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I'm a bit shy talking 'bout mySelf, I've been a DU member since the *years..had to come back with a new username..that's ok, tho', Life has changed & so have I!
Where to start? When I 1st signed up, my only 'child' had enlisted. I thought I'd lose my damn Mind..he was deployed to Iraq, & I didn't sleep for more than 20 minutes at a time, for about 5 yrs. NO one I 'knew' could relate, or wanted to discuss, the post-911-*-war. I was truly in hell. I developed major depression, panic attacks, agoraphobia..
I spent days & nights, watching C-span, emailing & calling dc, PRAYING, & I found DU.
I found Military Families Speak Out, and Veterans for PEACE. Thanks God. I was online when other Mamas were terrified & unable to sleep. We supported, comforted, enCouraged each other. And I never let on to my Son, HE needed to stay focused on his job.
A life-changer.. I found my way to Camp Casey, after being house-bound for years, I camped 2 wkends in 3 weeks, with Gold Star Families, MFSO, Vets for PEACE, young Vets. My God. The Healing that took place.
We were camping when Katrina hit. Healing came to a stop when watching the aftermath, screaming at the tv, "GET THOSE PEOPLE OUT OF THERE!" disbelief that in a great American city, death & destruction was rolling, corruption & incompetence in full display, and our Sons & Daughters were in Iraq, even those near the devastation, were prevented from coming to the rescue.
GeeWhizzz..didn't mean to go off on a tear..more to tell, another time.
I am one of the lucky and Blessed..mine came HOME, whole, healthy and strong. Thanks God! 💖
I just need Y'all to know, DU helped me back then, & in the years since, even when all I could do is read DU.. I'm thank FULL for the learning, laughter & Light here. Thanks, Y'all!
pkdu
(3,977 posts)SO goood to be here.
NBachers
(17,080 posts)furtheradu
(1,865 posts)YES
Laffy Kat
(16,366 posts)Can't imagine what you went through. If either of my boys enlisted I would lose my mind. Welcome back. This place keeps me sane as well.
furtheradu
(1,865 posts)Thanks for Your understanding!
After that, even a 'bad day' is a goood day!
for ALL our Sons & Daughters.
PS. there's a great anti-war song, "Sons & Daughters", I need to look that up, again!
furtheradu
(1,865 posts)lillypaddle
(9,580 posts)your story had a happy ending.
furtheradu
(1,865 posts)I am lucky & BLESSED & thank FULL!
democrank
(11,084 posts)Your post brought back so many memories about Military Families Speak Out and Veterans for Peace. I particularly remember many of the heart wrenching posts on DU by parents of deployed family members. I can't express how happy I am your son made it back.
Sending my very best and a hope for peace.
furtheradu
(1,865 posts)I appreciate Your kind words, and that You remember those Families.
💖 Your words touch my Heart. 💖
I don't take any thing for granted, that's for sure! Thank You, again!
femmocrat
(28,394 posts)Love your new username. So glad everything is better for you now!
furtheradu
(1,865 posts)Goood to be here again!
& yes, things are SO much better!
Life is goood!
Fla Dem
(23,573 posts)furtheradu
(1,865 posts)Your thought FULL ness means a lot!
..ME, too! glad & thank FULL!