelligent adults), those are considered a complete thought.
LuckyLib
(6,819 posts)every 5-6 words is fingernails on a chalkboard to me.
The younger the reporter is, the more "likes" are part of the report/conversation.
appleannie1943
(1,303 posts)how she talks. She sounds like an idiot that never had an English class.
spooky3
(34,425 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)I hate to break it to you, but that ship has like, totally sailed.
yardwork
(61,588 posts)mahatmakanejeeves
(57,370 posts)Last edited Sun Mar 12, 2017, 08:30 AM - Edit history (2)
I use that expression. For example, I say that I have an old-school fax machine, because it cranks out a piece of paper.
The term does have a correct usage, when it is applied to BMX and skateboard tricks.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)I can see that there is no more added, but then I have to stop and wonder, why did he or she post n/t.
True Dough
(17,296 posts)drives me nuts! You know what I'm sayin?
hlthe2b
(102,192 posts)neeksgeek
(1,214 posts)Now it's "going forward" (used when explaining how to do things from now on.)
Dale Neiburg
(698 posts)Phoenix61
(16,999 posts)I'm all for PC language but...
samnsara
(17,615 posts)Alice11111
(5,730 posts)When my bro called to tell me my father had died, after he had been in the hospital over 24 hours, and I didnt know anything was wrong. I was stunned because a few days before, I had had an hour long good phone conversation with my father, and everything was good. My shocked response to his death, was, what? My brother said, "Get over it. Its done." He's a good Christian Republican.
cloudbase
(5,512 posts)Bengus81
(6,931 posts)milestogo
(16,829 posts)Soxfan58
(3,479 posts)Bradgelina ect
3catwoman3
(23,965 posts)This is annoyingly middle-schoolish.
Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)Or the magic of the free market, or variations thereof.
Not recent, just a phrase I've detested for many years.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)ProfessorGAC
(64,960 posts)...that is untrue as the "invisible hand" has NEVER actually worked on a macro level
Makes it even more annoying
skypilot
(8,852 posts)*
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)what someone is talking about. It seems to have multiple applications. What exactly is a "snowflake."
skypilot
(8,852 posts)*
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)CrispyQ
(36,438 posts)Warpy
(111,222 posts)AVALANCHE!
*
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)Using another acronymn of which I'm not aware.
skypilot
(8,852 posts)It's not an acronym, it's a word. As in "Oh, SNAP!" I guess it's an expression you're not familiar with.
Mendocino
(7,484 posts)dropped the ball
get with the program
out for the count
no I in team
heavy hitter
playing hardball
throw a hale Mary
Monday morning quarterback
run up the score
going to the bench
etc
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)I'm so non-sports, it seems like a man's world thing to me. Sexist, and alienating.
klook
(12,153 posts)Response to hlthe2b (Original post)
NightWatcher This message was self-deleted by its author.
mahatmakanejeeves
(57,370 posts)As seen in GD and LBN.
Look, "it" was beginning a long time ago.
Apologies if I've offended anyone here doing that, but you asked.
And come to think of it, "if I've offended anyone" has worn out its welcome.
oldcynic
(385 posts)mahatmakanejeeves
(57,370 posts)oldcynic
(385 posts)mahatmakanejeeves
(57,370 posts)And by "*****," I mean "T****." Also, by "what we were talking about," I mean "him."
oldcynic
(385 posts)CrispyQ
(36,438 posts)It's such a non-apology & subtly puts the blame on the ones who are offended, not the one doing the offending.
Tripper11
(4,338 posts)In media when referring to ANYTHING except military.
AND
any reporter who says in their report "I can tell you ....." Really? Isn't that why you are standing there talking to me right now????
crazycatlady
(4,492 posts)Many senior staffers are brought in from all over the place and the term refers to when they actually arrive in district and start working.
Also on conference calls, the term is used a lot. "I have X canvassers on the ground knocking doors right now."
(Campaign jargon).
UrbScotty
(23,980 posts)Initech
(100,054 posts)SCantiGOP
(13,867 posts)Has a distinct meaning in college sports to differentiate it from a redshirt freshman.
k8conant
(3,030 posts)issue to mean problem
impact to mean affect
decimate to mean devastate
cyndensco
(1,697 posts)pat_k
(9,313 posts)"I Love You to Death"
Kevin Kline. Tracey Ullman, River Phoenix, Joan Plowright, Wm Hurt
Docreed2003
(16,855 posts)I cringe every time I hear Trump or his associates say that shit
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)Croney
(4,657 posts)WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)mahatmakanejeeves
(57,370 posts)Last edited Sat Mar 11, 2017, 05:37 PM - Edit history (1)
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10141725956Environmental Protection Agency Administrator Scott Pruitts phones have been ringing off the hook literally since he questioned the link between human activity and climate change.
No, the phone was not literally ringing off the hook.
ETA: edited, literally, after the other post that mentions "literally."
pnwest
(3,266 posts)Blanks
(4,835 posts)eppur_se_muova
(36,256 posts)it's still stationery.
(For those who don't know -- the origin of "Pushing the envelope"
Blanks
(4,835 posts)Like there's an amount of money IN the envelope and it is pushed across the table to the person receiving the offer. I suppose it would have been easy enough to google, I had no idea it was an engineering concept.
Raster
(20,998 posts)True Dough
(17,296 posts)Or since you joined this forum?
Those words didn't bother me several months ago, but now I cringe when I read them.
Raster
(20,998 posts)JustABozoOnThisBus
(23,336 posts)Raster
(20,998 posts)...and is generally a positive reaction or statement.
Your concern is noted is generally NOT a positive reaction, at least as used here at DU.
oldcynic
(385 posts)"all-volunteer"
"amount" when it should be number
most acronyms
........
mahatmakanejeeves
(57,370 posts)Which is fortunate, as otherwise this thread might never end.
Glorfindel
(9,725 posts)One who sells one's services to the military in return for money, as opposed to a "conscript," which is what I was a half-century ago.
oldcynic
(385 posts)Ask yourself to whom a mercenary army will give their loyalty? Especially one which has been infiltrated by right-wing religionist ideologies.
The Polack MSgt
(13,186 posts)Selling your service?
Cashing your paycheck during your enlistment is also something that conscripts do.
If we accept your concept of military service, all the NCOs and Officers during your enlistment were "mercenaries" - since Officers can't be drafted and enlisted troops can only be drafted once. You must volunteer for and be accepted by your service for every subsequent enlistment in your career.
Mercenaries are private contractors who work for any Govt. or non-government group that hires them.
People who raise their right hand and give up a few years of their life in the US military are not fucking Mercenaries and that term is (I suspect intentionally) insulting and dismissive.
Skittles
(153,138 posts)it just bugs me
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)Said in business contexts. Barf!!!
ailsagirl
(22,893 posts)What was wrong with "contact?"
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)I hate "reach out" so frikken much! It's such an obvious attempt to paste a veneer of personalized compassion over what is strictly a business communication.
Phony cheer, pseudo-sentiment....I can't stand it.
Yecch.
sprinkleeninow
(20,235 posts)BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)Vom. 🤢
I know, that's not the same kind of meaning, but it came to mind. Same kind of vomitosityness.
sprinkleeninow
(20,235 posts)would that define it as having (fill in the blank)____'envy'?
____worthy
____envy
Two more I do not like very very VERY...😒
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)There's so much mass media that makes me woof my cookies (lolol!) I just don't watch. That reduces the hurlage quotient. 😆
sprinkleeninow
(20,235 posts)Not just mass media.
Business over here, indubitably a franchise, is: 'Massage Envy'! I get nauseous having to grocery shop next door.
How about--> 'All about this or all about that'? Oh how very ingenious.
Humans. I'm old enuff to remember when businesses were named Acme, A-1, etc. One reason was that they'd get a choice spot in the phone directory. Hahah. Smart!
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)I haven't come across them. And I'm probably grateful for that.
sprinkleeninow
(20,235 posts)function w/o relying on these eventually overwrought and annoying phrases, etc.
Good grief!
👊 comin' yer way!
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)Comin yer way! I like that one!
sprinkleeninow
(20,235 posts)I'd rather have that than nutritional food for regular meals; I do what I want!
My mom's dad, yes, my grandfather, would ask for dessert first if the supper wasn't quite ready. And he'd get it!! My hero. Hahah.
Toodles. Laundry calling....😉
stopbush
(24,393 posts)MontanaMama
(23,297 posts)I'm with you on that one. I'm not a fan of "I know, right?" either.
CrispyQ
(36,438 posts)What's wrong with the handshake? A perfectly good way to greet someone you know casually. I've taken to extending my hand way out in front of me to make it clear we are going to shake, not hug. And you know what? I've seen many grateful expressions.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)I like hugs....but I'm starved for physical affection so I'll take it where I can get it!!
jiminvegas
(104 posts)Because we all know the proper word is lie.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)Warpy
(111,222 posts)jrthin
(4,835 posts)democrank
(11,092 posts)Alice11111
(5,730 posts)With all due respect, which means, you ignorant AH.
What goes around comes around...a cliche, but we all wish it were true.
Karma, because its just easier than sorting through the facts.
"Rehashing the primary, " when if someone had bothered to read my short post, it was not about the primary. I was just complimenting Bernie for his leadership, even though I WAS ALWAYS A HILLARY supporter, not that it should matter. The good thing was it gave me some insight into the sting the Bernie supporters feel, when they are ignored and deleted, in real life.
"I need to take care of myself, " as a justification for mistreating someone else.
The "P," word thrown around so casually, which was a degrading term for women (as the "C" word once was), although I'm getting used to it. Reappropriation of language.
The "N" word. I don't want us to get used to it, although racism seems to be in vogue. It's still anathema to me, and I find it offensive and very disrespectful, to me, and everyone. I am Caucasian. I don't hang with people who use it ever, but it's on TV, including comedy shows, a lot. I don't want this generation of children to get used to it either.
TBD, as used by K Conway, and others. I loved the SNL spoof.
Iggo
(47,545 posts)sorry.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,760 posts)The New York Times Magazine had a good piece on this by By Carina Chocano
Calling Yourself Humbled Doesnt Sound as Humble as It Used To
We are living in humbling times. People are humbled all over the place. Lately its pro forma possibly even mandatory for politicians, athletes, celebrities and other public figures to be vocally and vigorously humbled by every honor awarded, prize won, job offered, record broken, pound lost, shout-out received, like copped and thumb upped.
There are many downsides to our worship of fame and money, and one is that it makes people confuse sucking up to the rich and famous with spirituality.
And yet none of these people sound very humbled at all. On the contrary: They all seem exceedingly proud of themselves, hashtagging their humility to advertise their own status, success, sprightliness, generosity, moral superiority and luck.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)I would not have read it otherwise, and it was a good read.
I have billionaire cousins who are continually humbled, blessed, and fortunate, for their mansion, their jet, and such. They have "sacrificed" dearly to be good parents to their kids, now in expensive colleges, because they never used their MD or other degrees to work a day in their lives. Choosing between not having one of a full time cook, housekeeper, gardener, nanny or pilot was a humbling experience, but they needed to " cut back." They are able to donate to local, state and national Republicans; they are generous people, who want Medicaid, Obamacare, and the estate tax abolished.
oldcynic
(385 posts)Had a rich aunt who wrote complaining she was forced to sell one of her BMWs to by her daughter a dressage horse. Life is tough all over.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,760 posts)who think they've done well because their RW Jesus recognizes how superior they are to most of the rest of and so rewarded them with piles of cash.
Every misfortune of theirs is somehow somebody's fault but their own, but the less fortunate are responsible for all of their own problems. And all the rest of your typical RW BS. It's nauseating.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)Them, with their selfish policies, and as you said, buckets of cash, over others is nauseating, insane, not logical, blah, balh...not to even mention, where was Jesus, during the Holocaust, when those people in camps must have outprayed the world. The RW is whooping it up now, with their money, and watching DT give his bizarre bs to the Dems, and I'm sure that are thanking god for their blessings. I'm really not anti religion, though I sound like it lately; I'm just against using it hypocritically.
It always amuses me when some bunches of both sides are praying to win at football games.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,760 posts)Have been trying to stay off DU, twitter, etc. and get something done in my life! Kinda got bogged down in the mire and needed to disconnect.
Anyway, though you may never see this, I just wanted to say that I share some of your thoughts on religion. Particularly, "where was Jesus, during the Holocaust, when those people in camps must have outprayed the world." (Though I suppose the Jesus folks might argue something about the Jews having killed their saviour, even though, wasn't that necessary for him to be their savior? But then, religion and logic are not the best of friends...) And, yeah, the idea of Jesus/god intervening in sports matches seems absurd to me.
I must admit that thanks to these sorts of things, and worse, I am anti-religion. In the grand scheme of things, it seems to have done far more harm than good. Especially when you think that most of the good it's done could have been accomplished without it and without the negatives it's caused.
Even the idea that maybe it's not so bad considering it's a comfort to people was tainted for me when I saw it fail my super-religious grandmother at the end. When she was close to death, she was very despondent over her fear that she was not going to heaven. And not for the reasons she ought to have been worried--her extreme racism mostly. In fact, I think her religious belief supported her racist views. I wish people looked to the idea of making life right here on earth--the only life we know for sure we will have--a better experience for all as a sacred mission and a comfort. If that were to rise to the level of religious fervor, perhaps any afterlife would take care of itself.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)Hi I did get your reply obviously.
"...Though I suppose the Jesus folks might argue something about the Jews having killed their saviour, even though, wasn't that necessary for him to be their savior?" Good point!!
Another irony or two, most of the RW fundamentalist Christians are RW pro Israel, including the settlements, though neither the RW nor the Left or center want the US RW fundamentalists Christians' support.
Re: the story about your grandmother. My mom told me that people get religious when they got old because they were afraid they wouldn't go to heaven. She did, and the hypocrisy of it drives me nuts.
You raised another point: have you ever known a racist who wasn't into some sort of fundamentalists religion...Christain, Muslim, Jewish?
While certainly not all religious believers are racists. All or maybe all racists are some sort of religious fundamentalists, Christian, Jewish, Muslim, whatever.
(Feels like I'm back in logic classes.)
I'm trying to spend less time here too. It can be a time sink hole. Obviously, we all need to talk to someone who empathizes with our outrage of what is going on w our country.
CrispyQ
(36,438 posts)CrispyQ
(36,438 posts)Years ago I read a sci fi story & one of the characters was a human & she was chosen for the quest because she'd been bred to be the luckiest human alive.
klook
(12,153 posts)You know, like tweeting "Humbled to be named to Oprah's childhood diabetes taskforce."
I mean, if you were really "humbled," you'd let somebody else do the bragging for you, right?
UTUSN
(70,671 posts)The perfectly serviceable, correct, and precise words are:
* disinformation
* propaganda
* lie
littlemissmartypants
(22,628 posts)NCjack
(10,279 posts)Example: "Would you recommend Dr. X to your family? check one: 0 1 2 4 5 6 7 8 9 10, where 0 = No and 10 = Absolutely."
Well my answer is 5, where 5 = maybe. And never will I check "10 = Absolutely."
If I find that Dr. Y is better than Dr. X, I promise you (absolutely) that I'm moving over to Dr. Y and recommending to my family and friends that they do the same.
"Absolutely" is now most surveys, TV news Q&As, and promises by #45. One way #45 tells us he is lying is when he uses "absolutely."
Now, I absolutely expect some improvements immediately on this problem.
ailsagirl
(22,893 posts)I use it for emphasis-- when a simple "yes" won't do
TexasBushwhacker
(20,161 posts)nadine_mn
(3,702 posts)Mainly because I throw the word fuck around like fairy sprinkles
Metsie Casey
(208 posts)Freedomofspeech
(4,223 posts)ailsagirl
(22,893 posts)Sorry to yell but it's one of the most moronic phrases I've heard in awhile
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)I've actually gotten that in emails from lawyers when they fucked up or just got caught.
lpbk2713
(42,750 posts)"How's it going?"
"Awesome."
"That's awesome."
ailsagirl
(22,893 posts)We used to be able to say something like, "The Grand Canyon is awesome."
Now people use it to describe a sandwich.
sprinkleeninow
(20,235 posts)Person #1: Dammm, I just peed my pants.
Person #2: AWESOME!
ailsagirl
(22,893 posts)sprinkleeninow
(20,235 posts)ailsagirl
(22,893 posts)Thought it appropriate
Kimchijeon
(1,606 posts)Ugh!
Different Drummer
(7,611 posts)JHan
(10,173 posts)elleng
(130,825 posts)erinlough
(2,176 posts)And Pantone color of the year.....
First one is a way to sell ugly accessories the second is a way to get you to buy paint for a room that doesn't need painting.
hlthe2b
(102,192 posts)It is ALWAYS
"pop of color"
"this space" (never "room," "garage", "bedroom", etc)
"so cute"
"high design"
and on and on...
NBachers
(17,096 posts)Purveyor
(29,876 posts)madaboutharry
(40,200 posts)There is an arrogance to it, as if trying to cut off discussion and debate.
RKP5637
(67,101 posts)VOX
(22,976 posts)Can't stand it's phony folksiness.
spooky3
(34,425 posts)zanana1
(6,106 posts)"joolery"
True Dough
(17,296 posts)Mooos-lim. The way Drumpf says it.
Iggo
(47,545 posts)Then it's okay.
ploppy
(2,162 posts)we can do it
(12,180 posts)Polly Hennessey
(6,793 posts)Example: "So I was walking to the store and came across, etc."
JustABozoOnThisBus
(23,336 posts)... at the end if the day, I could care less.
Irregardless, thanks for your concern.
(I think I hit enough annoying phrases for now)
sprinkleeninow
(20,235 posts)(Host thanking a guest for coming on their show):
Host: "Thanx for coming!"
Guest: "Thanx for having me!"
Make me want to hurl.
Also, heard that "Bless your heart" could flipside be construed as "B.Y.H. (you dingbat.)"
OilemFirchen
(7,143 posts)Makes me want to literally punch the speaker. But it's a thing. Big time.
spooky3
(34,425 posts)Warpy
(111,222 posts)invariably means what follows is a straw man. Invariably.
spooky3
(34,425 posts)Dislike this also.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)nadine_mn
(3,702 posts)Dammit this thread is showing me that my language skills need work.
Orrex
(63,185 posts)Hate it every single time I see it.
Especially 14 in a row in the same post and super especially when Link to Tweet just links to a tweet with a link to an actual article or webpage in it. Just link straight to the webpage! And spend 5 seconds providing context so I know what I'm clicking.
hlthe2b
(102,192 posts)I agree with all contributions--perhaps even "struck a nerve" or "dare say"...
ProfessorGAC
(64,960 posts)kidding!
FakeNoose
(32,613 posts)Favorite expression of my boss and almost everyone in my company.
WTF does that mean? Nobody knows, but they say it anyway.
FSogol
(45,466 posts)argyl
(3,064 posts)On occasion I've replied, " It is what it is, it ain't what it ain't, it 'tis what it 'tis, and it tain't what it tain't."
That really leaves 'em scratching their heads.
nadine_mn
(3,702 posts)That maybe I am the only one who screams "what!? That doesn't make sense!"
orleans
(34,043 posts)and yet i love the expression
whatever...
whatever pairs nicely with a shrug of indifference
bluecollar2
(3,622 posts)Iggo
(47,545 posts)Just fucking stop it.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)That's the one.
That's is the single phrase that brings on an aneurysm for me.
Used to hear it all the time at Corp meetings when people simply agreed with a very mundane, not-so-original comment that someone else thought was pure "genius".
UGH! UGH!
Iggo
(47,545 posts)Grr.
lutherj
(2,496 posts)LOL Lib
(1,462 posts)"Stay woke"...makes me cringe I can't explain why. I totally understand the importance, it's just the phrase.
"What you said"...I had to listen to someone repeat this phrase over and over in a Dr's office one day. First off, you should have the decency to take your call in private, and the constant droning of the same phrase over and over tested my patience.
ailsagirl
(22,893 posts)LOL Lib
(1,462 posts)During recent years after tragedies like what happened in Ferguson, MO.
From Urban Dictionary:
Deriving from "stay awake," to stay woke is to keep informed of the shitstorm going on around you in times of turmoil and conflict, specifically on occasions when the media is being heavily filtered- such as the events in Ferguson Missouri in August 2014.
The headlines say they looted McDonald's, but they won't tell you about the tear gas the police threw at the crowds, or the fact that they needed the milk from the McDonald's to treat the effects of it. Stay woke.
ailsagirl
(22,893 posts)A lot of these newer phrases-- at least, some-- the meaning can be guessed. But this one is not one of them.
Thanks for the info!
LOL Lib
(1,462 posts)Have a great day!
ailsagirl
(22,893 posts)eppur_se_muova
(36,256 posts)http://blog.oxforddictionaries.com/2015/06/history-of-hip/
LOL Lib
(1,462 posts)stonecutter357
(12,694 posts)RKP5637
(67,101 posts)RKP5637
(67,101 posts)RKP5637
(67,101 posts)RKP5637
(67,101 posts)RKP5637
(67,101 posts)RKP5637
(67,101 posts)Bayard
(22,035 posts)Or,
It's God's will.
True Dough
(17,296 posts)Those two phrases are usually spoken in times of disappointment or tragedy, so I just quietly tolerate it the vast majority of the time. I know the speaker means well, but I'm thinking: "Your trite show of faith means nothing to me."
3catwoman3
(23,965 posts)...to no end. Much the same for any of the "It's God's will" crap. God must be a mean SOB instead of a loving parent.
The best explanation I have seen for the various heartbreaking events that occur was a bumper sticker I saw many years ago - "Shit Happens."
It sure does.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)I once said, what was God's point of the Holocaust?
Maybe, sometimes evil wins.
I really like the person making the statement, but I just couldnt stand it. I said it very nicely, like with curiosity.
ProfessorGAC
(64,960 posts)...Laura something (brain cramping on her surname; Keitlinger maybe) had this great line about that
She said when she felt down and someone said that, she heard " anything can happen with a razor "
TBA
(825 posts)Like fingernails on Chalkboard.
58Sunliner
(4,379 posts)WhiteTara
(29,699 posts)It absolutely grates on my nerves.
becca da bakkah
(426 posts)....out of me. The first is calling a gender-neutral object, "That Bad Boy". Most recently heard regarding eating a big batch of crab cakes, for God's sake! The other is calling something "decadent", usually when chocolate is involved.
No...sorry. Decadent means to be in a state of decay; deteriorating. Hardly something chocolate would cause. Eating chocolate is NOT decadent.
Unless you're doing it off a six year old's tushie! Now THAT would be decadent!
True Dough
(17,296 posts)becca da bakkah
(426 posts).....to have a couple cases shipped directly to my home?!
True Dough
(17,296 posts)Perhaps delusional.
VOX
(22,976 posts)But I agree, it's *still* annoying! Lifted straight from the text:
Full Definition
1 : marked by decay or decline
2 : of, relating to, or having the characteristics of the decadents
3 : characterized by or appealing to self-indulgence <decadent pleasures>
dec·a·dent·ly adverb
Examples
The book condemns some of society's wealthiest members as decadent fools.
a wealthy and decadent lifestyle
a decadent hotel room, complete with a hot tub
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radical noodle
(8,000 posts)self-indulgent which goes well with the decadent chocolate cake or cookies.
marybourg
(12,606 posts)RainCaster
(10,853 posts)HopeAgain
(4,407 posts)VOX
(22,976 posts)Used way too much, and often inappropriately. Seems like everything's iconic these days.
vlyons
(10,252 posts)to describe the state of Obamacare
CrispyQ
(36,438 posts)What happened to thank you?
sprinkleeninow
(20,235 posts)First time I heard that I said to myself, "I'll just put these purchases in the car and hurry back thru the revolving doors to buy some more stuff. Is that fast enuff for yaaa??"
I can be a little wise asp.
VOX
(22,976 posts)Originally, a hoary device in play- or screenwriting to set up an exposition of plot summary/review for lazy or confused viewers.
Now used ironically, when a person is about to air out some egregious trespass, blow-by-blow, a snarky talking-point summation.
I cannot stand it. The moment I hear "Let me get this straight," I cringe.
randr
(12,409 posts)Hoyt
(54,770 posts)prayer to redo the election.
HeartachesNhangovers
(814 posts)The word that's been dumbed-down to mean: "I liked it."
spooky3
(34,425 posts)Now it's used for mundane things that aren't bad.
littlemissmartypants
(22,628 posts)I see.
It's complicated.
3catwoman3
(23,965 posts)That one makes me clench my teeth. What's wrong with good old inluential?
I have also heard several instances of people making a possessive from "I." "John and I's vacation."
Iggo
(47,545 posts)"John and I's..."
3catwoman3
(23,965 posts)I first heard it years ago, on a General Hospital episode (you now know my deep dark secret) and chalked it up to a young and not-very-good actor, figuring he had probably droped out of school to pursue his acting dream.
I cringed then, hoping to never hear it again. Unvortuntely, it was not the only time.
I also cannot stand the "Him and me/Me and him" use for a subject - "Me and him went to see the new Star Wars movie." No one ever messes it up in the singular. I have never heard anyone say, "Me went to the store, or "Him went to 6 Flags." I don't understand why that doesn't carry over to plural subjects.
spooky3
(34,425 posts)3catwoman3
(23,965 posts)...very hard not to correct those I hear committing this offense.
spooky3
(34,425 posts)consistently made this mistake. I think what grates is that the speaker is trying to sound "educated" or "classy." If s/he would simply go with the usage heard as a child s/he would not make the error.
pat_k
(9,313 posts)3catwoman3
(23,965 posts)...seeing/hearing "effectful."
Mendocino
(7,484 posts)not when someone simply says oh my god, but when they say OMG by just using the letters or OH...MY...GOD very slowly and loudly.
Truth to power is getting old.
What say you ?...ugh
BunkieBandit
(82 posts)Butchery of the English language.
VOX
(22,976 posts)"Should of" doesn't even make sense.
shanti
(21,675 posts)Another is "her and her friends went to the party", for example.
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Chiquitita
(752 posts)I saw a poster at a bank last week that advertised "less fees." That was a sad moment for me. Like Stanis Baratheon I may be on the losing side of the historical fight to keep "fewer" in the English language.
... oh, and "bespoke." So pretentious.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)my list. It is so common, even in TV commercials and magazine ads.
3catwoman3
(23,965 posts)..that actually has its fast lane sign saying "10 items or fewer." My husband and I were shocked and delighted.
GoCubsGo
(32,078 posts)And, by people who should know better.
sprinkleeninow
(20,235 posts)(Come closer so I can drop my lunch on yer shoes.) Oh and, SHADDAPP!! 😣
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)sprinkleeninow
(20,235 posts)Made me ill.
Manly_Scream
(72 posts)Alice11111
(5,730 posts)GoCubsGo
(32,078 posts)it's only a simple, common way of doing something.
meadowlander
(4,393 posts)Separating whites and colours isn't a "laundry hack". It's a tip.
Also clickbait staples like "The 14 Most Recent Paintings My Nephew Has Done... Number 8 Will Astonish You!"
Maeve
(42,279 posts)Ok, so you're a freaking gambler and you don;t realize it's a bad bet--we GET that!!!!!
Doodley
(9,077 posts)northoftheborder
(7,571 posts)When declining an offer of something, instead of "no thank you."
Also, "Where it's/he's/she's at." Instead of "where it is". That is becoming more and more common - hear it on radio and TV all the time. So sloppy.
Also, why are so many people pronouncing "nd" sound at the end of a word as "nt"???? Such as "sount" instead of "sound", and "ant" instead of "and"????? Rachel Maddow was the first person I noticed doing this, but others are also.
sprinkleeninow
(20,235 posts)Maybe them being 'fine' is up for debate??
I'm so fine. (No, you ain't.)
"Would you like a refill on that sweet tea?"
"I'm fine."
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)If you want the truth.....
Wolf Frankula
(3,600 posts)As in Pimp My Ride, Pimp My Car, It's Pimp.
I would like to change the meaning of pimp to this
As in clean up the pimp your dog leaves on the sidewalk.
Wolf
Thor_MN
(11,843 posts)Making it obvious that one is unable to add anything to the conversation doesn't strike me as a good thing....
fNord
(1,756 posts)Marthe48
(16,927 posts)person of interest
all of the quasi-military bs the media loves to blather
Marthe48
(16,927 posts)added to the beginning of every sentence. And having to do verbal somersaults trying to make it work.
we can do it
(12,180 posts)caraher
(6,278 posts)Like saying something that sounds stupid is bad "acoustics"
Phentex
(16,334 posts)I almost cross posted this
marlakay
(11,443 posts)If it is so needless why are you saying it?
BluesRunTheGame
(1,610 posts)sprinkleeninow
(20,235 posts)It is {{{ }}}:
"Been there, done that."
Thanks for this thread. It's been entertaining.
Wolf Frankula
(3,600 posts)"Done there, been that."
Wolf
sprinkleeninow
(20,235 posts)jmowreader
(50,546 posts)Such as libtard, social justice warrior...
Naturally, "President Trump" is worse.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)Seems to be something Repubs find funny! The Prez is their model.
democratisphere
(17,235 posts)Corporate A-hole term.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)Agree to Disagree and Magic Thinking.
They are two standard fallacies embraced warmly by the biased and are little more than vapid buzz words for lazy minds who require a "get out quick" card in many discussions.
meadowlander
(4,393 posts)Just creepy and wrong.
red dog 1
(27,792 posts)Currently the "most detested/trite words" I can think of.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)who violated precedent to throw the election to that so called president guy
I can't filter out when others say it, but when I talk, write, think, it's DT. Don't feel quite as ill.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)pat_k
(9,313 posts)...but I couldn't come up with anything better.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)He is sick, out of control, not lucid, and he has other characteristics in commom with the condition.
red dog 1
(27,792 posts)erroneously stating that new evidence had surfaced relating to the closed investigation of Hillary Clinton's use of a private email server, and his decision to discuss it at a news conference just 11 days before the election is currently under investigation by DOJ's Inspector General,
Michael E. Horowitz.
http://www.nytimes.com/2017/01/12/us/politics/james-comey-fbi-inspector-general-hillary-clinton.html
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)Interference in an election. He is jammed in. He might want to throw the Dems a couple of bones so they let his investigations continue, while hoping he exposes the truth. On the other hand, the trumpsters are protecting him, and letting him stay on, so he knows they aren't likely to throw him under the bus, as long as he stalls and plays along.
Slimey creep. Not as boorish and unsophisticated as DT, but he's Iago.
red dog 1
(27,792 posts)orleans
(34,043 posts)ARGH!!!
OH REALLY? THEN KILL ME NOW so i don't ever have to hear that fucking phrase again
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)and go off on it, before you've even finished your sentence, which was about another topic.
This is not a word or phrase, but it has to do with thwarted articulation.
Everyone interrupts occasionally, but these people do it almost like turret's syndrome or a nervous habit. It is impossible to have a conversation.
Chris Matthews is getting worse all of the time.
orleans
(34,043 posts)he's been an expert at it for years and years
used to drive me CRAZY
then i got rid of my cable (only have local channels) so the temptation to turn on msnbc is useless b/c i can no longer turn it on. however--while i still had it i hadn't watched him for about seven years.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)gone off the rails the last few years. It's like he has turrets AND alzheimers, and both are getting worse. He adds nothing.
BainsBane
(53,026 posts)drives me crazy. The issue is capital, not a tax status.
pat_k
(9,313 posts)... and other bullshit marketing phrases.
best-of-breed
value proposition
outside the box
solution-driven
ailsagirl
(22,893 posts)Don't care for that one
RelativelyJones
(898 posts)Maru Kitteh
(28,333 posts)an actual answer.
If you hear the words "I'm glad you asked that question" get ready for a whole frontloader full of pure, uncured fertilizer.
defacto7
(13,485 posts)I hate that one. It's disingenuous. Trying to sound "folksy", average, like the normal, everyday guy... when you really don't think you are. Some use it because it's part of their background, but when a politician uses it, it sounds like they're dumbing down to the little people for effect.
ashling
(25,771 posts)What day?
ashling
(25,771 posts)Is it too much to ask of a highly educated (hopefully) and highly paid (indubitably) tv news personality to say "listen to this audio clip of ....?"
gopiscrap
(23,733 posts)just means lie
Beartracks
(12,806 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)I don't know why. Just makes me want to shout "okay, buddy, pull the pretentiousness bus over to the side of the self-regard freeway"
Phentex
(16,334 posts)Sheeple!
steve2470
(37,457 posts)Maybe this is a small town thing or southern small town thing, but I was lambasted constantly for using any words that were above 6th grade and I damn sure never tried to be pretentious. You HAD to be down to earth in every way, or you got put in your place pretty fast.
To this day, I am still this way. Yes, I have two degrees etc but I feel no need to show off my intellect or vocabulary.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)I don't actually mind that phrase, I'm just making fun of everyone who responded in this thread.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)fNord
(1,756 posts)I'm not a religious man in the normal sense, but I do believe words have power, and invoking a deity to "damn" your cat for knocking over your remote is a bit harsh.
All words have power. Please be careful how you use them.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)"Believe me"
" I wouldn't lie to you."
IrishEyes
(3,275 posts)It hate hearing those words. They don't belong anywhere near each other. Also, "one stop shop". It is a phrase used by businesses a lot. I'm not sure why but it I find the phrase annoying. I loath the words "pop a squat".
ailsagirl
(22,893 posts)Among the nicer things you can say abut him:
He's an imposter:
pretender
phony
Charlatan
Fake
Fraud
dissembler
deceiver
SOB
Never in a million years would this country have voted that cretin in
So, yes-- when I see that clod addressed in such a manner, I go ballistic
steve2470
(37,457 posts)Sigh. I get it. You like the word shit. You use it constantly.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)Holy fuck, if I have to read that one more time on the net, I might break my keyboard LOL joking
doc03
(35,321 posts)Yonnie3
(17,427 posts)Seen on DU regularly. "Don't normalize <insert name or office>".
Typically this is a response to information or a view posted which makes no attempt to "normalize" anything.
It didn't bother me the first hundred times.
auntAgonist
(17,252 posts)Response to hlthe2b (Original post)
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mikehiggins
(5,614 posts)"robust"
"conversation"
"fake news"
"President Trump"
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)MontanaMama
(23,297 posts)or "sammy" when referring to a sandwich. HATE that one.
JCMach1
(27,555 posts)No really, it's a f'ing PROBLEM.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)I don't believe in closure and I think the idea and word is overrated.
get the red out
(13,460 posts)I hate that, what "experts"? What makes these invisible experts EXPERTS???? Where did you even hear that they SAY...................???????
kacekwl
(7,016 posts)Had a hard time even typing that.
Siwsan
(26,256 posts)It is used so often, it has completely lost its meaning.
klook
(12,153 posts)as in "Cincinnati startup is set to disrupt the pencil market." Really? I'm just looking for a pencil, for cryin' out loud!
Ok, I made up that example, but it wouldn't surprise me to see that next to some click bait like "9 breakfast habits of successful entrepreneurs -- #5 will shock you."
luvMIdog
(2,533 posts)radical noodle
(8,000 posts)I got sick of that one a long time ago, particularly when it was being thrown at DU members on a daily basis.
JHan
(10,173 posts)LeftInTX
(25,202 posts)As in supporting a candidate....what do they mean?
Become their campaign manager? Donate? Funnel their Superpac toward? Volunteer? Vote for? Say nice things about on the internet?
tazkcmo
(7,300 posts)The word "literally" and the phrase, "...it's been a minute since.." or "I haven't done/seen/heard from in a minute..." with "minute" meaning "in a while" which is normally referring to a period of time much longer than a mere minute.
VOX
(22,976 posts)These business-school-generated words/phrases are like kryptonite to me. They're akin to cheap white bread-- few nutrients and blown full of air.
klook
(12,153 posts)Too many of us are siloed and need to reach out to stakeholders in a proactive way.
Oh, God - now I need to take a shower!
JHan
(10,173 posts)I hate when I am guilty of this too.
Most redundant thing ever.
JHan
(10,173 posts)Skittles
(153,138 posts)as a substitute for PROBABLY
I want to KILL the user when I read the word PROLLY
nadine_mn
(3,702 posts)As in, not gonna lie I like some of these detested phrases.
Why would you lie ...why would you need to tell me you aren't going to lie to me?
NewDealProgressive
(98 posts)I fucking despise it.
LeftInTX
(25,202 posts)or "crossed over" (To where do they cross over???)
or "safe passaging" (Someone is dying. Is dying supposed to be safe?)
When someone says, "My grandfather passed"....or "Barney the Dinosaur passed"
What did he pass? math? a kidney stone? his citizenship exam? his civil service exam?
After my dad died, I was trying to be PC saying "My dad passed away".....Sounded too fuzzy and nice.
Eventually, I just started saying, "My dad died".
Another term, I find annoying is "Peace Out"....I don't even know what it means, except I think it is supposed to be cool.
leftyladyfrommo
(18,868 posts)is one from the older, black culture here in Kansas City. It is "stepped on board" as in Chester stepped on board. Meaning stepped on board the Glory Train.
Jane Austin
(9,199 posts)Makes me immediately doubt whatever they're saying.
subterranean
(3,427 posts)Some people use it in a tongue-in-cheek way when talking about Trump, who didn't actually say it, but lately I've seen the word creeping into ordinary usage (even on this site), and I find that most annoying.
Doreen
(11,686 posts)like the first part of Thoroughbred or thought instead of time. I guess it drives me nuts when words are not pronounced correctly but that on in particular.
I said "drives me nuts" does that one bother anyone?
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)Lunabell
(6,068 posts)Makes me boil.
JustABozoOnThisBus
(23,336 posts)"Civilian" is anyone not in one of the five service branches. Most police are civilians.
HeiressofBickworth
(2,682 posts)For example the word "pairing". Drives me nuts.
Worst example (with apologies to TCM) The "pairing" of the world of wine with the world of movies. Makes me cringe every time I hear it. Couldn't even tell you exactly why but it just irks me.
grantcart
(53,061 posts)Can't believe that wasn't number one.
Besides the awful condescending tone that the speaker exudes by assuming everyone is in the same faith nomenclature and structure is the silly ambiguity, what exactly are you wishing for me, that I win the lottery or get lucky with my wife?
I went to Seminary and if anyone had used the phrase they would have been laughed out of the room.
Close second "Haves a good one".
vanlassie
(5,668 posts)duncang
(1,907 posts)When a repub who doesn't like dipshit donnie says "he really isn't a republican"
No D.A.'s he is the number 1 repub. he is what all those repub's voted for and who all those repub politicians endorsed. So yes he is a true repub. you bought him own him.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)With apologies to museum curators everywhere, I know the word is technically accurate in some cases, but it always strikes me as oh so pretentious. If a musem curator curates his or her collection, I get it. It's his/her job. I dunno.
kairos12
(12,849 posts)BluesRunTheGame
(1,610 posts)"Really?"
murielm99
(30,725 posts)On it
Copy that
Ima
Awesome
Aaaiit (for all right)
JenniferJuniper
(4,510 posts)when you are trying to talk to someone.
I don't know when this became a thing, but it comes off as though the listener wants you to hurry up and finish. I hear people doing it to others all the time now.
mahina
(17,637 posts)Officespeak jargon
teezy
(269 posts)I also loathe passive aggressive language in e-mails. Any of you working in an office setting will know what I'm talking about.
stopbush
(24,393 posts)People think it means "man to man," when it actually means "hand to hand."
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)I want to smack people who say that.
rhiannon55
(2,671 posts)I am so tired of hearing that phrase.
Also, have you guys notice how often politicians begin their spiel with "Look!"?
It always makes them seem defensive and kind of rude.
Fortinbras Armstrong
(4,473 posts)"True facts". A fact is by definition true. Similarly, "free gift". If you have to pay for it, it's not a gift,
athena
(4,187 posts)It is becoming more and more common. I never hear anyone refer to men as "males" or a man as "a male". The word "woman", on the other hand, is becoming less and less common.
Here is an example:
https://www.democraticunderground.com/10141757046
Calling women "females" while continuing to call men "men" is a way of reducing women to animals, while representing men as human beings. It's disrespectful and dismissive. When referring to a woman, please, please call her a woman, not "a female".
Thor_MN
(11,843 posts)If you don't have anything to say about something, why reply at all?
spiderpig
(10,419 posts)Also, "take a listen". All the MSNBC hosts use it.
Boomerproud
(7,949 posts)Used for video used on the news that no one really cares about. I hate it.